Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[papillon30]

Originally Posted by mace

Yappy, last time my gal wan to get $$ from me to extend her pass. i said to her i will help her do that via internet when i hav time to avoid being "cut carot head" by her boss. think she is in a hurry to settle her pass problem and renewed her pass by her boss without informing me. nbz, i was so angry that not only she let herself to be chopped by her boss for a 5min internet job, in the end i also need to help her for the 100$ charge.

Btw, ar most of the vietnamese gal feisty and hot temper?? i almost fail to come back alife during my latest trip to her hcm hse. we had a small arguement and she turn agressive and start throwing hp, glass etc at me. i stand firm on my grd, refusing to budge, and she went to the kitchen and start finding knifes and throw it towards me. luckily her uncle trying to withstraint her by blocking her view. 1 knife glance and "nicked" my face, another cut her uncle's finger and flew out to nowhere, and a big kitchen knife that bounce off my chest.

Damage: whole rm full of broken glasses, a bleeding finger, a hp broke with screen smashed and 2 angry person staring at each other keke.

In the end her family held a "meeting" in her rm, while i am at the balcony puffing away. at long last her family members came out and signal me to join her inside her rm. think the temper subsided and we managed to talk things through. In the night she initated sex although i am in no mood for it. but she persist by hugging me tightly and ask me, do u still wan and love me after what i hav done in a trembling voice...and donno why my heart soften and kiss her dearly on her forehead......

She is practising her knife-throwing circus act. I have only one advice for you - dump her immediately. My guess is that her family managed to convince her that you are still "valuable" to her and her whole extended family.

[papillon30]

Originally Posted by maxrex

Hi Hanoi-Kid,

Thanks for your wishes. It is not necessary for the guys to always initiate the divorce. Some women even ask for that. It depends on the severity of their marriage crisis. You can say that it is not easy for many divorced women to re-marry because a lot of Vietnamese men prefer a virgin wife. It's a known fact that most Vietnamese guys like to drink beer. Some guys beat their wives while others look for lovers. But not all are that bad. I have a couple of Vietnamese guy friends and they take care of their wives well. My wife lived in North Vietnam for first 20 years of her life. After that, she came to study and had a decent job in Saigon for 7 years. Most Vietnamese women are very loyal when it comes to love. It does not matter if the girl is from the South or the North. It all comes down to her personality and how suitable both of you are. Good luck to you for finding love.

There are still lots of good VN gals available in VN. Most of you guys went to
all the wronged places to look for a VN gf/wife. VN guys, in general, still
have the chauvinistic traits in them. A good VN wife is like a pillar of support; not like most fair-weather SG wife(very close to you when you're doing very well, out of sight when you're in dire straits.

[papillon30]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Bro, who gave you the idea that if the birth cert has no father's name, he/she will not be able to attend local school? Without father's name in Birth cert, the child can still attend local school. As for international school, its surely not cheap. Not everything in vietnam is cheap, and international school is not cheap in vietnam. Normal school fees for a child in international school in VN is around US$1000 a month.

What about for a Vietnamese kid attending primary 1 in a public school
in Singapore? Is it expensive? And what is the procedure? tks

[happy000]

You want to be a a robin hood?

If anyone is willing to pay for a service at a extraorbitant price it mean that the return is/may be very high and they must have taken it into account when they buy the services.

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Yes, super rip off but what can we do when there are so many Vn gals willing to pay...

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by happy000

You want to be a a robin hood?

If anyone is willing to pay for a service at a extraorbitant price it mean that the return is/may be very high and they must have taken it into account when they buy the services.

Not me, bro Tony Stark saw a way to value-add...thanks anyway...

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Yes, super rip off but what can we do when there are so many Vn gals willing to pay...

Gal from village in vietnam also kana ripped off. My girlfriend told me that there is a village girl very 'ke lian'. She is kana conned to work in MP in the city in Nguyen Thi Thap.

This gangster ask the gal to work in massage to earn money for her poor family. But have not start work, they charge the girl around S$6,000 to learn the trade. The village girl lan lan have to learn and work lor...

[Hanoi-Kid]

Originally Posted by maxrex

Hi Hanoi-Kid,

Thanks for your wishes. It is not necessary for the guys to always initiate the divorce. Some women even ask for that. It depends on the severity of their marriage crisis. You can say that it is not easy for many divorced women to re-marry because a lot of Vietnamese men prefer a virgin wife. It's a known fact that most Vietnamese guys like to drink beer. Some guys beat their wives while others look for lovers. But not all are that bad. I have a couple of Vietnamese guy friends and they take care of their wives well. My wife lived in North Vietnam for first 20 years of her life. After that, she came to study and had a decent job in Saigon for 7 years. Most Vietnamese women are very loyal when it comes to love. It does not matter if the girl is from the South or the North. It all comes down to her personality and how suitable both of you are. Good luck to you for finding love.

You are welcome Max, and yeah I forgot about the Wife beating part cos my Vn frens seldom mention that, but they do mention about VN guys like to smoke and drink and gamble,,,and of course the way they drink their Viet Vodka like Water,,sure get drunk one,,,

And Vn gals in general are loyal and faithful as I know a few local Viet families,,and they are doing well...my Viet frens also try to intro gals to me,during my trips there,but never worked out so sigh still single till now,,,but see how in my next trip to Hanoi,,,

thanks again and if i need any advice on dealing with Vn gals,,i hope can consult you..


take care,,,

[Hanoi-Kid]

Originally Posted by papillon30

There are still lots of good VN gals available in VN. Most of you guys went to
all the wronged places to look for a VN gf/wife. VN guys, in general, still
have the chauvinistic traits in them. A good VN wife is like a pillar of support; not like most fair-weather SG wife(very close to you when you're doing very well, out of sight when you're in dire straits.

Hi PAP...

not sure about other guys looking for VN partners in all the wrong places,,,but for me,,,I have been to Hanoi several times,,,and my VN frens there try and intro gals to me,,but never worked out,,like they too young,,,or not my type etc etc,,,but in my last trip and the few gals i met,,was damn stressful as they cant speak english,,,that i think is the main problem,,,and the other gals that have been intro to me that can speak english,,seem to be more demanding,,,like want to travel etc etc,,,so I guess,,have to continue looking,,,and i have to learn viet,,,but just no time to go for classes,,,well hope have better luck in my next trip,,,

And BTW,...are u married to a VN wife?

thanks

[Tony Stark]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Gal from village in vietnam also kana ripped off. My girlfriend told me that there is a village girl very 'ke lian'. She is kana conned to work in MP in the city in Nguyen Thi Thap.

This gangster ask the gal to work in massage to earn money for her poor family. But have not start work, they charge the girl around S$6,000 to learn the trade. The village girl lan lan have to learn and work lor...

Wow modern day slavery.

[SingViet]

Yes, i do agree that most bros look for VN gals at the WRONG places. The probability that your VN catch from the Bars and MP will turn bad is very high. Gals working in these entertainment places are very much concerned about getting more money thru every means. But if bros are lucky, you may find one or two VN gals who are already sick of their lifestyles and really want to settle down to be a good wife. So if you are not willing to take the risk, better look for VN Ba Xa in other places.

[Honey Boon]

Originally Posted by mace

Damage: whole rm full of broken glasses, a bleeding finger, a hp broke with screen smashed and 2 angry person staring at each other keke.

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Bro, too violent la, furthermore you were not at your home ground. Next time you better hold on to your "cu" when you sleep at night ... and make sure there is no scissors on the spot.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Gal from village in vietnam also kana ripped off. My girlfriend told me that there is a village girl very 'ke lian'. She is kana conned to work in MP in the city in Nguyen Thi Thap.

This gangster ask the gal to work in massage to earn money for her poor family. But have not start work, they charge the girl around S$6,000 to learn the trade. The village girl lan lan have to learn and work lor...

Bro, everywhere bound to have this kind of bad rotten apples...even in China, they kidnapped their own ppl to work for free in those ulu places...this was in the newspaper...

[X_plorer]

Originally Posted by mace

Yappy, last time my gal wan to get $$ from me to extend her pass. i said to her i will help her do that via internet when i hav time to avoid being "cut carot head" by her boss. think she is in a hurry to settle her pass problem and renewed her pass by her boss without informing me. nbz, i was so angry that not only she let herself to be chopped by her boss for a 5min internet job, in the end i also need to help her for the 100$ charge.

Btw, ar most of the vietnamese gal feisty and hot temper?? i almost fail to ......

Bro, you are damn right.. My wife also had that f**king hot temper which i also cannot stand.. And sometimes thinking that her thinking can overrule me. Thinking she is more clever.. Hiz..

We, Singaporeans are always the one taking the responsibilities to take care of their family, in terms of financials, but who do you think you are to f**king throw your temper around whereas we didn't even angry, or didn't do something wrong.. These have to be change. Though my wife have change quite a lot after these 2 years but there are rooms for improvement..

[jackbl]

Bro, u r the bread-winner, u call the shot!!!

U control them and not the other way round

Originally Posted by X_plorer

We, Singaporeans are always the one taking the responsibilities to take care of their family, in terms of financials, but who do you think you are to f**king throw your temper around whereas we didn't even angry, or didn't do something wrong.. These have to be change. Though my wife have change quite a lot after these 2 years but there are rooms for improvement..

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by X_plorer

Bro, you are damn right.. My wife also had that f**king hot temper which i also cannot stand.. And sometimes thinking that her thinking can overrule me. Thinking she is more clever.. Hiz..

We, Singaporeans are always the one taking the responsibilities to take care of their family, in terms of financials, but who do you think you are to f**king throw your temper around whereas we didn't even angry, or didn't do something wrong.. These have to be change. Though my wife have change quite a lot after these 2 years but there are rooms for improvement..

You should control her and warn her....better do it fast and not let this develop into a habit...