Events In CP

[PuTonRen]

Originally Posted by adidas88

the initial objective is they think they can buy "exclusive" ...

that's what most of them think and believe ....
but they didn;t know is ..... probably she's exclusive to many others at the same time too ...

With my humble number of years in China, my only comment is
"the girl you think she is exclusive to you, is probably exclusive to everyone with a lot of RMBs'.

Borrowing from what Taikor FGG has said, most men is China who "bao" a girl, would console themselves by saying that "She is different from other girls", knowing very well that the contrary is true.

Sigh.....

[Klangite]

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

With my humble number of years in China, my only comment is
"the girl you think she is exclusive to you, is probably exclusive to everyone with a lot of RMBs'.

Borrowing from what Taikor FGG has said, most men is China who "bao" a girl, would console themselves by saying that "She is different from other girls", knowing very well that the contrary is true.

Sigh.....

It's true. Let me tell you my experience. I knew a gal (former mm), since last year from another mm at YH. Every time I go to CP, she will accompany me whenever I want her to. She is baoed by a S'porean for RMB30k per mth and he only visit her like once in 3 mths. Even though the gal may be baoed by you and likes you alot but she still has her emotional needs which you can't fulfilled all the time. Her only way out is to seek other men, not random men from the ktvs but men introduced by their friends who are working at ktvs. This gal don't even want my money! Guess I gave her a good time!

Exclusivity is non existence bros.

[adidas88]

let me share my humble experience ...
a ktv gal once asked me to baoed her for 20K rmb/mth ...
i asked her why do i need to do that ...
she said "so i don have to work in the ktv and can accompany u 24hrs whenever u r in cp" ....
i said "hm .... not bad idea" .... "why don u give me 20K rmb every mth and i make sure u will be the only gal with me whenever i am in cp" ....
she fainted ....

[Yoshi Chiong]

Originally Posted by noname123

Sorry hor....can ask why you can GIVE RMB 10K so easily???

Drunk??? Too much money???

Me not Drunk. But felt that "she is different". Further more I had met her whole family. Stayed at her home and eat with her family. As I said they are very witty and experience. Now she don't take any money from me and offer to even return me the 10K as a proof that she really loves me. Power ritez. Any guys would fall for that. So for Newbies going to CP do be warn that these mm are really good. I cheong in BKK, MNL, JKT, JPN, MAL, ViET etc. I consider myself very experience chiongster but even me also confuse and fall into the trap.

[hajerry]

Originally Posted by Yoshi Chiong

Me not Drunk. But felt that "she is different". Further more I had met her whole family. Stayed at her home and eat with her family. As I said they are very witty and experience. Now she don't take any money from me and offer to even return me the 10K as a proof that she really loves me. Power ritez. Any guys would fall for that. So for Newbies going to CP do be warn that these mm are really good. I cheong in BKK, MNL, JKT, JPN, MAL, ViET etc. I consider myself very experience chiongster but even me also confuse and fall into the trap.

Just like guys investing on mm to have a better time, mm can also invest on guys to get back much more in the future...

[香香很烦]

Originally Posted by FeiGohGoh

but has nothing better to do like my sniper friend and stay CP months on end can certainly get their money's worth.

No doubt, our sniper friend is 95 percent of the year there .mr sniper friend, there is a rumor that you have gone mad, But still, as Long as you are happy, just do what you deem right.

Originally Posted by FeiGohGoh

Well....every time I visit CP I will spend some time with these so called bao gals....they either lonely or just want to make extra money...so exclusiveness is practically a joke....but then again someone will always think their gals are different.......

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

With my humble number of years in China, my only comment is
"the girl you think she is exclusive to you, is probably exclusive to everyone with a lot of RMBs'.

Totally agreed. Exclusiveness is just a temporal feel of a baoer.
Quoting from the lines in red by fgg,
When someone think that their gals are different,
I simply believe that these guys are self-iced, living in their own world.

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

Borrowing from what Taikor FGG has said, most men in China who "bao" a girl, would console themselves by saying that "She is different from other girls", knowing very well that the contrary is true.

Sigh.....

Very well said. Truly words from a senior cheongster.

Originally Posted by SEAJ

Bao'ing a girl IMHO is not a science but a very finely balanced art.

Hmmm.... I disagree.

"baoing a girl IMHO is just how much you value a girl on a per "fuck" basis."
I have put it in a crude way.

Originally Posted by 3dee

- i happen to know a girl who is being packed by a big tawkay and open the small restaurant for her, buy her a benz. ironically, when her delivery staff is busy, she will drive her benz to deliver the food! what a exclusive delivery!

Mr 3dee, this I don't understand.
What's so exclusive about a delivery girl driving Benz to deliver your food?
She let u press her boobs when she reaches your door?
Or in her Benz, there are more ingredients she will put in the food? or she blow u at the door at no extra charge?

Hhehe... Dee ah... Kidding ah...

[Vertu]

Originally Posted by 3dee

taikor, this is my version...

昨晚没开演唱会，得以悠闲的在中元街漫步，

走着走着，突然天空横光一闪，星光乱射！

于是我一声喝彩，登高一看，

发现北方贪狼星杀气如虹，来势汹汹！

而南方的紫微星却薄弱无光，暗淡如灰。

如此看来，南方的多灾多难似乎已成定局。。。

然而，回首再望，东南方的天机星光芒待蓄，

似乎是准备为紫微星伸于援手，实乃是危机中有转机！

冥冥中皆有定数，然而定数中存有变数，此乃常平之现卦也！

小三最新天气预测 7月18日 18：43分

Haha Bro 3dee .... you sound like a fortune teller leh ......

IMHO .......

Since we are prepare to bao a mm be it 5k , 10k , 20k or 30k , meaning this are extra money .... money which we got no other place to keep ......


So why you worry this worry that ? Check this check that ?

Who set the time to make love ? I used to arrange some gals come over my hotel after lunch for 'Tea Dance' session .....

Have money, you play the game ...... No money , dont play this game, Order , Eat , Pay and Bye.......

[3dee]

after posting many "rumous", finally, this is the "real one".

last night pass through huimei around 8:30pm, a police car (in white) and an army car (in green) stop right in front of the lobby and 4 armies went into the hotel. quick quick take the photo to show the truth of cp situation!
(but sorry that i don't have good photo taking skill like CK...)

they were escorted by the hotel security guard, so i guess this was only the inspection and not really a raid.

however, customer inside must feel very unhappy because the fun just started and they need to leave the room...

[3dee]

Originally Posted by kwaychup

din't know about this rumour, was just talking to my FH girl from last trip, she just say that she's got a few days off as company as organise some outing for them but she's not going.

from what i know, most of the girls didn't join outing because they already running out of business and money with this chaos situation, where got extra money to go outing?

unless they find the sponsor lah...

Originally Posted by waterboy

U all there, how to cheong? Everyone seems to like the idea of baoing gals...

we all are here to keep you happy mah, without us where got fun, right?

Originally Posted by waterboy

No more gals on flower streets to choose already...

small correction, it is not "no more gals on flower streets", it is "no flower street!"

[3dee]

Originally Posted by 香香很烦

Mr 3dee, this I don't understand.
What's so exclusive about a delivery girl driving Benz to deliver your food?
She let u press her boobs when she reaches your door?
Or in her Benz, there are more ingredients she will put in the food? or she blow u at the door at no extra charge?
Hhehe... Dee ah... Kidding ah...

my boss, aiyo, how can you pecah my lobang?

we are friends, so every time she deivers to me, i will personally go down to collect. and since we are friends, cannot just collect and go mah, have to show my warm sillypore spirit mah! tio bo??

Originally Posted by Vertu

Haha Bro 3dee .... you sound like a fortune teller leh ......

haha, now you know my real job!

if your office need someone to see fengshui, do let me know, i will certainly give you a friendship price!

Originally Posted by Vertu

IMHO .......
Since we are prepare to bao a mm be it 5k , 10k , 20k or 30k , meaning this are extra money .... money which we got no other place to keep ......
So why you worry this worry that ? Check this check that ?
Who set the time to make love ? I used to arrange some gals come over my hotel after lunch for 'Tea Dance' session .....
Have money, you play the game ...... No money , dont play this game, Order , Eat , Pay and Bye.......

taikor, totally agreed with you!

if you have money and you can afford to spend, play as what you like.

why to bother "worth or not worth?"
why to bother "am i doing something right or not?"
why to bother "what is market rate or am i overpaid?"

after all, it is a sense of sextifaction. money can buy sex, but not sense, i would not mind to pay the extra if the feeling is good.
what if you pay "market rate" and get lousy senses? will you feel happy?

for those who wants to play, being bao a girl or being paying extra to the girl, he should have done all the calculation before jumping in, take the calculated risk and know the exit point.

robert kiyosaki has taught us about this long time back!

[adidas88]

Originally Posted by Yoshi Chiong

Me not Drunk. But felt that "she is different". Further more I had met her whole family. Stayed at her home and eat with her family. As I said they are very witty and experience. Now she don't take any money from me and offer to even return me the 10K as a proof that she really loves me. Power ritez. Any guys would fall for that. So for Newbies going to CP do be warn that these mm are really good. I cheong in BKK, MNL, JKT, JPN, MAL, ViET etc. I consider myself very experience chiongster but even me also confuse and fall into the trap.

that's becoz u cheong with ur small head instead of ur big head ...

Originally Posted by Vertu

Since we are prepare to bao a mm be it 5k , 10k , 20k or 30k , meaning this are extra money .... money which we got no other place to keep ......

taikor ... i has a lot of place for u to park ur money ...

Originally Posted by 3dee

last night pass through huimei around 8:30pm, a police car (in white) and an army car (in green) stop right in front of the lobby and 4 armies went into the hotel. quick quick take the photo to show the truth of cp situation!
(but sorry that i don't have good photo taking skill like CK...)
they were escorted by the hotel security guard, so i guess this was only the inspection and not really a raid.

pic is nice, clear and sharp .... good job ..
next time, take ur left finger out of the Samsung SIII lens range ...

[prcsytlover]

Originally Posted by adidas88

that's becoz u cheong with ur small head instead of ur big head ...

taikor ... i has a lot of place for u to park ur money ...

pic is nice, clear and sharp .... good job ..
next time, take ur left finger out of the Samsung SIII lens range ...

I think taikor will feel safer parking the maos with the gals then with u.. Heehee

[SEAJ]

Wow!

So much discussion on Bao'ing when all I wanted to do was to figure out who it was that's REALLY Bao'ing CP gals for RMB 30K++/month!

I've had a few experience with packaging a gal and also "helping out" regulars with a stipend. Reason being that I ALWAYS jump in head-long anytime I come across a girl who I click with; to me, life's too short to worry and be 100% sure before doing something...or I guess, someone ... that I truly enjoy.

And as far as money is concerned, its all relative isn't it? Just so long as I'm reasonably sure that its not too out of line and its something I can afford/think reasonable, it shouldn't faze - right?

And as far being worried about "exclusivity" is concerned - its pretty well like what I told my much younger wife when we were discussing marriage; I told her "Hon, you're so beautiful, so much younger than I and I DO realize that there ARE a lot of things in life that you've not experienced or maybe curious about. Now, of course I truly hope that it never happens, but if there ever was an occassion or a person with whom you just cannot help but to have an affair with, then I do hope that you will strictly follow these 4 requests of mine."

And I outlined to her the following:
1. Do not EVER let me know - even lie if you need to.
2. Don't let me lose face - and that means don't let people I know, friends, relatives etc to know that you're having an affair
3. Don't ever catch/get anything dirty - always insist on using condoms.
4. Don't ever get pregnant.

Now, if you strictly follow these 4 things, it really doesn't matter; For all I care/know about, you could just be out having tea with your friends, be going to the beauty salon - and not even know/be affected that you're with him.

Now, of course when I said the above to her, it was plain for her to understand that I also meant that its very much a case of "What's sauce for the Goose is sauce for the Gander" - and Knock on Wood, I have up to now had a very good marriage/married life.

I apply the same principle to girls I Bao, and again, knock on wood, it's always been good and have brought me a lot of happiness and contentment. Nothing's worth it to worry and be in constant anguish as I see how it is with some of my friends who also Bao gals and is always checking, wondering and worrying; to the extent that they'd install tracking and eavesdropping apps on their gal's IPhone, remote access cameras installed etc. Even before I would even think to do so, I'd probably just dump her...coz for her/the relationship to have even spawned such thoughts in my mind... well, its just not worth it to me.

Just my very own POV and I certainly do not think that its applicable - or even wise - for others to emulate.

SEAN -Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm just an old Fool. Kekekeke (instead of hahahaha on this board!!)

[decent02]

Originally Posted by travelcraze88

Now after more than 8 years now they are still happily together.

of course there are happy ending....maybe 5%

95% ended up with nothing

In CP, if the gal likes you, she will be with you whenever you are in CP
sometimes she will pay her own sitting fee to mummy when she accompany you to her working ktv.
Sometimes dun need to pay a single cent.
Target those non-ang pai gals, you will get this type of treatment.
This type of game can only play for 3 to 4 months before their horns appear and then you re-target another gal. So is there a need to bao ? U still get gf treatment...

[PuTonRen]

Originally Posted by SEAJ

Just my very own POV and I certainly do not think that its applicable - or even wise - for others to emulate.

SEAN -Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm just an old Fool. Kekekeke (instead of hahahaha on this board!!)

I think if a man is really to bao a girl in China, and if he is wise, he should be ready to accept all the eventualities that would surface, and most likely will surface. If one is ready, I am sure he would not be hardly hit. Your four principles are realistic, and I am sure they would work for you. I am not so sure that all men can handle the situation if any one of the four principles is ever violated.

However, men, including me, suffer from the problem of "Ego of possession". Many times, we would think that, since I pay for it, I should be given the exclusivity. When things go wrong, he would be devastated, as his Ego is badly hit.

My 2 cent worth.