To all bros out there ... from what I'd gathered thru research, investigations, canvassing, in-depth interviews, in-bed sessions, texting, social media (hehe macam CSI meets NYPD Blue sial). I believe that the more you get to know them, the better and greater are the chances of a score!
He who goes straight for the jugular must be either a very confident Alpha-male or Mr. NO-BS-Just Hit & Run (sometimes RTF).
However, for those who don't are ... well, I think we've all been there once or more.
Just put in a bit more effort, you'll be surprised
Good luck and scale upwards.