[warbird]

Good morning to all samsters!

All bros are encouraged to post their FRs. Pls give enough details and I'll comment on them.

Every encounter is a positive experience for me. I also learn a lot from detailed FRs n experiences of others. Not only your conquests n success stories but also rejections, failures, setbacks and break ups!!

I hv alluded to the fact that over 50% of my GFs/LPs/lovers/mistresses rejected me initially. At least 90% of those who had rebuffed me said yes, after weeks to many months and, in some cases, up to 2-3 years! A few of them actually hung up on me and avoided me as if I were a leper.

How you react to her rejection is the best indicator of whether you're the prize or just another AFC or average frustrated chump. You must remain 很冷静，很笃定。

Here is an article on why we should embrace rejection.

How to Make Rejection Your Best Friend

It takes balls to get laid, both literally
and figuratively. Just like in business, you
must foster the drive within yourself to
succeed.

You must keep your focus on the goal and not
be sidetracked by the little details, like
being rejected.

The only way to have an abundant sex life is
through rejection.

Many of our students feel crushed when a
woman says "no." They get depressed and want
to give up.

Or they feel bad about themselves and think
they are losers. We've also talked to guys
who throw tantrums, get angry and blame the
woman. These are natural reactions, but such
reactions won't deliver the goods...sex.

The bottom line is that when a woman rejects
you, you must take the long term view of
things.

Hearing "no" is part of the process of
getting laid.

When a woman says "no" you don't push it.
This would damage your self-esteem, and could
get you thrown in jail.

What you do is go on to the next woman. You
must train yourself as a dating commando to
view and interpret all "no's" as steps along
the way to your ultimate success.

Obviously it sucks to have a woman say "no."
It also sucks to be spanking off in your room
all alone.

Remember: it isn't personal.

Men ask, and women say "yes" or "no."
Everyone, even seduction masters, hear "no"
from women. They persist, and so must you.
Even if it takes 1,000 no's for one yes,
persistence is the only way.

If your goal really is to have an abundant
sex life, you must never, ever, ever give up.
You may give up on a particular woman, but
you don't give up on your ultimate goal of
abundant sex.

This never-give-up attitude is the key
difference between a guy who is successful
and another guy who is at the whim of his
emotions and fails frequently.

The guy who doesn't let the rejection bother
him succeeds, and the other guy fails.

Which one do you want to be?

It is useful to view dating as a numbers
game. Keep in mind that even the most
masterful seducers only pick up 10% of women
they hit on.

What they do is just keep on going and enjoy
the process, like an adventure.

You are learning a new art form, developing a
new muscle, a new way of acting in the world
and rejection will happen along the way.

Be patient, for God's sake. No more whining.

Here are some things to remember:

- It isn't personal. Every man gets rejected
some of the time.

- There are thousands of women who would be
happy for you to do them tonight! You just
don't know who they are and you give up too
fast when you aren't willing to risk
rejection.

- Getting laid is a numbers game. A certain
percent of women will say "no" and a certain
percent will say "yes."

- Look at successful sports figures. Babe
Ruth had the most home runs, but also had a
huge number of strike-outs! Like Babe, you
must be willing to swing for all you are
worth and strike out sometimes. - If you are
rejected, just go on to the next woman.

That's all there is to it.


Cheers!

Bro WB