The video a bit out of taste with the toilet bowl and all lah ... but anyway .. the nearest place u can go to for a decent bdsm experience is in bkk .. a couple famed dorms there ...
Midory:
http://thaimistress.net/ (tried twice ... great experience)
Chateaujade:
http://www.chateaujade.com/ (will be trying out this place in June)
Christy:
http://dominachristy.com/ (matured dom ... go for short 2 hour stints .. ok treatment)