[JacqueMerlin]

bro, my advise is that you should by all means not marry in Singapore. The women's charter can kill you even if you possess evidence of your wife's infidelity. I will suggest that you look beyond the problems and focus on upgrading yourself and I don't mean certificates. That's a very tedious way of upgrading and returns are conventional. Learn how to do investments, be actively involved with properties, shares, insurance and the likes. Concentrate on brokering if you cannot afford them. You don't even have to be in the 'your defined high income range' to realise that, build that up and your choice of girls will come to you. Don't squander your savings or bonus on casinos, girls that don't matter. By then, you will realise that the only woman worth dedicating your life to is your mother. Not having your first gf? Bro... You're not missing anything yet. Why settle yourself for one girl when hou could've many? I was like you bro... I wanted the lovey dovey family life with a woman I can call mine. But I was introduced to the world of filth by seniors who walked the same path. Learnt a little on investing my assets, changed my mentality to grab a much well paying job and took the great leap I wish you all the best bro...