[Secret7]

Sounds like your husband wants to have side dish. Got wife still looking for chat with other girl. Send condom for what message? This message also not funny unless girl also interested. May not be the only girl he is after, as you mention he cheat you before.

If you and husband before can talk, then best you talk to him slow and sincere now. Let him share but you must listen. If you got no listen then you get hurt and angry. Be careful that what you hear maybe no good, but if everything out in the open, at least can find solution. Now got secret between you two so not helpful for trust and security.

But he is violent to you so you may need counsellor to help him because if he angry, you gonna get hit again.

You not in good position. Wish you good luck.