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Old 08-06-2009, 05:58 PM
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Re: shy guy need advice

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Originally Posted by d'Artagnan View Post
ello all


have this office fren who always makan with me ever since her 1st day. she is nice to me and sometime confide personal stuff about home and the blah blah blah. i am not good with words but she likes me being the listening ear while she blab. i find her open minded (she is the one who direct me to this forum ) hope she does not know i type this. i like her but i have a gf- ok that is the problem
braddah, i read nothing in your post to indicate she have some interest in you sexually. more like a friend. you mention you already have GF. maybe she see you as like a safe guy to tell all her insecurities and problems to given you are attatched. if you try something on her romance and all you risk losing your job for sexual harrassment. its in your mind. you are in the friend zone to her. once women place you in that zone its difficult almost impossible to take them to bed. she see you as nice guy to talk story not want you cock to put it bluntly.