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Old 18-09-2008, 11:11 AM
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Re: I never thought it would happen to me
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Originally Posted by slider_72 View Post
Don't kid yourself. It doesn't happen that way, trust me. If you allow yourself to fall deeper into this, once she is gone, you will start to miss her and do irrational things like buying airticket to visit her in China, call her over the phone and smsing her everday, listen to Chinese love songs, think of her all the time, visit the places that you used to go with her, eat her favourite food, etc, etc, etc.

If you want to cut it and forget about her, don't even allow yourself to be embroiled in this fantasy. Once you are in it, the awakening process is damn tough.

Been there done that.
I like the part about "listen to Chinese love songs"... this action is seldom heard of but it did happen to me few years ago when I travelled to Beijing often on business. Those were the good old days... sigh..