[FloweryMonk]

A few more questions,
1) while waiting for a decision on how much to pay her alimony/maintenance, how much should i be giving to her monthly since she is with my son while i am out of house?
2) while waiting for a judgement on custody, can she prevent me from seeing my son?
3) while waiting for a judgement on custody, can my son live with me instead of his mother? or live with a 3rd party?
4) can i retrieve my past medical records from hospital or police records / cases from the police? how to do as i want to get proof of her bullshit?
5) how can i retreive her past medical records? she said she had depression
6) will getting a gf or cheonging further damage my standing in a contested divorce?