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Old 13-12-2022, 02:45 PM
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Re: Help appreciated

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Originally Posted by EtherC View Post
This is a very one sided exposition. My 2 cents worth : TS has made a number of poor life choices and seems unwilling to take accountability for her own actions.
1. Instead of staying away from a toxic ex, she came back for more drama.
2. Husband probably bears a grievance as he probably did not want a child.
3. Has an extra marital affair, at least feels guilty maybe?
4. So busy handling the kid herself and is a working Mum, still have time for office fling. Ok….
5. If one’s character is above board & generally cordial, why would your closest family be easily swayed by mere words?

My advice is : Self reflection is very important in life. We all need to take accountability for our own choices.
I agree with self reflections and our choices lead us to what we have today. My gf left me, I reflect what went wrong, I was too busy with work. I did not jump to conclusion saying she is a bad girl for leaving me for another guy. Just like we have to be accountable for our own lives, other people are not accountable for ours. We cannot depend on others to be happy.