Originally Posted by RTTO
Bro, you are not alone. I had (still having) similar fate like you:
married for 20 years
sex was boring, no spice, no passion, nothing to look forward
no oral sex from her, just little foreplay and then missionary
tried spice her with sex toy, porn, massage, talk dirty. Nothing works. She just not interested
touch her breast, she will cover and turn away
do kinky stuff on her she will not play along and walk away
outside brush her breast or touch her to spice up the mood, she will give me the "killer" stare
always got communication problem
she sees every small issue BIG whether with me, kids or my parents
moods swing most of the time
So......
had affair for 10 years and ended recently but we still keep in touch
sex was heavenly, hotel, parks, carparks, beach, cruise, club, toilet... u name it, we did it. Even after so many years, we were alwasy on fire when we see each other.
if we meet 7 days a week, we will have sex 7 times even during her periods
ended becos she wanted more of my time, gets very jealous (and will quarrel) when she knows i go out with wife
didn't want to hurt my family, especially the kids
miss her alot and still love her alot... but am not willing to pay the price at my family expense
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