[happywoody]

well TS - juz a question, why post this thread in Matters of the Heart and not Adult Sex Discussions?

this may help you answer the conflict you may have.

years ago, i happened to be on the same flight with an ex-colleague. she was older and more experienced. it started with evening drinks n dinner. and i was conflicted because i was already seeing someone.

looking back now, i'm glad we ended up fucking each other's brains out that trip.

my other relationship eventually ended years later. i don't think i could have saved it even if i'd kept myself from going off the straight and narrow. but i guess i'd never know.

so really there's no right or wrong. things will go differently for different folks. it's yr life and you have to live with whatever the consequences may be.

good luck