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Re: HIV spouse
Thank pals for all the advices. Can really feel kindness from your words. Thanks.
Anyway, it is true one cannot successfully apply PR status with this illness. But our government has changed their policy allowing them to stay with us. A rare act of grace. But we bought those medicines in Chiangmai; significantly much cheaper. To those who ask us to various helps, they also do not know what really to do. Some samster told me to use condom which is it quite safe but not at all encouraged cuz there is still a risk. To me, she seem to lose all interest in sex, can't blame her, but to me my desire for a lady's physical intimacy can be quite strong. Self-control?
Through these tough times, I always encourage her while I worried myself to tears whenver the doc ask 4 a x-rays. Damn tough living a double live. One side of me always strong yet another one extremely weak alone. We are married for than 10 years. Our adopted child 3 years only.
Actually I faced these many issues by myself. It is kind of soul tormenting.
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