For Regular Chiongster, is it possible to really settle down and get married?
 

Anyone really stop playing and fooling one day and repent and be a good husband?

For chiongster, do you all tell the girl the past? she cannot accept how?

For chiongster is possible to go back and become a normal person?:o

I find it hard to find a gf (serious gf) and the thought of spending my whole life with one lady and cannot go massage and play around again, make me feel uncomfortable and give me anxiety...

is it really something good for me for the rest of my life??

How is it possible a chiongster resist a temptation outside?

Re: For Regular Chiongster, is it possible to really settle down and get married?
 

can why cannot? its a choice. girl can accept or not also the girl choice. everything is choice. u tempted but u can choose to not go. the girl dont like the past, but can choose to let it go and look forward for a future with the guy. its all a choice. no one take gun point at your head say must be bad husband then u cannot be good husband

Re: For Regular Chiongster, is it possible to really settle down and get married?
 

There are some married already still cheonging, but living with a double identity..

For an instance: Two sim cards, one is your normal personal phone, then another one use for cheonging purposes

Re: For Regular Chiongster, is it possible to really settle down and get married?
 

if I want to settle I will stop chionging

but how u know the girl is the one?

Re: For Regular Chiongster, is it possible to really settle down and get married?
 

Bro, you think we are God ah?

Re: For Regular Chiongster, is it possible to really settle down and get married?
 

how long can you keep chonging ?

there will come a time when you grow old, like 60s, with face and body full of wrinkles and old men odor, which FL who is also human, will want to serve you with all those services you crave ?

or touch wood, if u got ED and have issue with errection most of the time, how much $$$ can you burn ?

for me, realistically, about 50 or if lucky till 55, if my 2IC can still function, that is the max, end of the chonging road for me.

Re: For Regular Chiongster, is it possible to really settle down and get married?
 

3 choices:
Tell the truth and things will not be the same again.
Build a beautiful lie around it and hope nobody pijia lobang.
Don’t lie but don’t admit it either. Let her form her own conclusion or self-lie.

Re: For Regular Chiongster, is it possible to really settle down and get married?
 

It's possible but life will end up really boring and you'll be yearning for the good old days when variety was the spice of life. :o:D

Re: For Regular Chiongster, is it possible to really settle down and get married?
 

I will feel envy if I settle with a girl and then I cannot chiong again

Re: For Regular Chiongster, is it possible to really settle down and get married?
 

most common case is chiong secretly la so many guys got 2 phones. 1 for secret use hidden away or disguised as work phone...

of coz got some fairy tale happy ending meet the right one and then decide to stop chionging and be good husband. so it is possible. i have a few friends myself after married dont say go sleep around la go drinking only also cut down alot.

Yes very true.. I also have another phone.. hahaha

Re: For Regular Chiongster, is it possible to really settle down and get married?
 

there is no "cannot chiong", unless u no money.

Re: For Regular Chiongster, is it possible to really settle down and get married?
 

Four types of relationship:
1) FL + Chiongster
2) FL + Non-Chiongster
3) Non-FL + Chiongster
4) Non-FL + Non-Chiongster

The ones that will most likely (statistically speaking) work out are (1) and (4). FL and Chiongster is the “bad boy bad girl” one and (4) the “good boy good girl” one.

(2) and (3) will struggle.

Should they be honest with each other to start with? Might be a good thing. If break up after honest confession, can save much grief later, especially if they have kids later. Kids suffer. If don’t break up, also worry that every time quarrel, the “good boy” or “good girl” in the relationship will dig up the past and try to make the other person feel guilty etc. Torture.

If don’t be honest, then everyday is lived in fear that one day kena found out. Then all hell break loose. Then like above, either break up or everyday quarrel and dig up the last.

So for Chiongsters, maybe best to look for a FL and be honest with each other. Then together become ex-Chiongster and ex-FL.

Re: For Regular Chiongster, is it possible to really settle down and get married?
 

can become ex-chiongster first and find new good girl?

Re: For Regular Chiongster, is it possible to really settle down and get married?
 

That is still number (4) non-FL with non-chiongster (or ex-chiongster) 🫢