Do you think using services is healthy?

[Caligula123]

What do y'all the long term impact of using services, both mentally and financially are to an individual.

[drinknsmoke]

What do y'all the long term impact of using services, both mentally and financially are to an individual.

Mentally? Highly depends why you went with services route instead of the usual dating / ONS clubbing route. It might affect your confidence in how attractable you are to women. Since you are paying for their services in the first place.

Financially? This requires financial planning, if you are looking for whores weekly or god forbid, daily...

You want to move forward in life by dividing your income accordingly for expenses + savings + amount for leisure (Whore Money). Living monthly with an empty bank account really wouldn't help you in your long term goals. I've seen people go club and spend hundreds to thousands for a night of drinking. You paying for whores is not exactly that different provided you plan your monthly spending and consider that as a monthly leisure expense and still have sufficient savings at the end of the month.

[dessertboy]

What do y'all the long term impact of using services, both mentally and financially are to an individual.

a very subjective question.

mentally is about why you engage services. if you engage it for a quick fix but you are confident about attracting women and it doesnt make you respect women any less, then i would say not much effect mentally?

financially, a filthy rich person with high income probably will not feel the pinch. a regular office worker earning 3 - 4k a month maybe will feel the pinch and affect financial planning if visit too often. it boils down to the financial ability and management of the individual.

[superlibido]

if too frequent, i believe the individual may actually lose interest in courting a female partner. coz just pay money can already.

[gamerguy]

if too frequent, i believe the individual may actually lose interest in courting a female partner. coz just pay money can already.

Which may, ultimately, be more cost-effective than maintaining a wife :D Joking ah. Wife can provide emotional support (subject to both individuals in a relationship being on good terms).

[roadtohell]

Which may, ultimately, be more cost-effective than maintaining a wife :D Joking ah. Wife can provide emotional support (subject to both individuals in a relationship being on good terms).

but when your wife is emotionally checked out....

[xylphz]

What do y'all the long term impact of using services, both mentally and financially are to an individual.

There's nothing wrong with paying for it as long as you can afford it and get tested on a regular basis.

[cena]

Bro there is nothing wrong with this man

[jfp1976]

Yes I think is good for you health

[larue]

Any activity can be healthy or unhealthy.

Except sky diving without a parachute.

[Blackhauk]

but when your wife is emotionally checked out....

agree:eek:

[sammyboyfor]

Mentally? Highly depends why you went with services route instead of the usual dating / ONS clubbing route. It might affect your confidence in how attractable you are to women. Since you are paying for their services in the first place.

Financially? This requires financial planning, if you are looking for whores weekly or god forbid, daily...

You want to move forward in life by dividing your income accordingly for expenses + savings + amount for leisure (Whore Money). Living monthly with an empty bank account really wouldn't help you in your long term goals. I've seen people go club and spend hundreds to thousands for a night of drinking. You paying for whores is not exactly that different provided you plan your monthly spending and consider that as a monthly leisure expense and still have sufficient savings at the end of the month.

A girlfriend costs 2x more than a whore.

A wife costs 100x more..... and often brings 100x more grief.

[expatamerican]

For me the answer is yes. When I first started traveling to Asia and realized just how easy and cheap it was to have sex with hot young women, it changed my perspective on dating. No longer was I desperate to impress average American women. That added confidence boost helped me also get laid in the US much easier than before. It also made me focus on the really important characteristics when choosing long term partners. I was no longer fooled by sexy looks, or just good sex (like my first wife). Because I knew those are commodities very easily bought. So in the end it helped my long term relationships as well. And now I am married to a wonderful partner who understands me and I can play as much as I want without cheating.

[Cheeseburger03]

I think it's more healthy than being frustrated with pent-up emotions and end up doing silly things like taking upskirts/stalking etc and end up being caught.

Once you have satisfied your desires with paid services, can move on with your normal life and continue daily activities as a happy man :)

[LoneRangerBill]

Mentioned about this topic of the differences between having sex with wife/partner/gf vs commercial (whores) in my divorce thread.

To me, having sex with wife/partner/gf is making love. The sexual activities with them includes emotion and a sense of belonging. The knowing of both parties being satisfied (or not) and both sides do adjustments to accommodate/improve the love making. There is no standard protocols, no time limits. You can do oral sex, french kiss, and other acts that you normally would worry when doing with commercial ones like STD and others (Unless your lady exposes herself to others outside). You can converse with them on a wide range of topics after sex. And sleep together and wake up in the morning with a kiss of appreciation.

Working ladies protocols of having sex with you are rather fixed. No emotions needed. The ladies will show you happy face no matter her true mood. Their enjoyment in the act is not important. They will fake orgasm to boost your ego. Then, when the deed is done, you leave and the next customer get the repeated treatment. She might not even remembering you. You are just another "job" to them. Are you happy with this sexual intercourse?

Don't get me wrong. I am perfectly ok if that is what you want. I however, would want a deeper emotional connection as to just the physical satisfaction of the act.

[continued]

A girlfriend costs 2x more than a whore.

A wife costs 100x more..... and often brings 100x more grief.

Darn real hahahha

[zip4671]

Darn real hahahha

Senior bros, hv read all of page 1 of this thread & wish tt more senior bro from the various form shared their voices on this life process & as SG overall population is getting larger for those over 60 than there is even now today saw an advert in the MRT stations on being healthier overall for everyone

How is healthier SG different from our current healthcare model?
Healthier SG is a major transformation of our healthcare system. We are shifting our emphasis from reactively caring for those who are sick, to proactively preventing individuals from falling ill. The key is for our population to reshape their health-seeking behaviours and lifestyles.

Wonder does it include our overall SEXUAL health as there are so little place left to chiong unlike pre-COVID days ...?

Love to hear from fellow seniors both ladies & gentlemen & also the LGBTQ community.

[Zetyalpha]

What do y'all the long term impact of using services, both mentally and financially are to an individual.

Ok, let me break it down crystal clear for you. Engaging whores is a clear business transaction. Nothing more, nothing less. Depending on how strong is yr mental fortitude.

If you slip up and fall in love with every whore you fuck. For the love of god, stop, step back and think. Else, just Fap. Occasional slip up is normal as we are humans. Shake it off and look for another one.

Boss has mentioned this many times.

Getting a wife is 100X more expensive, esp with children. Unless you're rich. More expensive if you got a divorce. Remember, all human relationships are transactional. If you want loyalty, get a dog.

[Audrey923]

Yes!!It's healthy. It’s a part of human natural.:):)

[Audrey923]

It’s healthy. A part of human nature.

[Bbtt332023]

Nope, higher risks of STDs means less healthy. Also depends on what you're comparing with. If compare with monogamy, then yea, using service is less healthy, but if compare service with ONS, then not really more or less healthy. This is health-wise.

Mentally, depends on person. Fear of STDs, getting found out, getting emotionally invested with a worker can be draining mentally, and whether the periodic companionship and release is worth it, who knows.

Financially, it's just a transaction. Not cheap, but as long as don't get addicted, should be ok. Ownself manage own finances. Like gambling lor, go for the high, just make sure don't spend more than you can afford. At least this one less propensity to borrow money and play more I guess.

[TooOld]

I think it's more healthy than being frustrated with pent-up emotions and end up doing silly things like taking upskirts/stalking etc and end up being caught.

Once you have satisfied your desires with paid services, can move on with your normal life and continue daily activities as a happy man :)

yes i agree with this. better to release then to pent it all up and then become rapists.

[Cheeseburger03]

yes i agree with this. better to release then to pent it all up and then become rapists.

When there is too much pent up urges, one either become a rapist/molester or end up being a simp, splurging lots of money being the handymen of syts

So the best solution is still paying for services. Get it over and done with, and resume normal life activities :D:)

[manyMore321]

When there is too much pent up urges, one either become a rapist/molester or end up being a simp, splurging lots of money being the handymen of syts

So the best solution is still paying for services. Get it over and done with, and resume normal life activities :D:)

if financially straining, maybe need use porn and masturbate / find gf or fwb

[acewinger]

positive side u relieve your urge dont get it pent up

too much i believe make you hard to emotionally connect with another lady

[ChickenBiskit]

What do y'all the long term impact of using services, both mentally and financially are to an individual.

burn your pocket unless u rich

[Jaykkk]

financially? if you got no money issue, then great.
mentally? most people got caught in deep, so cannot form any connection with real Gf. :confused:

[passingbyguy]

sometimes can release pressure

[bmansex]

Ok, let me break it down crystal clear for you. Engaging whores is a clear business transaction. Nothing more, nothing less. Depending on how strong is yr mental fortitude.

If you slip up and fall in love with every whore you fuck. For the love of god, stop, step back and think. Else, just Fap. Occasional slip up is normal as we are humans. Shake it off and look for another one.

Boss has mentioned this many times.

Getting a wife is 100X more expensive, esp with children. Unless you're rich. More expensive if you got a divorce. Remember, all human relationships are transactional. If you want loyalty, get a dog.

somehow i relate to your reply :D:D
cheers

[drache]

it's healthy if u can separate ur mind and heart, not healthy if u involve ur feeling in every fuck. mind fucked man:rolleyes:

[Xgenre]

LKY kept geylang because he understands if guys don't have a sexual outlet, there will be more molest and rape cases. Not having a sexual outlet may be even worse than paying for services.

I feel sex is very needed for the body. It's different from just getting a hand job or blow job. I feel my hormones are more balanced after sex. Muscle tone also better with regular sex. I don't get the same effects after hj or bj.

[freedompeace]

This is nothing wrong man.