"Psychiatrists here are seeing more sex-addiction cases, mostly men...." Sunday Times

[cheongsan]

The Sunday Times on 31 August 2008 headlined that "Psychiatrists here are seeing more sex-addiction cases, mostly men. Stress can be a trigger for such urges"

Few provocative things mentioned in the newspaper:

(1) One factor contributing to the increase in the number of people being identified with sex addiction was the availability of chatlines and pornography over the internet. Hmm....Wonder how many of us are not guilty of that.

(2)A certain Dr Adrian Wang mentioned about a young man being addicted to commercial sex instead of having more sex with his girlfriend. Hmm.......I find this interesting because it seems that the doctor is endorsing premarital sex over commercial sex for the man to seek gratification. Also saw many brothers here posting their woes on their wives being "dead fish" and preferring to outsource their sexual needs to FLs and WLs. Seemed to strike a chord here.

(3) Also mentioned that it is less socially acceptable to be labelled as a sex addict here and thus preventing people from seeking help.

I think this article will still not affect the vibrancy of the commercial sex scene here and elsewhere.

[sex addick]

Oh my god! Am I affected by this?
I dont think sex addiction is a bad thing...

Afterall, sex is the most pleasurable thing to ennjoy

[cheongsan]

Oh my god! Am I affected by this?
I dont think sex addiction is a bad thing...

Afterall, sex is the most pleasurable thing to ennjoy

hahaha...what a confident samster.

[aces9999]

:confused: Yah shit...really makes us wonder if we are normal...

The article dun really include details of what are considered tell-tale symptoms that a person can be classified as a possibility of being a sex addict.

Are we all normal here if we think about sex every 7secs?

:confused:

[XtintX]

every 7 sec??? definitely addict, and need to see a doc soon :rolleyes:

[Cyberspace Nerd]

I have this fetish whereby I like to show women my cock.....i found this out when i went to DSC for check up and the female doc ask me to take off my pants to show her my half erect cock (went there for checkup). Turns me on so after the check up I proceed to the toilet to PCC. :D

When I have the urge to show women my cock again, I went to have a check up again. So lucky I got a female doc, quite chio somemore...:p She put her face very near my cock while holding it in her hands examinng it...cannot tahan thinking about it...

Do I have sex addiction???:confused:

[akaza24]

She put her face very near my cock while holding it in her hands examinng it...cannot tahan thinking about it...



Wonder wat will her expression be if ur rod get harden while she examining it? :rolleyes:

[Redoxan]

I also want to go see the doctor for cure if the doctor is a lady :D:D

[tOmAski33]

How does one relate to sex addiction?
Any signs?
:eek:

[aces68]

I have this fetish whereby I like to show women my cock.....i found this out when i went to DSC for check up and the female doc ask me to take off my pants to show her my half erect cock (went there for checkup). Turns me on so after the check up I proceed to the toilet to PCC. :D

When I have the urge to show women my cock again, I went to have a check up again. So lucky I got a female doc, quite chio somemore...:p She put her face very near my cock while holding it in her hands examinng it...cannot tahan thinking about it...

Do I have sex addiction???:confused:

there was one time I went for check-up..doctor was male but there were 2 young student doctor (ladies) observing .. wonder what was in their minds .. :D

[Unionbeta]

I have this fetish whereby I like to show women my cock.....i found this out when i went to DSC for check up and the female doc ask me to take off my pants to show her my half erect cock (went there for checkup). Turns me on so after the check up I proceed to the toilet to PCC. :D

When I have the urge to show women my cock again, I went to have a check up again. So lucky I got a female doc, quite chio somemore...:p She put her face very near my cock while holding it in her hands examinng it...cannot tahan thinking about it...

Do I have sex addiction???:confused:

You are funny. I wish really got female doc holding me cock. Then it will be a big challenge to keep my cock down. ;)

[Angelus]

How does one relate to sex addiction?
Any signs?
:eek:

everytime when u marikita? :p

[kaisin64]

I think I'm one of the few sufferers:(

This is a sincere call for help from my fellow female samsters......please, please help me.......:p

[Randy08]

I think I am a sex addict. Am I ?

I love to surf porn. I like to see women in panties and lingerie or without clothes.

I surf Hergreves, Domi, StarTeens, MILF sites. I paid for downloading videos of nude women prancing around to songs in the background.

I dream of making out with the attractive married women I meet in the course of my work or the TV presentors on TV.

SO am I a sex addcict ? :confused:

[bigguy198O]

funny... hahahah

[Steadyman1]

So lucky I got a female doc, quite chio somemore...:p She put her face very near my cock while holding it in her hands examinng it...cannot tahan thinking about it...

So you must be thinking if she could pop it to her mouth??

[Steadyman1]

Here is an article extract from the web.

What Is Sexual Addiction?
By Michael Herkov, Ph.D
December 10, 2006

Sexual addiction is best described as a progressive intimacy disorder characterized by compulsive sexual thoughts and acts. Like all addictions, its negative impact on the addict and on family members increases as the disorder progresses. Over time, the addict usually has to intensify the addictive behavior to achieve the same results.

For some sex addicts, behavior does not progress beyond compulsive masturbation or the extensive use of pornography or phone or computer sex services. For others, addiction can involve illegal activities such as exhibitionism, voyeurism, obscene phone calls, child molestation or rape.

Sex addicts do not necessarily become sex offenders. Moreover, not all sex offenders are sex addicts. Roughly 55 percent of convicted sex offenders can be considered sex addicts.

About 71 percent of child molesters are sex addicts. For many, their problems are so severe that imprisonment is the only way to ensure society’s safety against them.

Society has accepted that sex offenders act not for sexual gratification, but rather out of a disturbed need for power, dominance, control or revenge, or a perverted expression of anger. More recently, however, an awareness of brain changes and brain reward associated with sexual behavior has led us to understand that there are also powerful sexual drives that motivate sex offenses.

The National Council on Sexual Addiction and Compulsivity has defined sexual addiction as “engaging in persistent and escalating patterns of sexual behavior acted out despite increasing negative consequences to self and others.” In other words, a sex addict will continue to engage in certain sexual behaviors despite facing potential health risks, financial problems, shattered relationships or even arrest.

The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Psychiatric Disorders, Volume Four describes sex addiction, under the category “Sexual Disorders Not Otherwise Specified,” as “distress about a pattern of repeated sexual relationships involving a succession of lovers who are experienced by the individual only as things to be used.” According to the manual, sex addiction also involves “compulsive searching for multiple partners, compulsive fixation on an unattainable partner, compulsive masturbation, compulsive love relationships and compulsive sexuality in a relationship.”

Increasing sexual provocation in our society has spawned an increase in the number of individuals engaging in a variety of unusual or illicit sexual practices, such as phone sex, the use of escort services and computer pornography. More of these individuals and their partners are seeking help.

The same compulsive behavior that characterizes other addictions also is typical of sex addiction. But these other addictions, including drug, alcohol and gambling dependency, involve substances or activities with no necessary relationship to our survival. For example, we can live normal and happy lives without ever gambling, taking illicit drugs or drinking alcohol. Even the most genetically vulnerable person will function well without ever being exposed to, or provoked by, these addictive activities.

Sexual activity is different. Like eating, having sex is necessary for human survival. Although some people are celibate — some not by choice, while others choose celibacy for cultural or religious reasons — healthy humans have a strong desire for sex. In fact, lack of interest or low interest in sex can indicate a medical problem or psychiatric illness.

For more reading on the follow topics, use this url:
What Is Sexual Addiction? - Psych Central (http://psychcentral.com/lib/2006/what-is-sexual-addiction/)

Understanding More about Sexual Addiction
Is Sexual Addiction a Recognized Disorder?
Self Quiz: Am I Addicted to Sex?
Symptoms of Sexual Addiction
If You Think You Have a Problem with Sexual Addiction
What Causes Sexual Addiction?
Treatment for Sexual Addiction
Is Someone I Know Addicted to Sex?
If Someone You Know Has a Problem with Cocaine
Which Antidepressants Cause the Least Sexual Side Effects?

[Cyberspace Nerd]

Wonder wat will her expression be if ur rod get harden while she examining it? :rolleyes:

I wonder what her expression will be if my rod is hard already when she ask me to show it to her...:D

[sexsexsex4me]

No choice. Too much FLs around already :D

[Cyberspace Nerd]

I also want to go see the doctor for cure if the doctor is a lady :D

It's not a fantasy of mine and it really happened.

Last year there was one quite chio female doc at DSC clinic, some sbf bros can vouch for that.

She asked me to strip and started "fondling" me....:D cupping and squeezing my balls and asked if it felt tender.....:p If she show 1/2 ball, think I will shoot out there and then...

I think now there is one female doc there also....quite chio....very observant when checking ur cock....:p

[Cyberspace Nerd]

there was one time I went for check-up..doctor was male but there were 2 young student doctor (ladies) observing .. wonder what was in their minds .. :D

Same thing for me too...there were student nurses and the male nurse ask if they can observe.....knn the female student nurse not chio one...so tell him NO. :D

[skirtchaser639]

......preferring to outsource their sexual needs to FLs and WLs......

hmm...interesting, wonder if all the wives/GF will agree with the below statement:
Sexual intercourse if unproductive, takes up time and resources and is deem as business losses, so it makes economical senses to outsource it.

Any financial adviser / operation managers can do up a number spreadsheet to tell when outsource is deem viable?

joking and LOL....:D :D