Unable to maintanin erection for penetration

[skyver86]

Hi guys, i think i am in a serious need of help at the moment.

my wife and I are in the midst of family planning when i realized that i could not hold my erection long enough for penetration. I mean i can get erected when my wife helped me to bj or hj. but once i get up from the bed only, it starts to soften. I dont have this problem when masturbating. have tried to go for jg regularly, exercising and taking half of the blue pill, but it still don't really help. i am not sure if it is due to the length of the foreplay with my wife or the problem lies with me. This problem has been bothering me ever since and i felt very depressed about it. so much so that i dont ask for sex from my wife any more and would prefer to masturbate on my own instead. Just wonder if someone could help me on this please? Thanks in advance.

[ModelsInc]

if take blue pill still cannot stand...u better go see doc to find out what's the problem.

In the mean time, we can help your wife.

:p:p:p

[sgjoey]

Hi guys, i think i am in a serious need of help at the moment.

my wife and I are in the midst of family planning when i realized that i could not hold my erection long enough for penetration. I mean i can get erected when my wife helped me to bj or hj. but once i get up from the bed only, it starts to soften. I dont have this problem when masturbating. have tried to go for jg regularly, exercising and taking half of the blue pill, but it still don't really help. i am not sure if it is due to the length of the foreplay with my wife or the problem lies with me. This problem has been bothering me ever since and i felt very depressed about it. so much so that i dont ask for sex from my wife any more and would prefer to masturbate on my own instead. Just wonder if someone could help me on this please? Thanks in advance.

Have you tried taking a whole pill instead of half? (I am actually curious why you would only take half a pill.) Your symptoms sound like typical erectile dysfunction, but of cos, I am not a doctor.

And in case cost is a consideration, use generics. They are far cheaper, and work just as well. If you need more details, just PM me.

[BushTracker]

Hi guys, i think i am in a serious need of help at the moment.

my wife and I are in the midst of family planning when i realized that i could not hold my erection long enough for penetration. I mean i can get erected when my wife helped me to bj or hj. but once i get up from the bed only, it starts to soften. I dont have this problem when masturbating. have tried to go for jg regularly, exercising and taking half of the blue pill, but it still don't really help. i am not sure if it is due to the length of the foreplay with my wife or the problem lies with me. This problem has been bothering me ever since and i felt very depressed about it. so much so that i dont ask for sex from my wife any more and would prefer to masturbate on my own instead. Just wonder if someone could help me on this please? Thanks in advance.

Do you have the same problem with other than your wife? Assuming you do.

Too stressed lately? How long have you been on the blue pill? Maybe it is time to up the dose?

How often do you wank by watching porn?

All these could be contributors.

[Kyrosh]

I tia gong that there is a mental, as well as a physiological component to sustaining an erection. I think abstaining from porn and masturbation will help greatly, but it takes time for your brain to reset from porn and masturbation to actual penetration with your wife.

but most importantly go see a doctor la.. not shy to buy blue pills, but shy to see doc meh? see a family planning doc lor. I shui bian google also got so many come up le.

All the best with helping sg with our falling birth rate bro.

[skyver86]

Do you have the same problem with other than your wife? Assuming you do.

Too stressed lately? How long have you been on the blue pill? Maybe it is time to up the dose?

How often do you wank by watching porn?

All these could be contributors.

LoL. I don't have another wife bro. One is enough to give me headaches.

Am considering to up the dosage and probably lengthen the foreplay a bit. I wanked around once a week. Sometimes once in two weeks. Depending on my feel.

I understand it might be a factor and had tried to stop watching for 4 months, it didn't really work for me. Am changing my job soon, hope situation will improve.

[skyver86]

I tia gong that there is a mental, as well as a physiological component to sustaining an erection. I think abstaining from porn and masturbation will help greatly, but it takes time for your brain to reset from porn and masturbation to actual penetration with your wife.

but most importantly go see a doctor la.. not shy to buy blue pills, but shy to see doc meh? see a family planning doc lor. I shui bian google also got so many come up le.

All the best with helping sg with our falling birth rate bro.

I am considering seeking professional help bro. I had tried to stay away from porn for 4 months. It didn't really work. I find that I'm actually using masturbation to gain confidence in myself to be able to have a go with my wife. Haiz.

[airman]

I am considering seeking professional help bro. I had tried to stay away from porn for 4 months. It didn't really work. I find that I'm actually using masturbation to gain confidence in myself to be able to have a go with my wife. Haiz.
Pm me if you need contact details of my urologist.

[Frankiegoes]

Hi...I think you've to play some erotic game before penetration...do the first shot playing with her, than a little break eating something...than the blue pill...and finally you can fuck (I suppose) ;-)

[iampig]

I am considering seeking professional help bro. I had tried to stay away from porn for 4 months. It didn't really work. I find that I'm actually using masturbation to gain confidence in myself to be able to have a go with my wife. Haiz.


When you are masturbating, what are you masturbating to? Are you masturbating to any fetish?

I am asking this is because if you masturbate to a fetish, you are training your brain to only get arousal from that fetish and so during vanilla sex without the fetish, you will not be able to get enough arousal to maintain your erection.

If this is the case, then you need to train your brain to get use to vanilla sex again. For example, if you have the urge to masturbate, then masturbate using a photo of your wife.

I found this reddit post useful : https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/1mx379/how_i_fixed_my_mild_ed_and_finally_made_sex_with/

[skyver86]

When you are masturbating, what are you masturbating to? Are you masturbating to any fetish?

I am asking this is because if you masturbate to a fetish, you are training your brain to only get arousal from that fetish and so during vanilla sex without the fetish, you will not be able to get enough arousal to maintain your erection.

If this is the case, then you need to train your brain to get use to vanilla sex again. For example, if you have the urge to masturbate, then masturbate using a photo of your wife.

I found this reddit post useful : https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/1mx379/how_i_fixed_my_mild_ed_and_finally_made_sex_with/

hmm.. i masturbate as i watched porn. I suppose that contribute as well ? any other suggestions on how i can train my brain to get use to vanilla sex again bro ? i dont think it affects the effects of blue pills right? thanks in advance.

[skyver86]

Hi...I think you've to play some erotic game before penetration...do the first shot playing with her, than a little break eating something...than the blue pill...and finally you can fuck (I suppose) ;-)

bro, you mean like strip poker that kind ? sounds like a plan bro!

[iampig]

hmm.. i masturbate as i watched porn. I suppose that contribute as well ? any other suggestions on how i can train my brain to get use to vanilla sex again bro ? i dont think it affects the effects of blue pills right? thanks in advance.


I found the post in the reddit quite useful : https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/1mx379/how_i_fixed_my_mild_ed_and_finally_made_sex_with/

To quote from it :

So here's what I did to fix this problem:
1.
I stopped masturbating with my hand. It just isn't the right sensation, and in my opinion it's just a totally lazy way to get off. When I used to masturbate, I would just sit in my computer chair and jerk my hand up and down at a pace that I could NEVER match with actual bodily thrusts during sex. Sex is far more physically engaging. You have to hold yourself up. You have to thrust your hips. I wanted to simulate actual sex without having to worry about anxiety issues that may come with a girl in the room, so what I did was buy a Fleshlight. I made sure to NEVER hold the Fleshlight in my hand and move it over my penis like I used to do with my hand while masturbating. Instead, I stuck it between my boxspring and mattress so that it remained stationary, and fucked it like I would have to fuck a girl. I started using the Fleshlight without a condom, but as my erection strength improved I began to use condoms every time.

2.
I stopped watching porn entirely. Simply put, if you're used to threesomes and double anal with porn stars, plain old missionary sex with a "normal" girl probably isn't going to be all that stimulating. The only visual stimulation that I allowed myself during my sessions with the Fleshlight were PICTURES OF GIRLS THAT I HAD ALREADY HOOKED UP WITH or GIRLS THAT I HAD A LEGITIMATE CHANCE OF HOOKING UP WITH. I wanted to make an effort to stop going to a mental fantasy land every time I got off, because I wouldn't be able to go there during real sex. Realistic mental and visual stimulation only.

3.
I started doing Kegel exercises. They work and I swear by them. The problem that a lot of people have with Kegels is finding a routine and sticking with it. What I did was buy a mobile app called Prostate Aerobics ($2.99). I set two alarms per day and did them 6 days per week (Sunday off). I started at level 1 and let it automatically bump me up to level 9 over the course of ~6 weeks. After I had done level 9 twice a day for a week or so, I started setting 3 alarms per day (still with one off day per week). It starts out easy but actually gets pretty difficult. One session of level 9 is over 10 minutes long. My erections got stronger and I was able to maintain them much easier. Morning wood was stronger than ever. Random boners during the day came back. I seriously cannot recommend Kegels enough.

[sgjoey]

Exercise, including kegels, certainly helps. You should probably attack the problem using multiple strategies. Apart from exurcise, masturbate less, or save it totally for your wife. Take supplements that are proven to promote virility, such as Tongkat Ali. At the same time take your ED meds - full dose, not half. Good luck. (PM me for more info on PD meds.)

[Xgenre]

What's your height and weight? Better go see a doctor to do a proper check up. Is your wife pretty? Sometimes we marry nice ladies whom we are not sexually attractive to. Don't masterbate so often because your wife will never be as tight as your five fingers.

Come, let me help you distress with a suitable song. Just have a laugh and slowly solve the problem.

https://youtu.be/0qOHckga2dA

[Punpipi69]

Erm, me too having some issues. Not taking any pills, just sometimes need some stimulation to feel shiok again and continue the course.

Think alot of bros here actually provided good suggestion- stop dfk and exercise!
but no dfk need to find lobang liao. i hear my wallet crying :(

[Xgenre]

Did you try the Qigong master who is advertising in the forum? Given that she is an official advertiser, I can recommend you try. No sexual services. I don't think she's 33 as she says but given that there are no sexual services, her looks and age doesn't matter.

Go with an open mind. She will say until your health is really poor. Really 90 minutes of yak yak yak. Makes you wonder if you are about to drop dead anytime. All in the hope you will be her regular customer. But if her treatment really works for you over time, then it will be good time and money invested. Her massage is good. Real kung-fu. I just cannot stand her style of talking

[skyver86]

Did you try the Qigong master who is advertising in the forum? Given that she is an official advertiser, I can recommend you try. No sexual services. I don't think she's 33 as she says but given that there are no sexual services, her looks and age doesn't matter.

Go with an open mind. She will say until your health is really poor. Really 90 minutes of yak yak yak. Makes you wonder if you are about to drop dead anytime. All in the hope you will be her regular customer. But if her treatment really works for you over time, then it will be good time and money invested. Her massage is good. Real kung-fu. I just cannot stand her style of talking

possible to share with me the link for the Qigong master please ? would like to try every means to have good sex life moving on.

[skyver86]

I found the post in the reddit quite useful : https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/1mx379/how_i_fixed_my_mild_ed_and_finally_made_sex_with/

To quote from it :

So here's what I did to fix this problem:
1.
I stopped masturbating with my hand. It just isn't the right sensation, and in my opinion it's just a totally lazy way to get off. When I used to masturbate, I would just sit in my computer chair and jerk my hand up and down at a pace that I could NEVER match with actual bodily thrusts during sex. Sex is far more physically engaging. You have to hold yourself up. You have to thrust your hips. I wanted to simulate actual sex without having to worry about anxiety issues that may come with a girl in the room, so what I did was buy a Fleshlight. I made sure to NEVER hold the Fleshlight in my hand and move it over my penis like I used to do with my hand while masturbating. Instead, I stuck it between my boxspring and mattress so that it remained stationary, and fucked it like I would have to fuck a girl. I started using the Fleshlight without a condom, but as my erection strength improved I began to use condoms every time.

2.
I stopped watching porn entirely. Simply put, if you're used to threesomes and double anal with porn stars, plain old missionary sex with a "normal" girl probably isn't going to be all that stimulating. The only visual stimulation that I allowed myself during my sessions with the Fleshlight were PICTURES OF GIRLS THAT I HAD ALREADY HOOKED UP WITH or GIRLS THAT I HAD A LEGITIMATE CHANCE OF HOOKING UP WITH. I wanted to make an effort to stop going to a mental fantasy land every time I got off, because I wouldn't be able to go there during real sex. Realistic mental and visual stimulation only.

3.
I started doing Kegel exercises. They work and I swear by them. The problem that a lot of people have with Kegels is finding a routine and sticking with it. What I did was buy a mobile app called Prostate Aerobics ($2.99). I set two alarms per day and did them 6 days per week (Sunday off). I started at level 1 and let it automatically bump me up to level 9 over the course of ~6 weeks. After I had done level 9 twice a day for a week or so, I started setting 3 alarms per day (still with one off day per week). It starts out easy but actually gets pretty difficult. One session of level 9 is over 10 minutes long. My erections got stronger and I was able to maintain them much easier. Morning wood was stronger than ever. Random boners during the day came back. I seriously cannot recommend Kegels enough.

Thanks for sharing bro. i will try out the kegel exercise as suggested. any idea how long it would be to see any effect of this exercise ?

[skyver86]

What's your height and weight? Better go see a doctor to do a proper check up. Is your wife pretty? Sometimes we marry nice ladies whom we are not sexually attractive to. Don't masterbate so often because your wife will never be as tight as your five fingers.

Come, let me help you distress with a suitable song. Just have a laugh and slowly solve the problem.

https://youtu.be/0qOHckga2dA

hahaha. thanks for the video bro. my wife and i are both bui buis. while beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, she is still pretty and sexy to me when she dress up. might want to buy some sexy dresses for her to enhance her sexual attraction.

[iampig]

Thanks for sharing bro. i will try out the kegel exercise as suggested. any idea how long it would be to see any effect of this exercise ?

Other than the kegel exericse, there are many different factors at play like the "dont use hand to masturabate" or the "don't masturabate to fetish", so it is hard to pinpoint which factors affect the most.

[skyver86]

Other than the kegel exericse, there are many different factors at play like the "dont use hand to masturabate" or the "don't masturabate to fetish", so it is hard to pinpoint which factors affect the most.

will do my best on this. thanks for the advice bro!

[Xgenre]

possible to share with me the link for the Qigong master please ? would like to try every means to have good sex life moving on.

https://www.samsforum.com/showthread.php?t=888063&highlight=

Good luck and speedy recovery. Both you and your wife are bui bui? Good to measure your blood pressure, cholesterol and blood sugar level.

Some of us will want to know... when you pee, you can see your kuku jiao or not? :D:p

[skyver86]

Erm, me too having some issues. Not taking any pills, just sometimes need some stimulation to feel shiok again and continue the course.

Think alot of bros here actually provided good suggestion- stop dfk and exercise!
but no dfk need to find lobang liao. i hear my wallet crying :(

sorry bro, what is dfk ?

[skyver86]

https://www.samsforum.com/showthread.php?t=888063&highlight=

Good luck and speedy recovery. Both you and your wife are bui bui? Good to measure your blood pressure, cholesterol and blood sugar level.

Some of us will want to know... when you pee, you can see your kuku jiao or not? :D:p

of coz can see my kkj when i pee bro. lol!

yes we did measure. my blood pressure is slightly high, around 136 / 80. wife's is normal from what was told during her last check up.

[brucelim1976]

Dude when you masterbating please stand up and not laying on the bed .. because when you fuck your wife you stand up or half knee and that’s use a lot of leg energy and initially bring all energy down and affect your cock stand.

[Punpipi69]

sorry bro, what is dfk ?
Typo, should be dfk (da fei kei) or dfj (da fei ji), means masturbate lo

[peeboy75]

Typo, should be dfk (da fei kei) or dfj (da fei ji), means masturbate lo

Don't anyhow use acronym la... Everyone knows dfk is deep French kissing.. How the fuck did it turn to masturbation...

[skyver86]

Dude when you masterbating please stand up and not laying on the bed .. because when you fuck your wife you stand up or half knee and that’s use a lot of leg energy and initially bring all energy down and affect your cock stand.

sounds legit. thanks for the suggestion bro!

[skyver86]

Don't anyhow use acronym la... Everyone knows dfk is deep French kissing.. How the fuck did it turn to masturbation...

chill chill. guess we just have to interchange the words based on the context then. cheers!

[skyver86]

My urologist had suggested to increase the dosage of blue pills that i am taking and mentioned there will be no side effects. i'm rather skeptical on this. any bros had any past experience on this ?

[xylphz]

My urologist had suggested to increase the dosage of blue pills that i am taking and mentioned there will be no side effects. i'm rather skeptical on this. any bros had any past experience on this ?

I'm skeptical also, does any bros here tried non-doctor prescribed kamagra jelly when u going to bonk ? What's the side effects ? Will it cause drug dependancy in the long run etc ?

[peeboy75]

Bro, I'm skeptical because I had tried taking a full pill of 50mg and it didn't work. My heart rate increases after taking it. Kind of worried what will happened if I take 1.5 pills or even 2.

Hi Bro, if u check info in the Web, max allowable dose is 100mg. If u are having fast HR because of it u should let your doc know to maybe recommend other med.. There's still cialis and levitra, the latter supposedly being newer generation and causes less side effects

[skyver86]

Hi Bro, if u check info in the Web, max allowable dose is 100mg. If u are having fast HR because of it u should let your doc know to maybe recommend other med.. There's still cialis and levitra, the latter supposedly being newer generation and causes less side effects

Thanks for the information bro. will probably want to try out other meds. Hopefully one of it works for me.

[Awaha]

Last year I lost 10kg from 125kg to 114kg. Yeah I'm way overweight.... after dropping that weight by exercising my blood flow was better , pp got longer from reduce groin fat and more exposed pp makes it more sensitive.
The massage girl I was seeing for a few years said my performance and lasting power is much better, and I guarantee to come instead of needing hj to finish. This is from using 50mg of blue pill.

Then I got COVID. Fuck... gained weight since then back to 120kg. Can feel pp is shorter again and I get tired quickly. Worst part is COVID dick.... first session with her was limp dick even with pill. Next session was can't come... even when she spread leg rubbing pussy asking me to come on her face.... no bullet fired.
Last session I used Cobra120 pill and was hard but also difficult to fire at end. She was pissed at me because I went way overtime to cut.

Bottom line.... loose weight and get some cardio and weight training

[Awaha]

Oh... also currently experimenting using cock ring.
Will report back tomorrow after my session with a horny Thai SYT of how effective it is

[wbtym]

My urologist had suggested to increase the dosage of blue pills that i am taking and mentioned there will be no side effects. i'm rather skeptical on this. any bros had any past experience on this ?
1 pill max daily.
Now got other options like Cialis aka Tadalafil that works better than blue pill.

[wbtym]

Last year I lost 10kg from 125kg to 114kg. Yeah I'm way overweight.... after dropping that weight by exercising my blood flow was better , pp got longer from reduce groin fat and more exposed pp makes it more sensitive.
The massage girl I was seeing for a few years said my performance and lasting power is much better, and I guarantee to come instead of needing hj to finish. This is from using 50mg of blue pill.

Then I got COVID. Fuck... gained weight since then back to 120kg. Can feel pp is shorter again and I get tired quickly. Worst part is COVID dick.... first session with her was limp dick even with pill. Next session was can't come... even when she spread leg rubbing pussy asking me to come on her face.... no bullet fired.
Last session I used Cobra120 pill and was hard but also difficult to fire at end. She was pissed at me because I went way overtime to cut.

Bottom line.... loose weight and get some cardio and weight training

What is cobra120??

[Awaha]

What is cobra120??

Generic brand of the blue pill... but at 120mg dose

[DoctorTan]

Medicines used to treat ED are called PDE5I - Phospho-Diesterase 5 Inhibitors
There are only 4 types out there.
No matter what brand you buy, it contains one (or more) of these 4 molecules.
Many "supplements" out there that claim to be "natural" or "herbal" or "organic" also contain these molecules.
Please look at the ingredients list (if there is one) to know what you are taking.
Please check with your Doctor before taking such medicines.

1. Sildenafil
Original Name: Viagra
Generics: Kamagra, Sildegra etc
Recommended max daily dose: 100mg
Special note: This medicine is also used to treat a rare disease called pulmonary hypertension. And also taken by mountain climbers for altitude sickness.

2. Tadalafil
Original Name: Cialis
Generics: Caliberi, Tadafil etc
Recommended max daily dose: 20mg
Special note: This medicine is also given at 5mg daily to treat symptoms arising from enlarged prostate gland

3. Vardenafil
Original Name: Levitra
Generics: None that I know of
Recommended max daily dose: 20mg

4. Avanafil
Original Name: Spedra
Generics: None that I know of
Recommended max daily dose: 200mg

Common side effects: Flushed face, Headache, Increase heart rate, Blue vision, Muscle aches, Acid reflux, Gastritis

If you are on a class of medicines called NITRATES used commonly for heart disease you MUST NOT take PDE5Is

It is possible to take more than the recommended max daily dose. But do not do this without your Doctor's advice.

Other treatments for ED include:
ESWT
Penile Injections - PRP, Alprostadil
Penile Implants

More importantly, Doctors will treat the other factors that may be contributing to the ED. These include:
1. Getting back to a healthy weight
2. Losing body fat
3. Diagnosing and controlling chronic diseases like high blood pressure, high cholesterol and diabetes
4. Diagnosing and fixing low testosterone, high estrogen, low human growth hormone and other hormonal imbalances
5. Diagnosing and treating enlarged prostate, inflamed prostate and other prostate problems
6. Diagnosing and treating an overly tight or overly loose pelvic floor
7. etc

Phew

[pongster]

could it be sometimes a physiological issue?

[sgjoey]

Medicines used to treat ED are called PDE5I - Phospho-Diesterase 5 Inhibitors
There are only 4 types out there.
No matter what brand you buy, it contains one (or more) of these 4 molecules.
....
Vardenafil
Original name: Levitra
Generics: None that I know of
Recommended max daily dose: 20mg
...



Vardenafil marketed as a generic is not uncommon, and are in fact available in different dosages. A common brand is Vilitra, but there are others as well.

[lt0l0tl]

Jus back from overseas trip.. letting go some surplus generic viagra and Cialis… :)

pm for more info.

[StupidCharsiew]

Hi guys, i think i am in a serious need of help at the moment.

my wife and I are in the midst of family planning when i realized that i could not hold my erection long enough for penetration. I mean i can get erected when my wife helped me to bj or hj. but once i get up from the bed only, it starts to soften. I dont have this problem when masturbating. have tried to go for jg regularly, exercising and taking half of the blue pill, but it still don't really help. i am not sure if it is due to the length of the foreplay with my wife or the problem lies with me. This problem has been bothering me ever since and i felt very depressed about it. so much so that i dont ask for sex from my wife any more and would prefer to masturbate on my own instead. Just wonder if someone could help me on this please? Thanks in advance.Don't masturbate. Maybe you're stressed at work? Try to eat more fruits and vegetables and don't stress too much. Can also try tongkatali. If really can't work then go see doctor.

[skyver86]

Don't masturbate. Maybe you're stressed at work? Try to eat more fruits and vegetables and don't stress too much. Can also try tongkatali. If really can't work then go see doctor.

Any recommendations for tongkat Ali bro?

[skyver86]

Jus back from overseas trip.. letting go some surplus generic viagra and Cialis… :)

pm for more info.

I still have balance blue pills to try out. Thanks for the offer bro.

[skyver86]

Medicines used to treat ED are called PDE5I - Phospho-Diesterase 5 Inhibitors
There are only 4 types out there.
No matter what brand you buy, it contains one (or more) of these 4 molecules.
Many "supplements" out there that claim to be "natural" or "herbal" or "organic" also contain these molecules.
Please look at the ingredients list (if there is one) to know what you are taking.
Please check with your Doctor before taking such medicines.

1. Sildenafil
Original Name: Viagra
Generics: Kamagra, Sildegra etc
Recommended max daily dose: 100mg
Special note: This medicine is also used to treat a rare disease called pulmonary hypertension. And also taken by mountain climbers for altitude sickness.

2. Tadalafil
Original Name: Cialis
Generics: Caliberi, Tadafil etc
Recommended max daily dose: 20mg
Special note: This medicine is also given at 5mg daily to treat symptoms arising from enlarged prostate gland

3. Vardenafil
Original Name: Levitra
Generics: None that I know of
Recommended max daily dose: 20mg

4. Avanafil
Original Name: Spedra
Generics: None that I know of
Recommended max daily dose: 200mg

Common side effects: Flushed face, Headache, Increase heart rate, Blue vision, Muscle aches, Acid reflux, Gastritis

If you are on a class of medicines called NITRATES used commonly for heart disease you MUST NOT take PDE5Is

It is possible to take more than the recommended max daily dose. But do not do this without your Doctor's advice.

Other treatments for ED include:
ESWT
Penile Injections - PRP, Alprostadil
Penile Implants

More importantly, Doctors will treat the other factors that may be contributing to the ED. These include:
1. Getting back to a healthy weight
2. Losing body fat
3. Diagnosing and controlling chronic diseases like high blood pressure, high cholesterol and diabetes
4. Diagnosing and fixing low testosterone, high estrogen, low human growth hormone and other hormonal imbalances
5. Diagnosing and treating enlarged prostate, inflamed prostate and other prostate problems
6. Diagnosing and treating an overly tight or overly loose pelvic floor
7. etc

Phew

Thanks for the detailed explanation bro. Much appreciated. I just got a job change and see specialist at the moment. Hope it helps. Keeping my fingers crossed on this. I'm also starting to go for work outs to lose some weight. All for a good penetration and achieve a happy ending. :)

[StupidCharsiew]

Any recommendations for tongkat Ali bro?Hypermart unFairprice got sell tongkatali in pill form. I also saw those chinese medicine shops sell the actual one.

[lt0l0tl]

Thanks for the detailed explanation bro. Much appreciated. I just got a job change and see specialist at the moment. Hope it helps. Keeping my fingers crossed on this. I'm also starting to go for work outs to lose some weight. All for a good penetration and achieve a happy ending. :)

New jobs… can claim medical for ED medicine or not? :p

[sgjoey]

Any recommendations for tongkat Ali bro?

SOLARAY Tongkat Ali - but don't buy at Shopee. Get it at iHerb which is selling at less than half the price.

[desmond_lee]

i have this issue also, if PCC no issue hard as rod, but when fucking at geylang, without 1/2 a blue pill can't get it errect for long, dun know its a mental issue or what.

[Veliant]

i have this issue also, if PCC no issue hard as rod, but when fucking at geylang, without 1/2 a blue pill can't get it errect for long, dun know its a mental issue or what.

Bro, could be mental issue. you try take a break from PCC see if it helps? I stopped PCC and it got better for me. Depends on what you look/imagine while PCC also.

[desmond_lee]

Bro, could be mental issue. you try take a break from PCC see if it helps? I stopped PCC and it got better for me. Depends on what you look/imagine while PCC also.

yes i think likely is a mental issue, coz i find my most familiar regular with the best service everytime with her sure have a hell of the time one.

but i got this going in my mind "without pill i can't get hard this time" thinking, can't brush it away. then as it turns out, within 20-30secs, turn soft liao. :(

[thorium]

Relax. Enjoy it. The more you worry about turning soft, the faster you turn soft.

Drink less coffee, tea and alcohol. Take zinc (you need it to make testosterone). Hydrate. Exercise. Make out before a meal and not after a heavy meal.

[Veliant]

Exactly what bro thorium said, you should enjoy the moment instead of worrying about going soft. Now I try to get myself to focus on what is happening at the present moment rather than my own thoughts. Like the saying goes "the more you think about something, the more likely it is gonna happen"

[Charlietan]

Anyone tried double coconut? Does it work?

[skyver86]

SOLARAY Tongkat Ali - but don't buy at Shopee. Get it at iHerb which is selling at less than half the price.

Thank for the recommendation bro. will definitely buy it to try when the stocks are available.

[hoiseeker]

i faced same problem. my cure although not 100% yet, close to getting 100% back, its really mental, i stopped porn and got myself to enjoy the normal sex with my partner of course i rest up also.

in summary
- mental. stop porn and fetish, start doing more with partner and mentally enjoy the sex tell yourself oh yes you want to give her one time good one

- rest alot

[Jornada2001]

Anyone have delayed ejaculation problem?

[Xgenre]

Anyone have delayed ejaculation problem?

Better you start a new thread. This is a different problem. The opposite of this thread. You cannot cum or takes a long time to shoot. If it is a long time to shoot, it is still ok if you find the right partner. Some girls will love you because they can enjoy the woman on top position for as long as they like

[chuckycheese84]

i faced same problem. my cure although not 100% yet, close to getting 100% back, its really mental, i stopped porn and got myself to enjoy the normal sex with my partner of course i rest up also.

in summary
- mental. stop porn and fetish, start doing more with partner and mentally enjoy the sex tell yourself oh yes you want to give her one time good one

- rest alot

stop porn ? i think i should try see alot of this advice going round

[gabrielboey]

i have a weak penis

[chuckycheese84]

i have a weak penis

i am sure you do

[gabrielboey]

i am sure you do

how can i improve ?

[essray]

I found the post in the reddit quite useful : https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/1mx379/how_i_fixed_my_mild_ed_and_finally_made_sex_with/

To quote from it :

So here's what I did to fix this problem:
1.
I stopped masturbating with my hand. It just isn't the right sensation, and in my opinion it's just a totally lazy way to get off. When I used to masturbate, I would just sit in my computer chair and jerk my hand up and down at a pace that I could NEVER match with actual bodily thrusts during sex. Sex is far more physically engaging. You have to hold yourself up. You have to thrust your hips. I wanted to simulate actual sex without having to worry about anxiety issues that may come with a girl in the room, so what I did was buy a Fleshlight. I made sure to NEVER hold the Fleshlight in my hand and move it over my penis like I used to do with my hand while masturbating. Instead, I stuck it between my boxspring and mattress so that it remained stationary, and fucked it like I would have to fuck a girl. I started using the Fleshlight without a condom, but as my erection strength improved I began to use condoms every time.

2.
I stopped watching porn entirely. Simply put, if you're used to threesomes and double anal with porn stars, plain old missionary sex with a "normal" girl probably isn't going to be all that stimulating. The only visual stimulation that I allowed myself during my sessions with the Fleshlight were PICTURES OF GIRLS THAT I HAD ALREADY HOOKED UP WITH or GIRLS THAT I HAD A LEGITIMATE CHANCE OF HOOKING UP WITH. I wanted to make an effort to stop going to a mental fantasy land every time I got off, because I wouldn't be able to go there during real sex. Realistic mental and visual stimulation only.

3.
I started doing Kegel exercises. They work and I swear by them. The problem that a lot of people have with Kegels is finding a routine and sticking with it. What I did was buy a mobile app called Prostate Aerobics ($2.99). I set two alarms per day and did them 6 days per week (Sunday off). I started at level 1 and let it automatically bump me up to level 9 over the course of ~6 weeks. After I had done level 9 twice a day for a week or so, I started setting 3 alarms per day (still with one off day per week). It starts out easy but actually gets pretty difficult. One session of level 9 is over 10 minutes long. My erections got stronger and I was able to maintain them much easier. Morning wood was stronger than ever. Random boners during the day came back. I seriously cannot recommend Kegels enough.

Think this is one of the best detailed replies for non medicated treatment.

Otherwise anyone here tried VigRD? Heard it is all natural and more powerful?

[sgjoey]

how can i improve ?

Try Tongkat Ali and L-Arginine. Also consider Viagra, Cialis or Levitra. Using the generic versions makes more sense. PM me for more details.

And yes, less frequent masturbation is important, of cos.

[Veliant]

Think this is one of the best detailed replies for non medicated treatment.

Otherwise anyone here tried VigRD? Heard it is all natural and more powerful?

Nope bro, never heard of it.

[essray]

Nope bro, never heard of it.

Sorry typo should be VigRX. Can get from the condom shop at basement of KSL resorts for around RM200.

[Veliant]

Sorry typo should be VigRX. Can get from the condom shop at basement of KSL resorts for around RM200.

Interesting.. it helps to main erection?

[essray]

Interesting.. it helps to main erection?

Supposed to make it better and plus point is totally natural, made from herbs.

[sgjoey]

Supposed to make it better and plus point is totally natural, made from herbs.

A great example of the naturalistic fallacy. Natural is not necessarily better. There are natural poisons too. 😁

[geylangfucker]

Supposed to make it better and plus point is totally natural, made from herbs.

Does it works immediately?

I ever read from a German report and they found there's sildenafil inside. Not exactly natural as they have claimed.

[jeremiahb52]

Does it works immediately?

I ever read from a German report and they found there's sildenafil inside. Not exactly natural as they have claimed.

i actually looking for natural remedy like herbal or some sort dont need to have immediate effect. but i personally believe natural improvements more permanent. not drug dependant.

any recommendations ?

[sammyboyfor]

i actually looking for natural remedy like herbal or some sort dont need to have immediate effect. but i personally believe natural improvements more permanent. not drug dependant.

any recommendations ?

Pills are nothing more than a band aid. EG you have a headache and it goes away if you pop a pain killer but that doesn't fix the cause of the headache all it does is mask the pain.

Similarly erection pills don't fix the cause of erectile dysfunction either.

In order to achieve a cure for ED you need to fix the root cause which could be caused by :

Clogged blood vessels
Hormone deficiency
Depression/anxiety
Nitrate deficiency.

The fix can be very simple... lose weight, exercise more, improve diet etc. All it requires is willpower.

The answers are available all over the internet from reputable websites. Do a search.

[larue]

The fix can be very simple... lose weight, exercise more, improve diet etc. All it requires is willpower.



The call for will power is why most people fail.

Often times better to focus on the positive outcomes that will result and use that as motivation.

Why do smokers fail in quitting so often?

Because they believe it is a matter of will, and the suffering it entails.

And the human mind is very poor at enduring suffering. The first sign of it and the wanna be quitter is at the minimart buying a fresh pack.

[karmasutraa]

The call for will power is why most people fail.

Often times better to focus on the positive outcomes that will result and use that as motivation.

Why do smokers fail in quitting so often?

Because they believe it is a matter of will, and the suffering it entails.

And the human mind is very poor at enduring suffering. The first sign of it and the wanna be quitter is at the minimart buying a fresh pack.

yes. willpower. i damn lazy lol

[chuckycheese84]

how can i improve ?

erm maybe u should fuck around more

[Xgenre]

If you have hypertension, you need to highlight the erectile problem with your doctor. They can change to another type of medicine. Some hypertensive medicine suppress testosterone production. Eat viagra also no use when your body doesn't produce enough male hormones.

[Veliant]

Supposed to make it better and plus point is totally natural, made from herbs.

Hmm, went to research a bit.. I would stick to my blue pill for my issue haha. Doesn't seem to have many credible reports and have to take it over a period of time to see some results.

[kujo86]

eat more oysters ! lol

[tropiccana]

eat more oysters ! lol

+1... this would help too

[sgjoey]

Pills are nothing more than a band aid. EG you have a headache and it goes away if you pop a pain killer but that doesn't fix the cause of the headache all it does is mask the pain.

Similarly erection pills don't fix the cause of erectile dysfunction either.

In order to achieve a cure for ED you need to fix the root cause which could be caused by :

Clogged blood vessels
Hormone deficiency
Depression/anxiety
Nitrate deficiency.T

The fix can be very simple... lose weight, exercise more, improve diet etc. All it requires is willpower.

The answers are available all over the internet from reputable websites. Do a search.

Probably the main root cause is ageing. As we grow older, we tend to produce much less nitric oxide, and our veins tend to be more clogged. Sure, one can try various lifestyle tips to improve, but if in the meanwhile, we wish to continue having good (if not great) sex, the best bet would still be Viagra, Cialis, Levitra or their generic equivalents. These are truly miracle meds with proven track record of prolonging the sexual potency of millions (billions?) of ageing males around the world.

[zenexmaster]

eat more oysters ! lol

alright ! here we go ! oyster buffet! lol

[galgal89]

Probably the main root cause is ageing. As we grow older, we tend to produce much less nitric oxide, and our veins tend to be more clogged. Sure, one can try various lifestyle tips to improve, but if in the meanwhile, we wish to continue having good (if not great) sex, the best bet would still be Viagra, Cialis, Levitra or their generic equivalents. These are truly miracle meds with proven track record of prolonging the sexual potency of millions (billions?) of ageing males around the world.

any side effects from doubling the dose? regular dose might not affect much

[acewinger]

Dude when you masterbating please stand up and not laying on the bed .. because when you fuck your wife you stand up or half knee and that’s use a lot of leg energy and initially bring all energy down and affect your cock stand.

sounds likes logic hahaha...will try to stand next time when dfj

[slickdick87]

Where to get viagra or viagra likecproducts? I dont hv ED. Ive tried viagralike products like kopi songkok, caverflo coffee, hunter honey, haner candy, solocco chocolate, kopikingz, xtreme candy, vitanix they seem to boost my erections i suspect the contains tadalafil , sildenafil since it makes my bp low and hr high

[onhamotminh]

Where to get viagra or viagra likecproducts? I dont hv ED. Ive tried viagralike products like kopi songkok, caverflo coffee, hunter honey, haner candy, solocco chocolate, kopikingz, xtreme candy, vitanix they seem to boost my erections i suspect the contains tadalafil , sildenafil since it makes my bp low and hr high

I believe there are plenty of those stuff online.

[eyesofmedusa]

i think healthy lifestyle contributes to better sex performance coz it involves blood circulation and stamina as well ?

[devil_jeff]

I don't exactly have ed but since passing 40s, erection just not as hard as in the past and morning wood also seem to happen less often. Sometime 3 months ago, i saw a video on doing penis pumping twice daily at 10 mins per session to keep the penis oxygenated more frequently would improve overall erection and decided to try it.

2 months plus now it seem to have improved my hardness quite significantly and there seem to be some girth gain too. And surprisingly morning wood came back more often. Need to empasize though that i exercise frequently and perhaps that's also how it improve back faster.

I can't say for it'll work for everyone but perhaps just another try before going on bluepills for long terms.

[devil_jeff]

I don't exactly have ed but since passing 40s, erection just not as hard as in the past and morning wood also seem to happen less often. Sometime 3 months ago, i saw a video on doing penis pumping twice daily at 10 mins per session to keep the penis oxygenated more frequently would improve overall erection and decided to try it.

2 months plus now it seem to have improved my hardness quite significantly and there seem to be some girth gain too. And surprisingly morning wood came back more often. Need to empasize though that i exercise frequently and perhaps that's also how it improve back faster.

I can't say for it'll work for everyone but perhaps just another try before going on bluepills for long terms.

The link for the video. Sorry bros who doesn't understand chinese

*https://youtu.be/_Veg7Hx1GvA*

[KinksHunter]

Wah, I totally feel you man.
Respect for sharing your concern, really.
A lot of guys go through these kind of hiccups, and trust me, it can mess with your mood and self-esteem big time.

First thing's first, good job for trying out stuff like exercising, and even that half-blue pill.
You're exploring all the avenues, and that's commendable.

Now, let's talk about the mental game. Your mind can play tricks on you, like stress, anxiety, and overthinking can really play a number on your performance.
And that scenario you described – getting ready during foreplay but losing it after...
Could be a mix of both physical and "head" stuff, if you catch my drift.

You brought up that flying solo doesn't give you issues, which could point to the problem being more up in the noggin than down there.
Sometimes, we put so much pressure on ourselves to be top-notch, it messes with the whole show.
Open up to your partner, talk it out, and you might find that support goes a long way.

Props to you for keeping up with the usual exercise routine, but remember, this kind of thing might need some time to show results. Stay consistent, man.

If things still not picking up, maybe consider having a heart-to-heart with a pro. A doctor or a sex therapist could give you insights tailored just for you.

Hang in there, don't let this one thing affect you, hoping you'll be back on your bed game soon!