Please help me I got a problem here...:(

[hornymen85]

ok i just wanna make this clear and short...im actually not so new in cheonging la...got quite alot of times already...but i wonder why everytime before i go find girl...i will feel damn nervous, until my heart rate beat very fast...then i will like feel pengsan...i got no performance at all...everytime those gal help me HJ awhile only then i cum liao!! got few times laugh by them! :( what happen to me!! i keep wasting money by no doing anything wif them...just simply HJ then i cum liao...got anyone same problem wif me???

[alvinchan7]

ok i just wanna make this clear and short...im actually not so new in cheonging la...got quite alot of times already...but i wonder why everytime before i go find girl...i will feel damn nervous, until my heart rate beat very fast...then i will like feel pengsan...i got no performance at all...everytime those gal help me HJ awhile only then i cum liao!! got few times laugh by them! :( what happen to me!! i keep wasting money by no doing anything wif them...just simply HJ then i cum liao...got anyone same problem wif me???

My advise to you ... dun waste your money. Save up your money and train yourself from getting too nervous...

First sign of inexperience from new cheongsters are that they are shy or paiseh to the WL ...

Tell yourself, if you are really going to be a real cheongsters... you must have balls and guts ... without balls and guts... you're just a frighten little child... grown up, be more confident in yourself... go cheong... dun have to feel shy or paiseh...

Once you master the courage, balls, guts... then try again... when you're not nervious then you will perform well and not waste your money.

Alvin

[parade19XX]

Let me explain it to u, ur situation is a typical medical condition called ' premature ejaculation' . It's meant the person who got it will normally ejaculate b4 normal sexual intercourse or very soon after sexual intercourse started.

If u r not new in sex, and u still facing this problem. Then my advise to u is to get help from Specialist doc. Solve this problem will make sure in ur future life get better quality sex life.

P.M me if u want futher more info, u can come to my clinic and I can write u letter to specialist

[eric_tan76]

My advise to you ... dun waste your money. Save up your money and train yourself from getting too nervous...

First sign of inexperience from new cheongsters are that they are shy or paiseh to the WL ...

Tell yourself, if you are really going to be a real cheongsters... you must have balls and guts ... without balls and guts... you're just a frighten little child... grown up, be more confident in yourself... go cheong... dun have to feel shy or paiseh...

Once you master the courage, balls, guts... then try again... when you're not nervious then you will perform well and not waste your money.

Alvin


yeah... totally agree with u. but this balls and guts also have to be trained. without any intensive training, the courage wont be there also.:o

[6" boy]

Practise make prefect. Everything is inside your head or in sceintific terms - PSYCHOLOGY.

You already feel nervous the moment you strip naked. It is a good sign that you have this kind of reaction... thats show you small brother is performing.

Go home, watch more DVD and PCC at home. Practise at home first. Use soap, lime juice, sand paper as aid and it will help you stay longer :D

Tha's how I get my 6" :D

[Benson Cheng]

Dear Bros,

Sometimes it is the Condom that you wear. If it is too tight, it will not make you stand or eject. I have that experiences. Use extra thin Condom, you will free like you fuck without wearing a condom at all. HJ is without Condom that why you can eject.
Try difference types of CD until one types is suitable for you. Bring your own whenever you go. Normally the girl only supply the cheap type and not to your typical sizes. It might not be your problem.
Take a try

Benson

[saxamani]

I have this experience that if I am hungry, my brother don't want to wake up even the gal do HJ for me. Is this normal?

[KouChiu]

I have this experience that if I am hungry, my brother don't want to wake up even the gal do HJ for me. Is this normal?

Could it be the gal look like your young daughter?
OR possibly look like a parent
OR she damn disgusting... maybe smell?

[KouChiu]

Practise make prefect. Everything is inside your head or in sceintific terms - PSYCHOLOGY.

You already feel nervous the moment you strip naked. It is a good sign that you have this kind of reaction... thats show you small brother is performing.

Go home, watch more DVD and PCC at home. Practise at home first. Use soap, lime juice, sand paper as aid and it will help you stay longer :D

Tha's how I get my 6" :D

Practise makes perfect!
But how you practise with lime juice and sand paper?
You drink lime juice can delay effect?
And sand paper...? :confused:

[saxamani]

I am asking if I am hungry, does it affect?

[alvinchan7]

Since the topic of nervous and "Fast Shot" ...a.k.a premature ejaculation... arises... I want to share a couple of experiences I have myself... it's up to individual .. I guess...

There are couple of experiences when I had full bowels with me.. that means that I am about to have stomachache or urinate...but I have to hold it becos of all the enjoyment I am getting ... so while bonging or being serviced... it takes longer for me to ejaculate ...:D... I guess it has to do with the blood pressure or my mind getting too busy by re-directing me from feeling pain and pleasure at the same time... it's Odd ... but it true...:D

Normally... that kind of experiences I had is when I go SPA where there are plenty of food and drinks to savour while waiting for the gals ...

Anyone has that experience...

Alvin

[KouChiu]

ok i just wanna make this clear and short...im actually not so new in cheonging la...got quite alot of times already...but i wonder why everytime before i go find girl...i will feel damn nervous, until my heart rate beat very fast...then i will like feel pengsan...i got no performance at all...everytime those gal help me HJ awhile only then i cum liao!! got few times laugh by them! :( what happen to me!! i keep wasting money by no doing anything wif them...just simply HJ then i cum liao...got anyone same problem wif me???

Most of the bros here have offered tips that maybe solution - my favour is practise makes perfect.

I have heard of medication and liquid solution - but do you want to risk being dependent/addicted to them? That's why practise makes perfect =1st choice

Since you indicated a racing heart beat. And since woman is something you might have, my suggestion (maybe giving it to you too early - you should try 6" or medical check up first). I suspect you might get a different result if you TFK hand job yourself first, then go for the service... see if your heart still race like horses.

Consider try with a less attractive woman... practise

Good luck, all the best! Looking forward to your FR (Forthcoming Results)

[DO_YOU_BJ]

By looking at your nick, guess you were born in 85?

Anyway, dun feel embarassed....go a few more times but more regularly....soon you will complaining why they HJ me till skin tear skin cannot cum....worse still....cant even marikita! hahahaha

Its alright dude, i remembered many donkey years ago, when i walk into H81, i damn paiseh....like so scared to be seen like that...now....walk in like walking to a provision shop.......

Just like a new car...gotta run in...some take longer that's all dun worry...just go n enjoy

[KouChiu]

I am asking if I am hungry, does it affect?

My misunderstanding. I thought hungry like wolf for woman.

Actual physical hunger has direct effect to libido. Hungry = no energy. Body auto will be less motivated to procreate (steam). Satisfy the hunger, the health and the stress, then hopefully your matter will be resolve?

...above all my humble opinion only. As alvinchan7 puts it, each individual has different 'effect'

[dathinman]

ok i just wanna make this clear and short...im actually not so new in cheonging la...got quite alot of times already...but i wonder why everytime before i go find girl...i will feel damn nervous, until my heart rate beat very fast...then i will like feel pengsan...i got no performance at all...everytime those gal help me HJ awhile only then i cum liao!! got few times laugh by them! :( what happen to me!! i keep wasting money by no doing anything wif them...just simply HJ then i cum liao...got anyone same problem wif me???

Try wanking first before you go. That might let you cum slower next time.

But you still got some anxiety issues. You need to train yourself to be calm. Ask the girl to take it slow. Cuddle a bit. Chat.

If you still can't do it. Then maybe cheonging isn't for you. :D

[mesochong]

if you only respond to HJ, I can only assume you wank a lot..

my advice, stop wanking.. the problem could be that your penis is too used to being stimulated by your hand, that when it comes to actually having sex, it doesnt feel pleasured..

[saxamani]

My misunderstanding. I thought hungry like wolf for woman.

Actual physical hunger has direct effect to libido. Hungry = no energy. Body auto will be less motivated to procreate (steam). Satisfy the hunger, the health and the stress, then hopefully your matter will be resolve?

...above all my humble opinion only. As alvinchan7 puts it, each individual has different 'effect'

So had to eat well, exercise well and relax before going into action. Thanks will take your advice

[singer]

FIRST
its good you get excited ... that's natural

SECOND
its frustrating if you cant finish ... but you are with a hooker ... on the clock ....also natural reaction

good sex is about having fun, (love if possible) taking time, and having fun

MLs or HCs are a convenient alternative.....

go get a girlf friend, she will be very happy you can keep going for a long time...if thats a difficult option, spend time going to a a ML you like and just have fun .... dont put pressure on yourself

LASTLY
put yurself in a position (with ML or GF) where its about giving her a good time rather than just you .... its a real turn on ...believe me

Old Timer

[whoamim]

ok i just wanna make this clear and short...im actually not so new in cheonging la...got quite alot of times already...but i wonder why everytime before i go find girl...i will feel damn nervous, until my heart rate beat very fast...then i will like feel pengsan...i got no performance at all...everytime those gal help me HJ awhile only then i cum liao!! got few times laugh by them! what happen to me!! i keep wasting money by no doing anything wif them...just simply HJ then i cum liao...got anyone same problem wif me???

bro, need more information from u before can help u out.

u new in cheong, is that means u new in sex ? have u even try sex with girl ? How ur performance with ur gf ?

u heart beat very fast, do u have asthma or heart attack or not ? Very danger le if happen in the room while both of u nude. :D:p

OK, i think ur problem is simply "nervous". This my suggestion to overcome ur problem.
1)Look for FL don't go HC, because date FL u can have 2 hour time as long as 1 shoot. :D Before start the action, talk with them, u may spend 30min or so, let urself cool down, until u return to normal heart beat. Then only start ur action. i can recommand u a good FL, if u in JB. ;)
2)Return to fuck the same girl, when u usual to her, i think u can start enjoy ur sex.

if the above 2 doesn't help u, i think u need so "pills".

cheers.

[BigJohnGuy]

bro, need more information from u before can help u out.

u new in cheong, is that means u new in sex ? have u even try sex with girl ? How ur performance with ur gf ?

u heart beat very fast, do u have asthma or heart attack or not ? Very danger le if happen in the room while both of u nude.

OK, i think ur problem is simply "nervous". This my suggestion to overcome ur problem.
1)Look for FL don't go HC, because date FL u can have 2 hour time as long as 1 shoot. :D Before start the action, talk with them, u may spend 30min or so, let urself cool down, until u return to normal heart beat. Then only start ur action. i can recommand u a good FL, if u in JB. ;)
2)Return to fuck the same girl, when u usual to her, i think u can start enjoy ur sex.

if the above 2 doesn't help u, i think u need so "pills".

cheers.

Wahlau eh...you have become sex advisor kah?? Wahahahaha:D

[kiko]

Bro: I think u have to relax, first build up the chemistry with the gal , talk to her, u can talk anything with her, like her hometown , what she like to do in free time. Slowly when both of u feel comfortable with each other, u will not feel so nervous, then action begins.

[KouChiu]

bro, need more information from u before can help u out.

u new in cheong, is that means u new in sex ? have u even try sex with girl ? How ur performance with ur gf ?

u heart beat very fast, do u have asthma or heart attack or not ? Very danger le if happen in the room while both of u nude.

OK, i think ur problem is simply "nervous". This my suggestion to overcome ur problem.
1)Look for FL don't go HC, because date FL u can have 2 hour time as long as 1 shoot. :D Before start the action, talk with them, u may spend 30min or so, let urself cool down, until u return to normal heart beat. Then only start ur action. i can recommand u a good FL, if u in JB. ;)
2)Return to fuck the same girl, when u usual to her, i think u can start enjoy ur sex.

if the above 2 doesn't help u, i think u need so "pills".

cheers.

Got FL to help on this or not? PM please :p :D

[virgil]

Hey man,

Just chill and relax a little. It isn't the end of the world. You are young, right? Born in 85? No problem ... you're just 23.

Man, when I started cheonging I had to see the same girl everytime because if I saw a new girl I would blow my load in 5 seconds ... yes ... just 5 seconds. I was so horny with new girls that by the time I got my clothes off my dick was oversize, red and pumping like my heartbeat. To solve that problem I went cheonging more more more and ... wait for it ... I always wore 2 condom to reduce the feeling ... one over the other. Also, I told the girl her job was to make me cum many times with 2 condom ... they work really hard ... and I cum a lot.

Your problem is reverse ... nervous, crazy heartbeat ... cant perform. Here's my advice:

1. Go cheonging more ... it is the only way to calm the nerves;

2. No wanking ... save it for the girl. You will be more excited with a full load;

3. Ask for HJ specialist. Tell them you love HJ. Tell them you want fuck and HJ. That way, when you need HJ to cum the girl will not think you have a problem ... she will think it is what you want ... so you don't feel like fool;

4. Try to see different girl every time ... maybe spicey and make you cum ... OR always see same girl so she know what you like ... and maybe go 3 some when you get comfortable. More pussy = good cum;

5. Watch sex vdo. Try some different styles ... what makes u horny? Western girl or asian girl. Bondage? Submissive girl? (make me very horny) ... and get that service ...

Dont worry man ... it is just a stage of your life. Enjoy good long cheong and burn some pussy. You just making up for the ones I hardly touched ... hahah

virgil, out!

[Skunk Dal]

your prob is quite same with me when i'm a newbie in cheonging....but not cum during HJ lar... me only can stand 2 or 3 minute in fighting huhu... since you said your are not newbie... maybe you can try some support product like delay spray also i got new product call Bio Asli... this product quite good.. 1 spray can stand around 20 to 30 minute... 2 spray can stand more than 40 minute and so on... once you have more self confident you can try cheonging without this support and surely i think you will improve yourself lor...

[kaiyik]

bro no worries, i think what they said is right, that you're just nervous.. i also quite new to cheonging, and i remember my first cheong i can't get an erection at all!! even until now, whenever i go cheonging, my heart still beats very fast and i will be in the state of "15 16" before i called the OKT..

about ur problem with easy ejaculation with HJ might be because u get too used to TFK, thats y ur didi is very sensitive to the hand motion.. tats wat the WL told me during my 1st cheonging.. coz during the whole session, my bro juz wont stand up no matter how hard the WL try.. and i ejaculate within a min of HJ.. after that session, i feels like i wasted a lot of money and i got some health problem.. but then when i went for my 2nd session with a PRC, my didi juz woke up by himself hahaha.. and then that's how i discover y i cant get an erection during my 1st cheong: 1. i was very tired tat day 2. the WL is not good enuff coz wat oso cannot, kiss cannot , daty cannot, lick nipple oso say geli.. 3. i lost my mood coz i beh song dee even she turn on the porn oso without sound .. hahaha

so bro, my suggestion is that u reduce the amount of ur TFK session, hold ur didi from ejaculate during ur TFK session and go cheong with ur frenz so that u wun feel tat nervous~ juz my 2 cent here..

[subway73]

This may sound strange but it works for some.

sound perverse it may be but eskimo used to hang themselve by the neck to get sexual arousement. (Auto Erotic Asphyxation) Liken in Mike Hutchison case of mishap.

Sound incorporated lover to strangle to get "high" Dun play alone or literally die COCK STANDING.

[ReCaRo79]

Relax yourself and calm yourself down first before you get to the girl.

Have some beer and feel high first and it will prevent you from cumming so fast.

Try not to look at her or her body too much till you get so horny and cum so fast.

[63licks]

Wahlau eh...you have become sex advisor kah?? Wahahahaha:D

I think the word Advisor not suit himleh. He not only talk theory woh. I think he also have lots of practical so maybe give him the pangkat Sex GURU maybe more glamour since he also can recommend prescriptions (intro FL) any comments :)

[ProfessorOokami]

Let me explain it to u, ur situation is a typical medical condition called ' premature ejaculation' . It's meant the person who got it will normally ejaculate b4 normal sexual intercourse or very soon after sexual intercourse started.

If u r not new in sex, and u still facing this problem. Then my advise to u is to get help from Specialist doc. Solve this problem will make sure in ur future life get better quality sex life.

P.M me if u want futher more info, u can come to my clinic and I can write u letter to specialist

No...you are wrong! It is not known as "premature ejaculation"...his syndrome is known as "inhibited male orgasm (also known as retarded ejaculation or ejaculatory incompetence)"

"premature ejaculation" is actually a condition whereby the male gets aroused quickly and ejaculate [cumming] before due time,and some fellas had even ejaculate before taking off their pants:eek:

[KouChiu]

No...you are wrong! It is not known as "premature ejaculation"...his syndrome is known as "inhibited male orgasm (also known as retarded ejaculation or ejaculatory incompetence)" :eek:

Is there a cure? OR any tips to addressing this condition Inhibited Male Orgasm?
And any cure for Premature as well?

[ReCaRo79]

TS mia? gone ?