Cannot Cum

[juayboy79]

Hi Brothers out there

A bit paiseh to ask but i guess have too.

I got this problem of my "little bro" that dun wan to cum.

I have this prob with all FL and gals that i tried. even after 30 mins or the whole session wanna finish, no cum. but still have hard-on

Or worse half way true, it decided to go soft. Any ideas why and any method to force it to cum.
:confused:

[hokkienguy]

Too gan cheong?
Having sex but thinking of ur gf?

[SammyHulk]

If use force not shiok oledi. U sure u didnt tarek? Don hold 2 long leh, over e mark n tats it.Try ask e gal 2 play ur most sensitive spot with position u r most comfortable with n relax enjoy. Mayb u need certain stimulations 2 make u cum? Experiment experiment.

Can u cum during masturbation? If yes, take note how n wer u like it best. Do u prefer stereo sound loud loud or demure heavy panting?

Sex make enjoyable depends on e mood u hav tat moment, e type of gal u prefer bonking, visual n audio preference n e atmosphere u r in.

Hop helps n happy cheonging. Juz my nengzhiamzee.;)

[danielpng]

Actually i faced the same problem as TS..

I have no problems when i pcc.. But when i do the real thing, i take a long time to shoot sometimes can't even shoot must resort to pcc, and i din tarek.. I try to release while doing it, but can't leh..

Then there's once i try to go FL, once i fit on the CD, my bro just go limp.. cant penetrate.. When i don't wear CD with gf, then no problems..

Could it be due to excessive pcc, that is causing delayed ejaculation? I'm still in my early 20s, and i fear this may be a hindering obstacle if i wanna let my wife conceive in the future.. Or am i worrying too much? :o

[pepsilight]

Heh you just need more practise bro~ Guess u r too used to doing it raw with yr GF. Sometimes the mind plays a big part and yr bro simply refuses to perform once u cap it.

:D

[listeneralways]

Dear bros, I too have encountered such experiences as you... ... after much thought and worries, found my prob and resolved now... ... hope the under-mentioned advice will be of help to you... ...

1. Stress level - When I'm too stressed up, encounter such prob... ...

2. Excitement - Being excessively excited can cause bro to suddenly fall asleep

3. Fear - Afraid Wife or GF find out or police dash in(prefer to drive further, pay a bit more and make myself comfortable)

4. Guilt - Towards your other half(we are humans after all, especially if they treat us very well)

5. Too used to service more than being serviced - I realise when I service the gal and listen to her moans, it excites me(hardens)... ... the moment she service me... ... haiz soft... ...

6. Food you eat - maybe more oysters and eggs will help... ...

Just my 2 cents worth of thoughts... ... don't zap me hor... ... counter the above to see if it helps... ... :cool:

[Rw6828]

Only kena become soft doing 1/2 way.
4 my case, it's due to work stress or tired as my gf has good stamina as she dont want me to stop so soon.

[colins]

It means that you're a person who needs to be stimulated mentally for continual arousal. The moment your brain decides that nothing is new anymore, it stops sending blood to your dick.

[mr.zouk]

Maybe you're just too worried about it or too 'hard-working' there.

Relax, enjoy, try to find out which position feels best for you. Make sure you enjoy that position, let your imaginations and your mood flow. Be a bit selfish (do not hurt the lady, of course!).

If you worry abt her feelings while seeking your release: Just make sure she got your due attention before and is sextified already. Like that she'll most probably enjoy whatever you do on your way to the top.

Cheers
mz

[yanz]

Think its generally mental. I suffer from this as well, if the gal isn't that hot, and a dead fish, i can go long till its softens half way. quite embaressing for both parties.

However, if the gal's my kind of looks n bod, i can almost feel the sperm reaching the dickhead upon penetration. Mostly can't last more than 5mins. :p

Lastly, i'm totally into frenching, so if i meet one that's not so into, i'll feel alittle demoralised. Condoms as well, tight condoms makes my dick go soft as soon as its worn. dunno why too. :confused:

[colins]

Ah...that serves as a balance for FL who are dead fish on bed! So better work it up or else suffers from prolonged session.

[avantas]

Hi Man

I used to have something similar to your problem. And it took me a while to figure out what's wrong and I was in my early 20s then.

It's basically all in the head. Stress, repetitiveness, turn off due to paying a professional or simply a desire to want more will affect your ability to cum.

I discovered that I had no problem at all after I dated and fuck a girl that I like. There was even once when I dated a girl that was a 5/10 but the sex was great cos we did lotsa funny stuff like making out in a public park, soft bondage and erotic massages. But when I tried a Pro, I end up with the same situation and the inability to cum on certain ocassions.

If due to some reason you can only fuck a Pro, one suggestion is to reduce the amount of time you spend on porn and PCC. A man needs approximately 3 days of rest to fully recover from a successful cum so ample rest is good too.

Or if you have the budget, hire a FL and do something fanciful like soft bondage or something.

Hope that helps

[juayboy79]

Thank you Bro

Will try to all your suggestions. i thought I'm finished liao. Only one FL managed to make me cum. It feel good.

Thks again bros.

[danielpng]

Thanks for all the advises bros..

Maybe my problem also partly becos i seldom do it with gf.. Mostly petting and finish off with pcc... Then on usual days, i'll just pcc relieve myself..

Then i'm afraid might be due to the excessive pcc, causing my performance to decrease during sex.. and also perhaps i'm too used to my pcc position, if i'm nt in that position, i find it hard to cum.. :o

[colins]

Well at least you're open about it and willing to discuss it, not afraid that it might hurt your pride or something. Its a common problem we all have la.

[goodpartner]

It means that you're a person who needs to be stimulated mentally for continual arousal. The moment your brain decides that nothing is new anymore, it stops sending blood to your dick.

Maybe too much commercial sex for me, I find myself falling into this category too... Need to constantly find reasons to feed my mind while bonking the FL, else the "nothing new" thinking will set in.

E.g. Sometime I've to excite myself thinking... "Wow! I'm fucking an 18yo SYT!" or some other pervert thoughts.

Not a physical pleasure anymore. Sickening right? :(:mad:

[weixiang]

Lastly, i'm totally into frenching, so if i meet one that's not so into, i'll feel alittle demoralised.

wah fuck..! i've something similiar here too..
frenching drives up my adrenaline by quite a mile..
otherwise, sometimes can turn soft, then sian sian liao..

but still find it hard to cum leh..PCC no prob..haizz..

anymore tips..?

[Tony Stark]

Maybe too much commercial sex for me, I find myself falling into this category too... Need to constantly find reasons to feed my mind while bonking the FL, else the "nothing new" thinking will set in.

E.g. Sometime I've to excite myself thinking... "Wow! I'm fucking an 18yo SYT!" or some other pervert thoughts.

Not a physical pleasure anymore. Sickening right? :(:mad:

Haha bro you're right on when you said too much of commercial sex will lead one to become aroused only via "mental" thoughts. This is very dangerous as we'll become more and more perverted to get the "high".

I get more excited when I'm fondling a Viet girl's 36C boobs in a pub. Get the kick because of the humiliation factor when the girl is brushing your hands off and feeling shy. :p

[colins]

Maybe too much commercial sex for me, I find myself falling into this category too... Need to constantly find reasons to feed my mind while bonking the FL, else the "nothing new" thinking will set in.

E.g. Sometime I've to excite myself thinking... "Wow! I'm fucking an 18yo SYT!" or some other pervert thoughts.

Not a physical pleasure anymore. Sickening right? :(:mad:

Dunnoe man, a lot of stuff that used to be pervert when I was young is now no longer seen as pervert. For me, once the girl do a cowgirl with her back facing me and leans forward for the butt shake, no need to have any pervert thoughts liao, can cum in 2 minutes. My ex always do that as a finale and I never have to find any other forms of commercial sex.

But I like surprises during sex la, if very mundane and dead fish bonk, the girl is going to take it to the last minute to earn my dollar.

[goodpartner]

Haha bro you're right on when you said too much of commercial sex will lead one to become aroused only via "mental" thoughts. This is very dangerous as we'll become more and more perverted to get the "high".


Yea... I dare not even mention here what kind of pervert thoughts I need to run through my mind, even if it's purely fantasy and for arousing purposes. :rolleyes:

Okie, just to make a point; er... one of the thought is to imagine that I'm raping a girl...:o

So Mr. Iron Man, you got any solution or new inventions for someone like me who's jaded by commerical sex? :D

Mind and heart definitely got something to do with my problem, as when I'm making love with my gf, I get aroused easily with some sweet or dirty talks, or by some frenching.

Tell me I'm normal please :p

[goodpartner]

For me, once the girl do a cowgirl with her back facing me and leans forward for the butt shake, no need to have any pervert thoughts liao, can cum in 2 minutes.

Ya, was once lidat too, but being there and done that many times liao, now got too many of the same T-shirts.... running out of "high" ideas. Having sex in public or "dangerous" places still excite me, but hard to get FL/whores out to those places.

KNN, like taking drugs... need stronger and stronger dosage to get high :p :(

[colins]

Ya, was once lidat too, but being there and done that many times liao, now got too many of the same T-shirts.... running out of "high" ideas. Having sex in public or "dangerous" places still excite me, but hard to get FL/whores out to those places.

KNN, like taking drugs... need stronger and stronger dosage to get high :p :(

For 4 years and I am still like that. But then I never go for commercial sex anymore and has been depending on FB and ex-gfs. One thing about them is I always get surprises, maybe they learnt from other partners or their own bf or something. The last session I had was just 2 weeks ago, new FB from HK, just can't stop telling me dirty things until I can't tahan. Dun even need cowgirl. My cousin who was in town during that time was asking me if he could join, and that created lot of fantasy on my brains man.

Guess I very novice with commercial sex, but the few that I've tried totally pissed me off, so bad experience = no urge to try.

[Tony Stark]

Yea... I dare not even mention here what kind of pervert thoughts I need to run through my mind, even if it's purely fantasy and for arousing purposes. :rolleyes:

Okie, just to make a point; er... one of the thought is to imagine that I'm raping a girl...

So Mr. Iron Man, you got any solution or new inventions for someone like me who's jaded by commerical sex? :D

Mind and heart definitely got something to do with my problem, as when I'm making love with my gf, I get aroused easily with some sweet or dirty talks, or by some frenching.

Tell me I'm normal please :p

How about getting some sex dolls?

YouTube - Japanese Sex Doll (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HGfaQCY_bo4)

Best solution I guess is to get a GF or WL to fulfill your sexual fantasies. Or be like me. Continue to rubba rubba in Viet pubs or KTVs to get the "high". Kekeke.

We are still normal lah if not will be running around committing sexual crimes on the streets of Singapore. Haha. :D

[saint82]

talking about going limp after putting on cap..

i do have the same problem also.. i find the caps very tight and uncomfortable..
and i always feels itchy after the cap is removed..

[goodpartner]

How about getting some sex dolls?


Ya, did consider....hehe.
Check this post : http://www.sammyboyforum.com/adult-discussions-about-sex/84135-10-000-sex-doll-custom-made-like-real-girl.html#post2719066

Didn't know that Japan also make such dolls, and cheaper too! USD$6K instead of USD$10K in USA. Also, I think Japan, being an Asian country, will be able to make better asian babes, not to mention Japan quality :rolleyes:

Now we only need 120 bros here instead of 200 to pool $50 each to get and bonk a Fiona X. doll :D

So, is that what you have for the next Stark Industry's latest weapon?

[bobafat]

Last time I had the same problems as TS also. For me, its the same whether its slow love-making with gf or commercial sex.

Then I discovered I masturbate too much by hand. the lil bro too used to the hand. Some people call it the 'death grip syndrome'

now i no longer have these problems after i changed my methods.

hope my post helps

[shuaige84]

I have no problems when i pcc.. But when i do the real thing, i take a long time to shoot sometimes can't even shoot must resort to pcc, and i din tarek.. I try to release while doing it, but can't leh..
Could it be due to excessive pcc, that is causing delayed ejaculation? I'm still in my early 20s, and i fear this may be a hindering obstacle if i wanna let my wife conceive in the future.. Or am i worrying too much? :o

i also face same prob as u. the more i pcc the longer time i take to cum :(

[ekemono]

i also face same prob as u. the more i pcc the longer time i take to cum :(

bro, u must be more fit that me. If i pcc too much, cant even stand mann.

[NewModerator]

TS, try relax and enjoy your session. Don't let the don't cum worry you.

[lblittlebear]

I think it's due to the way you PCC, rather than PCC too much.

During your PCC session, you may have held a tight grip and with constantly very quick rubbing. As a result, you've "trained" your little bro to be too used to this kind of simulation for it to release

Hence, when you go for FL, theirs p***y may not be so tight (as tight as your grip) and you may not go in and out as fast as your PCC, hence your little bro is not aroused to the simulation it is familiar with to cum.

Change the way you PCC - go slower and don't hold it very tight - to be closer to what you would experience with your girls or FLs. You may notice that you may not be able to cum as well. Don't worry, After a short while, your little bro will get used to it and you'll have no problem in cumming.

Then you try with FLs - sure no problem one. This definitely works

Hi Brothers out there

A bit paiseh to ask but i guess have too.

I got this problem of my "little bro" that dun wan to cum.

I have this prob with all FL and gals that i tried. even after 30 mins or the whole session wanna finish, no cum. but still have hard-on

Or worse half way true, it decided to go soft. Any ideas why and any method to force it to cum.
:confused:

[colins]

PCC is all brain-work, it works with stimulation to the brain, regular PCC will cause you to want more stimulation to continue arousal. Its definitely not the way you handle the dick like whether your grip is stronger than the pussy. In reality, no matter how you handle your dick, it will never be the same as sex. I mean how the hell do you ensure that you are handling it as exactly the same as the next cunt that you'll be putting the dick into? Rather than the hand, work on the brain la. List out some fantasies and apply them one by one, return to the first fantasy when you're done with the last.

[goodpartner]

List out some fantasies and apply them one by one, return to the first fantasy when you're done with the last.

Great Idea! That's what sharing is all about :p

Here are some:

1) "Wow, I'm fucking a 18yo SYT now!"
2) Lock both her arms with one hand, and then think of you-know-what :rolleyes:
3) "Fuck U, fug You, fcuk u.... CB lady boss neber raise my salary...."
4) "Finally I got to lay you, my childhood secret admiree..."
5) "Woweee! I'm bonking Fiona X.....!!! :D"

anymore?

[aces68]

Lastly, i'm totally into frenching, so if i meet one that's not so into, i'll feel alittle demoralised. Condoms as well, tight condoms makes my dick go soft as soon as its worn. dunno why too. :confused:

i also need frenching for arousal..:p

[colins]

1) "Wow, I'm fucking a 18yo SYT now!"
2) Lock both her arms with one hand, and then think of you-know-what :rolleyes:
3) "Fuck U, fug You, fcuk u.... CB lady boss neber raise my salary...."
4) "Finally I got to lay you, my childhood secret admiree..."
5) "Woweee! I'm bonking Fiona X.....!!! :D"

anymore?

Damn! You're really on sia!

But usually I need to be turned on by her response rather than to psycho myself. Like 2 ways communication, otherwise I cannot make it. Its like a curse.

The usual thing I'll do, if I ever form a list, sounds like this

1) Take off her blouse halfway, with her arms up (armpit facing me), her blouse or t-shirt will be covering her eyes, proceed to do anything to her
2) Ask "Do you want to fuck me now" again and again while rubbing her cunt with my dick
3) Make her talk about her friends or our friends, start bonking her fast and furious whenever she tries to talk
4) Doggie, rotate between bonking and fingering her clits, stop before she want to cum and make her moves her body so she can cum by herself by desperately grinding your pelvis
5) Make some sounds, usually they will try to match your noise level.

[lxtemp111]

Guess it's important not to overdo anything, including PCC. But, how about overdoing sex? still can cum?

[weixiang]

where's my post..?
:(

[Hagrid]

This is like Tay Ping Hui in the show last night ... erectile dysfunction .... from the show, it seems most times it is psychological ..... . maybe sianz of the wife liao .... am sure if got chiobu, he sure can :)

[Spytheman]

In real life, he has too. BTW he frequent Massage parlour , WL told me

[SpermWhale]

Think its generally mental. I suffer from this as well, if the gal isn't that hot, and a dead fish, i can go long till its softens half way. quite embaressing for both parties.

However, if the gal's my kind of looks n bod, i can almost feel the sperm reaching the dickhead upon penetration. Mostly can't last more than 5mins. :p

Lastly, i'm totally into frenching, so if i meet one that's not so into, i'll feel alittle demoralised. Condoms as well, tight condoms makes my dick go soft as soon as its worn. dunno why too. :confused:

Very true.
The gal's look and body shape plays a very important role.
Some of the condom seems to be lubricated with certain oil or chemical which "may" make your didi becomes soft after a while.

[bugmenot]

In real life, he has too. BTW he frequent Massage parlour , WL told me

OMG!!! :eek:

Wonder which are his FRs...? :D