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shroom
04-02-2022, 03:31 PM
I used to trawl the various dating apps for potential partners be they a gf, fwb or ons. That also includes an infamous one that is generally full of gold diggers.

Generally not a fan of relationships with big age gaps and that also includes where it is just for sex. 5-10 years I can accept but not any more than that.

I stopped using most dating apps as I found either you are dealing with a fake profile, a FL or eventually you find out that there's a reason she is close to my age and still on there.

I sort of clicked with a youngish girl on a certain app, I liked her because she seemed very well read and rather witty as well as she could carry out a decent in both online and in person. I found her on SB back in August and been speaking to her since then as I had to be in US for work commitments. I promised her I would meet her when I returned but what was supposed to be 4 weeks became a near 4 month trip.

She is 22, a hair dresser, her name is Janice, short at 1.5m and petite sized, very fair skinned and looked closer to a girl from a north eastern China province with some Korean in her. I thought she is mixed but she told me both her parents were born and bred in Singapore. Interesting personality as generally soft spoken and mild mannered and yes she had a bf when we started conversing.

We agreed to meet up after all the chatting and phone calls. Yup her bf dropped her off for that meet. We met for coffee and cake then I invited her to go for horse riding. She knew what I was into and was keen to check out if what I told her matches with reality.

We went to the stables. I showed her on a horse but it did not last long as she was scared of the horse as well as falling from the horse. We then went for dinner where she told me of her previous and more recent encounters, many start talking and it does not take long before it turns to sex topics and usually a tell tale sign that it is a horny dirty old man. Her bf came to get her after dinner as I had another meeting after that.

4 days later she sent me a message.

Janice : Hi. You very quiet last few days.
Me : New project and been running around like a headless chicken.
Janice : Sorry the other day I scare of the horse.
Me : No worries.
Janice : You want have dinner with me?
Me : I have several meetings on tonight so doubt could go out for dinner. How about tomorrow evening?
Janice : Can also.
Me : Think of where to eat ok, I will see you tomorrow.

She suggested seafood and her bf dropped her at the restaurant and I had to keep her waiting for over 45 mins as when I arrived I had an important phone call.

Me : Sorry to keep you waiting.
Janice : It is ok, I understand you have many important things to do.
Me : Have you ordered?
Janice : I waiting for you.
Me : Order what you enjoy.
Janice : Crabs okay?
Me : As long as you can finish it.

She ordered quite the assortment and it turns out she could eat a lot. No food was wasted at all as she finished everything including everything I did not want to eat.

After dinner I suggested a walk at a park. She agreed and we drove to the park. While in the car

Janice : This is a nice car.
Me : Thanks. I seldom drive it these days.
Janice : Need dating with me then only drive it?
Me : You enjoy riding in it?
Janice : I never sat in a Mercedes.
Me : I am sure you have ridden in a Mercedes bus or taxi.
Janice : Not same.
Me : It is just a car to me, one that is fun and disposable.
Janice : Do you open the roof often?
Me : Every time I drive it unless it rains.
Janice : Are we doing something after the walk?
Me : What do you want to do?
Janice : Anything you want.
Me : Let’s go for a massage.
Janice : Ok.

We arrived at the park. We began walking and it did not take long for her to be tired and wanted to sit.

Janice : You not tired?
Me : Not at all.
Janice : You keep fit all the time?
Me : Old men like me need to keep fit else many health troubles.
Janice : But you not old.
Me : Old relative to you.

I told her we should not remain stationary or the mosquitoes will be enjoying themselves on us.

I told her to send me her bank account number as I will give her some money later this evening for her time.

We finished the lap and she said she was very tired. I told her we could end the night as I would be going for a long massage and it may be quite late once it is over or she could leave after an hour or two of massage.

We walked to the car.

Janice : I so sweaty you ok I sit in car?
I laughed and told her that would be the next owners problem.
Janice : If my pa or bf for sure they make noise.
Me : Just a car.
Janice : My bf loves his car very much.
Me : Still young I guess.
Janice : My papa also loves his car and does not like us to dirty it.
Me : He must like his car I suppose.
Janice : you don’t love your car?
Me : Nah I have no emotional attachments to a car as after 3 years I replace it.
Janice : Sugarbaby how often you replace?
Me : I never had one so I would not know.
Janice : How many girls you met on the app?
Me : A few.
Janice : Can ask a question?
Me : That depends.
Janice : You got sex with them?
Me : You are the first I met more than once.
Janice : I have few not yet meet already ask sex.
Me : You could view it that they are being honest and upfront of their expectations and requirements.

Then her phone rings. After the conversation she asks if she could end the evening early as her mum had a fall and she needed to get back to tend to her. She asked me to drop her off at a nearby MRT station. She thanked me and said she would call me later.

She did call but I was lost to the skilled touches of a strong Thai ML.

The next 2 days we messaged each other and chatted fairly often. I did not really need her for sex as I have a very regular FWB.

She told me a bit on her sexual history during one of the chats, basically she only done it around 10 times despite being with her bf for 4 years, his parents conservative and did not allow him to bring girls home while she shared a room with her younger sister therefore had to wait for his parents to go somewhere before could do it. I asked her how her bf will feel if she had sex with a sugadaddy. She said he said if it happens then he would be fine with it but did not want her to initiate it.

I asked her if she wanted to meet the next day.

Janice : Where you bringing me?
Me : Somewhere so you can have your 11th time.
Janice : You want it?
Me : Why not?
Janice : Go chalet?
Me : Hotel. I got a free stay at a certain 5* hotel, buffet breakfast and dinner included.
Janice : Must stay overnight?
Me : It is for 2 nights and you better bring your big appetite along to eat on my behalf.
Janice : Sounds nice.
Me : It is okay if you feel not ready for it and I will understand if this is not what you want.
Janice : I want. I meet you at hotel?
Me : Sure but I must be upfront with you that I will not be with you the entire 2 nights as I do need to work.
Janice : I understand.

It was a nice Thursday afternoon when I checked in. She would arrive later in the evening as she had to work.

She messaged me that she had arrived and I met her at the lobby. I invited her for a drink at the bar and then brought her up to the room.

Janice : This is such a beautiful room.
Me : I asked for this one because of the view.
Janice : How come you can get this room for free?
Me : Pre covid I traveled a lot and always stayed at this chain of hotels. Now have points that are expiring so they give me good deals to stay here in exchange for the points.
Janice : Thank you for showing me your world. It is so different from the one I am used to.
Me : I hope you enjoy it.

We then went for dinner, she did not disappoint and definitely knew how to eat monies worth in both quality and quantity. She told me she does go for Japanese buffets at least once or twice per month and she was surprised I not been for one in over 10 years. I told her once one gets to a certain stage in life eating lots of foods does not bring the same level of happiness as it once does and therefore I tend to stick with the ala carte option as I strictly go for quality over quantity. That simply flew over her head and she went for another round.

5 big rounds and an assortment of desserts she was finally done.

I ask her to go for a walk after the meal. I told her her I did not know how she could still move after eating so much. Her bf had been messaging her constantly the entire evening, kept asking her to send photos of what she is doing and as we walked along the beach she switched off her phone and took my arm.

Janice : Will we be walking far?
Me : You need to eat again if we walk far?
Janice giggled : No I don't want tired.
Me : It is good to be physically tired, then can sleep well.
Janice : You walk far no feel tired?
Me : Not at all.
Janice : How about if running?
Me : I run 5k every other day.
Janice : Hey drizzling, we should turn back.
Me : Should have brought umbrellas.

We made it back to the hotel. I told her to feel free to have anything and everything she needed and if she wanted something to eat, she could call for room service as well. She took a bath and then wore the hotel robe. I took a shower and then opened a bottle of whiskey, asked her if she wanted to try, she took a smell of the Yamasaki and said she could not take it. I caught up on the news and did my usual crypto trades. She looked through the various channels on the tv and continued to message with her bf. Then I had a call from US with a girl I have something going on with and it lasted a while.

After the call ended. I sat next to her on the bed. She asked if the call was with my gf. I told her she is not a gf.

Janice : I think you don't need me.
Me : I am not a needy person in general.
Janice : I like the man to need me, makes me feel special.
Me : Want or need?
Janice : Both also must.
I place my hands on her neck.
Janice : Eeeee your hand so cold.
Me : Yup, I need your neck to warm my hands.
Janice : I off aircond for you ba.

I slowly kiss her neck, told her nah is okay. Kissed her neck again, then ran my hand through her hair. She undoes the robe. She was not wearing a bra but wore a panties.

Me : What do we have here, a nice pair of pink nipples.
Janice : You like?
Me : You will find out.

Her boobs were 32B type, her nipples were proportionate to her body and while I found it small relative to the other woman I am FWB with, they were decently sized.

I placed an arm under her thighs and another along her mid back, lifted her up and she went ohhhhh surprised at being lifted up, she was lighter than I thought and I placed her at the centre of the bed.

Me : You comfortable?
She nodded.

I took off my shirt, then sucked on her nipple while squeezing her other boob then ran my other hand all over her body. She was expressive as that happened.

She touched a love bite on my shoulder.

Janice : You got love bite.
Me : Yeah, she could not control herself I suppose.
Janice : Is Singapore girl give it to you?
Me : She is an American.
Janice : How she give till it can have a bump?
Me : Lots of biting and hard sucking.
Janice : Did you give her one as well?
Me : Hahaha no, only JC boys do such things.

My hand began to touch her thighs when she said it was ticklish. She lifted her hips as I pulled her panties down. She had a full bush that was untrimmed and left naturally. She was quite wet, a wet spot appeared on her panties.

She purred lightly as I placed my tongue to her clit. A few strokes up and down, side to side and circularly while my hands roamed her boobs and belly area.

I stood away from her to remove my pants, then immediately put on a condom and grabbed some lube to be by her. I could feel she had tensed up as I touched her boobs and belly.

Janice softly : I scare.

I pretended I did not hear her and sucked on her nipple then down to her belly.

Janice : Your one is big.
Me : Is normal size.
Janice : Bigger than bf's one.
Me : It doesn't matter.
Janice : I scare pain.
Me : You relax when I put in.

I squeeze her thigh between my thigh and then got myself on top of her.

I brought my dick to her clit, rubbed it a few times and then increased the speed of the rubbing before I lowered it further, she shivered slightly as my dick touched the entrance of her pussy. I applied some lube to her pussy though she was very wet.

I then opened up her legs, raised her knees and held her hips as I guided my dick again to her pussy, I purposely let it press against her labia and then onto her other labia.

She arched her back, lifted her neck and closed her eyes as I put 1/4 of my dick into her pussy. She relaxed again and I put most of my dick into her, she moaned and purred as that happened. I kissed her and pressed all my dick into her. She let out a louder moan and longer purr which somewhat reminded me of the noises Japanese girls make in porn that I always found highly annoying.

Janice : You very deep today.
Me : That's normal no?
Janice : Is feel very full, nice but a bit pain.
Me : Just relax.

I start pumping her, slowly but in long deep strokes and she kept moaning and purring away till around 2 minutes when her noises changed to one as if she was choking and gasping, her body warmed up and then her hips began to spasm away. It stopped and then it happened again, this time her her pussy began to clench and then it stopped. Then she began to get warmer, she shut her eyes tightly and tucked her arms tightly to her sides, fist clenched and her face flushed as she began to perspire, this time her pussy clenched multiple times and her hips spasm were much stronger. It was quite a long orgasm.

I squeezed her boobs and said she had a cute reaction to cumming.

Janice : I never feel it before that way. Is very strong.
Me : I see.
Janice : Do all girls get it that way?
Me : I don't know, I haven't done all girls.

I began to pump her and then decided to change positions.

I got her to turn around, I did her in flat doggy aka prone bone position.

Janice : I never tried it like this before.
Me : Really? It is a very normal position.
Janice : You do many girls before?

I ignored her question and kept pumping her and it was not too long before I came to orgasm.

Me : That was good.

I pulled out from her, then laid beside her, placed my arm under her neck and hand on her boob. She changed position to place her head on my shoulder.

Janice : I like this feel.
Me : What feel?
Janice : The feel of being cuddled after sex and the feel that got sex by man.
Me : You not a pedo are you? Sexing with little boys?
Janice : Hehehe.

She fell asleep soon after that.

I slept for a bit but woke up before she did.

Her phone that was on silent kept buzzing away, it was her bf and she did not stir to her phone's vibration.

I did the usual emails, it was an hour later when she woke up.

Janice : Good morning.
Me : Good morning sleepy head.
Janice : I got snore?
Me : I did not notice.
Janice : I never sleep so good before.
Me : Hotel rooms have a way of doing that.
Janice : What we doing today?
Me : What you want to do?
Janice : Anything.
Me : You should relax.

Janice kicked off the blanket, realised she is still fully naked and covered herself again.

I threw her the bathrobe. She put it on and stood up.

Janice : Pain down there.
Me : Probably because you long time never do.
Janice : I think you not suitable for me.
Me : What makes you feel that way?
Janice : Just feel that way.
Me : It is alright if you feel that way.

She went to the bathroom.

She came out dressed up. I asked her if she wanted something to eat. She nodded.

We decided to do room service as the buffet breakfast was over.

We ate in silence, she was busy messaging her bf while me had to catch up on work. After she finished eating, she asked if it was okay if she went home as she did not feel she could continue.

I told her it was up to her.

She packed up and left, I gave her the dinner voucher, asked her to have dinner with someone else. She thanked me, gave me a hug and left.

That evening I saw her and her bf in the queue to get into the restaurant for the buffet. They did not notice me and thankfully so as he did not appear to look all that pleased.

5 days later she messaged me. She asked how was things with me and that she wished she did not go home that evening. I told her we could arrange for another weekend date if she wanted. She agreed then pulled out as she said her bf was unhappy at her meeting me.

That was a month ago.

6 days ago she messaged me, she told me she had split with her bf as he could not accept it any longer that she had been a sugarbaby. She asked me if I wanted to meet up.

We met up for coffee and cake. We spoke on several issues and then she said she would like to try it out again. I told her at this moment I cannot do any commitments as I might be transferred to US in March. She did appear disappointed but we promised to meet up again after the Chinese New Year holidays is over.

avantas
04-02-2022, 04:14 PM
Really nice sharing.

I especially love the part where the girl shared so transparently that she has spoken to the bf on the sex part. It is very similar to the experiences from some of my friends. BGR is completely not sacred anymore to the new generation. Being your gf doesn't even mean exclusivity anymore.

buaitahan
04-02-2022, 04:39 PM
Very nice start TS, do continue soon :)

w4lking
05-02-2022, 04:33 AM
Camping for next update

Masterl23
05-02-2022, 08:04 AM
Nice share, look forward to more updates.

diputs1269
05-02-2022, 09:13 AM
Thanks for sharing real nice experiences here.

Looking forward to your meet up after Chinese New Year holidays, cheers!

syncrossed
05-02-2022, 12:02 PM
Nice start. Camping +1

Roytt8
05-02-2022, 12:14 PM
I stopped using most dating apps as I found either you are dealing with a fake profile, a FL or eventually you find out that there's a reason she is close to my age and still on there.

I sort of clicked with a youngish girl on a certain app, I liked her because she seemed very well read and rather witty as well as she could carry out a decent in both online and in person. I found her on SB back in August and been speaking to her since then as I had to be in US for work commitments. I promised her I would meet her when I returned but what was supposed to be 4 weeks became a near 4 month trip.
e. Thanks alot

Hanster
05-02-2022, 01:34 PM
Good writing!

AmaZulu
05-02-2022, 07:46 PM
Camping gear activated. Please continue. :)

ImBondJBond
05-02-2022, 09:09 PM
Nice story bro. I am not a reader but this one I read till the end :).
I am wondering:
- it seems to be awfully expensive for 1 shot and it is still commercial relationship
- you seem to be a nice guy, what prevents you from dating someone special without paying to her?

Cheers

georgie1994
05-02-2022, 09:54 PM
which of the dating app you using? i do always meet younger girl in sugarbook.live too

georgie1994
05-02-2022, 09:55 PM
Nice story bro. I am not a reader but this one I read till the end :).
I am wondering:
- it seems to be awfully expensive for 1 shot and it is still commercial relationship
- you seem to be a nice guy, what prevents you from dating someone special without paying to her?

Cheers

i also wondering how to lock my heart not to easily fall in love with people

georgie1994
05-02-2022, 09:56 PM
I stopped using most dating apps as I found either you are dealing with a fake profile, a FL or eventually you find out that there's a reason she is close to my age and still on there.

I sort of clicked with a youngish girl on a certain app, I liked her because she seemed very well read and rather witty as well as she could carry out a decent in both online and in person. I found her on SB back in August and been speaking to her since then as I had to be in US for work commitments. I promised her I would meet her when I returned but what was supposed to be 4 weeks became a near 4 month trip.
e. Thanks alot

yes many online, usually easy to determine which one is not a true profile

Lowrain
06-02-2022, 05:40 AM
Nice share TS. Please continue.

otamay
06-02-2022, 08:31 AM
Thanks for sharing your n ice dating sexperience with syt.

Camping here for more juicy updates here.

shroom
06-02-2022, 11:01 AM
Nice story bro. I am not a reader but this one I read till the end :).
I am wondering:
- it seems to be awfully expensive for 1 shot and it is still commercial relationship
- you seem to be a nice guy, what prevents you from dating someone special without paying to her?

Cheers

I am not really looking for anyone right now as next month I am confirmed being sent to US for 6 months, after that 6 months it may become a permanent posting and I have mostly decided that if it is offered then I will definitely take it.

Also kind of have someone in US so just need someone to satisfy my needs and cravings.

Paying = no real commitments and the best type of no strings attached as there usually are no emotional bonds involved.

shroom
06-02-2022, 11:03 AM
Really nice sharing.

I especially love the part where the girl shared so transparently that she has spoken to the bf on the sex part. It is very similar to the experiences from some of my friends. BGR is completely not sacred anymore to the new generation. Being your gf doesn't even mean exclusivity anymore.

We live in different worlds now.

Even in usually socially conservative Singapore the boundaries of what’s acceptable on sex is shifting.

sexcision
06-02-2022, 12:12 PM
We live in different worlds now.

Even in usually socially conservative Singapore the boundaries of what’s acceptable on sex is shifting.

Eh... Living in different world now as in you are in the world of riches and she's 'normal' or she passed away? Obviously you are still here typing away.

masterwizard
06-02-2022, 12:40 PM
super love your story experience. it was a pleasant read

shroom
06-02-2022, 05:13 PM
Eh... Living in different world now as in you are in the world of riches and she's 'normal' or she passed away? Obviously you are still here typing away.


Different world in the sense when I was her age 18 years ago, it was not mainstream to find :-

Young women being sexual with her bf.

Young women being into casual sex.

Now? I believe most girls by 22 would have had it with more than 1 person usually. Back then most 22 year old girls were mostly still virgin and many never even had a bf as too busy trying to graduate at top of class at NUS. :D

huongrang
06-02-2022, 07:25 PM
Different world in the sense when I was her age 18 years ago, it was not mainstream to find :-

Young women being sexual with her bf.

Young women being into casual sex.

Now? I believe most girls by 22 would have had it with more than 1 person usually. Back then most 22 year old girls were mostly still virgin and many never even had a bf as too busy trying to graduate at top of class at NUS. :D

Undergrads used to slog for top results which may land them good jobs. Nowadays they know even outstanding students may lose out to FT in the market :D

shroom
07-02-2022, 02:59 PM
Undergrads used to slog for top results which may land them good jobs. Nowadays they know even outstanding students may lose out to FT in the market :D

The stark reality of being a young person these days.

Back when I was her age even our profs at NUS would tell us better impress him with the best of results or else we could expect to join all the Malaysians that clock in everyday to drive the SBS buses or could become the taxi uncle.

No idea whether the same is said today.

Either way everyone's been shafted with this pro-FT policies and that includes the FTs themselves.

WestGermany1974
07-02-2022, 04:06 PM
The stark reality of being a young person these days.

Back when I was her age even our profs at NUS would tell us better impress him with the best of results or else we could expect to join all the Malaysians that clock in everyday to drive the SBS buses or could become the taxi uncle.

No idea whether the same is said today.

Either way everyone's been shafted with this pro-FT policies and that includes the FTs themselves.

Quote from a pro-FT minister "you against CECA? Then you are racist"
Bloody fucking rotten cheebye

WinterMelonTree
07-02-2022, 05:14 PM
Its a good story, but it felt like its not very worth it.

Money + time + effort + patience to engage with a younger person, all for some mediocre sex.

Exchange that for 2 working ladies and you can get up to all sorts of chaos.

Anonyabc
07-02-2022, 05:59 PM
Its a good story, but it felt like its not very worth it.

Money + time + effort + patience to engage with a younger person, all for some mediocre sex.

Exchange that for 2 working ladies and you can get up to all sorts of chaos.

I guess depends on what one is looking for... If it's about the enjoyment of sex, yeah maybe not worth, but if it is a preference or a checklist checked for a youngling... Why not?

WinterMelonTree
07-02-2022, 07:07 PM
I guess depends on what one is looking for... If it's about the enjoyment of sex, yeah maybe not worth, but if it is a preference or a checklist checked for a youngling... Why not?

True lah, just felt that bro spent all that above and still have to "court" her like that.

Anyway this sugarbaby industry is quite trashed. Either you're paying serious top dollars or the ladies are really..

Just my two cents.

It's like visiting some of the ladies in Dome L. Pay a few hundred bucks yet machiam shooting a nat geo wild documentary, if you know what i mean.

Anonyabc
07-02-2022, 09:47 PM
True lah, just felt that bro spent all that above and still have to "court" her like that.

Anyway this sugarbaby industry is quite trashed. Either you're paying serious top dollars or the ladies are really..

Just my two cents.

It's like visiting some of the ladies in Dome L. Pay a few hundred bucks yet machiam shooting a nat geo wild documentary, if you know what i mean.

Plenty of things in play ba...inflation, cost of living, demand and supply etc.

Nat Geo ah...tiger leopard giraffe deer? Savanna mountain and hills?

WinterMelonTree
08-02-2022, 12:26 PM
Plenty of things in play ba...inflation, cost of living, demand and supply etc.

Nat Geo ah...tiger leopard giraffe deer? Savanna mountain and hills?

More like seals :O

lustyz
08-02-2022, 09:14 PM
I am not really looking for anyone right now as next month I am confirmed being sent to US for 6 months, after that 6 months it may become a permanent posting and I have mostly decided that if it is offered then I will definitely take it.

Also kind of have someone in US so just need someone to satisfy my needs and cravings.

Paying = no real commitments and the best type of no strings attached as there usually are no emotional bonds involved.

Guess you are really living the high life and are the envy of many bros here. I guess it's pretty much demand and supply and how much we value money as opposed to the time/effort spent to get a bonk (be it free or not).

Some will say we can get cheaper better, some will say the money is not an issue. Nonetheless good story, truly inspiring to me.

dluciano
09-02-2022, 06:37 AM
A proverb says that "old pot makes good food", but "new pot boils too!"

LupitaLyn
09-02-2022, 01:17 PM
All about the ‘chemistry’. Money also maybe another factor