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jojojojo1989
20-05-2008, 07:34 PM
i got 2 noe my current gf for about 3 months alredy. in terms of bonking i did her about 10plus times alredy but there's something troubling me.

i noe tat she's not a virgin and i dun really mind but always after sex she would compare the experience I gave her wif tat her ex(an ex commando) gave her. she would say tat her ex can make her cum more than 10 times during each bonk while i oni gave her at most 3 (she did not say this in a critisizing tone) but i still find abit demoralising. furthermore she seems abit expert in this field which make me wonder how many ex she has b4. she can ride me really wildly until my jewel goes sore and she noes quite a lot if positions.this make me seem unable to satisfy her and make me turn to FL who wld make me feel like king.

any kind sammybro out there can advise me wad 2 do? tks

mr.petain
21-05-2008, 05:36 AM
Should be " any ADVICE..".

"Advise" is a verb.

haha
sorry big boss! i stole ur job!
haha:D:D:D

VanHouten
21-05-2008, 10:41 AM
but there's something troubling me.
i noe tat she's not a virgin and i dun really mind but always after sex she would compare the experience I gave her wif tat her ex(an ex commando) gave her. she would say tat her ex can make her cum more than 10 times during each bonk while i oni gave her at most 3 (she did not say this in a critisizing tone) but i still find abit demoralising. furthermore she seems abit expert in this field which make me wonder how many ex shehas b4. she can ride me really wildly until my jewel goes sore and she noes quite a lot if positions.
You must face the reality now. The biggest problem here is your non-virgin gf has wonderful sex with her ex-commando ex-bf.

It seems like you can't forget and this will haunt your mind for your rest of your life. So, my next question do you think a virgin gf will make such comment?

May be you can read my related post here (http://www.sammyboyforum.com/2714018-post8.html). [< - left click]

Thom07
21-05-2008, 01:26 PM
Move on and find someone else if your heart desires. Or pass her to me so that she can train me up?

X_plorer
21-05-2008, 01:44 PM
i got 2 noe my current gf for about 3 months alredy. in terms of bonking i did her about 10plus times alredy but there's something troubling me.

i noe tat she's not a virgin and i dun really mind but always after sex she would compare the experience I gave her wif tat her ex(an ex commando) gave her. she would say tat her ex can make her cum more than 10 times during each bonk while i oni gave her at most 3 (she did not say this in a critisizing tone) but i still find abit demoralising. furthermore she seems abit expert in this field which make me wonder how many ex she has b4. she can ride me really wildly until my jewel goes sore and she noes quite a lot if positions.this make me seem unable to satisfy her and make me turn to FL who wld make me feel like king.

any kind sammybro out there can advise me wad 2 do? tks


Then you ask yourself whether do you like her or not? If yes, then tell her properly that you are her boyfriend not sex partner. You two love each other not because of sex, if she just wants sex, then can change the status of gf to sex partner liao. Then you can go and change a new one already..

Pls up my points...

topcook1
21-05-2008, 02:13 PM
TS tell her not to compare....."ren bi ren qi shi ren"...."Yi shan bi yi shan gao"( There will be someone who is always superior)

Take it or leave it....

aczeta76
21-05-2008, 02:22 PM
i got 2 noe my current gf for about 3 months alredy. in terms of bonking i did her about 10plus times alredy but there's something troubling me.

i noe tat she's not a virgin and i dun really mind but always after sex she would compare the experience I gave her wif tat her ex(an ex commando) gave her. she would say tat her ex can make her cum more than 10 times during each bonk while i oni gave her at most 3 (she did not say this in a critisizing tone) but i still find abit demoralising. furthermore she seems abit expert in this field which make me wonder how many ex she has b4. she can ride me really wildly until my jewel goes sore and she noes quite a lot if positions.this make me seem unable to satisfy her and make me turn to FL who wld make me feel like king.

any kind sammybro out there can advise me wad 2 do? tks

Erhh... u caught me in a bad mood... so pardon moi

If u are so concerned, me OR some other samster can help you deflate her... think we can make her beg us for more (provided stats fits us). Of course then we can tell her that we can make other girls cum till they leg wobbly b'coz they me us gian them..

She, ahem, can only do so much..

hahaha.. disclaimer... seriously, one major O can be better than 20 minor o... if she KPKB... dump her.

aces68
21-05-2008, 04:15 PM
I think you should treat her as FB and enjoy the sex...:p

HunkyHoo
21-05-2008, 04:22 PM
i got 2 noe my current gf for about 3 months alredy. in terms of bonking i did her about 10plus times alredy but there's something troubling me.
any kind sammybro out there can advise me wad 2 do? tks
Jojojojo1989, what she fails to tell u was her ex was probably on the blue pill? U can do the same too. That wud do u justice. Anyway,if she is not satisfied with just 3 from u,i'm quite sure the Bros here can contribute. Hope you are not offended,just want to boost your moral. Like the 3 Musketeers say "All for 1 and 1 for All" Touche ! Cheers Bro jojojojo1989. Any pic to contribute?

bangbangben
21-05-2008, 04:23 PM
Think u should go talk to her, normally a couple would need quite a fair bit of communication to be able to satisfy each other. Maybe u didnt hit her on the right spots hence she is unable to cum as much as before.

From my point of view, you should be grateful that she's tell u these instead of Fking around. :)

lilmei
22-05-2008, 12:15 AM
Think u should go talk to her, normally a couple would need quite a fair bit of communication to be able to satisfy each other. Maybe u didnt hit her on the right spots hence she is unable to cum as much as before.

From my point of view, you should be grateful that she's tell u these instead of Fking around. :)

totally agree.
TS, since u addressed her as gf and not fb or a lucky event, think u got to tell her how u feel abt wat she's doing.
if not, this goes on, the more u mind it, the more u try to prove yourself, likely the worse you'll perform.

hiong kan la, worst cum to worst, downgrade her to fb, get a replacement lor, 10 odd screw already, should be worth le la .. :p

KkeisukeE
22-05-2008, 12:45 AM
Jojo,

Get the book of kamasutra & master every stunts they have in there and impress her if you still want her as your GF. She's probably hinting you to improve on your skills in bed.


Either that or treat her like another FB screw and dispose at your will. But she doesn't seems that bad for you to do this to her. Since you said her tone of speech wasn't critical. Perhaps just a hint for you hope you will do something about it. This is like a very naturally reaction for her. Its like ok take food for example, You have been savoring fine top of the grade food all these years then suddenly one day ask you go eat those larsup oily char kuay tiao will you comment on it? Will you feel unsatisfied? Probably thats how she felt. Hope you get my message. :)

bigguy1980
22-05-2008, 01:06 AM
i got 2 noe my current gf for about 3 months alredy. in terms of bonking i did her about 10plus times alredy but there's something troubling me.

i noe tat she's not a virgin and i dun really mind but always after sex she would compare the experience I gave her wif tat her ex(an ex commando) gave her. she would say tat her ex can make her cum more than 10 times during each bonk while i oni gave her at most 3 (she did not say this in a critisizing tone) but i still find abit demoralising. furthermore she seems abit expert in this field which make me wonder how many ex she has b4. she can ride me really wildly until my jewel goes sore and she noes quite a lot if positions.this make me seem unable to satisfy her and make me turn to FL who wld make me feel like king.

any kind sammybro out there can advise me wad 2 do? tks

Easy, pop a viagra..

devilboy99
22-05-2008, 09:24 AM
Since her X is a commando maybe she likes jungle training or nature outdoor activity... u should maybe let her enjoy the Great Outdoor Sexual Experience. Like have sex in the beach or MacRichie Reservoir... but beware Mas sElamat may be watching u guys performing...

rocky73sg
22-05-2008, 09:42 AM
Hi Bro,

It's very natural for you to think like that because no guy will like to be compared by their gf with her ex (and compare these thingy as well)

Ever talk and tell her how you feel about such comparison that she made. Though she may sound casual in her comparison, but you really won't know what's on her mind?

To be frank, she may even find another guy and ditch you. Your best bet now is to talk to her and trash things out if you cherish this relationship. Tell her how you feel and see if both of you can accomodate one another's feeling.

Without proper communication, sex won't be really sextifying but rather a draggy thing.

All the best for you! 3 Cheers for you!






i got 2 noe my current gf for about 3 months alredy. in terms of bonking i did her about 10plus times alredy but there's something troubling me.

i noe tat she's not a virgin and i dun really mind but always after sex she would compare the experience I gave her wif tat her ex(an ex commando) gave her. she would say tat her ex can make her cum more than 10 times during each bonk while i oni gave her at most 3 (she did not say this in a critisizing tone) but i still find abit demoralising. furthermore she seems abit expert in this field which make me wonder how many ex she has b4. she can ride me really wildly until my jewel goes sore and she noes quite a lot if positions.this make me seem unable to satisfy her and make me turn to FL who wld make me feel like king.

any kind sammybro out there can advise me wad 2 do? tks

nycaloth66
22-05-2008, 10:09 AM
advise is to have a good talk with her, tell her her comparisons is troubling you. IF she wants you to fuck her in someway that can please her more then she shld just tell u instead of comparing u to her ex which is annoying as hell and insensitive of her.

As for her having many guys before since she is experienced, bo bian one lah, if u really mind then dump her and look for a virgin or fresher gal, otherwise just communicate more and enjoy,,:D

My gf now wife oso damm experienced, at first i oso very moody and insecure, but after some heart to heart talk we are closer than before and sex is great:p

hpboy
22-05-2008, 10:10 AM
bro,i think it is gd that ur gf share with u her feeling,rather than she eat behind you. But at the same time,u need to sit down and talk with her,if she place sex in her very top list,and u really cant fulfill,maybe u should consider not to take this relationship too serious.my two cent..

jabar
22-05-2008, 05:18 PM
Your gf love sex n have high sex dr....if you can't sat....she may look for someone lor:rolleyes:
bro, may be you can look for another gf.
just my 2 cents.

nakamara
22-05-2008, 08:50 PM
TS, go buy a red beret...throw in a ranger badge if you want. Wear those during sex.

Just jk! No offence :D



On a more serious note, if I'm in your shoes, I'll feel sibeh demoralised too. I'll probably just initiate a breakup if she goes on and on. BUT...try talking to her about your views first. If she's someone worth being tgt with, she'll understand. :)

pipi486
22-05-2008, 08:58 PM
slowly improve on your skills la, jia you !

Customer
22-05-2008, 09:29 PM
i think there are lot of bro's giving out those advice for you.
here is some from mine,sorry if i repeat it.

watch more japanese porn,learn from them and it wil improve ur skill.(this wil help u alot)
drink bir before u start ur session.
fingering her n make her 'on her way to cum' befor start ur session
practise more n u will be better
mastubate before u start ur session(not recommended,as u wil get tired befor e u start ur session)
lastly maybe should go to Gym to build up ur muscle abit,she will like it more

lastly,watch more japanese porn ! this is definately wil help u alot.learn from it
and use it when u start ur session.practise n practise and u wil be expert.

Steadyman1
22-05-2008, 09:42 PM
Only with mutual understanding and feeling, both parties can be satisfied.
Show her what your best and let her enjoy your best.
Cultivate her to think in your way rather than her way or comparing with other ways.

One apple is always different from another apple.
Look at the bright side :)

geniusme28
23-05-2008, 09:33 AM
"share" your sexperience with her telling her how tight "Miss Tight" is loh

psp1000
23-05-2008, 10:02 AM
if u love her then just try explain to her lor, if u need help, i can help too. Pass to me, then i give her a very lousy bonk, then she will think that you are much more better then me, and will treasure urs bonking more next time liao

jabar
23-05-2008, 03:36 PM
if u love her then just try explain to her lor, if u need help, i can help too. Pass to me, then i give her a very lousy bonk, then she will think that you are much more better then me, and will treasure urs bonking more next time liao

Yo! ppl gf how can you say that:mad:

jojojojo1989
23-05-2008, 06:09 PM
i wil 4get taking her as a serious gf. wil treat her as juz a FB. wil start looking for new targets. but i juz wont let her go becuz she got such a nice body and pretty face that i will pcc when thinking of her. she look very much like those JC volleyball gers. one look and most guys will say man...i wanna bed her tonite(i nt howlian) who knows such a ger some sammy here may haf bonked b4.

jojojojo1989
25-05-2008, 12:01 PM
juz bonked her yesterday afternoon at K81. juz to share with sammies, while pumping her, i imagined her betraying me and so i bonk her wif all my might as if like revenging on her, man this is my first time hearing her stereo, she's loud man..comparable to those PRC FLs' moans. when i was about 2 cum, i pulled out and shoot her all over her body,to think of it, i really made a mess out of her.

anyway, on my way out at the basement carpark, i saw a cage of dirty laundry consisting of used bedsheets and i saw one really disgusting one, full of stains, the lady muz be some squirting queen