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dunkendon
01-11-2021, 09:28 PM
I have never had unprotected vaginal sex. I find it hard to come with a condom on it tends to take away a lot of the feeling I think it's due to me being conditioned to getting off with my hand which is tight compared to a pussy which is looser and so add to that a condom as well and it doesn't seem to be as enjoyable as it should be.

Without a condom will be more joyful?

Fatcharsiew
01-11-2021, 09:42 PM
u have a wife and u nv have unprotected sex?

bluecot
01-11-2021, 09:43 PM
If really need condom, try the sagami or okamoto 001. The warmth is real.

boyboy1001
01-11-2021, 10:34 PM
TS , dont use hand anymore , its bad long term

Get a washable masturbator

NiceNClean
01-11-2021, 11:21 PM
TS , dont use hand anymore , its bad long term

Get a washable masturbator

I second this recommendation. I’ve been praised a lot for my ‘stamina’ by every one of my partners, but it’s really just because I find it hard to cum with a condom on… and just like OP, I blame my right hand and my ‘death grip’. If that’s not enough, I’m also circumcised, which makes my mushroom less sensitive than bros who still have their hood.

You can find plenty of cheap onaholes from China on Shopee and Lazada, but if you have a hundred bucks to spend, the good quality vibrating handheld masturbators really do the trick.

But of course, the best is no condom. Once you go raw, you can never go back 😂

romanx24
01-11-2021, 11:52 PM
I have never had unprotected vaginal sex. I find it hard to come with a condom on it tends to take away a lot of the feeling I think it's due to me being conditioned to getting off with my hand which is tight compared to a pussy which is looser and so add to that a condom as well and it doesn't seem to be as enjoyable as it should be.

Without a condom will be more joyful?

This is a real problem with a lot of younger/middle age folks especially those who been using hand/ fapping since teenage.

Answer is Yes, of course, it should be common sense that sex without condom feels much different than with a condom, just physically different contact/sensations but sex with a condom is not only prefered but also the smart thing if you are doing it with risky person (escorts, FL, ONS, fwb, random sex, anything except for long-term partners or partners who maintain sexual health and don't take risks).

So sex with condom, although less amazing than entering a wet, warm pussy naked, it is not the problem by itself but as you mentioned, the habit of 'hand squeezing' is the problem. And you can train yourself to avoid the unnatural squeezing that becomes needed for orgasm, by using masturbation toys that do not squeeze like a hand, softer and looser, and initially those will be hard to orgasm with, but if you can control your impulses and avoid orgasms until your body will eventually cum using soft masturbation toys, then sex with condoms will also slowly become great and orgasms and sex will be satisfying.

Keep in mind, if you keep squeezing by hand and making yourself trained to cum that way, even sex without a condom may cause issues and inability to cum because real pussy is not squeezing like a hand, it is amazing, wet, warm and cosy, and experienced partner can squeeze the pussy on and off but they can't squeeze like a hand does for long time.

Some girls/women have naturally loose pussy so being able to enjoy in all situations is the best way to enjoy sex, don't throw that ability away by using the hand except maybe rarely once or twice a month if you just can't find a pussy or mouth.

Also try to cum with bjs without hands involved, it also helps train to be able to enjoy and cum without too much rubbing and squeezing like a hand does. Cum into mouths over and over... for me preference for pleasure is in this order:

Sex without condom
next blowjob without condom/cim
next blowjob with condom, her tongue can make it great
next sex with condom
next handjob without condom
next handjob with condom
next DIY handjob least preferred

Prince Devitt
02-11-2021, 11:15 AM
Of course different, no condom the feel is better.

Prince Devitt
02-11-2021, 11:15 AM
TS , dont use hand anymore , its bad long term

Get a washable masturbator

Prince Devitt +51

bigjade
02-11-2021, 09:54 PM
Also try to cum with bjs without hands involved, it also helps train to be able to enjoy and cum without too much rubbing and squeezing like a hand does. Cum into mouths over and over... for me preference for pleasure is in this order:

Sex without condom
next blowjob without condom/cim
next blowjob with condom, her tongue can make it great
next sex with condom
next handjob without condom
next handjob with condom
next DIY handjob least preferred

Never tried handjob with condom. ML insist on this?

romanx24
02-11-2021, 11:21 PM
Never tried handjob with condom. ML insist on this?

you are right, that is rare or never

cutecuteboy
02-11-2021, 11:29 PM
I have never had unprotected vaginal sex. I find it hard to come with a condom on it tends to take away a lot of the feeling I think it's due to me being conditioned to getting off with my hand which is tight compared to a pussy which is looser and so add to that a condom as well and it doesn't seem to be as enjoyable as it should be.

Without a condom will be more joyful?

How come nobody use the old analogy of “if you dig your nose, does it feel better digging it with your bare fingers or with a glove?”

bfreemen
02-11-2021, 11:43 PM
This is a real problem with a lot of younger/middle age folks especially those who been using hand/ fapping since teenage.

Answer is Yes, of course, it should be common sense that sex without condom feels much different than with a condom, just physically different contact/sensations but sex with a condom is not only prefered but also the smart thing if you are doing it with risky person (escorts, FL, ONS, fwb, random sex, anything except for long-term partners or partners who maintain sexual health and don't take risks).

So sex with condom, although less amazing than entering a wet, warm pussy naked, it is not the problem by itself but as you mentioned, the habit of 'hand squeezing' is the problem. And you can train yourself to avoid the unnatural squeezing that becomes needed for orgasm, by using masturbation toys that do not squeeze like a hand, softer and looser, and initially those will be hard to orgasm with, but if you can control your impulses and avoid orgasms until your body will eventually cum using soft masturbation toys, then sex with condoms will also slowly become great and orgasms and sex will be satisfying.

Keep in mind, if you keep squeezing by hand and making yourself trained to cum that way, even sex without a condom may cause issues and inability to cum because real pussy is not squeezing like a hand, it is amazing, wet, warm and cosy, and experienced partner can squeeze the pussy on and off but they can't squeeze like a hand does for long time.

Some girls/women have naturally loose pussy so being able to enjoy in all situations is the best way to enjoy sex, don't throw that ability away by using the hand except maybe rarely once or twice a month if you just can't find a pussy or mouth.

Also try to cum with bjs without hands involved, it also helps train to be able to enjoy and cum without too much rubbing and squeezing like a hand does. Cum into mouths over and over... for me preference for pleasure is in this order:

Sex without condom
next blowjob without condom/cim
next blowjob with condom, her tongue can make it great
next sex with condom
next handjob without condom
next handjob with condom
next DIY handjob least preferred

well said !!

Neoguri
03-11-2021, 02:16 AM
TS , dont use hand anymore , its bad long term

Get a washable masturbator


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I blame my right hand and my ‘death grip’. If that’s not enough, I’m also circumcised, which makes my mushroom less sensitive than bros who still have their hood.
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the habit of 'hand squeezing' is the problem. And you can train yourself to avoid the unnatural squeezing that becomes needed for orgasm, by using masturbation toys that do not squeeze like a hand, softer and looser, and initially those will be hard to orgasm with....

Keep in mind, if you keep squeezing by hand and making yourself trained to cum that way, even sex without a condom may cause issues and inability to cum because real pussy is not squeezing like a hand, it is amazing, wet, warm and cosy, and experienced partner can squeeze the pussy on and off but they can't squeeze like a hand does for long time.

Some girls/women have naturally loose pussy so being able to enjoy in all situations is the best way to enjoy sex, don't throw that ability away by using the hand except maybe rarely once or twice a month if you just can't find a pussy or mouth.....

Guys, thank you for the great advise!
I never realized that the "death grip" is bad because it is unnatural and cannot be reproduced by the pussy.
I thought the "death grip" using the hand is so nice and comfortable. - I really didn't know that I had gotten myself used to this very nice unnatural sensation.
No wonder, I have problems feeling good and/or cumming with some pussies.
I could never cum with a BJ as well. - this is the most likely cause too!

Stupid me, took me 48 years to learn this! :o
I will stop using the hand right away!

altec7
03-11-2021, 10:43 AM
How come nobody use the old analogy of “if you dig your nose, does it feel better digging it with your bare fingers or with a glove?”

Haha indeed.

That's what our dear PCK would have answered on this thread.
Short and simple answer :p

francined69
03-11-2021, 11:56 AM
Raw n creampie 👍

asdfghjk1234
03-11-2021, 02:19 PM
cannot go without condom will cum toooooo fast. even with condom can't last long

WinterMelonTree
03-11-2021, 04:24 PM
Odd one out, I actually prefer with condom.

ceandy
03-11-2021, 04:50 PM
I think no matter how thin a condom is, it can't feel the same as raw.

Its like taking a shower with a raincoat. You can feel the difference with different raincoat thickness but your skin is still dry.

Sex without a condom is the best feeling you cock can ever feel, 2nd would be BBBJ and a HJ with lots of lube.

ceandy
03-11-2021, 04:51 PM
cannot go without condom will cum toooooo fast. even with condom can't last long

I used to PCC 3X a day so I'm abit less sensitive even with raw sex.

With caps on I can hardly cum actually.

asdfghjk1234
03-11-2021, 09:33 PM
Haha I only wish can last 5 mins of continuously thrust. Only possible with those Performa type of condom. So raw is out of question

Huntsolo
04-11-2021, 01:27 PM
Somehow I feel that when raw, its more sensitive and will cum faster. Performa type condom is good to last long

Achieve
07-11-2021, 11:48 AM
This is a real problem with a lot of younger/middle age folks especially those who been using hand/ fapping since teenage.

So sex with condom, although less amazing than entering a wet, warm pussy naked, it is not the problem by itself but as you mentioned, the habit of 'hand squeezing' is the problem. And you can train yourself to avoid the unnatural squeezing that becomes needed for orgasm, by using masturbation toys that do not squeeze like a hand, softer and looser, and initially those will be hard to orgasm with, but if you can control your impulses and avoid orgasms until your body will eventually cum using soft masturbation toys, then sex with condoms will also slowly become great and orgasms and sex will be satisfying.

Keep in mind, if you keep squeezing by hand and making yourself trained to cum that way, even sex without a condom may cause issues and inability to cum because real pussy is not squeezing like a hand, it is amazing, wet, warm and cosy, and experienced partner can squeeze the pussy on and off but they can't squeeze like a hand does for long time.

Some girls/women have naturally loose pussy so being able to enjoy in all situations is the best way to enjoy sex, don't throw that ability away by using the hand except maybe rarely once or twice a month if you just can't find a pussy or mouth.

Also try to cum with bjs without hands involved, it also helps train to be able to enjoy and cum without too much rubbing and squeezing like a hand does. Cum into mouths over and over... for me preference for pleasure is in this order:

next DIY handjob least preferred

Damn thanks for sharing the info.
I need to untrain the need for hand gripe too
What toys would you guys recommend that is good?

5p4p
07-11-2021, 10:15 PM
I think no matter how thin a condom is, it can't feel the same as raw.

Its like taking a shower with a raincoat. You can feel the difference with different raincoat thickness but your skin is still dry.

Sex without a condom is the best feeling you cock can ever feel, 2nd would be BBBJ and a HJ with lots of lube.

Very good comparison hahaa :D

Megafan1981
08-11-2021, 01:51 PM
Raw sex is better and more sensitive despite the dangers. Have to trust your partner.

pinkwolf
08-11-2021, 02:40 PM
Odd one out, I actually prefer with condom.

Are you a safety officer bro? :D

SammyLee88
08-11-2021, 06:36 PM
i grab fl in sugarbook.live also i not so care about wear it or not, guy do not want to, i also can accept, have my own method for it

SammyLee88
08-11-2021, 06:37 PM
Are you a safety officer bro? :D

to prevent any unexpected event to occur

SammyLee88
08-11-2021, 06:38 PM
usually guy would not care that much on it, usually girl do care

SammyLee88
08-11-2021, 06:39 PM
Somehow I feel that when raw, its more sensitive and will cum faster. Performa type condom is good to last long

raw feels better, the rubbing feel is awesome

SammyLee88
08-11-2021, 06:40 PM
Never tried handjob with condom. ML insist on this?

handjob with condom can cum?

SammyLee88
08-11-2021, 06:40 PM
you are right, that is rare or never

yes is quite rare but can have a try too

JordanHendo14
08-11-2021, 09:16 PM
i grab fl in sugarbook.live also i not so care about wear it or not, guy do not want to, i also can accept, have my own method for it

You grab male or female FL. Now you are posting as a male or female?

WinterMelonTree
15-11-2021, 10:58 PM
Are you a safety officer bro? :D

Hahaha no lah! Because condom comes imbued with lube already so easier to slip in. And with condom can piak long. Even with hardcore pumping :p

Stanleestanlee
16-11-2021, 07:34 AM
usually guy would not care that much on it, usually girl do care

Most girls actually don’t like the feel of condom as well.

marcussia
16-11-2021, 09:45 AM
Most girls actually don’t like the feel of condom as well.

Yup, had an ex who always ask me to remove halfway, as she say the feeling was not as nice as raw. :confused:

Didn't really believe her, but her reaction was very different with and without. :D

IamAStoryTeller
16-11-2021, 01:44 PM
without the rubber is definitely better! the feeling is even more slippery and tight. also if can CIP best! now trying baby again so get to pump my wife full tank every 3 days hehe:D

victorlee10
16-11-2021, 02:00 PM
Last time used to visit this house in Geylang Lorong 8. The place has a waterbed and an ang pai that super skilful in yitiaolong. Anyway one of her moves is to use her pussy to rub your dick. Basically using her pussy hair like a brush to wash your privates. I was her regular and after a few visits she allow me to stick my dick raw in her pussy and thrust a few times when we were at this step of the waterbed. Condition is I cannot shoot inside. Initially is thrust a few times then she ask to take out since she is scared that I cannot tahan and shoot. After a few times doing this she roughly know my stamina and we will basically fuck raw on the shower bed till I’m satisfied before she wash up and we move on to the bed to continue. Don’t want to mention the actual house name to avoid the okt getting in to trouble.

singmarine
17-11-2021, 04:27 AM
Last time used to visit this house in Geylang Lorong 8. The place has a waterbed and an ang pai that super skilful in yitiaolong. Anyway one of her moves is to use her pussy to rub your dick. Basically using her pussy hair like a brush to wash your privates. I was her regular and after a few visits she allow me to stick my dick raw in her pussy and thrust a few times when we were at this step of the waterbed. Condition is I cannot shoot inside. Initially is thrust a few times then she ask to take out since she is scared that I cannot tahan and shoot. After a few times doing this she roughly know my stamina and we will basically fuck raw on the shower bed till I’m satisfied before she wash up and we move on to the bed to continue. Don’t want to mention the actual house name to avoid the okt getting in to trouble.

You ever accidentally shoot inside before?

Werdna70
17-11-2021, 06:45 AM
Bro Victorlee’s encounter reminded to share this recent incident with bros out there.
Had been a practicing caps on forever just to play safe & responsible.
Recent tryst with my fwb, somehow had that convo on when was her period, the reply ‘刚过“,Hosei Liao, that was my first time sliding in raw for the first couple of minutes. Luckily small head did not over rule big head, quickly cap on after that before ending the deed.
Got to admit, feeling is great, totally different without an extra layer, somehow, there’s still this invisible pressure lingering, afraid of shooting inside or even pre-cum staying inside.
The experience is already enough, probably still prefer to stay safe, to enjoy & Chiong for a longer time.

superkk
17-11-2021, 06:18 PM
the pussy can have a sucking sticky feeling that a condom cannot replicate. those bros who know this feeling would know what i mean. this feeling very hard to not cum so you shoot inside and keep going... :p

今晚打老虎.
18-11-2021, 08:35 AM
Last time used to visit this house in Geylang Lorong 8. The place has a waterbed and an ang pai that super skilful in yitiaolong. Anyway one of her moves is to use her pussy to rub your dick. Basically using her pussy hair like a brush to wash your privates. I was her regular and after a few visits she allow me to stick my dick raw in her pussy and thrust a few times when we were at this step of the waterbed. Condition is I cannot shoot inside. Initially is thrust a few times then she ask to take out since she is scared that I cannot tahan and shoot. After a few times doing this she roughly know my stamina and we will basically fuck raw on the shower bed till I’m satisfied before she wash up and we move on to the bed to continue. Don’t want to mention the actual house name to avoid the okt getting in to trouble.
Lor 8 only one house got water bed

victorlee10
18-11-2021, 09:52 AM
Lor 8 only one house got water bed

Hahaha then you know which one. I think quite a few of her regular will know la, can’t be I’m the only lucky one. Anyway that place change to Thai house already, no more waterbed. Now can only reminisce.

fonch99
19-11-2021, 01:13 AM
the pussy can have a sucking sticky feeling that a condom cannot replicate. those bros who know this feeling would know what i mean. this feeling very hard to not cum so you shoot inside and keep going... :p

Yes bro. The first few times when doing raw, got a feel that going to cum very soon. :D

今晚打老虎.
19-11-2021, 08:46 AM
Hahaha then you know which one. I think quite a few of her regular will know la, can’t be I’m the only lucky one. Anyway that place change to Thai house already, no more waterbed. Now can only reminisce.

that house changed to thai still got water bed... but must pay 2 session.
but go there very happy if you know what i mean. hahah