My sex life is boring!

[dunkendon]

Hello,

I’ve got to a point where I’m horribly frustrated. My wife doesn’t satisfy my needs sexually. I love her and want to get to a good place together, but I can’t get anything to work, I’ve tried being spontaneous and explaining what I need but this does not work, she is so angry with me.

What else can i do?

[Penguin23]

Hello,

I’ve got to a point where I’m horribly frustrated. My wife doesn’t satisfy my needs sexually. I love her and want to get to a good place together, but I can’t get anything to work, I’ve tried being spontaneous and explaining what I need but this does not work, she is so angry with me.

What else can i do?

What was her response, to you being specific about your needs? If your wife is that kind of woman who thinks that sex with the husband is totally optional, then this is something for her mother to straighten her out.

If the wife expects the husband to stay faithful to her, while freely withholding sex for the slightest reason then she better expect her role as sex provider to be outsourced sometime soon.

[winner38]

What was her response, to you being specific about your needs? If your wife is that kind of woman who thinks that sex with the husband is totally optional, then this is something for her mother to straighten her out.

If the wife expects the husband to stay faithful to her, while freely withholding sex for the slightest reason then she better expect her role as sex provider to be outsourced sometime soon.

Yeah its so true. Some wives doesn't understand the husband's needs and wants, and thinks that having sex is optional and not within a good wife's scope. I know of a few married women who prefer DIY than to have sex with their husband, ended up both parties also cheated on each other (DIY or with 3rd party). Having said that, some local women are just too shy to discuss openly (even with their spouse) about sex- It's taboo subject cos a nice girl with good upbringing don't supposed to be so open.

I suggest TS seek marriage counsel before things turn badly.

[NiceNClean]

May I suggest broaching the topic of an open relationship?

Scenario 1: she agrees and you are both sextisfied
Scenario 2: she disagrees, but realises that you have needs and helps you arrive at a compromise
Scenario 3: she disagrees and throws a fit. This suggests there might be a deeper problem(s) and y’all might want to seek marriage counselling

Sexual compatibility is important for any relationship to last 🙂

[dongdongchiang]

There could be a possibility is not sex but rather a deeper issues. One fine example is communication.

Sometimes you can't tell her what you want. Cos maybe she felt like a tool instead of a partner.

[Stevevaldez]

Hello,

I’ve got to a point where I’m horribly frustrated. My wife doesn’t satisfy my needs sexually. I love her and want to get to a good place together, but I can’t get anything to work, I’ve tried being spontaneous and explaining what I need but this does not work, she is so angry with me.

What else can i do?
Was she able to express why she was angry/upset?

Perhaps things she expects of you and expect you to know, but we being men, sometimes just aren't aware.

Ask her to state in brief and if she's able to communicate that properly, then one up her expectations?

and if that still doesn't work, perhaps she simply just doesn't like sex?

[wattonhenry]

Hello,

I’ve got to a point where I’m horribly frustrated. My wife doesn’t satisfy my needs sexually. I love her and want to get to a good place together, but I can’t get anything to work, I’ve tried being spontaneous and explaining what I need but this does not work, she is so angry with me.

What else can i do?

It’s normal and part and parcel of married life (especially with kids).

Welcome to the club!

[kt88_2]

Hello,

I’ve got to a point where I’m horribly frustrated. My wife doesn’t satisfy my needs sexually. I love her and want to get to a good place together, but I can’t get anything to work, I’ve tried being spontaneous and explaining what I need but this does not work, she is so angry with me.

What else can i do?

Tear he panties ,go direct suck her abalone, then insert in n ramp

[John0721]

Hello,

I’ve got to a point where I’m horribly frustrated. My wife doesn’t satisfy my needs sexually. I love her and want to get to a good place together, but I can’t get anything to work, I’ve tried being spontaneous and explaining what I need but this does not work, she is so angry with me.



What else can i do?
Maybe she don't love u anymore outside got guy

[Piledriver]

Hello,

I’ve got to a point where I’m horribly frustrated. My wife doesn’t satisfy my needs sexually. I love her and want to get to a good place together, but I can’t get anything to work, I’ve tried being spontaneous and explaining what I need but this does not work, she is so angry with me.

What else can i do?

Dear dunkendon bro, just a few questions for you:

1. How long have you been married to your wife?

2. Do you have any kids with your wife? It is a known fact that a majority of the women will experience a decline in sexual appetite after giving birth.

3. Did you have sex with her before you decide to marry her? Believe it or not, but many guys out there prefer to "test out" the product, before making a marriage decision.

4. You mentioned that you love her. But does she love you in return?

Just know that what you are experiencing is very normal. There are many married guys out there who are stuck in a sexless marriage just like you. And sad to say, many married couples are just not sexually compatible.

My ex-neighbour is a good example. His daughter (Plain Jane looks) married a nerdy-looking guy. They never looked to have any chemistry at all, let alone any sexual compatibility. The hubby-wife vibe was never present between them. The hubby call the wife "Dear", but the wife call the hubby "Oei".

When they talk, its like 2 normal friends talking to each other. The guy did talk a lot about the Champions League with the wife though. Whether the wife understood football is another matter.

I remembered there was one incident where the wife came out at around 11pm to check out the plants outside their unit, and found a... caterpillar. I was thinking, WTF? I thought she should be fucking with her hubby at this time? They ended up arguing over who should be removing the caterpillar instead.

Your wife does sound like the typical woman with very low sex drive. If you married the wife because it is true love, and the sex doesn't matter, then I take my hat off to you.

[Pockypig]

Hello,

I’ve got to a point where I’m horribly frustrated. My wife doesn’t satisfy my needs sexually. I love her and want to get to a good place together, but I can’t get anything to work, I’ve tried being spontaneous and explaining what I need but this does not work, she is so angry with me.

What else can i do?

My wife asked me if I married her for sex. Lolz

I explained to her that she married a man, not a monk.

But reasoning with her regards of any issue normally don’t work.

Soon, she will be my ex wife.

[Kovovo]

Every man has a mission. For now yours should be Covert Operation: Steal Eat

[Shadow_warrior]

Bro this says it all

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I haven't had sex with the Mrs in years and years. So I found myself a FB, in the beginning it was hot and crazy, 3 times a day, sometimes we leave the hotel only to find ourselves going back after a meal. Or do it and driving her back, we go to a car park and bang again
One period, we bang so much, I was chaffing.
But like all good things they don't last

The years moved on, and the sex became less. trying more, cosplay, sex toys, sexy clothes, sex videos, crotchless panties etc....most of the tryst was a one time off. Wear one, change another suit next time. I have a ton of cosplay crap.

There's only so much one can give and not take, so I gave up.
Too much effort, too little reward. And once too often, I get the, you only want sex, or you only buy the stuff you like, you didn't ask me what I like kind of shit. (and I buy a ton of other stuff for her, that she loves). That actually creates alot of resentment because she does not try, but she wants to criticise, so I put her on the no fuck list, and now all hints to sex from her or intimacy of any kind is faced with a no way in hell, because I do not ever want to hear those shitty accusations again. Like damn it, I know some women are dying to please their man, and I feel like a beggar.

Downgraded her from Fuck buddy, to face buddy, meaning we meet face to face, but no fucking, more like friends buddies, or food buddies.

Over the years, I have supplemented it with a light dining out paid and free just to keep the sanity in myself

That's life.

[Powerman881]

Marriage is the tomb of love.

[SammyLee88]

There could be a possibility is not sex but rather a deeper issues. One fine example is communication.

Sometimes you can't tell her what you want. Cos maybe she felt like a tool instead of a partner.

married already will have this type of feeling too?

[SammyLee88]

many this type of people will duge in sugarbook.live to seek for someone to satisfy but secretly

[SammyLee88]

can check the real cause of your wife behaves like this

[SammyLee88]

It’s normal and part and parcel of married life (especially with kids).

Welcome to the club!

if like that, i also scare to get married, i love sex

[SammyLee88]

May I suggest broaching the topic of an open relationship?

Scenario 1: she agrees and you are both sextisfied
Scenario 2: she disagrees, but realises that you have needs and helps you arrive at a compromise
Scenario 3: she disagrees and throws a fit. This suggests there might be a deeper problem(s) and y’all might want to seek marriage counselling

Sexual compatibility is important for any relationship to last 🙂

scenario 1 is the best but hard to look for timing when both wish to have sex

[Datingafter35]

My wife asked me if I married her for sex. Lolz

I explained to her that she married a man, not a monk.

But reasoning with her regards of any issue normally don’t work.

Soon, she will be my ex wife.

Double standards. Throw her back the question when she ask for money and they will say you are the man of the house. Do your duty.

[Zaloh]

if like that, i also scare to get married, i love sex

So now you are a man? :D

[Shadow_warrior]

https://sg.yahoo.com/style/top-sexual-problems-in-women-wellness-mental-health-090152484.html

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let's embrace change. it happens

[devilrik]

Marriage is the tomb of love.

Marriage with kids is tomb of sex.

[Piledriver]

Marriage is the tomb of love.

Marriage with kids is tomb of sex.

Conclusion: stay away from marriage :cool:

[SammyLee88]

Conclusion: stay away from marriage :cool:

my intention, if wish to have sex, go on sugarbook.live and grab a fwb.
Married life is not fun

[SammyLee88]

Marriage with kids is tomb of sex.

with kids hard to do, at night also search for daddy and mommy

[SammyLee88]

Double standards. Throw her back the question when she ask for money and they will say you are the man of the house. Do your duty.

need to have balance and adjust to each other habit

[SammyLee88]

Tear he panties ,go direct suck her abalone, then insert in n ramp

this is more like raping scenario wor

[Pokipoki]

with kids hard to do, at night also search for daddy and mommy

This is really so true coming from real life experience. With kiddo, hard to have spontaneous session. Need to plan one, sound sad but true.. 😪

[nkyc]

Yeah its so true. Some wives doesn't understand the husband's needs and wants, and thinks that having sex is optional and not within a good wife's scope. I know of a few married women who prefer DIY than to have sex with their husband, ended up both parties also cheated on each other (DIY or with 3rd party). Having said that, some local women are just too shy to discuss openly (even with their spouse) about sex- It's taboo subject cos a nice girl with good upbringing don't supposed to be so open.

I suggest TS seek marriage counsel before things turn badly.

Bro super true... Think sg gals mostly like that, "nice girls".

[Lucifer666]

Hello,

I’ve got to a point where I’m horribly frustrated. My wife doesn’t satisfy my needs sexually. I love her and want to get to a good place together, but I can’t get anything to work, I’ve tried being spontaneous and explaining what I need but this does not work, she is so angry with me.

What else can i do?

I have the opposite situation from you. I love my wife which I know for very sure. But after having sexual activity outside our marriage, I kind of lost the interest in having sex with my love. I have an issue within myself, in my mind there are 2 different compartments 1) love / emotions which belong to my wife 2) Sexual activities and desire belong to other ladies or woman outside.

[georgie1994]

grab another one secretly in sugarbook.live, and have fun on it

[georgie1994]

Marriage with kids is tomb of sex.

youngster now prefer have kids after several years of marriage

[georgie1994]

I have the opposite situation from you. I love my wife which I know for very sure. But after having sexual activity outside our marriage, I kind of lost the interest in having sex with my love. I have an issue within myself, in my mind there are 2 different compartments 1) love / emotions which belong to my wife 2) Sexual activities and desire belong to other ladies or woman outside.

any idea you can conqueur this feeling and back to your wife 100%?

[limking]

any idea you can conqueur this feeling and back to your wife 100%?

Put a couple drops of Blue Wizard or Spanish Fly in her drink secretly . Wait around 15 minute plus minus & let the fireworks begin .

[Shadow_warrior]

the last 1 year because of work from Home, changed diet, One meal a day, Keto, Worked out, lost weight, got my morning erections back

my FB turned gf over a decade, started to want sex and lots of it, initiating sex and its my turn to reject her and call the shots.
This is from struggling to get her to have more passion and sex in the relationship with cosplay, sex toys, to no avail for over 7 years and making me seem like a despo begger

Morale of the story, women are just as lustful. You rip up, they will want to fuck you. And if they see other women eyeing you, they want to screw you even more, because if they are not putting out, other women will.