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macmillan
24-08-2020, 06:18 PM
So, my gf is very flat, a bit on the plus side (low to mid 60s kg), doesn't have the best figure cos she doesn't exercise

But she is very good to me both in and out of bed. Like she will always help me arrange and buy stuff, care for me and cook etc. In bed, she will do whatever I ask

Give me sex, BJs (she sucks well) anytime I want. Even during period, she will guai guai go down on me without needing to ask and let me shoot in her mouth. Although flat, she has nice nipples, very brown, turgid and big when aroused. Lets me spread her legs whenever I want and pull her hair during sex, which I like cos it feels damn manly. she even went to take pills so that I can cum inside her, which she knows I love

I always get distracted though when I see girls with bigger boobs (C cups drive me crazy) and nicer figures walk by.. to the extent that I downloaded dating apps to meet girls (and maybe more) to satisfy such desires

Sometimes I tell myself not to be too greedy, but the urge to enjoy some girls with more shapely figures and bigger boobs always comes back.. Feels like I need to get this out of the system badly..

What do you guys think?

I Love Boobs
24-08-2020, 06:20 PM
How’s your body?
Lean? Muscular?
Fat begets fat.

Stanleestanlee
24-08-2020, 06:38 PM
So, my gf is very flat, a bit on the plus side (low to mid 60s kg), doesn't have the best figure cos she doesn't exercise

But she is very good to me both in and out of bed. Like she will always help me arrange and buy stuff, care for me and cook etc. In bed, she will do whatever I ask

Give me sex, BJs (she sucks well) anytime I want. Even during period, she will guai guai go down on me without needing to ask and let me shoot in her mouth. Although flat, she has nice nipples, very brown, turgid and big when aroused. Lets me spread her legs whenever I want and pull her hair during sex, which I like cos it feels damn manly. she even went to take pills so that I can cum inside her, which she knows I love

I always get distracted though when I see girls with bigger boobs (C cups drive me crazy) and nicer figures walk by.. to the extent that I downloaded dating apps to meet girls (and maybe more) to satisfy such desires

Sometimes I tell myself not to be too greedy, but the urge to enjoy some girls with more shapely figures and bigger boobs always comes back.. Feels like I need to get this out of the system badly..

What do you guys think?


Just go commercial to satisfy whatever desires you want.

thickskin33
24-08-2020, 07:08 PM
U r not greedy you are just seeking better options. Woman will seldom slim down as they do not have the knowledge some more you want big breasts.

My advice is find other woman if you think you deserve better. That's life

YakunBoy
24-08-2020, 07:38 PM
My 2 cents, at least she accommodates to you and even let you cip.. maybe go for positions where it doesnt matter that much like doggy or reverse cowboy. My personal take is that feeling is more important than figure.. and most importantly she is good to you.

I have tried FLs who are model alike but their attitude sucks and keep rushing you.

For me its the opposite.. my gf has huge racks, easily D or E, but is quite chubby. She has put on a lot because of me.. but it has reached a stage where I can no longer spoon her or go in from behind lying sideways.. what to do, suggest to her cowboy or doggy.. and once in a while I turn to FL or ML.

hamka
24-08-2020, 07:51 PM
Before anything, do you love her? How about her feeling towards you? Does she have any problems with your appearance or personality?

You are very lucky, bro, to have such a caring girlfriend that willingly to do everything for you. Even willing to go down for you without asking. There is nothing else to be ask for. Before you start to ask people for their opinion, ask yourself "Do I love her?".

luminarae
24-08-2020, 07:59 PM
I find myself in a similar scenario - but I don't wanna leave my gf too bc i know she'll make a good wife. Like someone said in this thread, either use dating apps or commercial to satisfy those other desires. Imo tho, I usually just use commercial since a lot more discreet and more chop chop. Don't need to fuck around with texting each other and being careless.

macmillan
24-08-2020, 08:51 PM
Lean, big-ish wallet... haha

How’s your body?
Lean? Muscular?
Fat begets fat.

macmillan
24-08-2020, 08:51 PM
Love yes. But that's a feeling for the brain and heart.. Small head doesn't think in terms of love right?

Before anything, do you love her? How about her feeling towards you? Does she have any problems with your appearance or personality?

You are very lucky, bro, to have such a caring girlfriend that willingly to do everything for you. Even willing to go down for you without asking. There is nothing else to be ask for. Before you start to ask people for their opinion, ask yourself "Do I love her?".

macmillan
24-08-2020, 08:57 PM
Tried before, but it's not the same. As another bro said here, commercial is rushed, and I prefer raw CIP.. can't do that with commercial

Anyway now Covid-19, don't know whether commercial is still feasible. Haven't chiong for months since CB

Just go commercial to satisfy whatever desires you want.

hamka
24-08-2020, 09:04 PM
Love yes. But that's a feeling for the brain and heart.. Small head doesn't think in terms of love right?
For my point of view, if you truly love her, and she provides all of your needs, you should be royal to her. Yes, I agreed that small head tend to stray off & don't think of terms of love but have you ever think of how she will feel if she ever find out you went out to eat the same thing she is cooking for you. True that outside Hokkien Mee got more wok hei because of more powerful stove but you can't complain that she isn't good at cooking just because she has a smaller stove.

Fat Fatt
24-08-2020, 09:06 PM
So, my gf is very flat, a bit on the plus side (low to mid 60s kg), doesn't have the best figure cos she doesn't exercise

But she is very good to me both in and out of bed. Like she will always help me arrange and buy stuff, care for me and cook etc. In bed, she will do whatever I ask

Give me sex, BJs (she sucks well) anytime I want. Even during period, she will guai guai go down on me without needing to ask and let me shoot in her mouth. Although flat, she has nice nipples, very brown, turgid and big when aroused. Lets me spread her legs whenever I want and pull her hair during sex, which I like cos it feels damn manly. she even went to take pills so that I can cum inside her, which she knows I love

I always get distracted though when I see girls with bigger boobs (C cups drive me crazy) and nicer figures walk by.. to the extent that I downloaded dating apps to meet girls (and maybe more) to satisfy such desires

Sometimes I tell myself not to be too greedy, but the urge to enjoy some girls with more shapely figures and bigger boobs always comes back.. Feels like I need to get this out of the system badly..

What do you guys think?

身在福中不知福
Wait till you find another girlfriend who is 性冷感。
Everything you ask, it’s a no. Even though she is chio have big breast does not mean she is willing to accommodate you. Or a girl that empties your pocket for gifts and others ...

Treasure what you have. This old saying is written by wise men not stupid people: a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush

If you really cannot stay faithful, then do commercial sex, don’t let her discover and hurt her.

Ginung
24-08-2020, 09:18 PM
Bro, you very lucky. Don't be me. Got gf but never want to have sex. Only give hj. Very bored already, and very frustrated

phantomboyz
24-08-2020, 09:52 PM
So, my gf is very flat, a bit on the plus side (low to mid 60s kg), doesn't have the best figure cos she doesn't exercise

But she is very good to me both in and out of bed. Like she will always help me arrange and buy stuff, care for me and cook etc. In bed, she will do whatever I ask

Give me sex, BJs (she sucks well) anytime I want. Even during period, she will guai guai go down on me without needing to ask and let me shoot in her mouth. Although flat, she has nice nipples, very brown, turgid and big when aroused. Lets me spread her legs whenever I want and pull her hair during sex, which I like cos it feels damn manly. she even went to take pills so that I can cum inside her, which she knows I love

I always get distracted though when I see girls with bigger boobs (C cups drive me crazy) and nicer figures walk by.. to the extent that I downloaded dating apps to meet girls (and maybe more) to satisfy such desires

Sometimes I tell myself not to be too greedy, but the urge to enjoy some girls with more shapely figures and bigger boobs always comes back.. Feels like I need to get this out of the system badly..

What do you guys think?


She has Tang Wei's specification.Remember 色戒?

178noobnoob
24-08-2020, 10:57 PM
So, my gf is very flat, a bit on the plus side (low to mid 60s kg), doesn't have the best figure cos she doesn't exercise

But she is very good to me both in and out of bed. Like she will always help me arrange and buy stuff, care for me and cook etc. In bed, she will do whatever I ask

Give me sex, BJs (she sucks well) anytime I want. Even during period, she will guai guai go down on me without needing to ask and let me shoot in her mouth. Although flat, she has nice nipples, very brown, turgid and big when aroused. Lets me spread her legs whenever I want and pull her hair during sex, which I like cos it feels damn manly. she even went to take pills so that I can cum inside her, which she knows I love

I always get distracted though when I see girls with bigger boobs (C cups drive me crazy) and nicer figures walk by.. to the extent that I downloaded dating apps to meet girls (and maybe more) to satisfy such desires

Sometimes I tell myself not to be too greedy, but the urge to enjoy some girls with more shapely figures and bigger boobs always comes back.. Feels like I need to get this out of the system badly..

What do you guys think?

Bro, to be honest, you are much more lucky compared to many bros here.
If you were to ask me for opinion, as a married man, i will advice you to think further.
Yes, she might accommodate to you now, do you intend to have kids? After having kids, will she be the same again? If you are looking to eat outside while having such a loyal and good gf. But just because of her figure, i will suggest you give up on her, let other bros take good care of her.

My own personal story. I will say my wife have a average body, high b cup, about 160cm and weight about 40+kg? Before me and my wife got married, sex was wonderful. We can do it every single day. Want bj, get bj. Want cip, get cip. You name it, i should have done it before, except for anal which she isnt comfortable with it. But after having our first child, everything changed. Sex will depend on her ‘mood’. Now to the extend, no sex for at least 3-4months already. She even left home with my child, getting ready for a divorce for something that i did not even do.
So you cant always have the best of both world. I will suggest you weight both the pros and cons before making such move. Cause once you eat out, she finds out, gg to you.

TheOnlooker
24-08-2020, 11:29 PM
Bro, to be honest, you are much more lucky compared to many bros here.
If you were to ask me for opinion, as a married man, i will advice you to think further.
Yes, she might accommodate to you now, do you intend to have kids? After having kids, will she be the same again? If you are looking to eat outside while having such a loyal and good gf. But just because of her figure, i will suggest you give up on her, let other bros take good care of her.

My own personal story. I will say my wife have a average body, high b cup, about 160cm and weight about 40+kg? Before me and my wife got married, sex was wonderful. We can do it every single day. Want bj, get bj. Want cip, get cip. You name it, i should have done it before, except for anal which she isnt comfortable with it. But after having our first child, everything changed. Sex will depend on her ‘mood’. Now to the extend, no sex for at least 3-4months already. She even left home with my child, getting ready for a divorce for something that i did not even do.
So you cant always have the best of both world. I will suggest you weight both the pros and cons before making such move. Cause once you eat out, she finds out, gg to you.

Shit bro, you all good? :(

Xes2013
25-08-2020, 12:22 AM
So, my gf is very flat, a bit on the plus side (low to mid 60s kg), doesn't have the best figure cos she doesn't exercise


Sometimes I tell myself not to be too greedy, but the urge to enjoy some girls with more shapely figures and bigger boobs always comes back.. Feels like I need to get this out of the system badly..

What do you guys think?


2 words for you : Cherish Her

IMHO, I used to have a FB who is 90% u described and makes me feel like King. but my FB not small boobs lah, she is 36 cup C. Also on pills and I can CIP or CIM anytime. She allows me.

But she happily married liao.... and we have stopped the relationship as we both agree not to take risk for her marriage. I respect that.

You are a lucky man, pls cherished your GF.

MoJoe313
25-08-2020, 01:55 AM
To change a body feature, easy. Ask her to get a boob job. To find a companion who will accomodate you for life, 1 in 5 million

Look no further than this forum. Find out why most men are stuck here.

TheGreatOne
25-08-2020, 03:48 AM
Before anything, do you love her? How about her feeling towards you? Does she have any problems with your appearance or personality?

You are very lucky, bro, to have such a caring girlfriend that willingly to do everything for you. Even willing to go down for you without asking. There is nothing else to be ask for. Before you start to ask people for their opinion, ask yourself "Do I love her?".

Personally I think we all know the answer.
If someone love someone, we wouldn't even be reading this

singleman
25-08-2020, 07:53 AM
Yes u r greedy. Is that the answer you like to hear? Or No, you are not greedy, n this is the answer you like to hear?

Actually, when you asking this question u already have the answer in your mind. And this answer is both feeling greedy n not greedy.

When you said you have such a so good so good gf, etc... but say like to have girl with big boob.. then u hv some greediness in it already. but when u justify by say small head dun both about whether love or not love her.. then you already have some feeling of "not greedy".

so ultimately u go decide urself whether u think u r greedy or not greedy and then do wadever u wan accordingly. but just dun hurt ur current gf as wad like other bro say cherish her. otherwise if u hurt her eventually u may lose her and then ur question on whether greedy or not will no longer exist.

meowmeow1991
25-08-2020, 08:57 AM
You can say it is greedy and you can say it is not.
If you mind about her flat boobs, you wouldnt be together with her in the first place. Everyone is the same, you always demand and desire more unless you are satisfied with what you have currently. Just like money, when you have $1k you want $10k, when you have $10k you want $100k.

Your gf is a gem i would say, you gf got A-Y but not Z, there are people only got Z but doesnt have A-Y. Which do you prefer? No one is perfect, but which is satisfy your demand more?

We will never satisfied with what we have, we are human afterall, if your gf make a D cup boobs now, you will want something else.

Your gf did A-Y to compensate her Z, and finding a bigger boobs lady is much more easier than finding a gf let you do whatever you want,

Treasure her bro!

thickskin33
25-08-2020, 09:26 AM
You are not greedy you are just flawed like all human. This is your life if you can have a better option go for it.

passiontea
25-08-2020, 09:37 AM
I used to sleep around with ONS, FWB etc and realised that sometimes you cannot think of sex only. Now we are young, 18-35yr old can go all out. But when you hit 40 onwards, how?

A relationship, marriage should be more than just sex but the love and you want to spend time with her to build value for who she is and not WHAT she is. If you cannot accept it, you will definitely just have affairs outside or find MLs etc.

My advice is, if you cannot cherish her, give her up for other bros. She deserves better.

There is a saying, husband fools outside cause they are bored, but when wife fools around, it means that she has fallen in love outside.

mrnakal
25-08-2020, 09:52 AM
So, my gf is very flat, a bit on the plus side (low to mid 60s kg), doesn't have the best figure cos she doesn't exercise

But she is very good to me both in and out of bed. Like she will always help me arrange and buy stuff, care for me and cook etc. In bed, she will do whatever I ask

Give me sex, BJs (she sucks well) anytime I want. Even during period, she will guai guai go down on me without needing to ask and let me shoot in her mouth. Although flat, she has nice nipples, very brown, turgid and big when aroused. Lets me spread her legs whenever I want and pull her hair during sex, which I like cos it feels damn manly. she even went to take pills so that I can cum inside her, which she knows I love

I always get distracted though when I see girls with bigger boobs (C cups drive me crazy) and nicer figures walk by.. to the extent that I downloaded dating apps to meet girls (and maybe more) to satisfy such desires

Sometimes I tell myself not to be too greedy, but the urge to enjoy some girls with more shapely figures and bigger boobs always comes back.. Feels like I need to get this out of the system badly..

What do you guys think?

What i can say is it's normal for a grown man to feel that way. When the gf have small boobs, you will look at girls with big boobs. When your gf have flat ass, you will look at girls with nice round ass. The list will just go on.

You said she will arrange and buy you stuffs, care and cook for you. I might be wrong, but In my opinion that statement, is a girl worthy of a wife material.

What if you got a gf with a perfect body, but she can't cook, can't take care of you? Nobody is born perfect bro.

A moment of pleasure, a lifetime of regret.

macmillan
04-09-2020, 04:17 PM
Does everyone here feel that way? It's true, recently I've been looking more at girl's boobs than before... What do you guys do about the urges?

[QUOTE=mrnakal;20177452]What i can say is it's normal for a grown man to feel that way. When the gf have small boobs, you will look at girls with big boobs. When your gf have flat ass, you will look at girls with nice round ass. The list will just go on.

mrnakal
04-09-2020, 05:03 PM
Does everyone here feel that way? It's true, recently I've been looking more at girl's boobs than before... What do you guys do about the urges?

[QUOTE=mrnakal;20177452]What i can say is it's normal for a grown man to feel that way. When the gf have small boobs, you will look at girls with big boobs. When your gf have flat ass, you will look at girls with nice round ass. The list will just go on.

Liked i said bro, its normal to have an urge of something your partner doesn't have. Looking at girls boobs is normal for a guy. For you to get to know the girl that have huge boobs bigger that your gf is a bonus. To get to touch it, suck that tits, fuck her is a bonus. If you don't get caught by your gf, luck is in your side. But WHAT OF YOU GET CAUGHT?? As i said earlier, a moment of pleasure, a lifetime of regret.

178noobnoob
04-09-2020, 06:03 PM
Shit bro, you all good? :(

No choice bro. Now can only suck thumb. Make sure she got no record of mine. So now is all enduring.

macmillan
14-09-2020, 01:54 PM
Well, if get caught, either you try to explain, or if cannot explain it away, then break up? Then after that have more freedom to search for and bonk such girls?

Isn't it kind of win win....?

[QUOTE=macmillan;20196998]Does everyone here feel that way? It's true, recently I've been looking more at girl's boobs than before... What do you guys do about the urges?



Liked i said bro, its normal to have an urge of something your partner doesn't have. Looking at girls boobs is normal for a guy. For you to get to know the girl that have huge boobs bigger that your gf is a bonus. To get to touch it, suck that tits, fuck her is a bonus. If you don't get caught by your gf, luck is in your side. But WHAT OF YOU GET CAUGHT?? As i said earlier, a moment of pleasure, a lifetime of regret.

morrissey1209
14-09-2020, 02:15 PM
Well, if get caught, either you try to explain, or if cannot explain it away, then break up? Then after that have more freedom to search for and bonk such girls?

Isn't it kind of win win....?

[QUOTE=mrnakal;20197080]

If you already think breaking up is a win then just break up now.

Livie
14-09-2020, 11:10 PM
“曾经有一份真诚的爱情放在我面前,我没有珍惜,等我失去的时候我才后悔莫及,人世间最痛苦的事 莫过于此“

jiajialiangteh
14-09-2020, 11:18 PM
[QUOTE=macmillan;20213947]Well, if get caught, either you try to explain, or if cannot explain it away, then break up? Then after that have more freedom to search for and bonk such girls?

Isn't it kind of win win....?



If you already think breaking up is a win then just break up now.

Agree with bro morrissey1209. But likelihood of you regretting and her leading a life with someone who will cherish her even more will be high. As what most other brothers shared. You are greedy imo (though that might not be the answer you'd like to hear), and bros here are giving you logical advice.

itguy2008
15-09-2020, 12:14 AM
My wife was a cabin crew with C cup breasts when I married her. After two kids, she become thinner and always want to look thin. Now become small B cup.

But you know what did not change? She is a good mother, just a lousy wife.

I chose the right person to be my kids' mother but a wrong wife.

So what I want to share is .... go beyond the look. It is her character and heart that you will marry for the rest of your life. Looks change. But her character will not.

morrissey1209
15-09-2020, 07:52 AM
“曾经有一份真诚的爱情放在我面前,我没有珍惜,等我失去的时候我才后悔莫及,人世间最痛苦的事 莫过于此“

Good movie!

mrnakal
15-09-2020, 10:57 AM
My wife was a cabin crew with C cup breasts when I married her. After two kids, she become thinner and always want to look thin. Now become small B cup.

But you know what did not change? She is a good mother, just a lousy wife.

I chose the right person to be my kids' mother but a wrong wife.

So what I want to share is .... go beyond the look. It is her character and heart that you will marry for the rest of your life. Looks change. But her character will not.

Totally agree 100%

macmillan
22-09-2020, 11:34 AM
I'm not looking to marry, have kids or a life partner -- now or in the foreseeable future

I can see why some bros here said I might regret giving away true and sincere love to feed my lustful desires

But I find it very difficult to stay physically faithful to someone who doesn't meet physical desires

Maybe I just need to bonk some nice big B / C cup chicks and get this out of the system before searching for someone for emotional companionship?



Totally agree 100%

Corlick
22-09-2020, 11:44 AM
I'm not looking to marry, have kids or a life partner -- now or in the foreseeable future

I can see why some bros here said I might regret giving away true and sincere love to feed my lustful desires

But I find it very difficult to stay physically faithful to someone who doesn't meet physical desires

Maybe I just need to bonk some nice big B / C cup chicks and get this out of the system before searching for someone for emotional companionship?

I feel the same as you too. Actually my gf is almost as how you described, unfortunately she is an A cup. Many times I wanted to do a one time one good bonk to fulfill my fantasies. But I have always brushed the thoughts away because they are just not right. For now, I'm still pcc-ing...

3someIsAwesome
22-09-2020, 11:55 AM
I'm not looking to marry, have kids or a life partner -- now or in the foreseeable future

I can see why some bros here said I might regret giving away true and sincere love to feed my lustful desires

But I find it very difficult to stay physically faithful to someone who doesn't meet physical desires

Maybe I just need to bonk some nice big B / C cup chicks and get this out of the system before searching for someone for emotional companionship?

Save money bro. Upgrade her. Liposuction and breast enlargement etc. I had a gf who was an ugly duckling in the past. Didn't paid her any attention. Recently she took those illegal slimming pills, upgraded herself (Double eyelids, botox, lips filler and most importantly, double Ds).

She's hot as hell now and even a bit korean looking...

Or you could just drag her to go exercise with you. Tell her you want to be sexy for her and such. Train together for her to slim down first. And then psycho her to get breast enlargement.

Anyway big boobs are over rated. They sag with age or with child bearing duties.

Ahboy89
22-09-2020, 04:31 PM
Hi Bro,

End of day is what you want, what's your ultimate desired.
Just do what you think fit, no right or wrong answer.
End of the day just be happy can already life is too short, now adays die like free one.

Others bro advice here is what they have experience before, share with you and don't make the wrong decision.
Because certain decision might make u regret life

If want to be a fucker just be a fucker, don't need to hold back la.
All this no moral one, if you think its right go do it.
Just end of the day don't regret the decision you make can already.
The search of better looking and big boobs good characters is like a jem in sea.

All the best to you.

Stay healthy and have a meaningful sex life

Huat la

poongko
23-09-2020, 08:19 AM
My wife was a cabin crew with C cup breasts when I married her. After two kids, she become thinner and always want to look thin. Now become small B cup.

But you know what did not change? She is a good mother, just a lousy wife.

I chose the right person to be my kids' mother but a wrong wife.

So what I want to share is .... go beyond the look. It is her character and heart that you will marry for the rest of your life. Looks change. But her character will not.



Wow. I will take note of this bro. Thanks. ;)

kazaf86
23-09-2020, 09:22 AM
I'm not looking to marry, have kids or a life partner -- now or in the foreseeable future

I can see why some bros here said I might regret giving away true and sincere love to feed my lustful desires

But I find it very difficult to stay physically faithful to someone who doesn't meet physical desires

Maybe I just need to bonk some nice big B / C cup chicks and get this out of the system before searching for someone for emotional companionship?

well, you might get it out of you system, or it might just reinforce your fantasy, and from then onwards, big B/C cups is the only thing that can satisfy you

des4fuck
23-09-2020, 11:01 AM
“曾经有一份真诚的爱情放在我面前,我没有珍惜,等我失去的时候我才后悔莫及,人世间最痛苦的事 莫过于此“

Yeah this is very true .....

macmillan
23-09-2020, 11:12 AM
Well, I do agree life is short, sometimes we should just give in to urges

Maybe 5-10 yrs from now I might be looking for a life partner, but now that's not really the agenda

What Ahboy89 said is also easier said than done... So far haven't slept with anyone yet, but do feel a little guilty when I go out with other girls (probably just a matter of time before sex with them)

In the short few months together with my present gf, it's true that she has shown me unfailing care, love and happiness

Sex and boobs aside (which she gives me plenty of), I enjoy her emotional companionship the most. But unfortunately sex cannot be put aside..

On a daily basis it's always a struggle between being loving and caring towards her to reciprocate and pursuing the other girls I'm interested in

If I were to break up with present gf, I also wouldn't know how to do it because she has been so nice to me during this short period, she's done nothing wrong. Or how to explain to her why we should break up (obviously I can't tell her the truth, no point hurting her for no benefit, she's a nice woman)

At the same time, there's also a part of me that realises the difficulty and pain will be greater the longer the relationship goes on

:confused:


Hi Bro,

End of day is what you want, what's your ultimate desired.
Just do what you think fit, no right or wrong answer.
End of the day just be happy can already life is too short, now adays die like free one.

Others bro advice here is what they have experience before, share with you and don't make the wrong decision.
Because certain decision might make u regret life

If want to be a fucker just be a fucker, don't need to hold back la.
All this no moral one, if you think its right go do it.
Just end of the day don't regret the decision you make can already.
The search of better looking and big boobs good characters is like a jem in sea.

All the best to you.

Stay healthy and have a meaningful sex life

Huat la

des4fuck
23-09-2020, 02:09 PM
So, my gf is very flat, a bit on the plus side (low to mid 60s kg), doesn't have the best figure cos she doesn't exercise

But she is very good to me both in and out of bed. Like she will always help me arrange and buy stuff, care for me and cook etc. In bed, she will do whatever I ask

Give me sex, BJs (she sucks well) anytime I want. Even during period, she will guai guai go down on me without needing to ask and let me shoot in her mouth. Although flat, she has nice nipples, very brown, turgid and big when aroused. Lets me spread her legs whenever I want and pull her hair during sex, which I like cos it feels damn manly. she even went to take pills so that I can cum inside her, which she knows I love

I always get distracted though when I see girls with bigger boobs (C cups drive me crazy) and nicer figures walk by.. to the extent that I downloaded dating apps to meet girls (and maybe more) to satisfy such desires

Sometimes I tell myself not to be too greedy, but the urge to enjoy some girls with more shapely figures and bigger boobs always comes back.. Feels like I need to get this out of the system badly..

What do you guys think?
Any way just curious how you guys get together ? If u mind her body , the physical attraction is not there initially ....

macmillan
23-09-2020, 02:32 PM
She's not ugly, actually quite some suitors..

Just that since breaking up with my last long term gf I've been craving for someone with big B or C cups, and she's really v flat leh, nth much to grab..

As earlier bro said, life is short, feel quite deprived..

To ans your qn, we got together because during CB period we talked and chatted a lot virtually, at an emotional and mental level, we connect.. She was also v sweet to me and did a lot of small things to brighten my day

The last long term gf I had people also said will regret if I break up with her as true love is hard to find.. truth is I couldn't be happier without her, so much freedom now and can easily find a WAY better replacement (whether physical or mental)

Any way just curious how you guys get together ? If u mind her body , the physical attraction is not there initially ....

gilagila100
23-09-2020, 05:10 PM
Bro, to be honest, you are much more lucky compared to many bros here.
If you were to ask me for opinion, as a married man, i will advice you to think further.
Yes, she might accommodate to you now, do you intend to have kids? After having kids, will she be the same again? If you are looking to eat outside while having such a loyal and good gf. But just because of her figure, i will suggest you give up on her, let other bros take good care of her.

My own personal story. I will say my wife have a average body, high b cup, about 160cm and weight about 40+kg? Before me and my wife got married, sex was wonderful. We can do it every single day. Want bj, get bj. Want cip, get cip. You name it, i should have done it before, except for anal which she isnt comfortable with it. But after having our first child, everything changed. Sex will depend on her ‘mood’. Now to the extend, no sex for at least 3-4months already. She even left home with my child, getting ready for a divorce for something that i did not even do.
So you cant always have the best of both world. I will suggest you weight both the pros and cons before making such move. Cause once you eat out, she finds out, gg to you.

Bro,

Sad to hear this. Hope you work things out with your wife for your child's sake. Really hard to say one. Can't predict the future.
All I can share is, women will change after marriage, another time after childbirth and again after menopause.
Change for better or for worse, really can't predict. Past performance is no indicator for future forecast.
I believe many married bros can testify for this.
You are not alone. Hang tough and good luck.

morrissey1209
23-09-2020, 05:35 PM
Why not just buy a pair of boobs and put at home as a gf since you seem to be in a relationship with boobs, not a person anyway?

poongko
23-09-2020, 06:51 PM
Why not just buy a pair of boobs and put at home as a gf since you seem to be in a relationship with boobs, not a person anyway?



Hahaha. You remind me those japanese guys bought doll back home. :D

Ahboy89
24-09-2020, 12:02 AM
So you just to make the decision, don't let the girl suffer.
The craving is never end one
Got body no emotion support also Gg.

So find someone can let you have both,
Just enjoy while you can, play as much as you can.
Since you don't plan to settle down why waste time.

Or give your self sometime with her.
Go for staycation try something new with her
Or train her to give you the best blowjob.
So many thing to explore




She's not ugly, actually quite some suitors..

Just that since breaking up with my last long term gf I've been craving for someone with big B or C cups, and she's really v flat leh, nth much to grab..

As earlier bro said, life is short, feel quite deprived..

To ans your qn, we got together because during CB period we talked and chatted a lot virtually, at an emotional and mental level, we connect.. She was also v sweet to me and did a lot of small things to brighten my day

The last long term gf I had people also said will regret if I break up with her as true love is hard to find.. truth is I couldn't be happier without her, so much freedom now and can easily find a WAY better replacement (whether physical or mental)

insensitive
24-09-2020, 12:32 PM
Answer is yes.

PogbaPaula
25-09-2020, 09:55 AM
U r not greedy you are just seeking better options. Woman will seldom slim down as they do not have the knowledge some more you want big breasts.

My advice is find other woman if you think you deserve better. That's life

Well said bro, fully agreed!!

uncommonsense
25-09-2020, 05:11 PM
No la not greedy at all. Quite normal :D

macmillan
25-09-2020, 05:36 PM
Well tbh, I thought present gf was good and got together with her because she kinda gave me unlimited sex and BJs after a long dry spell

As mentioned we also click quite well emotionally

But with Covid dying down more recently, more girls are coming out to date, and I've managed to go on some dates with more attractive girls

Even if I were to break up with present gf, I also don't know how to explain to her why I would want to break up..

Well said bro, fully agreed!!

lilmei
26-09-2020, 07:11 AM
Just tell her the truth. Since when u need to explain.

poongko
26-09-2020, 11:57 AM
Well tbh, I thought present gf was good and got together with her because she kinda gave me unlimited sex and BJs after a long dry spell

As mentioned we also click quite well emotionally

But with Covid dying down more recently, more girls are coming out to date, and I've managed to go on some dates with more attractive girls

Even if I were to break up with present gf, I also don't know how to explain to her why I would want to break up..


To be honest.

Every problem got pro and con.

Nothing is prefect.

You need to give in to get something return.

It is equal.

You should be thankful that you got gf willing to give you what you want.... alot of bro's here still single now.

;)

Anyway final decision is yours to decide.

des4fuck
28-09-2020, 02:13 PM
Well tbh, I thought present gf was good and got together with her because she kinda gave me unlimited sex and BJs after a long dry spell

As mentioned we also click quite well emotionally

But with Covid dying down more recently, more girls are coming out to date, and I've managed to go on some dates with more attractive girls

Even if I were to break up with present gf, I also don't know how to explain to her why I would want to break up..

Well i think is our human nature to be greedy .....once u got something , u want better and better things in life hence find the next one if u think u deserve better or else be contented and 望梅址渴

There no right or wrong in the matter of heart .... follow your desire and be mentally and physically prepared for the up and downs

draven78eric
28-09-2020, 02:20 PM
So, my gf is very flat, a bit on the plus side (low to mid 60s kg), doesn't have the best figure cos she doesn't exercise

But she is very good to me both in and out of bed. Like she will always help me arrange and buy stuff, care for me and cook etc. In bed, she will do whatever I ask

Give me sex, BJs (she sucks well) anytime I want. Even during period, she will guai guai go down on me without needing to ask and let me shoot in her mouth. Although flat, she has nice nipples, very brown, turgid and big when aroused. Lets me spread her legs whenever I want and pull her hair during sex, which I like cos it feels damn manly. she even went to take pills so that I can cum inside her, which she knows I love

I always get distracted though when I see girls with bigger boobs (C cups drive me crazy) and nicer figures walk by.. to the extent that I downloaded dating apps to meet girls (and maybe more) to satisfy such desires

Sometimes I tell myself not to be too greedy, but the urge to enjoy some girls with more shapely figures and bigger boobs always comes back.. Feels like I need to get this out of the system badly..

What do you guys think?

Give you one supermodel with nice boobs and arse, one day you bored and want a flat chested skinny like Kate Moss..then one day you also bored, wanna try one 70kg trucker Oprah...
This is not greedy, this is take for granted...
girl flat, can do boobs enhancement..
for exercise, you should try ask her to do with you together at home? hint her that you will Rape her like in the gym scenerio in those tight attire...:D
if you also fat the more you two should do together..
If you are well tonned by default? why in the first place you chose her? I believe you see her inner more than outside right?

draven78eric
28-09-2020, 02:22 PM
Having a submissive gf or wife, willing to please you or pleasure you upon command...never let go...
Base on experience...:D The rest of other issue, fat or flat or etc, have the money can settle...
Willingness is something you can buy ...even some for the sake of money can do be "willingness" but still is fake and not lasting...

chengzc
28-09-2020, 05:43 PM
Breast implant about 16k.

Money can solve most problems :D

draven78eric
29-09-2020, 11:41 AM
Breast implant about 16k.

Money can solve most problems :D

16K SGD?

Thailand can be done with 50% of the mentioned amount...the balance can do botox and face lifting..:D

macmillan
05-10-2020, 03:28 PM
Can I just go out and bonk some of the chicks I find sexually attractive and then after that go back to the one I love, or find a new one to love?

16K SGD?

Thailand can be done with 50% of the mentioned amount...the balance can do botox and face lifting..:D

Xgenre
05-10-2020, 04:14 PM
Can I just go out and bonk some of the chicks I find sexually attractive and then after that go back to the one I love, or find a new one to love?

It is easy to bonk chicks you like but not easy to find someone you love and who loves you back. A woman's figure changes as she age. So what if someone new and nice now becomes old and fat in future? Change again?

What if you become bald or cannot bonk in future due to diabetes or no longer as hard and recover as fast as now or earning a lower income in future? Valid reason for your gf/wife to change for someone else too?

macmillan
06-10-2020, 11:47 AM
Valid point but at different stages in life we prioritise certain things more right?

What u said might be true for me 10 yrs from now?

It is easy to bonk chicks you like but not easy to find someone you love and who loves you back. A woman's figure changes as she age. So what if someone new and nice now becomes old and fat in future? Change again?

What if you become bald or cannot bonk in future due to diabetes or no longer as hard and recover as fast as now or earning a lower income in future? Valid reason for your gf/wife to change for someone else too?

draven78eric
06-10-2020, 02:46 PM
Can I just go out and bonk some of the chicks I find sexually attractive and then after that go back to the one I love, or find a new one to love?

Nobody can stop you when you decided right? :rolleyes:
Do whatever you want and just dont get caught..
Also...advise...:D
上得山多终遇虎

Fat Fatt
06-10-2020, 03:39 PM
Well said.

agree fully

macmillan
06-10-2020, 08:42 PM
Actually, my own experience is that it is easier to find chicks who love me than it is to find girls I'm sexually attracted to.. Appreciate others may have had different experience..

In fact I've had several such long term relationships where it was "true love" but was never fully satisfied sexually

It is easy to bonk chicks you like but not easy to find someone you love and who loves you back. A woman's figure changes as she age. So what if someone new and nice now becomes old and fat in future? Change again?

What if you become bald or cannot bonk in future due to diabetes or no longer as hard and recover as fast as now or earning a lower income in future? Valid reason for your gf/wife to change for someone else too?

unknown443322
06-10-2020, 10:16 PM
any advice for someone (me) who get bored of a relationship easily who get bored of gf and break up after a few months ?

Also I found out that most girls need guys to become their bf before they can have an intimacy relationship with guys.

I feel guilty for lying but just cant help myself in order to bed them. Appreciate if someone can give me some advices.

mrnakal
07-10-2020, 09:02 AM
any advice for someone (me) who get bored of a relationship easily who get bored of gf and break up after a few months ?

Also I found out that most girls need guys to become their bf before they can have an intimacy relationship with guys.

I feel guilty for lying but just cant help myself in order to bed them. Appreciate if someone can give me some advices.

How young are you?

True. Most girl wants to be treated as gf before going further sexually.. There are of course girls who only wanted a one night stand or a fuck buddy. These kind of girls are usually very discreet about this. That's why it's difficult to find these kinda girls. You need to really explore.

What do you lie about?

Xgenre
07-10-2020, 09:35 AM
Actually, my own experience is that it is easier to find chicks who love me than it is to find girls I'm sexually attracted to.. Appreciate others may have had different experience..

In fact I've had several such long term relationships where it was "true love" but was never fully satisfied sexually

Basically it suggests you have no confidence to go after girls you are sexually attracted to. Probably because you know they are out of your league. That is why you have a history of settling for girls whom don't meet your standard. Day 1 already don't meet your standard but after so long then bring out issues to complain. You probably think you are being kind and charitable to such girls when you accept them. Better to have a pussy around than to PCC alone at home right? That is why you have several long term relationships where it is 'true love from them' but no full sexual satisfaction for you. You harm the BBWs the most because you give them false hope of marriage and long term future and then shatter their trust in men.

Come I clap for you for being kind to 60-65 kg girls and not having the balls to go after the girls you think you deserve. :p

Xgenre
07-10-2020, 09:43 AM
any advice for someone (me) who get bored of a relationship easily who get bored of gf and break up after a few months ?

Also I found out that most girls need guys to become their bf before they can have an intimacy relationship with guys.

I feel guilty for lying but just cant help myself in order to bed them. Appreciate if someone can give me some advices.

Not sure if you hear about this but guys give love to get sex while girls give sex to get love. You also know you are being an ass by lying to them right from the start. No intention for love but just break up after you are sick of them or when a new target shows up. Some of these girls may really hate you for life as a result. If you are young, that's just sowing your oats. Still not so bad.

But good to set an age where you will find a proper gf with intention to settle down. Sort of a reminder that you had played enough and now it is time to get serious. There is a long term danger you will give up too easily in a relationship. Any minor quarrel may lead to thoughts of break up because it is easy for you to find a new gf. You may also end up disliking sex because all type of breasts/vagina/sexual positions/location you have tried before with many partners. Nothing new from your future wife that can really satisfy you.

macmillan
07-10-2020, 03:25 PM
Thanks for the encouragement, I'm fully going after the hotter girls now FYI :D

It's harder, but I dowan to give up so easily

Basically it suggests you have no confidence to go after girls you are sexually attracted to. Probably because you know they are out of your league. That is why you have a history of settling for girls whom don't meet your standard. Day 1 already don't meet your standard but after so long then bring out issues to complain. You probably think you are being kind and charitable to such girls when you accept them. Better to have a pussy around than to PCC alone at home right? That is why you have several long term relationships where it is 'true love from them' but no full sexual satisfaction for you. You harm the BBWs the most because you give them false hope of marriage and long term future and then shatter their trust in men.

Come I clap for you for being kind to 60-65 kg girls and not having the balls to go after the girls you think you deserve. :p

jaccy
07-10-2020, 07:31 PM
you have your right to choose

1021115458
08-10-2020, 04:34 PM
身在福中不知福
Wait till you find another girlfriend who is 性冷感。
Everything you ask, it’s a no. Even though she is chio have big breast does not mean she is willing to accommodate you. Or a girl that empties your pocket for gifts and others ...

Treasure what you have. This old saying is written by wise men not stupid people: a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush

If you really cannot stay faithful, then do commercial sex, don’t let her discover and hurt her.

fully agreed !!! what's the point of having a C/D cup, good figure, but don't let you ramp when you need to. :cool:

catlord
08-10-2020, 07:44 PM
Quite a good discussion this has become. TS, here's my 2 cents. I think your solution is to expand your options. That means to 1) improve yourself, 2) improve your woman skills or 3) find girls overseas (once covid is over).

Men are men. We want to be sexually fulfilled and we want hot girls. Paying for them works but you will never get the satisfaction of capturing a real hot girl. You only live once, do you want to settle and live out the rest of your life without ever doing that? Yes love is important too, but why settle for someone who you're not happy with sexually? Why not find someone who satisfies both your heart and your dick?

Such girls are hard to find. Girls who are smart, friendly, down-to-earth, feminine and also hot are rare these days. With the rise of social media and dating apps, girls who are even a little bit attractive have their egos blown up from a very early age. They become insufferable, good for fucking but not for marriage. Hot girls who are also relationship material are unicorns. They are very desirable and they have infinite options to choose from, especially in SG where there is no shortage of guys who are fit, rich, smart, etc you name it. There are plenty of elite level men in SG and if you don't belong there, it's hard to get and keep such girls.

Many bros here suggest finding some side action to please your urges while remaining faithful to your BBW GF, while some suggest suppressing your lust because girls who truly love you are rare. I'd say, they're rare to low level guys and plentiful to high level guys. Raise your own level and increase your options, don't settle, get a hot GF who's also a high quality person. Become rich and ripped, improve your woman skills, explore overseas where the game is easier.

Ah hai
09-10-2020, 02:09 AM
be contended with her. guess she is the right one for you

sherine
12-10-2020, 02:26 AM
you have your right to choose

totally agree

macmillan
12-10-2020, 11:15 AM
Totally agree with many points here

Commercial sex isn't a good substitute because you can't raw and CIP them and it's always rushed

I think I am high level enough to have no real shortage of very decent girls willing to give love...

So yes, I just don't feel it's the right decision to suppress urges just to continue to be with my "true love". Previous gfs told me I would never find true love again after them, but I always did

On Saturday, I finally decided to pull the trigger and fucked a big boobs girl (not the saggy kind) who had nice smooth skin and very large and big nipples that was so satisfying to suck (not commercial sex). Nice and tight too, extremely pleasurable.

Some busty girls I've had in the past were not tight, or had inverted nipples, so this experience was sexually perfect

After that I cooked for her as I just got some new kitchen toys during CB and it was happily ever after (for that night at least)

But on the other hand, TS is also right that hot girls who are relationship material are unicorns, especially if they are also young in mid-20s

I am definitely doing 1 and 2, but I think it will be hard to get such girls


Quite a good discussion this has become. TS, here's my 2 cents. I think your solution is to expand your options. That means to 1) improve yourself, 2) improve your woman skills or 3) find girls overseas (once covid is over).

Men are men. We want to be sexually fulfilled and we want hot girls. Paying for them works but you will never get the satisfaction of capturing a real hot girl. You only live once, do you want to settle and live out the rest of your life without ever doing that? Yes love is important too, but why settle for someone who you're not happy with sexually? Why not find someone who satisfies both your heart and your dick?

Such girls are hard to find. Girls who are smart, friendly, down-to-earth, feminine and also hot are rare these days. With the rise of social media and dating apps, girls who are even a little bit attractive have their egos blown up from a very early age. They become insufferable, good for fucking but not for marriage. Hot girls who are also relationship material are unicorns. They are very desirable and they have infinite options to choose from, especially in SG where there is no shortage of guys who are fit, rich, smart, etc you name it. There are plenty of elite level men in SG and if you don't belong there, it's hard to get and keep such girls.

Many bros here suggest finding some side action to please your urges while remaining faithful to your BBW GF, while some suggest suppressing your lust because girls who truly love you are rare. I'd say, they're rare to low level guys and plentiful to high level guys. Raise your own level and increase your options, don't settle, get a hot GF who's also a high quality person. Become rich and ripped, improve your woman skills, explore overseas where the game is easier.