Sex after 40

[daniel6969]

hi brother out there...

i am 41. and this year suddenly realize that i hardly can do 2 times in a night anymore. unlike when i was before 40, i can do 3 times a night w new girl.

also not as hard as before. did you guys experience same thing or i experience this too early?

i tried tongkat ali but only help if i take. if i stop then go back to same thing

[Xes2013]

[QUOTE=daniel6969;20032628]hi brother out there...

i am 41. and this year suddenly realize that i hardly can do 2 times in a night anymore. unlike when i was before 40, i can do 3 times a night w new girl.



Bro, You need to meet the right partner. I am mid forties and I can still do 3 times per night..... 1 or 2 times is normal. If meet a good partner, 3 times will be nice......

Go for a short trip, weekend will be the adventure.......

[ongkp]

Any stories to share during this CB period?

[man_sg2000]

I'm at 50.
For me, hvg a good sex chemistry with gf is my style, there's love in us also.
I'll build the mood on day of meet, in room, with love mood, chemistry & controls, session last us like 45 mins, full sweat over.
Then, after a nap of > 2 hrs., we hv 2nd round, last even longer.

[marct]

MUST exercise...key thing is to get the heart and circulatory system going.

[whoizzit2]

Yes this i agree, go jog at least once or twice a week or if dun like jog cycling is another one.

I'm 48 now but max 2X sometimes 3 but few yrs back only manage for 1 time. Then I start to exercise and take care of diet abit and it works but start slowly.


MUST exercise...key thing is to get the heart and circulatory system going.

[cupid xpress]

hi brother out there...

i am 41. and this year suddenly realize that i hardly can do 2 times in a night anymore. unlike when i was before 40, i can do 3 times a night w new girl.

also not as hard as before. did you guys experience same thing or i experience this too early?

i tried tongkat ali but only help if i take. if i stop then go back to same thing

New gal I can do 3, 1 cim 1 fj 1 anal.

Old gal, 1 fj sleep thru out

[danilov]

hi brother out there...

i am 41. and this year suddenly realize that i hardly can do 2 times in a night anymore. unlike when i was before 40, i can do 3 times a night w new girl.

also not as hard as before. did you guys experience same thing or i experience this too early?

i tried tongkat ali but only help if i take. if i stop then go back to same thing

Depends on your health, diet and lifestyle bro. Whether you exercise regularly or not. Are you single or married or married with kids. Do you have a stressful job working long hours.

Best condition is when you are healthy, fit, get plenty of sleep and least stress - if you are single and have no family burdens and worries. Anytime, 2 or 3 times.

For a typical family man, sometimes late 30s already burned out from exhaustion, due to work, family issues, house / kid chores - totally no energy left. And sometimes is mistaken as ED but actually is not.

Anyway nowadays there are a lot of options, don't need to suffer in silence if you need doctor help. But if your root cause is health / stress / burn-out issue, meds don't help that much.

Don't be too disheartened, with our modern lifestyle it's common for lack of libido to start in 40s, why do you think meds and all kind of pharmaceutical aids, testo therapy and all that - selling like hot cakes? Majority suffering from the same problem as you :rolleyes: and it is perfectly natural.

[Garland]

U love the gal, should enjoy.

[Pusspuss]

For me, depends on the girl whether can turn me on.
i m 50s retired residing overseas .
Pre covid few months, on few occasions can do 5 shots in 24 hours on 2-3 girls STs.
1 month averages abt 30-40 shots.
2 shots in 1-2 hours sometimes.
All short sessions abt 20 mins.
Genes also important, seems my sperm regeneration rate is quite fast.
No enhancing drugs consumed.
Thank God to be blessed.

[CORONA19]

Rest....Exercise.....healthy diet.....I guess you need all these to build up the stamina. For me, rest is very important. No frequent masturbation and always have at least 7 hours of sleep.

[thisisme]

Rest....Exercise.....healthy diet.....I guess you need all these to build up the stamina. For me, rest is very important. No frequent masturbation and always have at least 7 hours of sleep.

Question : Does smoking has an effect on this as well?

[Silentreader88]

Late 30s...now watch porn also no mood to Mari kita!:D Partner is really critical in bringing up the mood to piak!:D

[sky_liner2]

Question : Does smoking has an effect on this as well?

Heard-say so YES, especially smoking MENTHOL favor kind of cigarettes affect more on the performance.

[Bigcuriousboy]

Its part of life and the gradual decline is inevitable. Like what alot of bros mentioned, a healthy lifestyle will slow but will not stop it. Genes definitely play a part too.

And i agree with another comment - porn does nothing for me these days. Guess is just de-sensitized!!:o

[danilov]

Question : Does smoking has an effect on this as well?

anything that stress your cardiovascular system will have some effect. But if you are a smoker, at least there is something significant you can stop and hope to see improvement. For those healthy ones, no bad habit, exercise regularly but still got marikita problem, then what else is there to do? Time to see doc. Actually a lot hinges on genetics as well.

[r.fowler]

exercise and watch your diet play a critical part.

[VoicesWithin]

hi brother out there...

i am 41. and this year suddenly realize that i hardly can do 2 times in a night anymore. unlike when i was before 40, i can do 3 times a night w new girl.

also not as hard as before. did you guys experience same thing or i experience this too early?

i tried tongkat ali but only help if i take. if i stop then go back to same thing

I too experienced this in my early 40s. Seasonal bec of work stress. It's normal. The ability to stay hard dwindles each year past 40s. Then I used Cialis. It's not that I have ED. I can erect but it wont stay hard for long. Maybe 20 mins. With Cialis, 45 mins no problem. I dont even have to try. Two rounds, three rounds no problem too. You should try.

[VoicesWithin]

Of course exercise helps. But the fruits are slow and marginally incremental. It is not as though when you exercise regularly you will be back to your 20s humping around for hours

[marct]

I disagree on the part on slow fruits.
This is my own experience.
Started on cialis, viagra at 35,to get harder and faster errection. Used for 5 years, then effectiveness started to drop with the same dosage. Driving everyday, hardly exercised.

Then i stopped eating it, ate omega 3 and garlic pills regularly, complementing with exercise....pull ups, sit ups and runs...
After 1 month, can feel the difference.
Now after 2 years, dont really need viagra anymore.

[fabteo]

hi brother out there...

i am 41. and this year suddenly realize that i hardly can do 2 times in a night anymore. unlike when i was before 40, i can do 3 times a night w new girl.

also not as hard as before. did you guys experience same thing or i experience this too early?

i tried tongkat ali but only help if i take. if i stop then go back to same thing

u are normal lah.... dun listen to too many tao kang comment... simi 3 time 4 time... zzzzz:rolleyes:

[fatuncle]

I am 50, now can only have about 30mins of "Oral sex" weekly with wife. ie. We scold each other only. Zero sex life.

But if given chance to have sex with my younger female staff, I think I can do it least 2 rounds in 1 hour.

[fenwick]

Question : Does smoking has an effect on this as well?

Many says yes but i don't really believe .... i'm 47 smoke almost 2 packs daily no problem. But i do go cycling quite often nowadays.:)

[GN007SG]

hi brother out there...

i am 41. and this year suddenly realize that i hardly can do 2 times in a night anymore. unlike when i was before 40, i can do 3 times a night w new girl.

also not as hard as before. did you guys experience same thing or i experience this too early?

i tried tongkat ali but only help if i take. if i stop then go back to same thing

I don't think doing x number of times a night is affected by age or anything..
For myself I was never fond of it. Doing once is enuff for me
Maybe it has to do with horniness

For hardness issue.. it could probably be due to age..
You need maintenance just like a car.. go try seeking reliable JG

[daring70]

ironically, women are hungry as hell when they hit 40, really fun to be with them

[BushTracker]

I am 50, now can only have about 30mins of "Oral sex" weekly with wife. ie. We scold each other only. Zero sex life.



Hahaha.. I'm in the same boat.

[fillerup]

Without running, can do what other exercises at home?

[Ray06]

Without running, can do what other exercises at home?

Brisk walking for an hour or 5Km whichever come first!

[Ray06]

I am 50, now can only have about 30mins of "Oral sex" weekly with wife. ie. We scold each other only. Zero sex life.

But if given chance to have sex with my younger female staff, I think I can do it least 2 rounds in 1 hour.


Get a young FL to tryout...:p

[JChoo]

I am 50, now can only have about 30mins of "Oral sex" weekly with wife. ie. We scold each other only. Zero sex life.

But if given chance to have sex with my younger female staff, I think I can do it least 2 rounds in 1 hour.

genuine good comments:)

[Voorhees]

I am near 50 and twice a day no prob. I smoke and drink but do exercise and I think exercise is important for healthy hard on.

I went on a holiday late last year with my partner and we fucked 2 to 3 times per day.
It was my record.... 8 shots in 3 days.. But she was damn good to turn me on. That's important... Excluding the before check out timing, she gave me a good bj in front of the entrance mirror and I CIM. She was pleasantly surprised...

[Prince Devitt]

Many says yes but i don't really believe .... i'm 47 smoke almost 2 packs daily no problem. But i do go cycling quite often nowadays.:)

Prince Devitt

[Naka_Timo]

No smoking. Balance diet. Social drinking. Regular exercise. Regular massage.

I think all the above can help.

[solosolo]

I simply lost my urge after 40. Advise on how to stay interested ?

[hccheonger]

Crystal of Sims Drive never fail to make me super hard and cum a lot :D

It's the partner that stimulate your mind.

BTW, she has left the industry so don't ask me for contact.

[koites]

Rest....Exercise.....healthy diet.....I guess you need all these to build up the stamina. For me, rest is very important. No frequent masturbation and always have at least 7 hours of sleep.

I think we need to masturbate frequently or have an orgasm regularly. Scientists have found that men who ejaculate 21 times or more have a lower chance of developing prostrate cancer.

[Hanster]

I think we need to masturbate frequently or have an orgasm regularly. Scientists have found that men who ejaculate 21 times or more have a lower chance of developing prostrate cancer.

21 times a year or a month?:eek:

[fenwick]

ironically, women are hungry as hell when they hit 40, really fun to be with them

Agree with you bro like my fb she's always horny nowadays compare to last time during her 30s :p

[Voorhees]

I simply lost my urge after 40. Advise on how to stay interested ?
Do you still even masturbate? If yes, whatever you think of is what you need

[Voorhees]

Agree with you bro like my fb she's always horny nowadays compare to last time during her 30s :p


When they had a child before, in their 30s..... Horny as hell.. They don't have it they don't have it... Once a man want to fuck her and she tasted it.. She wants to be fucked when there is a chance.....

[fenwick]

Prince Devitt

upped you already bro

[Xes2013]

I simply lost my urge after 40. Advise on how to stay interested ?

Personally, I think the partner is crucial. Meeting a good and right partner is key. With some partners, I can be very active but with some others, dun even have the urge.

One other thing I notice will be work stress. If stressful, dun even have the mood. Thus, try to keep mood happy and high, I do short travelling (over weekend to JB or Batam etc.....) relax the mood (dun think too much about work) and of cos, regular exercise will boost up the stamina too.

Keep it going, your sex life will keep you going too......LOL

[energy_boi]

i try to exercise. then eat good food, then do deep squats and vitamins (very crucial, zinc etc boost test)

[energy_boi]

To me, 40s is crucial age, once u lost it, i thin hard to recover the lost stamina drive, etc as age catching up

[ModelsInc]

Been in here since my 20's

Now 45.... still can mari kita but dun last long...once not in action...sleep already...

Any bro know of anything that can apply instead of taking orally 1 ?

TQ in advance.

[Ray06]

After 40 was still going strong for me.
Only after 50 then reduce action and also notice session didn't last long
Don't know what will happen after 60 ...:confused:

[man_sg2000]

Yes, action reduced.
I'm in mid 50s.
Need a quarter tab to enjoy my session.
Normal aging...

[Naka_Timo]

Yes, action reduced.
I'm in mid 50s.
Need a quarter tab to enjoy my session.
Normal aging...

+132 to you.

[Naka_Timo]

Sometime depend on mood too. Think can horny want do many shots but when do. Do one already sian liao. Worst till do one half way sian liao.

[koites]

21 times a year or a month?:eek:

month

https://www.google.com/search?source=hp&ei=BYjkXovdGOzUz7sPh5aGwA0&q=masturbate+to+prevent+prostrate+cancer&oq=masturbate+to+prevent+prostrate+cancer&gs_lcp=CgZwc3ktYWIQAzoFCAAQsQM6BQgAEIMBOgIIADoECAA QClC_AViVWWD7WWgNcAB4AIABjQGIAagRkgEENDQuMZgBAKABA aoBB2d3cy13aXqwAQA&sclient=psy-ab&ved=0ahUKEwjL85Hkqf7pAhVs6nMBHQeLAdgQ4dUDCAo&uact=5

[CoMan]

month

https://www.google.com/search?source=hp&ei=BYjkXovdGOzUz7sPh5aGwA0&q=masturbate+to+prevent+prostrate+cancer&oq=masturbate+to+prevent+prostrate+cancer&gs_lcp=CgZwc3ktYWIQAzoFCAAQsQM6BQgAEIMBOgIIADoECAA QClC_AViVWWD7WWgNcAB4AIABjQGIAagRkgEENDQuMZgBAKABA aoBB2d3cy13aXqwAQA&sclient=psy-ab&ved=0ahUKEwjL85Hkqf7pAhVs6nMBHQeLAdgQ4dUDCAo&uact=5

This is the quote from the article above:

"An 18-year Harvard study of nearly 30,000 health professionals determined that risk of prostate cancer was reduced by 20 percent for men who ejaculated 21 times a month, compared to men who ejaculated four to seven times a month.

A similar Australian study found the risk was reduced by 36 percent when men ejaculated seven times a week."

[candle2000]

This is the quote from the article above:

"An 18-year Harvard study of nearly 30,000 health professionals determined that risk of prostate cancer was reduced by 20 percent for men who ejaculated 21 times a month, compared to men who ejaculated four to seven times a month.

A similar Australian study found the risk was reduced by 36 percent when men ejaculated seven times a week."

Wow 21 times every month is no sweat when you started puberty to late 20 years old. Reverse 21 and 12 times every month is much easily task :D

[koites]

This is the quote from the article above:

"An 18-year Harvard study of nearly 30,000 health professionals determined that risk of prostate cancer was reduced by 20 percent for men who ejaculated 21 times a month, compared to men who ejaculated four to seven times a month.

A similar Australian study found the risk was reduced by 36 percent when men ejaculated seven times a week."

Thanks for helping. Was too lazy to copy and paste. But I really think it's legit advice. Big sample size, long study period and reputable institution. But not easy to ejaculate 21 times a month. Quite tiring. But i guess like it's a part of exercise too. No "cum" no gain? I guess.

[lowhc]

I am mid 40 now, used to be able to f for 45 mins and cum 2 to 3 times, suddenly, past 40, dick gets soft after 10 mins and at most 1 shot. So I did exercises, run and gym. But even that, not very much improved. Age affects us all differently. Sadly in my case, looks OK, body shape OK, sports OK but dick cannot stand.

See doctor, doctor says age coming, slow down. Maybe after a few more months they will prescribe viagra, etc. Sigh..

[lowhc]

No smoking. Balance diet. Social drinking. Regular exercise. Regular massage.

I think all the above can help.
Yes bro, doctor said that to me, helped a bit but age attacks each person differently. I can only hope for the best for every bro here that middle age and old age problems delayed to have more enjoyable sex.

[HelplessGal]

Hello men who are in their 50s,

Do you experience the same thing like declining SD, arousal issues and your erection takes slowly? :confused:
How to make my partner to behave like porn actor and go crazy about seducing me in bed? :D

No problem to make him cum more than 21 times every month as I love milking him dry that can give me orgasms. :)

[lookingaround]

Mid 40s, now watch porn kkj also semi hard Nia!:p Cham Liao!:o

[ModelsInc]

I am mid 40 now, used to be able to f for 45 mins and cum 2 to 3 times, suddenly, past 40, dick gets soft after 10 mins and at most 1 shot. So I did exercises, run and gym. But even that, not very much improved. Age affects us all differently. Sadly in my case, looks OK, body shape OK, sports OK but dick cannot stand.

See doctor, doctor says age coming, slow down. Maybe after a few more months they will prescribe viagra, etc. Sigh..


Same same.... have you tried take tongka ali ?

[Jay Chou]

Same same.... have you tried take tongka ali ?

Up u bro. 😊

[Naka_Timo]

Yes bro, doctor said that to me, helped a bit but age attacks each person differently. I can only hope for the best for every bro here that middle age and old age problems delayed to have more enjoyable sex.

Agree, but if gal show attitude. Sometime do half way also cannot stand.

[sky_liner2]

Same same.... have you tried take tongka ali ?

Upz bro......

[Justlovewomen]

Personally, I think the partner is crucial. Meeting a good and right partner is key. With some partners, I can be very active but with some others, dun even have the urge.

One other thing I notice will be work stress. If stressful, dun even have the mood. Thus, try to keep mood happy and high, I do short travelling (over weekend to JB or Batam etc.....) relax the mood (dun think too much about work) and of cos, regular exercise will boost up the stamina too.

Keep it going, your sex life will keep you going too......LOL

Agreed. A new or good partner works well for me.

[HelplessGal]

https://www.dtapclinic.com/hypogonadism/

[HelplessGal]

hi brother out there...

i am 41. and this year suddenly realize that i hardly can do 2 times in a night anymore. unlike when i was before 40, i can do 3 times a night w new girl.

also not as hard as before. did you guys experience same thing or i experience this too early?

i tried tongkat ali but only help if i take. if i stop then go back to same thing

Bump this thread to raise awareness about sex after 40 to 60 yrs old

[NiaoRenn]

I am 42 this year. It is down to which girl you do it with. Every week I will do it with a mixture of FL, FB and ONS from tinder. You can always bang multiple times at one go with it is a new pussy. Especially the tight ones

[guyorgirl]

When all else fails... try a change of location... especially the locations where can be seen/caught. I think lack of thrill causes it harder to cum when doing it.

Stairwells far enough to be seen but cannot be clear etc.

[HelplessGal]

I am 42 this year. It is down to which girl you do it with. Every week I will do it with a mixture of FL, FB and ONS from tinder. You can always bang multiple times at one go with it is a new pussy. Especially the tight ones

Are you worried of being infected by your multiple partners? Every week will increase your risk of getting STDs from them :eek:

[HelplessGal]

Hello men who are in their 50s,

Do you experience the same thing like declining SD, arousal issues and your erection takes slowly? :confused:
How to make my partner to behave like porn actor and go crazy about seducing me in bed? :D

No problem to make him cum more than 21 times every month as I love milking him dry that can give me orgasms. :)

Come on, share your sex life after 40 to 60 yrs old

[phantomboyz]

im at 40 now. Since month ago i had hard on problem. Had tried those avoid /try methods as suggested here still didnt work out. Then i started to cut down on glucose and taking lots of peanut butter as well almond butter,dark chocolate and boiled eggs.Surprisingly, my little brother always mari kita at no time.

[sgjoey]

In my sixties already... Quality is more important than quantity to me. Zero sex with wife - forgot the last time I fucked her. Now only doing it with sex workers, but very many passionate experiences. At present, just one regular left. When she leaves, will be damn hard to replace. Penetrating her is only part of each hourly session. Just as enjoyable are the caresses, the licking, the sucking and the sweet talk. In fact I think I enjoy seeing her cunt juices flow and tasting them more than actually fucking her - too tiring if I hump without stopping. She knows exactly what I need - a full buffet of stimulation, including penetratation without ejaculation. The finale is an intense hand job with my mouth clinging hard to her erect nipples and my hands doing intensive fingerlng of her wet cunt and her butt hole. Ironic - my most intensive experience is with this lovely professional at a time when my fucking days are numbered. Grateful to China, and to Vardenafil. LOL...

[teokc278]

Man 40 one dragon

[Stanleestanlee]

Man 40 one dragon

I think not all are dragon. I have friend who had problem. This worry me as I got few more year will reach 40

[Stanleestanlee]

Man 40 one dragon

Not all 40 are dragons. At least a few I know are not. A little worried as I am reaching 40 soon

[HelplessGal]

In my sixties already... Quality is more important than quantity to me. Zero sex with wife - forgot the last time I fucked her. Now only doing it with sex workers, but very many passionate experiences. At present, just one regular left. When she leaves, will be damn hard to replace. Penetrating her is only part of each hourly session. Just as enjoyable are the caresses, the licking, the sucking and the sweet talk. In fact I think I enjoy seeing her cunt juices flow and tasting them more than actually fucking her - too tiring if I hump without stopping. She knows exactly what I need - a full buffet of stimulation, including penetratation without ejaculation. The finale is an intense hand job with my mouth clinging hard to her erect nipples and my hands doing intensive fingerlng of her wet cunt and her butt hole. Ironic - my most intensive experience is with this lovely professional at a time when my fucking days are numbered. Grateful to China, and to Vardenafil. LOL...

How many rounds do you usually have with your current lover?

[HelplessGal]

Not all 40 are dragons. At least a few I know are not. A little worried as I am reaching 40 soon

What about 50s?

[big wood]

[QUOTE=HelplessGal;20090077]What about 50s?[/QUOTE

continue with your life and enjoy things you like to do lol:D:D:D

[Pusspuss]

i m coming to 60 soon.
i think girl's willingness to please n genes is very important.
occasionally i m doing 3 per day when w the right girl.
Ability to regenerate fast also contribute ability to do 2 within an hour sometimes.

[HelplessGal]

i m coming to 60 soon.
i think girl's willingness to please n genes is very important.
occasionally i m doing 3 per day when w the right girl.
Ability to regenerate fast also contribute ability to do 2 within an hour sometimes.

Is your volume of semen you ejaculated big or small? :confused:

[HelplessGal]

[QUOTE=HelplessGal;20090077]What about 50s?[/QUOTE

continue with your life and enjoy things you like to do lol:D:D:D

How to make my naked partner dance sexually in front of me? :D
His bum is great for me to bite playfully :D

[blurking666]

best thing to do is go for blood test to check testosterone levels. Might need trt instead of little blue pill.

[hakone]

Regardless of age, try to stay healthy, both psychologically and physiologically. And stay safe too.

[fillerup]

Any exercise aside from running to boost libido and hardness?

[Xes2013]

Man 40 one dragon

If dragon, thats ok. Worried is worm......LOL

[Xes2013]

[QUOTE=big wood;20090369]

How to make my naked partner dance sexually in front of me? :D
His bum is great for me to bite playfully :D

For me, I think togetherness is about both parties. You do what he likes and he will also return the favour. sometimes, can tell him about what seduces you (such as dancing seductively or cosplay like wearing an uniform or even playing with sex toys etc.......). For me, I like to role play (like tutor, nurse or maid etc.....) then we will take turn to pleasure each other. Sometimes I do for her and sometimes she do for me..... then we can enjoy together.

Communications is key.

[the observer]

im at 40 now. Since month ago i had hard on problem. Had tried those avoid /try methods as suggested here still didnt work out. Then i started to cut down on glucose and taking lots of peanut butter as well almond butter,dark chocolate and boiled eggs.Surprisingly, my little brother always mari kita at no time.

I’m 40, and have had issues maintaining erection during sex. Getting started is fine, but keeping it stiff for more than 20 minutes isn’t easy.

My doc recommended a quarter dosage of generic viagra.
What a game changer! 25mg only!

[trying8244]

[QUOTE=big wood;20090369]

How to make my naked partner dance sexually in front of me? :D
His bum is great for me to bite playfully :D

suggest to him, 'you dance, I dance'

[warrior2013]

[QUOTE=HelplessGal;20092189]

For me, I think togetherness is about both parties. You do what he likes and he will also return the favour. sometimes, can tell him about what seduces you (such as dancing seductively or cosplay like wearing an uniform or even playing with sex toys etc.......). For me, I like to role play (like tutor, nurse or maid etc.....) then we will take turn to pleasure each other. Sometimes I do for her and sometimes she do for me..... then we can enjoy together.

Communications is key.

I agree with u on that.Am early 40s now. side chick is in her 30s ..3 --4 times a night if she cosplays in swimsuit or catsuit. if shes naked maybe twice. prefer sweaty women. since she goes to the gym its a plus. she is not local so communication is mainly in mandarin. compared to being 30 --39 the count wld be lower since 8 times was norm in my 30s. take more testosterone that is the key.

[kennyr]

The most powerful sex organ is the brain. If you meet a new girl and is attracted to her, likely you'll be able to have more rounds.

[hokkienme56]

hi brother out there...

i am 41. and this year suddenly realize that i hardly can do 2 times in a night anymore. unlike when i was before 40, i can do 3 times a night w new girl.

also not as hard as before. did you guys experience same thing or i experience this too early?

i tried tongkat ali but only help if i take. if i stop then go back to same thing

Bro... slowly slowly la... if kenot dun force urself. Later ED then big problem, take viagra la, tongkat oso ok.

[Jjcoolidge]

I'm in the 40s boat too. Realised that achieving erection purely from visual stimulus is vastly degraded. More direct contact is needed. I'm an athlete and i still compete in distance events. So i'm not too sure if exercise is the key here.
What gets me going is the touch of a willing and engaging partner. Thankfully that still works!

[LeSkull]

Sadly older i grow, condom seems like holding back the sensation:(

[redarrow]

Can I ask if you are constantly being bombarded by visual stimuli?

In this day and age of WFH and mask wearing I am not “excited” by any standard, but occasionally I do see a LBD and that does give me a tinge... right fitting dress showing all the necessary curve never fail....

Much is in the mind...

I'm in the 40s boat too. Realised that achieving erection purely from visual stimulus is vastly degraded. More direct contact is needed. I'm an athlete and i still compete in distance events. So i'm not too sure if exercise is the key here.
What gets me going is the touch of a willing and engaging partner. Thankfully that still works!

[Kexui]

Sadly older i grow, condom seems like holding back the sensation:(

I guess this is the same for all ages

[Jjcoolidge]

[QUOTE=redarrow;20134950]Can I ask if you are constantly being bombarded by visual stimuli?

Bombarded as in porno, no.
I do agree with you that mask wearing nowadays has made appreciating beauty very difficult . I think back at my travels to the middle east ,where you see stunning eyes framed by a veil. Definitely allows your mind to wander and fill the gap of how she really looks.
Better train the mind when the body of youth is no longer.

[draven78eric]

hi brother out there...

i am 41. and this year suddenly realize that i hardly can do 2 times in a night anymore. unlike when i was before 40, i can do 3 times a night w new girl.

also not as hard as before. did you guys experience same thing or i experience this too early?

i tried tongkat ali but only help if i take. if i stop then go back to same thing

Its all to "xin xian gan" freshness feeling....:D

[Sgchiongster]

i m coming to 60 soon.
i think girl's willingness to please n genes is very important.
occasionally i m doing 3 per day when w the right girl.
Ability to regenerate fast also contribute ability to do 2 within an hour sometimes.

Wow, 60 still going strong. I just wish that I have your kind of “power” when I reached your age. 💪

[SBMEDSUP]

Build up your testerone level.

Exercise more.

Find good sex partners who understands your needs.

[draven78eric]

Build up your testerone level.

Exercise more.

Find good sex partners who understands your needs.

A good sex partner who understands your needs is very very important.

[man_sg2000]

A good sex partner who understands your needs is very very important.

Yes, agree bro.

Exercise, & have good sex with partner, eat well, will be good aft 40.

[HelplessGal]

[QUOTE=HelplessGal;20092189]

For me, I think togetherness is about both parties. You do what he likes and he will also return the favour. sometimes, can tell him about what seduces you (such as dancing seductively or cosplay like wearing an uniform or even playing with sex toys etc.......). For me, I like to role play (like tutor, nurse or maid etc.....) then we will take turn to pleasure each other. Sometimes I do for her and sometimes she do for me..... then we can enjoy together.

Communications is key.

Sadly, he won’t accede to my requests.:(
Good idea! I shall use his sex toy to poke his anus :D

[LordVader]

I am mid 40 now, used to be able to f for 45 mins and cum 2 to 3 times, suddenly, past 40, dick gets soft after 10 mins and at most 1 shot. So I did exercises, run and gym. But even that, not very much improved. Age affects us all differently. Sadly in my case, looks OK, body shape OK, sports OK but dick cannot stand.

See doctor, doctor says age coming, slow down. Maybe after a few more months they will prescribe viagra, etc. Sigh..

If you have the desire but cannot stand, I don't see what is wrong with Viagra?

I also don't get why some men thinks that taking viagra is loss of face?
If you are early 20s I can still understand since you are still young and immature.

But at 40s and above you, think it is a lost of face, you really need to look into yourself and think hard about what is your priority and grow the fk up.

[danilov]

If you have the desire but cannot stand, I don't see what is wrong with Viagra?

I also don't get why some men thinks that taking viagra is loss of face?
If you are early 20s I can still understand since you are still young and immature.

But at 40s and above you, think it is a lost of face, you really need to look into yourself and think hard about what is your priority and grow the fk up.

Better than long ago when there was no VG ;) But then I heard long ago lifestyle was less stressful, less processed food, healthier living, less porn and pre-marital sex (debatable), so ED less of a problem?

After mid-40s shouldn't be embarassed to seek doctor's advice and med help. Statistically quite normal and there are others in worse predicament, mid 30s already onset ED. It's worse if the person just lament and self-pity but did not do anything to help himself.

[PandaFluff]

Build up your testerone level.

Exercise more.

Find good sex partners who understands your needs.

This is golden advise. 90% of men over the age of 40 have lower than normal testosterone levels and should be on TRT /HRT. This improves ones sex drive dramatically and overall well being.
The only issue is that in Singapore to get prescribed TRT is harder than going to the moon.

[energy_boi]

do squats or train ur thighs. I read somewhere improves test level and also exercise regularly. But dont wait too long ....

[championbee]

May i ask is it difficult to get GP to prescribe Viagra?

[d2r2ddd]

May i ask is it difficult to get GP to prescribe Viagra?

can try this via online
https://www.ofnoah.com/

[pandab]

I'm in the 40s boat too. Realised that achieving erection purely from visual stimulus is vastly degraded. More direct contact is needed. I'm an athlete and i still compete in distance events. So i'm not too sure if exercise is the key here.
What gets me going is the touch of a willing and engaging partner. Thankfully that still works!


Agreeing this. Touch, kisses and dirty talk results to my erection. After 1st shot dick will grow limp.

Ever got prescription for sildenafil thru polyclinic consultation

[TheMentalist]

May i ask is it difficult to get GP to prescribe Viagra?
Shouldn't be.

Probably can try to buy from here. Looks legitimate.
https://www.ofnoah.com/

[Psam]

Need lots of stimulation after 45 to 50s, I cannot get an errectiin anymore in a massage palor, a HJ under a towel just simply don’t do it anymore.
Also don’t know why less and less ML suits my taste, maybe loosing interest in sex.
Past few years the 1 ML that is my type and will go full left, 1 FL that gives my Super good BJ and cim also left. Maybe no interest to try anymore and most ML I meet now a days is very commercial and money face. I am not the stingy type I tip them well if they makes me happy.
Worst is I got into a relationship with a PRC I met in a mall, had a fling with her for about a year, almost ended my marriage. Broke it off and it made it worse, need that kind of wild sex to get into action.
Had no sex since covid lock down. A few failed tries in Massage palor, only 1 successful HJ recently. I have to tell her to let me finger and suck her tits and try to see I can get aroused, managed to cum but somehow don’t feel satisfying, cause she is kind of aunty, dirty talking aunty, not bad looking but aunty. Also won’t return unless really desperate, she makes disgusting sound and wipe my cum off her hands on my stomach, turned me off. Age is a bummer.

[newswing]

I'm also in my 40's... 47 yrs now.

from age 30's to early 40's .. I have to fuck the girl twice (within 90 minutes) to be sexually satisfied.
I've always drink tonics, honey and do simple exercise. swimming is the best form

with covid, it has been depressing for some people like myself.

have not tried viagra. I can still achieve election. looking around to buy strong tongkat ali but couldn't find.
took some Chinese sex pills and it helps a bit. it is quite expensive

[koites]

I'm also in my 40's... 47 yrs now.

from age 30's to early 40's .. I have to fuck the girl twice (within 90 minutes) to be sexually satisfied.
I've always drink tonics, honey and do simple exercise. swimming is the best form

with covid, it has been depressing for some people like myself.

have not tried viagra. I can still achieve election. looking around to buy strong tongkat ali but couldn't find.
took some Chinese sex pills and it helps a bit. it is quite expensive

The Tongkat Ali, you can get from one the Samsters here. I think he advertises here, DocDonald. I can vouch for it. After 3 weeks of consumption, I can see and feel the improvement.

[newswing]

The Tongkat Ali, you can get from one the Samsters here. I think he advertises here, DocDonald. I can vouch for it. After 3 weeks of consumption, I can see and feel the improvement.

thanks bro. I bought the other pill with tolestrone ( maybe wrong spelling). wanted to try Tongkat ali too. there is this sex shop at people park Complex, they have very strong tongkat ali pill which they have mark up the price to $20 a tablet
.

[babygal15]

thanks bro. I bought the other pill with tolestrone ( maybe wrong spelling). wanted to try Tongkat ali too. there is this sex shop at people park Complex, they have very strong tongkat ali pill which they have mark up the price to $20 a tablet
.

Mind share the shop in PPC? Thanks

[iluvbreast]

Just to share my story...now in my mid-40s too.....the last few years was very bad....there was a lot stress from work (to the point of nearly being retrenched)....sex was non existent....could not even get it up from bbj....yes it was that bad.

Later my job stabilized and things were getting ok but I still could not get it up....so went to see family doctor (GP), did a full check up, everything was fine....so GP advised that it was physiological...still he prescribed Viagra and told me to return to get more if i need and I should relax.

Well Viagra worked but after a few doses I started to self-pity, so I went to see a TCM doctor, I didn't tell this doctor that I had problem getting it up (pai seh mah and also wanted to see how good is she), so I just said I feel tired very easily always.

Anyway I asked the doctor what is the best type of medicine, to which she said I can prescribe you the herbs to brew and drink. I bought 3 packets back and brew them over 3 days to drink....the medicine taste disgusting...

I slept very well over those 3 nights (long weekend), and felt much better so I went back to see the doctor again, this time she prescribed something different, again 3 packets. The morning after the last dose, I woke up with morning wood (something I have not felt for sometime).

I went back to the doctor again, and told her I felt much better, 人比较精神，精力也好像比较好，不会一直感到累。

The Doctor said actually I was stressed and she prescribed something to help me sleep better and later some tonics. She share some TCM theories with me.
1. 药补不如食补，食补不如气补 (The best nourishment comes from Qi, then food, then medicine)
2. 保养贵在坚持 (The most important aspect of maintaining your body is consistency)

She said I was lucky I did not have any underlying illness, I was too stressed then. She suggest that:
I take about 10-15 mins a day, sit down close my eye and just take deep breathes (something I still do everyday).
Walk everyday, get the blood flowing especially to the legs, if I can exercise but try my best to walk (now trying to start to exercise).
She recommended some tonic pills to take everyday (I still do).

I am happy to say that I can still raise to the occasion.:D

[ET]

Ya after got age already not like last time young one night can do 3 - 4 time. Now one time already tired :(

[newswing]

Mind share the shop in PPC? Thanks



bro.. there is one sex shop at people park complex.. the green color building.
shop on level 2.

talking about tongkat ali, I know some tcm got sell tongkat ali tonics. I ask the shop, they said made in Singapore. has anyone tried?

[iceman111]

Saw someone got this from Guardian. I never try any of these so can't comment.
https://samreally.rocks/showthread.php?t=788848

[PandaFluff]

May i ask is it difficult to get GP to prescribe Viagra?

You can purchase from here: https://expresspct.com/product-category/root/all/international-products/

I have personally purchased from them legit. Stealth shipping so no worry of being seized.

[kennyr]

Just to share my story...now in my mid-40s too.....the last few years was very bad....there was a lot stress from work (to the point of nearly being retrenched)....sex was non existent....could not even get it up from bbj....yes it was that bad.

Later my job stabilized and things were getting ok but I still could not get it up....so went to see family doctor (GP), did a full check up, everything was fine....so GP advised that it was physiological...still he prescribed Viagra and told me to return to get more if i need and I should relax.

Well Viagra worked but after a few doses I started to self-pity, so I went to see a TCM doctor, I didn't tell this doctor that I had problem getting it up (pai seh mah and also wanted to see how good is she), so I just said I feel tired very easily always.

Anyway I asked the doctor what is the best type of medicine, to which she said I can prescribe you the herbs to brew and drink. I bought 3 packets back and brew them over 3 days to drink....the medicine taste disgusting...

I slept very well over those 3 nights (long weekend), and felt much better so I went back to see the doctor again, this time she prescribed something different, again 3 packets. The morning after the last dose, I woke up with morning wood (something I have not felt for sometime).

I went back to the doctor again, and told her I felt much better, 人比较精神，精力也好像比较好，不会一直感到累。

The Doctor said actually I was stressed and she prescribed something to help me sleep better and later some tonics. She share some TCM theories with me.
1. 药补不如食补，食补不如气补 (The best nourishment comes from Qi, then food, then medicine)
2. 保养贵在坚持 (The most important aspect of maintaining your body is consistency)

She said I was lucky I did not have any underlying illness, I was too stressed then. She suggest that:
I take about 10-15 mins a day, sit down close my eye and just take deep breathes (something I still do everyday).
Walk everyday, get the blood flowing especially to the legs, if I can exercise but try my best to walk (now trying to start to exercise).
She recommended some tonic pills to take everyday (I still do).

I am happy to say that I can still raise to the occasion.:D

Thanks for sharing. Where is this Chinese TCM?

[ivy67]

MACA TONGKAT ALI EXTRS SUPER😋😋😘👃👃👍

[newswing]

MACA TONGKAT ALI EXTRS SUPER😋😋😘👃👃👍

.. where can u buy them? how much? any pictures?

[boonyeo]

Hello to all

I in my 40s what I can do are few thing

1)Sleep well for up to 8 hours

2)Walk every day to get the blood flowing to the legs
(exercise regularly after finish day work)

3)Go for medicine check once every six to a years (full check up everything)

4)Less processed food, healthier living,drink lot of water

[willroyce]

Maintaining a proper diet and good exercise can ensure that u can go all night long :cool:

[willroyce]

Hello to all

I in my 40s what I can do are few thing

1)Sleep well for up to 8 hours

2)Walk every day to get the blood flowing to the legs
(exercise regularly after finish day work)

3)Go for medicine check once every six to a years (full check up everything)

4)Less processed food, healthier living,drink lot of water

yes this is very true.. my grandad is 55 and still active in geylang hahaha

[willroyce]

I'm also in my 40's... 47 yrs now.

from age 30's to early 40's .. I have to fuck the girl twice (within 90 minutes) to be sexually satisfied.
I've always drink tonics, honey and do simple exercise. swimming is the best form

with covid, it has been depressing for some people like myself.

have not tried viagra. I can still achieve election. looking around to buy strong tongkat ali but couldn't find.
took some Chinese sex pills and it helps a bit. it is quite expensive

Viagra is not advisable bcoz and lead to other side effects but natural medicine is good

[willroyce]

I guess this is the same for all ages

the urge to go raw is hard to control

[koites]

thanks bro. I bought the other pill with tolestrone ( maybe wrong spelling). wanted to try Tongkat ali too. there is this sex shop at people park Complex, they have very strong tongkat ali pill which they have mark up the price to $20 a tablet
.

Those from sex shop usually contain viagra or cialis. That's why you see very good effects.

[pandab]

Does anyone ever tried delay sprays.. or C**** B+ before for enhancements. Any side effect?

[king ong]

Has nyone try e docdoctor tongka ali

[LordVader]

yes this is very true.. my grandad is 55 and still active in geylang hahaha

Grandad - 55
Dad - 41
You - 18?

[altec7]

Grandad - 55
Dad - 41
You - 18?

Hahaha that's what I was wondering too.

How old are you really bro willroyce? :D

[nocsag]

stop any kind of pcc.
tell yourself only women must touch ur kkj.

[bigmannow]

stop any kind of pcc.
tell yourself only women must touch ur kkj.

think i too used to PCC... can get hard but cannot shoot during BJ/sex.... any bros experience this ?

[Neoguri]

u are normal lah.... dun listen to too many tao kang comment... simi 3 time 4 time... zzzzz:rolleyes:

I like your comment! - Very honest!
I also agree the originator is very normal and healthy. :)

Exercise helps, especially abs workout routine.

[cowboy69]

Does anyone ever tried delay sprays.. or C**** B+ before for enhancements. Any side effect?

I have bought such spray from the forum but I really don’t think it helps.. it is really just psychological. I rather try pills.

It may be just me. You can try out if you are convinced.

[Colin80]

I have bought such spray from the forum but I really don’t think it helps.. it is really just psychological. I rather try pills.

It may be just me. You can try out if you are convinced.

Im more on pills too.

[impreza69]

I'm also in my 40s, 100% agree to the bro boonyeo.....100% really.

Exercise regularly like walking and slow jogging really re-vitalize yourself. You don't have to run marathon 42km or run like F1....just regularly every week 2 to 3 times and at your own pace. Trust me, many chio bo will be accompanying you during your walk ......nice shorts and beautiful butt.....

Key point is blood circulation.


Hello to all

I in my 40s what I can do are few thing

1)Sleep well for up to 8 hours

2)Walk every day to get the blood flowing to the legs
(exercise regularly after finish day work)

3)Go for medicine check once every six to a years (full check up everything)

4)Less processed food, healthier living,drink lot of water

[jaccy]

maybe your partner not sexy enough or not soft enough to make you sex arousal, try date a girl from sugarbook, the baby.

[Sheenymilano]

Anyone tried vitality plus from EU yan sang which contains all 3 maca + goat weed + tongkat? Only issue and side effects will be from Mercury levels
I'm not sure how they regulate these Chinese tcm products for Mercury

[newswing]

Anyone tried vitality plus from EU yan sang which contains all 3 maca + goat weed + tongkat? Only issue and side effects will be from Mercury levels
I'm not sure how they regulate these Chinese tcm products for Mercury


Tried before. results vary.. not strong enough for me.
right now I'm taking ginseng tablets bought from guardian. they have promotion then with a Korean company. fow the first 2 months, I took 2 tablets a day for 5 times a week, after that 1 tablet a day. since I'm in my 40's .. it gave me strength.
u can try but also remember your regular exercise

[Sheenymilano]

Tried before. results vary.. not strong enough for me.
right now I'm taking ginseng tablets bought from guardian. they have promotion then with a Korean company. fow the first 2 months, I took 2 tablets a day for 5 times a week, after that 1 tablet a day. since I'm in my 40's .. it gave me strength.
u can try but also remember your regular exercise

Thanks bro im also in my forties last time can do many times a week and sometimes if in the mood 3 times a day on holiday but knn after 40 jialat liao. Now only I start to take note of all these supplements.

For ginseng how about those in slices one premium eating them is better then tablets right? I assume wild ginseng is best but damn expensive. Sigh

[blu3fin]

Last time heard Korean red ginseng tea.
But didn't see in shops.. anyone saw?

[Zruid]

I'm 40plus, good health is been done by doing things in balance and not impulsive.

For me eating healthly, going to usual 5km jog in the morning.

I usually find some time for spa or fj once a week. Still possible to ram her hard and cum within 20mins. No pill needed.

[James912]

if you guys are into lifting weights and want to stay young (i.e. hormonally). You guys can consider TRT (Testosterone Replacement Therapy) by seeing a doctor. Just that you need to fork out extra cash for the testosterone.

Generally as we age, our testosterone (male sex hormone) decrease, causing a decrease in muscle mass and sex drive and etc. What most ppl do in western country is by going through TRT.

[newyorker88]

Heard-say so YES, especially smoking MENTHOL favor kind of cigarettes affect more on the performance.

I second that. Especially menthol cig, ur dick less hard. Totally quit now

[LeeKH]

I’m in my mid-40s. Back in my 30s, I used to remember doing it 3 times in the car. HJ by gf while I drive before dinner. After dinner, BJ in a secluded spot. Then send her back, she didn’t get her fill, so one more time in the back seat. <— It was raining heavily so open air carpark no issue.

Then COVID happened. I just couldn’t get it up. Maybe it was because she rejected me the day before. So, psychologically, my body doesn’t wants to reject her.

These days, the situation is touch and go. Sometimes can, sometimes cannot. Sometimes can last 20mins and keep humping without issues.

Interestingly enough, wifey feels more determined to get me hard. HJ in the shower, BJ, letting play with her pussy (last time don’t like cause too sensitive).

Still finding a solution without drugs.

[Paoer]

45 and above and still going strong, advice not to pcc too many times a week and maintain a clean and healthy diet and exercise. Build up your testosterone.

[hhlover]

I dun think is excerise or maintain diet or watever so..
Is all abt yr feeling n thinking..
I am 43 this years.. i have no problem getting hard whenever my wife touch or stroke my dick.. i can jus ready to have sex with her anytime of the day.. we can even bath together, have sex inside bathroom then come nite time have sex again..
I dun even excerise at all not even running.. walking up stair or can say walk less than 100m per days.. me n my wife try to have sex at least once a wk.. n i do PCC at least twice a wk if i got the ugre to come even after having sex with my wife..
So i think is more abt thinking..
IS U THINK U CAN.. U CAN
IS U THINK U CANT.. U CANT

[SBMEDSUP]

40 is still young man. Just keep fit.

[sopidella]

So i think is more abt thinking..
IS U THINK U CAN.. U CAN
IS U THINK U CANT.. U CANT

Agreed. Be positive is the key!!

[Mythic]

I dun think is excerise or maintain diet or watever so..
Is all abt yr feeling n thinking..
I am 43 this years.. i have no problem getting hard whenever my wife touch or stroke my dick.. i can jus ready to have sex with her anytime of the day.. we can even bath together, have sex inside bathroom then come nite time have sex again..
I dun even excerise at all not even running.. walking up stair or can say walk less than 100m per days.. me n my wife try to have sex at least once a wk.. n i do PCC at least twice a wk if i got the ugre to come even after having sex with my wife..
So i think is more abt thinking..
IS U THINK U CAN.. U CAN
IS U THINK U CANT.. U CANT

Means you have high metabolism and quite an active person.
It's in your gene.
Not all have the same gene.

[itguy2008]

Means you have high metabolism and quite an active person.
It's in your gene.
Not all have the same gene.

I am 48. Can still do 2 to 3 times a night la. Have to be honest hor. This is normally not with my wife but my FB when we are on work trip together.

I don't think about my age when I was doing it. Normal days, I just make sure I can still run my 10 km daily and sleep properly like 6 hours a night at least.

Oh. Drink more water and milk. Cos older already safer to stay hydrated and need the vitamins.

Can one la. Just train for it. hahaha. Cannot find someone to f**k at least make sure you swim or run daily la.

[prince_81]

Still going strong. Sometimes need to spice up like what I shared about our fantasies n roleplay.

[yenhuijoe]

maybe your partner not sexy enough or not soft enough to make you sex arousal, try date a girl from sugarbook, the baby.

Agree with you bro, sometimes need new stuff to spice it up :)

[junior_cannibal]

Most if not all of us are not some male whores, so, don't be overly concerned about the number of times we can have sex at each session or in a night.
Think about it, why the ancient emperors mostly are short lives? One reason is, no enough rest yet every night kenna squeezed fry by the empress or the concubines.
As we age, try to go for quality and not quantity, if you still try to do more than 3 rounds in a night for a prolonged period, your little Joe is likely to quit before you die.

[afterburn]

Most if not all of us are not some male whores, so, don't be overly concerned about the number of times we can have sex at each session or in a night.
Think about it, why the ancient emperors mostly are short lives? One reason is, no enough rest yet every night kenna squeezed fry by the empress or the concubines.
As we age, try to go for quality and not quantity, if you still try to do more than 3 rounds in a night for a prolonged period, your little Joe is likely to quit before you die.

Heard this "emperor" story from a JG lady about how the ultimate achievement is to be able to orgasm without sperm loss :D which is equated to losing the "life essence". She was saying this is not the same as pull handbrake, stop short of orgasm, during sex, this is supposedly not good for the system too.

She laughingly added that females on the other hand can orgasm multiple times with no similar issues. But then refuse my offer to help her with one time ... haha

[itguy2008]

Still going strong. Sometimes need to spice up like what I shared about our fantasies n roleplay.

Oh. Prince, you know your stuff. Spicing up is important. And as you get older, cos you see more and experience more. Harder to spice up.

Like last time two girls will get me excited... but now.... too normal liao. Not fun at all.

[myluckyguy]

i am in 50s and still doing 2 to 3 times a night with my young sugarbaby.. used to be able to do more but :o

[Neoguri]

Here are some of my thoughts.
BTW, I am 47 this year.

It is well know that sexual power and urge will decrease with age, so the question here is what is the acceptable level?
At this age, be elated if you can have it once a day without any performance enhancing drugs. Many people will be delighted with that.

I could masturbate 3 times a day when I was 20.
After I got married at 30, I can have once a day and I am really happy with it and never felt the need for more then once a day.
At 45, my general comfortable level is twice a week. - of course there are some instances where I can do more, but there are also instances where I failed (become soft before I can make my partner cum).

This is dependent on genes and fitness too.
In general, the fitter and healthy the man, the higher chance is that he will have higher sexual powers as well.
So exercise regularly not just for sexual powers but in general to be healthy.
Also be realistic that this is just to slow down the process of aging. No body can stop that.

Of course, some people are just blessed with better genes in this area and take less effort to keep fit than others, or is better able to slow down the aging process.

[junior_cannibal]

Heard this "emperor" story from a JG lady about how the ultimate achievement is to be able to orgasm without sperm loss :D which is equated to losing the "life essence". She was saying this is not the same as pull handbrake, stop short of orgasm, during sex, this is supposedly not good for the system too.

She laughingly added that females on the other hand can orgasm multiple times with no similar issues. But then refuse my offer to help her with one time ... haha

You know why she rejected? Cause you are likely use any method except penetrative. She afraid after she gets one orgasm from you, she will surrender and beg for penetrative.

[itguy2008]

i am in 50s and still doing 2 to 3 times a night with my young sugarbaby.. used to be able to do more but :o

Good one man. Share your secret. How you manage to stay so ....... horny. hahaha.

[boisung]

Good one man. Share your secret. How you manage to stay so ....... horny. hahaha.

Interested to know too :)

[desmondsoon]

Is it common to take Viagra before visiting massage lady or FL for enhanced performance?

[Nicktamer99]

Hi Bros,

Long time user but I only just registered. Bro Naka Timo’s the same time as me I think cause we were both active in the BKK tread in Thonglor those years back.

I’m past 46 this year and have PE and ED due to tons of work stress and a very unhappy home environment. What’s more being extremely active and fit in my younger days means I was enjoying sex very often and after marriage, baby and work stress, sex just felt to me like a bloody disaster, constant frustration and endless shame. Added to this, I sometimes wished I didn’t marry cause our fights are intense and long standing…….it isn’t always a happy home.

It’s only recently I’ve recovered and am glad to share in this forum for us old drivers.

I did not nor had the focus to search for pills or sprays but tried Promescent when my PE started. Since my problems started, there were times I can do penetrative sex and times when it just exploded while I’m in foreplay and mind you I’m a boychick becos I get along well with the other sex. All the inconsistencies just really deflated my my feelings, interest and mood for sex. At the same time work drive and focus was going down, I fell asleep at the wheel in traffic and on my flights for business I snored away and need to be awakened by flight attendants as I slept through landings and was often the last to get off. I often woke up in a plane in a daze not realizing I’m in flight or landed and missed out meals because I slept like a log.

On top of this my immune system started to react strangely giving me tons of ulcers and it took enormous will power to eat through pain, deliver speeches and presentations for god know how many years…….

I was almost at an end. Covid came and I was not allowed to travel-straight and simple. I was bored and depressed and started to focus time on myself. Realized I had lost tons of muscle mass, cardio is a wreck (taking a short 1k walk left me in a pant). Though my belly fat isn’t high and I still looked relatively fit I was a far far cry from my former self. So I TOOK some real active steps because I figured maybe just maybe my testosterone level has plunged and I’m just tired.

What I learnt: As we age and hit the big 40s, our testosterone goes down plus all the pressure and expectation we place on ourselves and from others we end up exhausted and not taking care of ourselves. More importantly we reference our younger selves thinking fucking is a performance and no longer a pleasure of just enjoying sex. The diminishing Testosterone and the unnecessary pressure and self-doubt, worry give us unneeded performance anxiety. When that happens-Hello PE and more importantly ED!

Taking care of body:

Our body is our main vehicle, it’s far easier to control what comes in then to workout hard. So I focused on food 1st.

1. Practiced Fasting and food restriction: I focused on controlling how much I would eat, what to eat, and how to eat. Dumped 99% junk food and cooked all my meals. I ensured I focused on Macro-nutrients, good proteins and fat. Fat gentlemen is greatly needed for Hormone production and well being-despite all the BS in TV. Eat monounsaturated fat, Olive oil, Salmon Beef with the fat on, Butter etc. Dump margarine, chips. Guess what my food bills actually came down. My fridge became full of vegetables and proper meats, out with processed foods and etc. it’s amazing but true.

2. Exercise: Signed up for a calisthenics course and started to work out-1st session I really wanted to die, felt like the obese boys during our BMT and felt their pain. Everywhere hurt, everything burnt. It was the 1st fucking time I cried my ass in 20+ years after exercise. Spend a good 30 mins in the sun at least 3 times a week.
Now after 4 months, I’ve trimmed alot of my fats, belly is going down in conjunction with diet and fasting from above and energy level is rising. Important thing is the sun. I also took some supplements including Tongkat. Tongkat is good for the beginning but I think and have read that prolonged use doesn’t help it works great for rats but not for people, if it works for you do go on, for me it started to loose its effects after the 1st real bottle.

3. My Spear (KKJ in case you don’t get it): Started to get good wooden erections and it stood up on end. It’s welcoming to be greeted with a solid erected dick when I wake up in the mornings. It’s like Good Morning I’m ready and your body is ready for any ACTION!

Taking care of performance anxiety (the mind)

1. Decided to go back to basic: I’m here to enjoy myself and to enjoy the intimacy and the fuck, regardless if it’s BJ, HJ, Petting, and eventually fucking. Fuck the idea of performance if I shoot I shoot, no need to explain no need to justify I’m recovering and if I fail I’ll accept, just press on and enjoy being with her/s.let go of the shame. Sex is a pleasure not a performance sport.

2. Breathing: Breathing is key, forget trying to hold it in or push it out, just breathe to your partner’s rhythm, as she gets high, you’ll get high together……let go of trying to ensure you pleasure her, focus on enjoying her. And you’ll breathe deeper, better and you’ll enjoy her total smell. Awesome feeling to know when you do this she’s enjoying it as much as you.

Result:
Due to my ability to take punishment and suffer to get fit and realizing what I did wrong. I’m now glad and able to state I no longer shoot before penetrating. Like most 40+ year olds. I enjoy seeing my partner strip, it’s deliciously exciting seeing the dress drop and the tits, cunt and all her naked glory gets shown in full. The BJ and HJ doesn’t get us off too much anymore because we all know its their foreplay for us, what’s fun is petting her and getting her wet. Her moans, her squirms her submission slowly and surely………... The fucking that comes later is really quality, fun and pleasurable, what’s more my partners gladly allow me to finger them to excitement. If I do shoot earlier because they are turned on by being turned on by me the feeling is still great because what’s more exciting gentlemen--than seeing your partner high, soft like butter in your hands, breathing hard, slightly sweaty and just grabbing you because you fucked her in every sense of the words regardless of Dick or Finger.

What I found Ironic yet true. When younger all I wanted was to fuck and have them orgasm at the same time I did. Strangely after the above, I realized and was told by some partners that they actually didn’t or don’t always enjoy the penetrative sex because some of us don’t fuck well! HAHAHAHAHAH. What they do want is to be well petted, feel loved and if I finger them they greatly feel the connection because they feel I got them off unselfishly. Of course for the partners who orgasmed from penetrative sex that connection is more magical and more precious-which means I get to do it again either on same session or at another time.

Summary:
Take care of number 1 gentlemen. Invest in ourselves! Focus on getting our testosterone up, stay fit and healthy. Supplements are a choice can be with or without. As for Prilligy, Ciallis etc, use it but understand it’s still (from my point of view) a temporary fix. If you do get strong you’ll get strong eventually in all areas. Lastly as men, we like and feel mutual orgasm is the best thing out there and the holy grail. Let that go-enjoy the sex, enjoy her. You’ll get back the control and you’ll BOTH be looking forward to the next session whether immediately or later. I sincerely hope I’ll be fucking till the day that I die and I can maintain the above.

Glad to share and hope other brothers who had success can also share their secrets with us.

Unashamedly,
Nick

[bignehneh]

Hi Nick

Well said! I think taking care of your body is the best you can do. Imagine we slog for work, giving up our health in exchange for pay. When they fired you at age of 60, they left you with a wreck body and you have to spend a lot of $$$ fixing it. Health is money so focus on getting ur body in peak condition.

[Neoguri]

Hi Bros,

....

I’m past 46 this year and have PE and ED due to tons of work stress and a very unhappy home environment. What’s more being extremely active and fit in my younger days means

....
Unashamedly,
Nick

Thanks for your great advice bro.
I totally agree that exercise and healthy eating are the best and safest ways to improve performance.
It is also good for our health and everything in general.

Wanted to add that although the stories on SBF are great for reading and getting excited, bros shouldn't start to compare with others and gets pressured into thinking that they should be having 4 rounds a night and making the women cum 10 times, squirting and all that.
Maybe it is possible when we are much younger but for a 48 year old like me now, once a night is possible but my preference is twice a week and have more quality in the sessions.
Now, I am having once a week and totally satisfied with it. :D

It also take time (a few sessions or maybe more) to understand the likes and dislikes of your partner.
My experience with a few of my longer term partners is that it gets better after a few sessions. Every women is different and you just have to discover slowly or communicate with her to find out what she/you like?

[PowerBoy69]

Hi Bros,

Long time user but I only just registered. Bro Naka Timo’s the same time as me I think cause we were both active in the BKK tread in Thonglor those years back.

I’m past 46.......


.....Glad to share and hope other brothers who had success can also share their secrets with us.

Unashamedly,
Nick

Just upped your points nick! Really appreciate your sharing... :)

[Jabba]

For my case, i am in my fifties, and my bro gets hard but can only last anout max 10 mins before ejaculate. Cant make love for long.

[newyorker88]

For my case, i am in my fifties, and my bro gets hard but can only last anout max 10 mins before ejaculate. Cant make love for long.

As we age, our physical body goes down as well. Can’t really hold n pump fast as in younger days. Have to go slow n enjoy it. Erection also don’t last that long also.

[kyc2110]

ya.....still can pump around 35 to 40 mins ! but cant be like younger times after ejaculated, 10mins rest can come another round !:D Chang Ping really destroyed young bodies back then! :D

[kennethmak]

Waah most of you so damn good.
Me 20s and now 30s only one time only....after that cannot stand
Tried tongkat ali coffee no difference

[olcoyote2019]

Hi Bros,

Long time user but I only just registered. Bro Naka Timo’s the same time as me I think cause we were both active in the BKK tread in Thonglor those years back.

I’m past 46 this year and have PE and ED due to tons of work stress and a very unhappy home environment. What’s more being extremely active and fit in my younger days means I was enjoying sex very often and after marriage, baby and work stress, sex just felt to me like a bloody disaster, constant frustration and endless shame. Added to this, I sometimes wished I didn’t marry cause our fights are intense and long standing…….it isn’t always a happy home.

It’s only recently I’ve recovered and am glad to share in this forum for us old drivers.

I did not nor had the focus to search for pills or sprays but tried Promescent when my PE started. Since my problems started, there were times I can do penetrative sex and times when it just exploded while I’m in foreplay and mind you I’m a boychick becos I get along well with the other sex. All the inconsistencies just really deflated my my feelings, interest and mood for sex. At the same time work drive and focus was going down, I fell asleep at the wheel in traffic and on my flights for business I snored away and need to be awakened by flight attendants as I slept through landings and was often the last to get off. I often woke up in a plane in a daze not realizing I’m in flight or landed and missed out meals because I slept like a log.

On top of this my immune system started to react strangely giving me tons of ulcers and it took enormous will power to eat through pain, deliver speeches and presentations for god know how many years…….

I was almost at an end. Covid came and I was not allowed to travel-straight and simple. I was bored and depressed and started to focus time on myself. Realized I had lost tons of muscle mass, cardio is a wreck (taking a short 1k walk left me in a pant). Though my belly fat isn’t high and I still looked relatively fit I was a far far cry from my former self. So I TOOK some real active steps because I figured maybe just maybe my testosterone level has plunged and I’m just tired.

What I learnt: As we age and hit the big 40s, our testosterone goes down plus all the pressure and expectation we place on ourselves and from others we end up exhausted and not taking care of ourselves. More importantly we reference our younger selves thinking fucking is a performance and no longer a pleasure of just enjoying sex. The diminishing Testosterone and the unnecessary pressure and self-doubt, worry give us unneeded performance anxiety. When that happens-Hello PE and more importantly ED!

Taking care of body:

Our body is our main vehicle, it’s far easier to control what comes in then to workout hard. So I focused on food 1st.

1. Practiced Fasting and food restriction: I focused on controlling how much I would eat, what to eat, and how to eat. Dumped 99% junk food and cooked all my meals. I ensured I focused on Macro-nutrients, good proteins and fat. Fat gentlemen is greatly needed for Hormone production and well being-despite all the BS in TV. Eat monounsaturated fat, Olive oil, Salmon Beef with the fat on, Butter etc. Dump margarine, chips. Guess what my food bills actually came down. My fridge became full of vegetables and proper meats, out with processed foods and etc. it’s amazing but true.

2. Exercise: Signed up for a calisthenics course and started to work out-1st session I really wanted to die, felt like the obese boys during our BMT and felt their pain. Everywhere hurt, everything burnt. It was the 1st fucking time I cried my ass in 20+ years after exercise. Spend a good 30 mins in the sun at least 3 times a week.
Now after 4 months, I’ve trimmed alot of my fats, belly is going down in conjunction with diet and fasting from above and energy level is rising. Important thing is the sun. I also took some supplements including Tongkat. Tongkat is good for the beginning but I think and have read that prolonged use doesn’t help it works great for rats but not for people, if it works for you do go on, for me it started to loose its effects after the 1st real bottle.

3. My Spear (KKJ in case you don’t get it): Started to get good wooden erections and it stood up on end. It’s welcoming to be greeted with a solid erected dick when I wake up in the mornings. It’s like Good Morning I’m ready and your body is ready for any ACTION!

Taking care of performance anxiety (the mind)

1. Decided to go back to basic: I’m here to enjoy myself and to enjoy the intimacy and the fuck, regardless if it’s BJ, HJ, Petting, and eventually fucking. Fuck the idea of performance if I shoot I shoot, no need to explain no need to justify I’m recovering and if I fail I’ll accept, just press on and enjoy being with her/s.let go of the shame. Sex is a pleasure not a performance sport.

2. Breathing: Breathing is key, forget trying to hold it in or push it out, just breathe to your partner’s rhythm, as she gets high, you’ll get high together……let go of trying to ensure you pleasure her, focus on enjoying her. And you’ll breathe deeper, better and you’ll enjoy her total smell. Awesome feeling to know when you do this she’s enjoying it as much as you.

Result:
Due to my ability to take punishment and suffer to get fit and realizing what I did wrong. I’m now glad and able to state I no longer shoot before penetrating. Like most 40+ year olds. I enjoy seeing my partner strip, it’s deliciously exciting seeing the dress drop and the tits, cunt and all her naked glory gets shown in full. The BJ and HJ doesn’t get us off too much anymore because we all know its their foreplay for us, what’s fun is petting her and getting her wet. Her moans, her squirms her submission slowly and surely………... The fucking that comes later is really quality, fun and pleasurable, what’s more my partners gladly allow me to finger them to excitement. If I do shoot earlier because they are turned on by being turned on by me the feeling is still great because what’s more exciting gentlemen--than seeing your partner high, soft like butter in your hands, breathing hard, slightly sweaty and just grabbing you because you fucked her in every sense of the words regardless of Dick or Finger.

What I found Ironic yet true. When younger all I wanted was to fuck and have them orgasm at the same time I did. Strangely after the above, I realized and was told by some partners that they actually didn’t or don’t always enjoy the penetrative sex because some of us don’t fuck well! HAHAHAHAHAH. What they do want is to be well petted, feel loved and if I finger them they greatly feel the connection because they feel I got them off unselfishly. Of course for the partners who orgasmed from penetrative sex that connection is more magical and more precious-which means I get to do it again either on same session or at another time.

Summary:
Take care of number 1 gentlemen. Invest in ourselves! Focus on getting our testosterone up, stay fit and healthy. Supplements are a choice can be with or without. As for Prilligy, Ciallis etc, use it but understand it’s still (from my point of view) a temporary fix. If you do get strong you’ll get strong eventually in all areas. Lastly as men, we like and feel mutual orgasm is the best thing out there and the holy grail. Let that go-enjoy the sex, enjoy her. You’ll get back the control and you’ll BOTH be looking forward to the next session whether immediately or later. I sincerely hope I’ll be fucking till the day that I die and I can maintain the above.

Glad to share and hope other brothers who had success can also share their secrets with us.

Unashamedly,
Nick


Thanks bro for sharing your experience.

Well, man's performance indeed will deteriorate as we aged.... so the type of enjoyment or my pleasure should also change from Shoot for enjoyment to :
1. Enjoying the view of BBBJ and the warm of the mouth engulf little wolfy.
2. Petting and deep french kissing.
3. Fingering your partner with deep, long and hard stroke and view her closing her eyes, biting her lips and squeezing her own boobs and letting out deep moans of sextisfaction.

The sensation feelings of enjoyment is no lesser than the ejaculation.

Note : I am taking this supplement at the same time to maintain my little wolfy performance.

https://i.ibb.co/nBb09NS/Whats-App-Image-2021-03-28-at-18-46-41.jpg (https://ibb.co/nBb09NS)

[fallen69angel]

Partner important for me.. an ex gf could have me 4 in a row at age 30, but i can at most 1x with my spouse. Sighh..

[Nicktamer99]

Thanks to all bros for the encouragement and the support. Let’s age gracefully, strong in sex and pleasure and happy always.

[Neoguri]

Partner important for me.. an ex gf could have me 4 in a row at age 30, but i can at most 1x with my spouse. Sighh..

Agree totally!
I am usually happy with once a day.
However, I had a milf in China about 1.5 years ago.....
I was 46 and she is 30.
I added her on Wechat in ShenZhen and chatted with her for some months.
Then, I decided to take a vacation in Beijing and asked if she wants to join me?
She agreed so we spent about 5 nights together in Beijing.

As usual, I am happy with once a day, usually at night before we sleep.
However, she also wants in the middle of the night, when woke up in the morning, come back from tour in late afternoon, after dinner, and again before sleep. :eek:
The strange thing is that I am usually only good for once or at most 2 times a day (with some hours in between), but she would just BBBJ till I am hard then cowgirl me and feed me her nipples.
And since I am hard, I quickly change to doggy her to make her happy (got to appreciate her effort) but I could never cum again.
This went on for 5 days even if I showed no interest. She would just BBBJ till hard then do all the hard work!

I counted, that 5 days we fucked 21 times.
I cum maybe 6 times, but the other times, just make her happy since she could get me hard (surprise for me).

[lovecim]

As we age, our physical body goes down as well. Can’t really hold n pump fast as in younger days. Have to go slow n enjoy it. Erection also don’t last that long also.

Yes exactly. Last time can pump almost immediately after first shot. Still hard somemore. Now it's dependant if little bro is off or on form.

[donut88]

Take the Indian drumstick.

Many indians swear by this

[fallen69angel]

Agree totally!
I am usually happy with once a day.
However, I had a milf in China about 1.5 years ago.....
I was 46 and she is 30.
I added her on Wechat in ShenZhen and chatted with her for some months.
Then, I decided to take a vacation in Beijing and asked if she wants to join me?
She agreed so we spent about 5 nights together in Beijing.

As usual, I am happy with once a day, usually at night before we sleep.
However, she also wants in the middle of the night, when woke up in the morning, come back from tour in late afternoon, after dinner, and again before sleep. :eek:
The strange thing is that I am usually only good for once or at most 2 times a day (with some hours in between), but she would just BBBJ till I am hard then cowgirl me and feed me her nipples.
And since I am hard, I quickly change to doggy her to make her happy (got to appreciate her effort) but I could never cum again.
This went on for 5 days even if I showed no interest. She would just BBBJ till hard then do all the hard work!

I counted, that 5 days we fucked 21 times.
I cum maybe 6 times, but the other times, just make her happy since she could get me hard (surprise for me).

Must be such a gem! I missed the old times.. tops 7 times within 10 hours with a worthy opponent. Then again, i may have over exerted myself in the past.

[fallen11]

being healthy, active, not overweight will help
but still, stress is the top killer of sex. always
if you're not in the correct mindset during sex, it just wont stand no matter what

[Ray06]

Waah most of you so damn good.
Me 20s and now 30s only one time only....after that cannot stand
Tried tongkat ali coffee no difference


You mean once daily?
That is quite good, just pray that you can maintenance this until 60s without taking any supplement to enhance your performance.

[danilov]

You mean once daily?
That is quite good, just pray that you can maintenance this until 60s without taking any supplement to enhance your performance.

It's natural to slow down in the sex department as we get older. In fact if you are married or have a partner roughly the same age it will be a natural compatibility, your other half also start to lose interest in sex as she start to menopause once passed the middle age. All well and good.

But since life is short, when opportunity strikes, take some supplements or use meds if you have to, rather than stress yourself up. As you get even older, nothing can be of help, so might as well enjoy through whatever available means now.

[Neoguri]

Must be such a gem! I missed the old times.. tops 7 times within 10 hours with a worthy opponent. Then again, i may have over exerted myself in the past.

Her looks is like B- grade, but really cannot hiam.
I was 46 then and she was 29. I was really like "old cow eating young grass"!
And there was no money involved.
I didn't pay for her air ticket to Beijing.
Of course I paid for the nice hotel and the local tours.
But she also paid for other items because I don't have the WeChat payment feature in China.

She said she really appreciate the little things I did for her such as:
1) When we were on the coach to see the Great Wall, she mentioned she was thirsty and I immediately took a bottle of water from my bag and open for her.
2) When after my haircut at the salon, she was sitting at the waiting area and she thinks that I would just walk out after making payment. But I went to the waiting area to hold her hand and lead her out.
3) And when I first pick her up at the airport, it was after some trouble finding her, but I didn't loose my temper at all.
This is what sets up apart from the usual Chinese men I guess?

I treat all my women with respect and TLC too.
Must appreciate them and make it a win-win for both.

[kennethmak]

So what supplements do you all take for strong erection? can any bros recommend? Me halfway lose erection or can perform 2 days once only.

[FiTypeR]

So what supplements do you all take for strong erection? can any bros recommend? Me halfway lose erection or can perform 2 days once only.

https://shop.barakah.sg/products/priaazimatlelakiexecutive100cap

You might wanna try this :)

[webb_chiam]

Partner important for me.. an ex gf could have me 4 in a row at age 30, but i can at most 1x with my spouse. Sighh..

totally agreed with you. I feel you bro :D

[sean8338]

It's natural to slow down in the sex department as we get older. In fact if you are married or have a partner roughly the same age it will be a natural compatibility, your other half also start to lose interest in sex as she start to menopause once passed the middle age. All well and good.

But since life is short, when opportunity strikes, take some supplements or use meds if you have to, rather than stress yourself up. As you get even older, nothing can be of help, so might as well enjoy through whatever available means now.

Totally agree with you bro!

[devilysaint]

So what supplements do you all take for strong erection? can any bros recommend? Me halfway lose erection or can perform 2 days once only.

I don’t take supplements... don’t work for me.. try the clinic NOAH. Everything online and they deliver the med to you.

[newswing]

https://shop.barakah.sg/products/priaazimatlelakiexecutive100cap

You might wanna try this :)

Hello bro, this one really strong? Which outlet have or only delivery?

[CarmenB916]

https://shop.barakah.sg/products/priaazimatlelakiexecutive100cap

You might wanna try this :)

Nice share bro. Any feedback on this?

[energy_boi]

Guys, try to do squats....

[deematter]

sex after 40 is not a problem as long as you are wealthy enough and find a girl in srgbk.com, they will pretend high with you. And when you feel she is enjoyed with your skill, you automatically can erect. You can try it out as this is natural way to overcome your erection problem

[deematter]

but if you really want to try out supplementary products, it would be best if the products are being recognized by authority

[deematter]

totally agreed with you. I feel you bro :D

yes need to do somethiiiing to boost up your manness

[Neoguri]

So what supplements do you all take for strong erection? can any bros recommend? Me halfway lose erection or can perform 2 days once only.

I think you are very normal.
It happens to me too sometimes and I just take it as natural.
My mistress then, would be disappointed if she didn't manage to cum before I become soft but I just laugh it off. - Didn't happen often though.

It is very dangerous to explore with supplements. It might work in the short term but soon kills off what's remaining.
The best way really is to exercise.

[fallen69angel]

totally agreed with you. I feel you bro :D

Lol.. life is hard..

[fallen69angel]

Her looks is like B- grade, but really cannot hiam.
I was 46 then and she was 29. I was really like "old cow eating young grass"!
And there was no money involved.
I didn't pay for her air ticket to Beijing.
Of course I paid for the nice hotel and the local tours.
But she also paid for other items because I don't have the WeChat payment feature in China.

She said she really appreciate the little things I did for her such as:
1) When we were on the coach to see the Great Wall, she mentioned she was thirsty and I immediately took a bottle of water from my bag and open for her.
2) When after my haircut at the salon, she was sitting at the waiting area and she thinks that I would just walk out after making payment. But I went to the waiting area to hold her hand and lead her out.
3) And when I first pick her up at the airport, it was after some trouble finding her, but I didn't loose my temper at all.
This is what sets up apart from the usual Chinese men I guess?

I treat all my women with respect and TLC too.
Must appreciate them and make it a win-win for both.

Wow, TLC.. hnnmm i miss those days...

[georgie1994]

no worry, age is not a problem, many dady in suagrbok also 40, they also can perform well...

[georgie1994]

but if you really want to try out supplementary products, it would be best if the products are being recognized by authority

yes better like this, dun play with your health

[georgie1994]

Take the Indian drumstick.

Many indians swear by this

is that the famous plant that Indian always eat?

[txinzheng]

Lots of us when young like quantity sex but when aging we want quality sex. I am 58 and I have no issue to have 2 to 3 times a night with my FB. I believe the sex chemistry and mode is especially important. By the way, I do stretching and plank 4 time a week, I believe this will help in the sex life.

[willroyce]

sex after 40 is not a problem as long as you are wealthy enough and find a girl in srgbk.com, they will pretend high with you. And when you feel she is enjoyed with your skill, you automatically can erect. You can try it out as this is natural way to overcome your erection problem

very true bro.. i prefer having sugar babies around me and the feeling makes me feel like a king.. have been using sugarb.com for some time and very hot chicks recently

[willroyce]

https://shop.barakah.sg/products/priaazimatlelakiexecutive100cap

You might wanna try this :)

i have tried this.. it was recommended by an ML in malaysia

[willroyce]

Lots of us when young like quantity sex but when aging we want quality sex. I am 58 and I have no issue to have 2 to 3 times a night with my FB. I believe the sex chemistry and mode is especially important. By the way, I do stretching and plank 4 time a week, I believe this will help in the sex life.

you should also try drinking honey with tea bro.. really helps with erection

[willroyce]

ya.....still can pump around 35 to 40 mins ! but cant be like younger times after ejaculated, 10mins rest can come another round !:D Chang Ping really destroyed young bodies back then! :D

hahah times were different back then bro.. nowadays my sugarbabes from sugarbook also can only last for 15 mins

[willroyce]

I am mid 40 now, used to be able to f for 45 mins and cum 2 to 3 times, suddenly, past 40, dick gets soft after 10 mins and at most 1 shot. So I did exercises, run and gym. But even that, not very much improved. Age affects us all differently. Sadly in my case, looks OK, body shape OK, sports OK but dick cannot stand.

See doctor, doctor says age coming, slow down. Maybe after a few more months they will prescribe viagra, etc. Sigh..

well it is a hard pill to swallow.. i hope viagara is easier to swallow :D

[lowhc]

well it is a hard pill to swallow.. i hope viagara is easier to swallow :D

Well, finally settled on taking viagra with doctor's prescription. Now dick can stay hard enough to fuck for about 3-4 hours. But the pill needs 30 mins to take effect, so no sudden sex.

Branded viagra is very costly, $20+ one pop. Generic ones (works for me) less than $1 each!

[lowhc]

Same same.... have you tried take tongka ali ?

I don't think it will work as well as viagra, which I am using now.

[lowhc]

Agree, but if gal show attitude. Sometime do half way also cannot stand.

A good sex partner will help each other cum better.

Not boasting :), but many girls I had said I am very nice to fuck them long enough and also touch and lick them enough for them to cum (both paid sex, friends or wife). In fact, many girls return to me for my hand-treatment! :)

I also feel better and cum better when the attitude of the girl is good. Best if all senses are triggered.

[lowhc]

BTW, stress makes a big difference to sexual performance. I had a very major job change from a highly stressful job to a less stressful one, can feel the difference. Easier to get hard and hardness lasts longer.

But life cannot be no stress, still need to make a living...

[sidekick]

I just passed 60 & can do it once a day. I don’t mean I can have a pussy every day but when one is not available, I musterwbate. I believe in working the engine everyday.
I can sustain my erection long enough to satisfy my partners but my issue is that I’m unable to cum quickly & especially when using condom. It’s very frustrating when all you want a quickie.
I’m not sure whether exercise helps but I do cardio for more than an hour every other day

[Naka_Timo]

I just passed 60 & can do it once a day. I don’t mean I can have a pussy every day but when one is not available, I musterwbate. I believe in working the engine everyday.
I can sustain my erection long enough to satisfy my partners but my issue is that I’m unable to cum quickly & especially when using condom. It’s very frustrating when all you want a quickie.
I’m not sure whether exercise helps but I do cardio for more than an hour every other day

+141 for you

[jaccy]

as long as you always take care of your health, i think age is not a big issue in sex. i have a night with a middle age guy (in his 40s i think) we meet in sgrb,com and decided to date out. His performance is not bad on that night and he tells me he always do gym to keep fit.

[jaccy]

Means you have high metabolism and quite an active person.
It's in your gene.
Not all have the same gene.

If you do not have naturally, you can produce artificially :)

[jaccy]

Agreed. A new or good partner works well for me.

depends on the beauty and skill of the partner, easily get high if she is seducing right

[Xgenre]

but if you really want to try out supplementary products, it would be best if the products are being recognized by authority

Like that Zhu Hou Ren advertisement? Some product from Eu Yan Sang. I wonder if anyone here tried. Cock got harder?

Eu Yan Sang Vitality Plus is a health supplement that exclusively incorporates TCM knowledge to support Men’s health.

Eu Yan Sang Vitality Plus combines the goodness of the premium Chinese herb; Cordyceps with the benefits of Tongkat Ali, Horny Goat’s Weed, and Maca to support Men’s vitality and energy for daily performance and sport fitness.

Cordyceps provides an extra boost of energy and reduces fatigue. Cordyceps tonifies the kidneys and strengthen essence and “qi”. Cordyceps also supports the respiratory system and has been shown to enhance Men’s health.

Tongkat Ali has been popularly used for Men’s health and is well studied by the scientific community. Studies have shown that Tongkat Ali provides support to male health, improves endurance and increase muscle strength for sports performance.

Horny Goat’s Weed tonifies the kidneys, strengthen “qi” and increases will power. In addition, it strengthens bones and tendon.

Maca hails from the Peruvian Andes mountains, and has traditionally been used to boost Men’s health. It promotes physical endurance and improves stamina.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GqygKke3gNE

Have to be very careful with Cordyceps though. It slows down the blood clotting function in our bodies. If you have a cut or an unexpected surgery, you need to inform your doctor about this. It also takes many days to get it out of your bodily system. Meaning if you stop taking it today, it will take many days before your blood clotting function gets back to normal.

[altec7]

I just passed 60 & can do it once a day. I don’t mean I can have a pussy every day but when one is not available, I musterwbate. I believe in working the engine everyday.
I can sustain my erection long enough to satisfy my partners but my issue is that I’m unable to cum quickly & especially when using condom. It’s very frustrating when all you want a quickie.
I’m not sure whether exercise helps but I do cardio for more than an hour every other day


Haha good for you bro! Try not using condom :p

[junior_cannibal]

Aging is very real. When younger, 3 to 4 rounds daily is normal. Now, twice a week is good enough. Generally can still sustain the hardness. I am in my early 50s. I am quite chill about the fall in libido. Imagine when I am in my 60s and still super horny. Always on a lookout to bed someone in their 30s,will look like a dirty old uncle or ah pek.

[Silentreader88]

Sex after 40 has been pretty silent!:D

[Immunities]

depends on the beauty and skill of the partner, easily get high if she is seducing right

Very true indeed

[kombust]

Aging is very real. When younger, 3 to 4 rounds daily is normal. Now, twice a week is good enough. Generally can still sustain the hardness. I am in my early 50s. I am quite chill about the fall in libido. Imagine when I am in my 60s and still super horny. Always on a lookout to bed someone in their 30s,will look like a dirty old uncle or ah pek.

that is kinda true. approaching 40s soon and i realized getting harder for me to KC the syt mls/fls unlike last time. i'm sure i'm not gonna have gd service from a syt when i'm 60.

[nagel]

Well, finally settled on taking viagra with doctor's prescription. Now dick can stay hard enough to fuck for about 3-4 hours. But the pill needs 30 mins to take effect, so no sudden sex.

Branded viagra is very costly, $20+ one pop. Generic ones (works for me) less than $1 each!

Where to find generic viagra in singapore?

[Gegenpressing]

Very true indeed

Couldn't agree more

[Jotosan]

Salute you sir .
Stay strong and healthy

[twinresist2]

Im heading towards 45 and so far I can still perform.
I believe a healthy lifestyle is quite important and so i keep myself "fit" by working out and doing cardio on a bike. Occasional stimulation with Porn and massage helps to keep the tool sensitive to touch which i think is pretty important :D

[junior_cannibal]

that is kinda true. approaching 40s soon and i realized getting harder for me to KC the syt mls/fls unlike last time. i'm sure i'm not gonna have gd service from a syt when i'm 60.
If its commercial, can still pay to get a 20ish SYT to service. Just that if you have a daughter of similar age, it will be a little kinky.

[Yod4]

Like that Zhu Hou Ren advertisement? Some product from Eu Yan Sang. I wonder if anyone here tried. Cock got harder?

Eu Yan Sang Vitality Plus is a health supplement that exclusively incorporates TCM knowledge to support Men’s health.

Eu Yan Sang Vitality Plus combines the goodness of the premium Chinese herb; Cordyceps with the benefits of Tongkat Ali, Horny Goat’s Weed, and Maca to support Men’s vitality and energy for daily performance and sport fitness.

Cordyceps provides an extra boost of energy and reduces fatigue. Cordyceps tonifies the kidneys and strengthen essence and “qi”. Cordyceps also supports the respiratory system and has been shown to enhance Men’s health.

Tongkat Ali has been popularly used for Men’s health and is well studied by the scientific community. Studies have shown that Tongkat Ali provides support to male health, improves endurance and increase muscle strength for sports performance.

Horny Goat’s Weed tonifies the kidneys, strengthen “qi” and increases will power. In addition, it strengthens bones and tendon.

Maca hails from the Peruvian Andes mountains, and has traditionally been used to boost Men’s health. It promotes physical endurance and improves stamina.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GqygKke3gNE

Have to be very careful with Cordyceps though. It slows down the blood clotting function in our bodies. If you have a cut or an unexpected surgery, you need to inform your doctor about this. It also takes many days to get it out of your bodily system. Meaning if you stop taking it today, it will take many days before your blood clotting function gets back to normal.

I've tried it - It's effects are not immediate and can only be felt after a loading period of about 1 week. It was also quite pricey so I stopped getting it after that one bottle. 金枪补肾丸 from Thye Shan Medical Hall worked better for me with a shorter loading period and at less than half the price.

[tabao11]

as long as you always take care of your health, i think age is not a big issue in sex. i have a night with a middle age guy (in his 40s i think) we meet in sgrb,com and decided to date out. His performance is not bad on that night and he tells me he always do gym to keep fit.

Yeah work out is important. I jog 8kmbper hour once or twice a week. Last weekend I cycled 60km. A bit tired but manageable.
Sex wife I have no sex for very long time since my wife don't want n lose interest. I exercise pure to make myself healthy and fit. Mostly jerk off to prevent wetting of bed

[tabao11]

Sex after 40 has been pretty silent!:D

Just get used to it. I m sexless life and I can live my life without sex. Don't think too much. Just worked out till very tired will do

[Immunities]

JI m sexless life and I can live my life without sex

I do not think i will be able to lead a life without sex, it like torture for me :o

[surinami]

I do not think i will be able to lead a life without sex, it like torture for me :o

Lol same here

[fallen11]

I do not think i will be able to lead a life without sex, it like torture for me :o

me too LOL:D

[jdoe]

food, exercise and partner

this was not mentioned yet. bros may wish to add this into their daily routine

in a sitting position, self massage the blood flow areas to the penis daily. start from the area between the penis and anus. feel for the ligament and blood vessels. slowly work fingers up to the penis, all the while feeling and massaging along the blood vessels

this will greatly improve blood circulation to the area. even better if you take up yoga or similar daily stretching exercises. good blood flow throughout the whole body is good for every part of the body

[lowhc]

food, exercise and partner

this was not mentioned yet. bros may wish to add this into their daily routine

in a sitting position, self massage the blood flow areas to the penis daily. start from the area between the penis and anus. feel for the ligament and blood vessels. slowly work fingers up to the penis, all the while feeling and massaging along the blood vessels

this will greatly improve blood circulation to the area. even better if you take up yoga or similar daily stretching exercises. good blood flow throughout the whole body is good for every part of the body

Will try. Thanks.

[MountainMonster]

I've tried it - It's effects are not immediate and can only be felt after a loading period of about 1 week. It was also quite pricey so I stopped getting it after that one bottle. 金枪补肾丸 from Thye Shan Medical Hall worked better for me with a shorter loading period and at less than half the price.

How much is the 金枪补肾丸?

[seanylit]

that is kinda true. approaching 40s soon and i realized getting harder for me to KC the syt mls/fls unlike last time. i'm sure i'm not gonna have gd service from a syt when i'm 60.

Just throw a few blue notes at them and suddenly you will be damn attractive!! :D

[sgsingaboy]

early 40s but nowadays damn jialat. Can still be very hard but come very fast. BBBJ can last but if Real Action very fast come. Got cure or not?

[mona]

When your small brother call it a day you know life will never be the same again. Do not blame small brother as he has done his job tunneling all those dark watery holes all these years diligently when call of duty comes along.

[KingLoe]

early 40s but nowadays damn jialat. Can still be very hard but come very fast. BBBJ can last but if Real Action very fast come. Got cure or not?

Same here bro. Was wondering if there is a cure to it.

[SiliconVibrator]

Im 45yo, i feels that if i exercise or walk alot my little bro can tahan longer when having sex. Mayb u all can try out.

[twinresist2]

Same here bro. Was wondering if there is a cure to it.

Im on the opposite side.. I dont cum easily and I tried hard to cum because its tiring to keep going at it for a while. I suspect my dick might be less sensitive over time as i age.
I do feel men need to be well groom and have the sense of confidence to attract the ladies.. therefore taking good care of ourselves (the way we carry ourselves, good skin care, staying fit with some middle age fats is fine). Some time material stuff helps too... I believe in the total package to attract the opposite sex

[Xgenre]

Im on the opposite side.. I dont cum easily and I tried hard to cum because its tiring to keep going at it for a while. I suspect my dick might be less sensitive over time as i age.

Numb penis. Google the term.

[StealthBomber]

early 40s but nowadays damn jialat. Can still be very hard but come very fast. BBBJ can last but if Real Action very fast come. Got cure or not?

Quite easy to fix. Just use those delay or numbing spray.

[tabao11]

No sex for me la. Past 40 body well kept in shape. When penis hard very hard. Feel like a rock hahaha. Just exercise more to make myself tired and sleep well. Both me and wife busy in work she zero interest. I don't mind even though sometimes I want but I can channel my attention to exercise and on my career. U guys are right maybe I exercise a lot that's why it's very hard

[rainforestkk]

No sex for me la. Past 40 body well kept in shape. When penis hard very hard. Feel like a rock hahaha. Just exercise more to make myself tired and sleep well. Both me and wife busy in work she zero interest. I don't mind even though sometimes I want but I can channel my attention to exercise and on my career. U guys are right maybe I exercise a lot that's why it's very hard

Power la u bro!
I think if u got partner sure she enjoy sex with you

[Buibuicat]

Think it’s not easy but exercise is the key .... my Fb is 49 n I m in mid 50’s .... trying to please her to the max is the key but can only last once a day zzzz

[ilovepantyhose]

food - less salt, less sugar, less fried stuff, more veggies & fruits, more "good" fish (eg salmon, cod, mackerel, sardine, tuna), more "good" fats (eg olive oil, nuts, avocado)

health supplements - multivitamin, omega 3 fish oil, as long as your budget allows and in case u miss out on certain nutrients from your daily food intake

TCM - if your budget allows, see a tcm sinseh to get your body/organs/vitality back on track

gym - do compound exercises like bench press, pull-ups, squats, dead lift

cardio - do low impact exercises like swim, cycle, walk (i took up walking and i find that my kkj stays erect longer and i can fuck longer before cumming. before i took up walking, my kkj cannot stand for long, it would go flaccid esp in missionary posn and cowgirl was the only position that my kkj can stay hard and i cum after a few strokes, like wtf srsly? seems like walking 10k steps daily does help) disclaimer: i'm sharing my personal experience, your experience may vary

last but not least, everything in moderation, don't be a lao hero, don't overexert and don't get injured :o:o

[Neoguri]

Excellent advise from ilovepantyhose
Totally agree and have the same experience.

[fishmeup]

What about becoming less sensitive? Just feeling alot less sensitive and climax is not as mind-blowing as before. sex is probably once a month but DIY is probably twice a week. Anyone got any recommendation to improve the sensitivity?

[5ja5ja5ja]

Power la u bro!
I think if u got partner sure she enjoy sex with you

He mentioned got partner but she zero interest

[talismann]

Rest is under appreciated and many people do not sleep well, leading to performance issues. Get more good rest and you will definitely feel some difference.