Do you ask about your girl's past relationships and sexlife?

[morrissey1209]

Just curious about what people do.

For me, personally, I don't because I feel history is history. Everybody has got one so no point going there. The more you know, you might actually start minding stuff. But people are naturally curious and I am no different.

My gal seems like a very nice and even-tempered girl but when she explodes, she is fucking nasty (which is admittedly rare nowadays but there was a period when we were close to breaking off and she was fucking nasty to me almost everyday). She always tells me that she was a bad girl in the past and maybe "you don't know me well enough and if you did, you wouldn't love me". That is BS to me and I have told her that.

And during sex, she always tells me "You are very big. You have very good technique". Internally I tell myself "lan jiao lah. Don't tell me your exes all that bad"

Have you guys ever wondered and asked about your girl's past? Did you ask and when you did and knew about stuff you didn't (especially stuff you don't like), did it change anything? This may not be actions or behaviour towards her but also how you feel.

[thedevil666]

It’s pretty erotic for me to hear my gf previous stories when we had sex.

She shared with me quite a few things like, how she was fucked from behind by her ex in public places last time. By the pool side sex she had that was almost caught by the security guard. I even asked her if I was the “biggest”.. haha. She told me I’m not the longest one. I didn’t feel offended

I guess, u just have to take your pride out when discussing some matters. U cannot fight with someone that is before u. But I think it will mind fuck or became jealous if u hear that she does something with her ex but chose not to do it with u.

[stoicism]

Only asking this is the kind of thing that turns you on. Otherwise better not to know.

[henry_ang10]

ignorance is bliss... better not to know..

Some guys cannot take it one.. i'm one of them..

I cant stand my gal telling me how she swallowed her ex cum or she fucked 20 man before .. or how her ex would fucked her 5 times a day and shoot into her pussy or how she orgasms 10 times with her ex...

I think some guys cannot take it.. wondering how many guys here can take it?

[scotus]

Never ask and never gets any lies?

[DuaLipa]

ignorance is bliss... better not to know..

Some guys cannot take it one.. i'm one of them..

I cant stand my gal telling me how she swallowed her ex cum or she fucked 20 man before .. or how her ex would fucked her 5 times a day and shoot into her pussy or how she orgasms 10 times with her ex...

I think some guys cannot take it.. wondering how many guys here can take it?

Fully agreed and why bother.

[hornyvb]

Only asking this is the kind of thing that turns you on. Otherwise better not to know.

Very well said bro, my exact sentiments.

[TinyFatCat]

No need to know too much :D

[ilovepantyhose]

"You take the blue pill—the story ends, you wake up in your bed and believe whatever you want to believe. You take the red pill—you stay in Wonderland, and I show you how deep the rabbit hole goes" - Morpheus

:cool::cool:

[Summerhillt]

ignorance is bliss... better not to know..

Some guys cannot take it one.. i'm one of them..

I cant stand my gal telling me how she swallowed her ex cum or she fucked 20 man before .. or how her ex would fucked her 5 times a day and shoot into her pussy or how she orgasms 10 times with her ex...

I think some guys cannot take it.. wondering how many guys here can take it?

Cb how to orgasm 10x a day sia

[morrissey1209]

Cb how to orgasm 10x a day sia

Hahaha. Actually I think can do five times quite something already, maybe his ex at that time was young lah. I now 40+, 5 times beyond me siah.

And yeah, I also took the blue pill. I don't think I can take that her exes (maybe) used to CIP her. But funny how girls always ask us about our exes, how many we have, what we did for them...then tell them honestly, sulk like fuck.

Curiosity killed the cat.

[toyotarush]

When you have sex with her.... see how skillful or acceptance she is.... is enough. :D

Agreed bro. For me I will asked after few months together.

[Rickey]

Good to ask n know how good or bad girl she had been in the past if she is willing to tell u the truth :p:o...the sex could be better n more enjoyable as a result when u learn to identify and work on her pleasure points n areas n her preferences when having sex with u comparing with her previous partners :):o

[TheGreatOne]

Cb how to orgasm 10x a day sia

Girls can la bro.. .

[Rickey]

Cb how to orgasm 10x a day sia

Girls can la bro.. .
Think girls can orgasm n recover very fast after exploding :p...whilst most guys esp the older ones those abv 50 or 60 takes a lot of time to recover after 1 shot or 1 round :(...immediately after shooting flat liao :p..but girls on the other hand pick themselves up faster almost immediately after they cum keeping their pussies wet :o...so guess the TheGreatOne is correct....if u can keep on pleasuring them down there non-stop, they will keep on cumming n cumming at least 5 times if not 10 either in one go or 2 or 3 separate rounds in 1 nite :p...hehe

[Wakeup123]

It's better act blur n don't ask. What if one of her sex partner is your current boss n if this is the boss who makes your life difficult n nearly destroy u?

[morrissey1209]

It's better act blur n don't ask. What if one of her sex partner is your current boss n if this is the boss who makes your life difficult n nearly destroy u?

To be honest, maybe more interested in the sex part, especially CIP and what they did. Secretly we all wanna be Jose Mourinho.

[harakiril33]

Just curious about what people do.

For me, personally, I don't because I feel history is history. Everybody has got one so no point going there. The more you know, you might actually start minding stuff. But people are naturally curious and I am no different.

My gal seems like a very nice and even-tempered girl but when she explodes, she is fucking nasty (which is admittedly rare nowadays but there was a period when we were close to breaking off and she was fucking nasty to me almost everyday). She always tells me that she was a bad girl in the past and maybe "you don't know me well enough and if you did, you wouldn't love me". That is BS to me and I have told her that.

And during sex, she always tells me "You are very big. You have very good technique". Internally I tell myself "lan jiao lah. Don't tell me your exes all that bad"

Have you guys ever wondered and asked about your girl's past? Did you ask and when you did and knew about stuff you didn't (especially stuff you don't like), did it change anything? This may not be actions or behaviour towards her but also how you feel.

Young time when dated my first love, I kept probing about her past. Being innocent and naive, everything she mentioned I took it to heart. One time I show her my favourite band song, she could sing part of the lyrics. Was taken aback that she knew the language. Turns out that it's her ex who taught her. For a long time, I was affected, don't listen to that band any more lol. Was a r/s greenhorn taking things too hard.

Surprisingly for the sex part, I was fine and didn't dig out much. Dominated her the way I wanted and gave her new experiences.

Bottom line is that ask too much is like opening a can of worms. Unless you can take it. So no point to dig. However, as we mature with age and date more, we become more immune about her history. You know you're the bigger man cos end of day, she chose you!

[darkness4311666]

It is best not to ask but I find girls like to ask guy about their relationship and their sex life. I myself did not ask my wife abt it and in the end she told me her past relationship just after we have sex the first time.

[xesuzuki]

To be honest, maybe more interested in the sex part, especially CIP and what they did. Secretly we all wanna be Jose Mourinho.

All wanted to be sacked? :confused: :eek:

[morrissey1209]

All wanted to be sacked? :confused: :eek:

And get paid millions as severance. Yes.

[Havanna Slicks]

depends on your pov and reaction to it after opening the can of worms, some bros get affected like the CIP, the tot of another guy's cum flowing out from the pussy creampie, imagine if u go down on her then the tot keeps coming back u lick halfway got another guy's cum come out lol...

some bros are turned on by such things, knowing about their partners sex lives, some even pay other guys to fuck their partners while they watch and pcc at the side, then mayb join in to GB her later on... orgy thread got plenty such bros... this is called cuckolding...

so u know urself best, if u dont take it well, best dont ask, coz it can only get worse and not better, give u an illustration below... say a couple trying to conceive a baby, so everyday CIP, the gal is also eating outside so tell the bf nvm juz shoot inside i'm trying to concieve... so after awhile the gal gets pregnant, gives birth blah blah blah and the story goes on, the kid grows up, so if you're the husband and one fine day u know about this, are u going to do a DNA test on ur kid? does the result make any difference to your life? if the marriage and family is a happy one, i say juz leave it, if the result shows the kid is not yours, are you going to disown him? fruit for thought...

and the part abt your partner saying u big, we wouldnt know for sure unless u line up all her exes and do some dick measuring, point is though whether big or not only u yourself know, but from your gf's point she is trying to make u feel good so i say u shld be happy about it, another illustration for u... u go book a FL, would u prefer a dead fish or would u prefer one who moans and cums for u... i'm sure most will take the latter one, even if u know damn jolly well it's fake, at the very least she took the effort to fake for u, that goes to show something better than the dead fish who doesnt put in any effort juz wan u faster cum 'are u done?' lol... another fruit for thought...

somethings like BBBJ or anal she tell u she did for her exes, then when u wana do, she find a thousand and one excuses not to do with u, how would u feel? wah lau why u do with your ex u dowan to do with me, then u feel sad right, end of the day i find so as long u guys are enjoying ur sex life, no need to worry about the rest unless it turns u on...

[linda tan]

Just curious about what people do.

For me, personally, I don't because I feel history is history. Everybody has got one so no point going there. The more you know, you might actually start minding stuff. But people are naturally curious and I am no different.

My gal seems like a very nice and even-tempered girl but when she explodes, she is fucking nasty (which is admittedly rare nowadays but there was a period when we were close to breaking off and she was fucking nasty to me almost everyday). She always tells me that she was a bad girl in the past and maybe "you don't know me well enough and if you did, you wouldn't love me". That is BS to me and I have told her that.

And during sex, she always tells me "You are very big. You have very good technique". Internally I tell myself "lan jiao lah. Don't tell me your exes all that bad"

Have you guys ever wondered and asked about your girl's past? Did you ask and when you did and knew about stuff you didn't (especially stuff you don't like), did it change anything? This may not be actions or behaviour towards her but also how you feel.

happening to me now....at crossroads

[Topshag33]

I think depends. For me personally I was young and naive. Took to her stories badly after I query of her past and found out harsh truths but looking back if history occurs again now, wouldnt ever matter because she was a good person just made a wrong choice.. and being young some times we make mistakes. History is history.

Ignorance is bliss. 😊

[morrissey1209]

happening to me now....at crossroads

If you think the relationship is worth fighting for, will have to fight through this period. Darkness seems never ending, yet it will end. And talk through it, be as frank as you can about your feelings and reasons and you interpreted her actions/words. Tell her it is because you treasure the relationship, that's why you wanna talk. Otherwise, just ignore and forget because it meant nothing to you.

[Cheesebeast]

Have never openly asked or demanded to know abt my girlfriends' pasts. But if the topic comes up, i am open to listening. Thus far i have never judged their pasts and have even remained in relationships after knowing about their wild/dark pasts.

Their past sexual life was also never an issue. In fact, knowing about them actually makes it easier to know how to steer that current sexual relationship.

[Greenfrog]

Last time , i date one girl but we never got together.

wah lao, she is those type that anything goes one.

do in car also can, do in public place also can. she told me all her bf never wear one , all just shoot inside.:o

and she is not ugly one. looks abit like this actress.

https://i.imgur.com/6lj8IOa.jpg

[myluckyguy]

in my younger days, yes i do want to know about my gf's past. Now I dont really care about the past, but girls i date all keep asking me the same line of questions about my past relationships :eek:

maybe its because i had the chance to experience till my hearts content and understand that everyone has a past but many females just cant get past that

[chaoslord]

Only asking this is the kind of thing that turns you on. Otherwise better not to know.

Pretty much this. It's a question for a FB, not a gf/wife.

When you ask a question, think about the potential answers. Questions like this would only have


Negative Answers - She has tonnes of sex partners and they are damn big and she enjoys CIM

Neutral Answers - Standard bf kind of replies. Nothing exciting / boring.

If an answer would only have negative or neutral answers, I won't ask. At best I feel neutral so why bother.

[Nitrolicious]

Just remember, if you ask, your other half will likely ask you too.
You dare to share? Lol.

For me, will ask when I was young and bothered by it. After awhile, less bothered, as am not a saint myself. In fact, I didn’t really ask my wife. She just shared.

Like one bro said, with the boss as an example. More commonly, it could be guys within her group of friends who could have up her before. Can you accept that?

[morrissey1209]

Just remember, if you ask, your other half will likely ask you too.
You dare to share? Lol.

For me, will ask when I was young and bothered by it. After awhile, less bothered, as am not a saint myself. In fact, I didn’t really ask my wife. She just shared.

Like one bro said, with the boss as an example. More commonly, it could be guys within her group of friends who could have up her before. Can you accept that?

She asks me countless times like a broken record as if she doesn't recall. I think everything we say to girls one ear in one ear out. But you forget what she said you are dead.

That's why sometimes feel like asking back. But well, as many bros here say, who the hell cares. The here and now you are mine, that's all that should matter.

[Nitrolicious]

She asks me countless times like a broken record as if she doesn't recall. I think everything we say to girls one ear in one ear out. But you forget what she said you are dead.

That's why sometimes feel like asking back. But well, as many bros here say, who the hell cares. The here and now you are mine, that's all that should matter.


She want to confirm if you telling the truth. Cause if you were lying, unlikely you can maintain your story’s consistency.

Or maybe she seek thrill in knowing? Lol.

Or she wondering why till now you never ask her? She maybe dying to share? Lol.

[bountyhunterton]

What if she shared about her ons/s, would u mind?

[Xgenre]

You: Dear, what do you like in bed?

Her: I like big cock.

You: :eek::(:mad:

[Nitrolicious]

What if she shared about her ons/s, would u mind?

When younger, with ex - yes.

Now, no. At least she was honest. She actually didnt need to share.

[Girlpower]

I do ask my ex-es about their sex life. And i tell them mine too.

[LordVader]

then tell them honestly, sulk like fuck.



Ain't that the truth. :D

[Prince Devitt]

Ain't that the truth. :D

Prince devitt +42

[chuannoshare]

When i was much younger, my ex did share with me and it kind of mess me up and affected me a lot. However now in the present with all the other bros have mentioned, I believe what matters is the present and not the past.

[stoicism]

It can be quite hot to go out and see other guys lusting after your wife.. somehow it makes her more desirable.. you will see her in a more attractive light.

I try to get my wife to dress sexy a bit sometimes.. but she is really too conservative. Only once in a while she will wear a bit more revealing to humour me.

There was one time she was going alone to a wedding reception and I knew one of her old boyfriends would be there.. wanted her to wear something revealing and come back and tell me how it went.. but she chickened out.. sigh.

[myluckyguy]

in my younger days, yes i do want to know about my gf's past. Now I dont really care about the past, but girls i date all keep asking me the same line of questions about my past relationships :eek:

maybe its because i had the chance to experience till my hearts content and understand that everyone has a past but many females just cant get past that

TBH I cant really remember all the details of every one of my exes. It only when I get asked I am forced to try to recall something which I had put behind. To use "I have forgotten" as a response wont go down well so I always have to be careful and not contradict myself :o

[Prince Devitt]

Last time , i date one girl but we never got together.

wah lao, she is those type that anything goes one.

do in car also can, do in public place also can. she told me all her bf never wear one , all just shoot inside.:o

and she is not ugly one. looks abit like this actress.

https://i.imgur.com/6lj8IOa.jpg

Prince Devitt returned

[daring70]

better dun ask, else she will also wanna know about yours

[virgone]

Bottom line is that ask too much is like opening a can of worms. Unless you can take it. So no point to dig. However, as we mature with age and date more, we become more immune about her history. You know you're the bigger man cos end of day, she chose you!

You are spot on.
Why ask, when you know you are the winner.

[virgone]

She asks me countless times like a broken record as if she doesn't recall. I think everything we say to girls one ear in one ear out. But you forget what she said you are dead.

That's why sometimes feel like asking back. But well, as many bros here say, who the hell cares. The here and now you are mine, that's all that should matter.

That's where you are wrong.
She's not forgetting what you said earlier.
She's making sure that what you said before and after tallies.

[morrissey1209]

That's where you are wrong.
She's not forgetting what you said earlier.
She's making sure that what you said before and after tallies.

:D I guess.

[Havanna Slicks]

That's where you are wrong.
She's not forgetting what you said earlier.
She's making sure that what you said before and after tallies.

the 2nd part reinforces what u said, 'you forget what u said u are dead' lol...

[morrissey1209]

the 2nd part reinforces what u said, 'you forget what u said u are dead' lol...

I remember the sulking more afterwards, always say "understand it was the past but still get jealous." Knn...

[Havanna Slicks]

I remember the sulking more afterwards, always say "understand it was the past but still get jealous." Knn...

somehow or rather sure will be affected la, it's just how much and how she can digest it...

[zorro539]

Just curious about what people do.

For me, personally, I don't because I feel history is history. Everybody has got one so no point going there. The more you know, you might actually start minding stuff. But people are naturally curious and I am no different.

My gal seems like a very nice and even-tempered girl but when she explodes, she is fucking nasty (which is admittedly rare nowadays but there was a period when we were close to breaking off and she was fucking nasty to me almost everyday). She always tells me that she was a bad girl in the past and maybe "you don't know me well enough and if you did, you wouldn't love me". That is BS to me and I have told her that.

And during sex, she always tells me "You are very big. You have very good technique". Internally I tell myself "lan jiao lah. Don't tell me your exes all that bad"

Have you guys ever wondered and asked about your girl's past? Did you ask and when you did and knew about stuff you didn't (especially stuff you don't like), did it change anything? This may not be actions or behaviour towards her but also how you feel.

for fwb/flings - no questions or probing conversations. if I am asked about my past i will normally say it’s something for you to find out when things are getting hot on the bed.

for gf- yes, i always ask in a courteous way during the courtship period because i am usually upfront about it. most of the girls i dated luckily will normally be in the high EQ region to understand the sensitivities behind these questions and usually answer in a tactful manner or courteous manner, not hurtful and in a respectful manner.

for example, one of my gfs (very pure and innocent) was curious about whether i was a virgin or a guy who’s experienced on the bed after a few months of dating. we had yet to have intercourse at that time. during those days of dating, i didn’t suggest any sex or any staycation at either of our house and we only hugged and kissed on the cheeks, no frenching yet (don’t ask me why).

i didn’t hide the fact that i had a few sexual partners before her but i said with such dating experience i know some girls have some boundaries on intimacy and i respect such boundaries. if she said she’s not ready for sex, i won’t push her.

it turned out eventually that we had some of the best memories. she accepted my explanation (in fact she was very comfortable and ready to embrace new things despite her innocent mind- she didn’t know about sex toys and vibrators) and was very open to learn about how to please herself and me, her guy.

of course not every girl is like this so you have to size up the situation. for every girl that is receptive, there could be 9 others who are sensitive and raise this up during arguments.

[morrissey1209]

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it turned out eventually that we had some of the best memories. she accepted my explanation (in fact she was very comfortable and ready to embrace new things despite her innocent mind- she didn’t know about sex toys and vibrators) and was very open to learn about how to please herself and me, her guy.

s.

Sounds like a very nice girl.:)

[zorro539]

Sounds like a very nice girl.:)

thanks bro, i don’t wish to go into more specifics as i want to preserve some element of privacy and to protect her identity.

[ponybabe]

Your girl is making an effort, you should appreciate it ;)

I can't lie for one - if i never say anything confirm small LOL. So if i do say its big it means i really did enjoy it so take a compliment if she gives you one! This is from a lady's perspective la.

For one, i find it difficult to let my ex (or when i was attached) know my past. Who would want.. a part time FL/SB (even if i did it for a relatively short while, cos it was fun while studying and was single) as a gf/wife..?

Say liao confirm more hurt please.

Its like.. i also wont want to know if my bf / husband used to chiong.
Think better not to know in some cases :)


Just curious about what people do.

For me, personally, I don't because I feel history is history. Everybody has got one so no point going there. The more you know, you might actually start minding stuff. But people are naturally curious and I am no different.

My gal seems like a very nice and even-tempered girl but when she explodes, she is fucking nasty (which is admittedly rare nowadays but there was a period when we were close to breaking off and she was fucking nasty to me almost everyday). She always tells me that she was a bad girl in the past and maybe "you don't know me well enough and if you did, you wouldn't love me". That is BS to me and I have told her that.

And during sex, she always tells me "You are very big. You have very good technique". Internally I tell myself "lan jiao lah. Don't tell me your exes all that bad"

Have you guys ever wondered and asked about your girl's past? Did you ask and when you did and knew about stuff you didn't (especially stuff you don't like), did it change anything? This may not be actions or behaviour towards her but also how you feel.

[morrissey1209]

Your girl is making an effort, you should appreciate it ;)

I can't lie for one - if i never say anything confirm small LOL. So if i do say its big it means i really did enjoy it so take a compliment if she gives you one! This is from a lady's perspective la.

For one, i find it difficult to let my ex (or when i was attached) know my past. Who would want.. a part time FL/SB (even if i did it for a relatively short while, cos it was fun while studying and was single) as a gf/wife..?

Say liao confirm more hurt please.

Its like.. i also wont want to know if my bf / husband used to chiong.
Think better not to know in some cases :)

Thanks sister. Appreciate it.

[Wakeup123]

In the long long time ago, look like women do not always cry victim n expected to be protected, not like what we see now. Cos now sex is common, not like last time. Having dozen of bf is common n sex with acquaintance or stranger is normal too. So be tgt if compatible, if not just have fun break off n continue searching your soulmate. Asking them these questions are wasting of time cos you might be just one of her guys too. But just that she getting old wanted marriage, making use of you to complete her life n can proudly announced to all her poor female friends who did what she was doing last time, n jealously admire her. :p