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Asyveth
08-12-2019, 01:06 AM
Read online a lot of survey that shows that the average time before ejaculaion is 5 minutes. I don't understand how people say they can have sex for 15-20mins. How to tahan when the sex is so good. Anyone can enlighten me? If I ejaculate in 5mins is it premature ejaculation?

SingleAA
08-12-2019, 03:30 AM
Sex should last how long you want it to last. If it falls below your expectations, feels like you are unable to give your partner orgasms and causes you distress, then yes it is considered premature ejaculation.

There could be many reasons why it takes longer for others.

Counting foreplay and oral stimulation as time for sex
Old age, requiring more stimulation
Partner is not sparking attraction, requiring more stimulation
Pacing and edging, some discipline and self control is required


I would say don't worry about it. Unless your sex partners are complaining about getting pleasure. In which you can either work on improving your foreplay skills or improve your endurance.

In those porn films, there is 15-30 minutes of intercourse which is way longer than the average so it ensures everyone can get to climax properly.

babyjohnwong
08-12-2019, 03:57 AM
Pump fast or slow
What position is used
Whether the pussy is tight enough or wet enough
Whether the body is desirable, some prefer slim, some bbw, some are ass lovers, some are boob lovers, some are face lovers
Foreplay, fetishes being played out or not, the level of sexcitement before the action
Chemistry between both or more, such as three or foursome
Whether the guy pcc a lot, his fitness level
The ambience and mentality / state of mind
Whether intoxicated or not
Any form of enhancements used
Age of the lovers
Sexperience level

There are just way too many factors can affect the performance and time taken
End of the day, it should feel good
Sextisfaction should be the ultimate goal, not the amount of time spent

Lawofhonesty
08-12-2019, 04:35 AM
Always start with slow. When the girl started to moan louder and louder, go fast. After purposely go slow again. This way both will enjoy. My 2 cents thought

doombringer
08-12-2019, 12:34 PM
it really depends on the girl, some girls are so loose that i cant feel anything 1 hour also cant cum, some girls very tight less than 5 mins cum already

euks
08-12-2019, 01:15 PM
it is supposed to end when the feeling is no longer good for both or at least 1 party

ShaTauKokDog
08-12-2019, 08:41 PM
Ts, you tried have a few alcoholic drinks! Guarrantte u can able to pump at least for a good half hour! The question is that your knee cap or back can take it or not?:D

Cheesebeast
09-12-2019, 09:10 AM
Ts, you tried have a few alcoholic drinks! Guarrantte u can able to pump at least for a good half hour! The question is that your knee cap or back can take it or not?:D

True that bro. Lasting long also very physically taxing. One of the reasons why i gym regularly to build body strength - it really helps in endurance and performance

aczeta76
09-12-2019, 10:48 AM
The whole lovemaking can take hours...

Foreplay... make her want you. F her till first O, rest then suprise her by DATY again, F till 2nd O...rest, make her want you but dun penetrate... till she cannot tahan and begs for it.

Then u can ask for a long long BBBJ before satisfying her again and finish with a CIM.

The sex part is not only the pumping.. sex is the whole experience of making the girl want you more this time and also the next few times.

If u do it well, your touch will make her cum.. read October Man Sequence

unsung80
09-12-2019, 05:26 PM
Practise make perfect, however fitness and diet plays an important role. Stressful life can't last more than a minute for sure.

Girlpower
09-12-2019, 05:33 PM
My guy cannot last more than 3 min from my bj lol

doombringer
09-12-2019, 10:58 PM
My guy cannot last more than 3 min from my bj lol

Sis got so power wish i got one gf like this

bonker guy
09-12-2019, 11:06 PM
My guy cannot last more than 3 min from my bj lol

Because he did not practice reverse kegel. When master it sex can pump in hours cheers :D:D

jien1
12-12-2019, 07:41 PM
My guy cannot last more than 3 min from my bj lol

I don't believe you sis! Lol

andylin
26-03-2020, 04:14 PM
My guy cannot last more than 3 min from my bj lol

WU YAR BO!!!! Lols! I used to think $200 for a blowjob is ridiculous. But I’m willingly to give it to you if you’re able to swueeZe out mine within 5mins lor. Provided you don’t mind. Pls pardon me ah. I’m not trying to say u need the $200. Just that its a encouraging small sum :p

morrissey1209
26-03-2020, 06:24 PM
As long as you want...more likely, can.

morrissey1209
26-03-2020, 06:25 PM
And as Dave Chapelle says, I cum as and when I want. There is no premature ejaculation. I am a speed fucker.

luckyboiboi
26-03-2020, 07:33 PM
My guy cannot last more than 3 min from my bj lol

I'm your challenger :D
My girls have to suck 15mins.

luckyboiboi
26-03-2020, 07:35 PM
Read online a lot of survey that shows that the average time before ejaculaion is 5 minutes. I don't understand how people say they can have sex for 15-20mins. How to tahan when the sex is so good. Anyone can enlighten me? If I ejaculate in 5mins is it premature ejaculation?

5mins foreplay
10mins BJ
15mins intercourse