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178noobnoob
14-07-2019, 12:33 AM
Created a account many years back. Recently came back in again.
Now having a issue.
Ever since my Wife is pregnant, Sex is always out of the topic.
Now that she have given birth. I also can’t unloaded on her.
Any bro got suggestion?
Past few months is just being hand-some.
Need to find some cave for my snake to sneak into.

Thanks in advance.,

neoprint123
14-07-2019, 12:49 AM
bear with it. 3 months later she will recover. but if she is pumping breastmilk, her breasts could be sensitive / pain.

FL or FB or Fling?

if you are guilty, then your pair of hands are your best mates :)

178noobnoob
14-07-2019, 12:55 AM
bear with it. 3 months later she will recover. but if she is pumping breastmilk, her breasts could be sensitive / pain.

FL or FB or Fling?

if you are guilty, then your pair of hands are your best mates :)

No FB, no Fling.
Wanted to find FL. But hard to accommodate the timing.

hee01
14-07-2019, 01:02 AM
Created a account many years back. Recently came back in again.
Now having a issue.
Ever since my Wife is pregnant, Sex is always out of the topic.
Now that she have given birth. I also can’t unloaded on her.
Any bro got suggestion?
Past few months is just being hand-some.
Need to find some cave for my snake to sneak into.

Thanks in advance.,

Is your mind thinking to find some FLs to sneak ?:D

neoprint123
14-07-2019, 01:06 AM
No FB, no Fling.
Wanted to find FL. But hard to accommodate the timing.

Are you working?

Hope that it can solve your timing (if you know what i meant)....

:D:D:D

Jay Chou
14-07-2019, 02:57 AM
bear with it. 3 months later she will recover. but if she is pumping breastmilk, her breasts could be sensitive / pain.

FL or FB or Fling?

if you are guilty, then your pair of hands are your best mates :)

Up u bro. 😊

178noobnoob
14-07-2019, 09:49 AM
Are you working?

Hope that it can solve your timing (if you know what i meant)....

:D:D:D

Haven start work bro.
Even if start already, she can track my working timing. :(

ulysses84
14-07-2019, 10:13 AM
TS sound like a henpecked husband, suggest TS just go get a Tenga DIY, dun waste time. Chiong don't scared, scared don't chiong.

TheIdesOfMarch
14-07-2019, 10:56 AM
Hard truths coming.

Its one thing to eat out because your marriage is breaking down or because your wife is no longer interested in fucking you. It's another thing to eat out or want to eat out when your wife literally just gave you both a child and is recovering from pregnancy.

Highly suggest you don't cheat and stick to using your hands. As well as being a supportive father and husband to your wife. Come back to the topic of sex after she's done with her confinement and stuff, then work from there.

1KnightinBKK
14-07-2019, 11:00 AM
Haven start work bro.
Even if start already, she can track my working timing. :(

Haven’t start work? How old are you?

bundesliga
14-07-2019, 11:12 AM
Created a account many years back. Recently came back in again.


bro,

after one month confinement can liao.

zzstop
14-07-2019, 11:23 AM
Hard truths coming.

Its one thing to eat out because your marriage is breaking down or because your wife is no longer interested in fucking you. It's another thing to eat out or want to eat out when your wife literally just gave you both a child and is recovering from pregnancy.

Highly suggest you don't cheat and stick to using your hands. As well as being a supportive father and husband to your wife. Come back to the topic of sex after she's done with her confinement and stuff, then work from there.

Agreed and well said. :):):):)

Alibaba23
14-07-2019, 11:56 AM
True words

Hard truths coming.

Its one thing to eat out because your marriage is breaking down or because your wife is no longer interested in fucking you. It's another thing to eat out or want to eat out when your wife literally just gave you both a child and is recovering from pregnancy.

Highly suggest you don't cheat and stick to using your hands. As well as being a supportive father and husband to your wife. Come back to the topic of sex after she's done with her confinement and stuff, then work from there.

coypredator
14-07-2019, 02:07 PM
Hard truths coming.

Its one thing to eat out because your marriage is breaking down or because your wife is no longer interested in fucking you. It's another thing to eat out or want to eat out when your wife literally just gave you both a child and is recovering from pregnancy.

Highly suggest you don't cheat and stick to using your hands. As well as being a supportive father and husband to your wife. Come back to the topic of sex after she's done with her confinement and stuff, then work from there.

TS should read this to himself repeatedly. :)

foodyuk
14-07-2019, 02:08 PM
Created a account many years back. Recently came back in again.
Now having a issue.
Ever since my Wife is pregnant, Sex is always out of the topic.
Now that she have given birth. I also can’t unloaded on her.
Any bro got suggestion?
Past few months is just being hand-some.
Need to find some cave for my snake to sneak into.

Thanks in advance.,

bro,

go for massage can liao.

zoof8zang
14-07-2019, 02:10 PM
TS sound like a henpecked husband, suggest TS just go get a Tenga DIY, dun waste time. Chiong don't scared, scared don't chiong.

Fully agreed and well said.:D:D:D:D

sta1100
14-07-2019, 02:25 PM
If wife still no go than :
1) DIY
2) look for a fb or maid, if maid just give them some goodies when after banging
look for maid than can go out on weekday if the boss not in town preferably expat family.
most wife after exploding sex is dead.

Good luck & happy banging

afterburn
14-07-2019, 02:31 PM
Haven start work bro.
Even if start already, she can track my working timing. :(

Your job is very regular or fixed hours? Else how your wife can expect when you are working, timing?

Use your creativity lah. Actually if you are a new father, also need time off to avoid some "blues" - go ML or FL for therapy :D Now is the best time, during confinement there are people taking care your wife and baby. After this period you will definitely be busier as a new father your wife expect you be at home to help out, and your infant needs you too.

Otherwise, just occasionally take half day leave, time-off or MC from work without telling your wife. No need teach you. Take one day leave can even go JB cheong cheaper and more choices.

hunter1222
14-07-2019, 05:25 PM
Just go GL if you really cannot tahan. A quick shot and you are done. Use CD. No mess.

lotsfits80
14-07-2019, 07:57 PM
Still can blowjob and cum in her mouth. The protein is also good for her. Eat more pineapples and bananas to make your cum more fruity and delicious.

178noobnoob
15-07-2019, 02:57 AM
Hahaha. Thanks all for the update and ideas.
Not henpecked, just respecting my wife.
As we are all here to learn and ‘gain’ experience.
End up back to usual, ‘hand-some’
Might look for new stuff to do to get myself distracted.

Irrumare
15-07-2019, 11:06 PM
Hahaha. Thanks all for the update and ideas.
Not henpecked, just respecting my wife.
As we are all here to learn and ‘gain’ experience.
End up back to usual, ‘hand-some’
Might look for new stuff to do to get myself distracted.

I don't think you're respecting your wife by coming into a sex forum and asking for help..
Not taking the high road but you should be there for her whenever you can, and not thinking about your own needs.
After all, she just delivered your creation.

blu3fin
16-07-2019, 08:03 AM
Created a account many years back. Recently came back in again.
Now having a issue.
Ever since my Wife is pregnant, Sex is always out of the topic.
Now that she have given birth. I also can’t unloaded on her.
Any bro got suggestion?
Past few months is just being hand-some.
Need to find some cave for my snake to sneak into.

Thanks in advance.,

Bro.

Taking care of baby is usually very stressful for a new mother.
Almost 100% she won't be in much mood for sex for at least a year or 2. And if breast feeding, sex drive will be naturally suppressed.
Just remember to be a good father and hubby no matter what you do.

LQQKN4SUM
18-07-2019, 12:50 PM
Bro.... you need to release... and your wife should know this. She tired from baby and if breast feeding also tired and sore breast....
How about you do this....
Have wife pump out a couple bottles of milk.... store in refrigerator. Tell her, take day off... go out with friends or whatever... you take care of baby.. for whole day... feed, change, bathe, feed, change, nap, etc... you know... or take baby outside - great way to meet women too...

Anyway, the point is give wife day off, you take her normal duties... at the end of the day... you still horny ? Want to boom boom ? If yes, then go take a shower and wank... My guess is you will not be too horny at end of day... Just my guess.....:D

Now you know why your wife don't want to fuck you...

Maybe try to talk to wife about how horny you are and that she look more beautiful since she have baby... nice big boobs... glow in her face, etc., etc. ask her if she can lay next to you and help you wank...

Maybe....just maybe... you can stop thinking about yourself for a change and focus on your wife and baby... if you soo desperate/horny, wank in the shower... to clear your head... :D you wouldn't be the first to do this.. or the last lah

limpeh18
18-07-2019, 02:03 PM
I don't think you're respecting your wife by coming into a sex forum and asking for help..
Not taking the high road but you should be there for her whenever you can, and not thinking about your own needs.
After all, she just delivered your creation.


I doubt thats a case of respect. He could be asking for the experience of all the koko, abang, uncle, grandfather and all that may have experience his situation and how they deal with it. Period. It doesnt mean that he has to and will follow all the advices here.
Who knows one guy could provide him an idea how to arrest the situation and ignite their marriage sex better.