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Thenotoman
19-06-2019, 06:23 PM
Hello guys, so a month ago on 4th May I had sexs with a local Singaporean girl. Our eye met at the club I went to her home to have sex. Downside is, she doesn't want me to use a condom as she feels it's not stimulating enough for her. So I licked her vagina for a good 20 seconds before getting bored and asked her for a doggie. Within 3 mins I came but I managed to cum outside.

What really irks me is after the ordeal, she told me I was one of the men that managed to shoot outside when she wasn't on pill. So naturally I asked if she used condom for sex and she said most of the time no. I didn't want to pursue anything further and just left her house after the deed.

I know it's really stupid of me for letting my smaller head take over but I'm genuinely concerned after this ordeal.
Now I'm starting to get a fever with infrequent coughs, lethargic, muscle aches, headache, dry mouth and all the other srs hiv symptoms. The last time I had sex was with an fl but it was capped both oral and vaginal like a week ago.

So I'm suspecting after 6 weeks since my last non condom exposure, its high time that I went to a clinic to get tested for both hiv and std.

I'm here to get help not blasted so please, save yourself the trouble from posting troll posts.

Would appreciate if someone can direct me to anonymous hiv test clinic as I'm still an nsf and wish not to be found out for taking hiv testing. Ord next year.

I'm only free on weekends. Prices stated would be greatly appreciated. Or a link will do

leong26
19-06-2019, 08:16 PM
Brother relax , nothing is conclusive yet until you go for a full and complete test .
As you're still under NS , you can use your 11B to try whether can be use for hiv testing.
If you opt for anonymous , you can check the cost below .
Relax soldier , don't stress

https://www.dsc-clinic.sg/Patient-Care/DSC%20Services/Clinic/Pages/Clinic-Charges.aspx?mobile=true

Thenotoman
19-06-2019, 08:46 PM
Brother, thank you. At this point I feel paiseh to go public de need give Info all that. Rather do quietly.

Got query, if I did like last month and it been like 6 weeks since exposure, should I take test 4 or 3?

CumExplorer
19-06-2019, 09:15 PM
Brother relax , nothing is conclusive yet until you go for a full and complete test .
As you're still under NS , you can use your 11B to try whether can be use for hiv testing.
If you opt for anonymous , you can check the cost below .
Relax soldier , don't stress

https://www.dsc-clinic.sg/Patient-Care/DSC%20Services/Clinic/Pages/Clinic-Charges.aspx?mobile=true

thanks bro for sharing, +21 :D

Magnataur
19-06-2019, 09:51 PM
Although the situation you describe put you to high risk, one time exposure is less than 1% for hiv transmission.
Let's assume even if hiv is detected, with today medicine, the virus can be controlled. And one can live happily like a normal person.
Apart from Hiv, there are many dreadful diseases that can harm the bodies. No amount of medicine can save the person if he or she is diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer. Worst part is some of the cancers can only be detected until the very last stage. So I think chances for you to get the cancer is higher than contracting hiv from one exposure.
Just be sure to go for the hiv test after the window period and I am pretty sure it will come out hiv negative. That may put your doubt at rest.
Keep chiong safe.

leong26
19-06-2019, 11:29 PM
Brother, thank you. At this point I feel paiseh to go public de need give Info all that. Rather do quietly.

Got query, if I did like last month and it been like 6 weeks since exposure, should I take test 4 or 3?

Go for that 20 dollars test . relax yourself and proceed normally just like you visit a clinic or report sick . remind yourself these are one of those things which you are unable to control , accept any of the outcome . Dont stress .

thanks bro for sharing, +21 :D

Appreciate boss , many thanks for your support .

Although the situation you describe put you to high risk, one time exposure is less than 1% for hiv transmission.
Let's assume even if hiv is detected, with today medicine, the virus can be controlled. And one can live happily like a normal person.
Apart from Hiv, there are many dreadful diseases that can harm the bodies. No amount of medicine can save the person if he or she is diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer. Worst part is some of the cancers can only be detected until the very last stage. So I think chances for you to get the cancer is higher than contracting hiv from one exposure.
Just be sure to go for the hiv test after the window period and I am pretty sure it will come out hiv negative. That may put your doubt at rest.
Keep chiong safe.

Normal for a person to have that doubt esp after rawing with some public toilet then symptoms start to appear which led to various thoughts running wild inside the head , but like you said , go for the test , be it positive or negative , that's the only way to put any doubt at rest ,

Bulus
20-06-2019, 12:06 AM
remind yourself these are one of those things which you are unable to control , accept any of the outcome . Dont stress

This is probably the best advice now for TS and just hope or the best

Thenotoman
20-06-2019, 06:48 AM
Go for that 20 dollars test . relax yourself and proceed normally just like you visit a clinic or report sick . remind yourself these are one of those things which you are unable to control , accept any of the outcome . Dont stress .



Appreciate boss , many thanks for your support .



Normal for a person to have that doubt esp after rawing with some public toilet then symptoms start to appear which led to various thoughts running wild inside the head , but like you said , go for the test , be it positive or negative , that's the only way to put any doubt at rest ,

Thank you brother. I'll head down to the clinic on the Friday if time permits cause I'm feeling quite sick at the moment. Not paronoid but the timing of this sickness sure feel suspicious after 6 week of exposure. When I went to see a doctor a few months back he noticed by tonsils are quite enlarged even when I'm not really sick. He recommended me to take a blood test but I shrug it off.

So we'll see if things will be better or worse for me. I'm hoping it's a negative so I can remind myself to be more cautious of my decision making. It really sucks but hey, only way to know is to get tested. Positive or negative, think about the results later. Focus on getting checked first

Big Sexy
20-06-2019, 07:16 AM
https://afa.org.sg/
ADDRESS
31 Kelantan Lane #1-16 S200031
they uses the same premises as DSC... but operate at different hours.

they are open on sat ( not all. so do check their webby first) ...

Anonymous HIV testing
https://afa.org.sg/whatwedo/support/ats/
OPERATING HOURS
Tuesdays & Wednesdays 6.30pm to 8.15pm
Saturday 1.30pm to 3.15pm
Closed on eve of PH & PH
SERVICE PROVIDED
Anonymous HIV Test

3rd Generation – $32
4th Generation – $42 ( recommended )
Anonymous Syphilis Test – $30 each

Mobile Testing Service
https://afa.org.sg/whatwedo/support/mts/


Best of luck!




I'm only free on weekends. Prices stated would be greatly appreciated. Or a link will do

Thenotoman
20-06-2019, 08:22 AM
https://afa.org.sg/
ADDRESS
31 Kelantan Lane #1-16 S200031
they uses the same premises as DSC... but operate at different hours.

they are open on sat ( not all. so do check their webby first) ...

Anonymous HIV testing
https://afa.org.sg/whatwedo/support/ats/
OPERATING HOURS
Tuesdays & Wednesdays 6.30pm to 8.15pm
Saturday 1.30pm to 3.15pm
Closed on eve of PH & PH
SERVICE PROVIDED
Anonymous HIV Test

3rd Generation – $32
4th Generation – $42 ( recommended )
Anonymous Syphilis Test – $30 each

Mobile Testing Service
https://afa.org.sg/whatwedo/support/mts/


Best of luck!
Thank you so much brother. I'll be going there this Saturday. Prices are also reasonable. Ill let you guys know what's the outcome. Pray that it's a negative

Thenotoman
20-06-2019, 02:32 PM
Uncle hope u nv kana anything. If u nv kana pls come back here share your experiences about which club u go n how u xian the girl 555 then also how u feel after the test n the whole testing process. :D everyone got that first time but second time onwards must think hard about it n life n time cannot turn back so certain things is can regret n adjust or make up or retry but certain things is can't regret.

Will do brother.

baotohk
20-06-2019, 03:26 PM
if budget allow, you can go to Dr Tan and Partner as well.

limpeh18
20-06-2019, 04:07 PM
How long is the result after the test?

Lamborg
21-06-2019, 03:57 AM
How long is the result after the test?

10mins bro. In these 10 minutes you will wait outside the doctor's room and your whole life memories will flashback in your head. You will feel regret and remorse adding on to the anxiety panic attacks that you will most likely have experienced prior to the test. Most will also say prayers and also feel so stupid because you let your small head overcome your big head for that few minutes. After that you go in and get the result and the doctor has this expressionless face. You fucking go into another anxiety attack because you are confused before the doctor smiles and gives you the result. You will then breathe out probably the biggest sigh of relief in your life probably want to hug and hi-five the the doctor, probably buy him a beer too.


Always put on a damn condom no matter how strong the temptation. That few minutes of bare raw sex is not worth the risk.

Magnataur
22-06-2019, 02:16 AM
Thank you brother. I'll head down to the clinic on the Friday if time permits cause I'm feeling quite sick at the moment. Not paronoid but the timing of this sickness sure feel suspicious after 6 week of exposure. When I went to see a doctor a few months back he noticed by tonsils are quite enlarged even when I'm not really sick. He recommended me to take a blood test but I shrug it off.

So we'll see if things will be better or worse for me. I'm hoping it's a negative so I can remind myself to be more cautious of my decision making. It really sucks but hey, only way to know is to get tested. Positive or negative, think about the results later. Focus on getting checked first

Bro tonsils enlarged is very common. I myself frequently got tonsils inflame if I keep drinking cold water. I am very used to it until I don't bother about it.

Thenotoman
22-06-2019, 06:23 PM
Hey guys.... I've just got myself tested at afa and I must say the people there are nice and very welcoming. So I was shaking the minute I walked in and they knew right away it was my first time. They assured me that I'm in safe hands. Moment of truth came when the counselor called me in and talked briefly about my risk level and exposure. After 5-10 mins of chatting he lead me into another room to the finger prick test. During the test, I noticed the nurse was a trainee and his instructor was watching him the whole time. There was an error on my number slip but the senior trainer assured me he will amend the number so as to not mix them up.

Then come the scariest part, the longest 10-15 mins of my life. I thought of all my regrets and things that I could have done differently. And after awhile the same counselor called me in and told me to rehat kan diri.... Results came back negative with the 4th gen test. He assured me is 80-90% conclusive but if I have any doubts I could come back in 6 weeks time to make sure it's conclusive.

No more going rambo anymore. Hope yall have a healthy life ahead. Live long and prospers bros. Chiong safely

pundek144
22-06-2019, 06:43 PM
Hey guys.... I've just got myself tested at afa and I must say the people there are nice and very welcoming. So I was shaking the minute I walked in and they knew right away it was my first time. They assured me that I'm in safe hands. Moment of truth came when the counselor called me in and talked briefly about my risk level and exposure. After 5-10 mins of chatting he lead me into another room to the finger prick test. During the test, I noticed the nurse was a trainee and his instructor was watching him the whole time. There was an error on my number slip but the senior trainer assured me he will amend the number so as to not mix them up.

Then come the scariest part, the longest 10-15 mins of my life. I thought of all my regrets and things that I could have done differently. And after awhile the same counselor called me in and told me to rehat kan diri.... Results came back negative with the 4th gen test. He assured me is 80-90% conclusive but if I have any doubts I could come back in 6 weeks time to make sure it's conclusive.

No more going rambo anymore. Hope yall have a healthy life ahead. Live long and prospers bros. Chiong safely

I was always under the impression that a 4th gen test after 28 days is conclusive...

so in 6 weeks you will go back there to do another 4th gen test?

sbf4life
22-06-2019, 08:27 PM
Congrats bro.
They always will tell us 3 months after exposure to be conclusive.



Then come the scariest part, the longest 10-15 mins of my life. I thought of all my regrets and things that I could have done differently. And after awhile the same counselor called me in and told me to rehat kan diri.... Results came back negative with the 4th gen test. He assured me is 80-90% conclusive but if I have any doubts I could come back in 6 weeks time to make sure it's conclusive.

No more going rambo anymore. Hope yall have a healthy life ahead. Live long and prospers bros. Chiong safely

leong26
22-06-2019, 08:49 PM
Hey guys.... I've just got myself tested at afa and I must say the people there are nice and very welcoming. So I was shaking the minute I walked in and they knew right away it was my first time. They assured me that I'm in safe hands. Moment of truth came when the counselor called me in and talked briefly about my risk level and exposure. After 5-10 mins of chatting he lead me into another room to the finger prick test. During the test, I noticed the nurse was a trainee and his instructor was watching him the whole time. There was an error on my number slip but the senior trainer assured me he will amend the number so as to not mix them up.

Then come the scariest part, the longest 10-15 mins of my life. I thought of all my regrets and things that I could have done differently. And after awhile the same counselor called me in and told me to rehat kan diri.... Results came back negative with the 4th gen test. He assured me is 80-90% conclusive but if I have any doubts I could come back in 6 weeks time to make sure it's conclusive.

No more going rambo anymore. Hope yall have a healthy life ahead. Live long and prospers bros. Chiong safely

Good to know brother . movimg on from here . start afresh . 20yr young man don't overly waste time , energy on these things sexual activity . other than bonking FL / WL / Cip , there's other meaningful things to do at your age .

Best of luck brother .

Lamborg
22-06-2019, 11:13 PM
I was always under the impression that a 4th gen test after 28 days is conclusive...

so in 6 weeks you will go back there to do another 4th gen test?

I think after 3 months should be the 3rd gen test to be conclusive.



So....... Can share with uncle which club u went n picked that girl.... :D

LOL. Anyways congrats TS! Happy for you, now go enjoy your new lease of life and remember to wear FBO when go chiong suah ok. Don't wear admin go to war :D

Bulus
22-06-2019, 11:25 PM
No more going rambo anymore

Always remember that Raw Is War and its always a good idea to have protected sex ;)

Thenotoman
23-06-2019, 11:39 AM
Wana test HIV best is still 3 mths do n 6 mths do. Congrats on your first.........test.

NSF time really is the best time in life cuz bao jiak bao sleep bao give pay......

After NSF got study then study..... Then work must work..... After got work got money want do whatever also can...... Money really can buy n do a lot things..... but not buy a loyal heart. Remember have a kind heart sometimes..... Then remember be good n appreciate your parents cuz without them..... U won't even have a life.

So....... Can share with uncle which club u went n picked that girl.... :D

Hahaha for unke I don't know if can la but I met her at zouk Thursday night. Didn't really initiate. She just jumped on me the minute we bumped lol. Must be horny

MaraGuru
23-06-2019, 01:31 PM
Hahaha for unke I don't know if can la but I met her at zouk Thursday night. Didn't really initiate. She just jumped on me the minute we bumped lol. Must be horny

Do take care, not always lucky