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Freman
24-06-2007, 01:28 PM
hi,

got a problem.

gf is perfect in every way, but just unwilling to do bj. She feels that is gross... etc....

any experience or good tips on converting your girl girl to bj queen ?

Full House
24-06-2007, 01:41 PM
Mabe u can show her some porn about the girl giveing BJ then from there u can convince her:)

techienator
24-06-2007, 01:47 PM
besides the video, talk to her.. understand her concerns and address those concerns.. once you overcome her concerns, it should be going the way that you want.. best of luck in your attempt.. :)

Devilzz
24-06-2007, 01:48 PM
Mabe u can show her some porn about the girl giveing BJ then from there u can convince her:)yup,i agreed that watching AV is gd way to seduce her to try new thing.My current gf is abit nerdy type,i show her a few AV shows and convinced her that to tie down a guy heart is not though cooking but gd in sex. Now she become a expert,know a few positions to please me.:D

Lord Imperious
24-06-2007, 02:05 PM
hi,

got a problem.

gf is perfect in every way, but just unwilling to do bj. She feels that is gross... etc....

any experience or good tips on converting your girl girl to bj queen ?

Probaby never even tried it so how can she feel that it is gross? This type must slowly cox her. Go slow start with maybe playful licks on your shaft and slowly progress to sucking on the bulb. Then when she is ready to go futher...jackpot! It is easier to start her off from playful licks and then proceed from there. Basically it is chipping at her resistence to the idea. If she willing to give it a few licks, why not a light suck on the tip. And if she is willing to give a light suck why not more... you get the idea?

Also you must also always keep your penis as clean as possible so as not to turn her off when she finally gives in.

Some how mission school girls give the best BJ.

chai1020
24-06-2007, 02:08 PM
hi,

gf is perfect in every way, but just unwilling to do bj. She feels that is gross... etc....



Bro maybe u can shower together with her n show her dat u really clean ur dick head well n assure her there wont be any foul smell or watever.....this was how i train my ex gf n it works most of the time :D
But if she dun like it no point forcing her cos like u say she is perfect in most of the things already which means u got urself a real gem :)

no_faith
24-06-2007, 02:15 PM
like other bros said, watch av loh and brain wash her the same time.
also when she is tired and going to slp, try to tell her a bit and hopefully influence her subconsciously.

jav hor or else if they see ang mo av's actors' huge dicks, she might have other ideas...juz joking

again, wat will be ur reactions if ur gf gave her ex bj b4?


peace

Lord Imperious
24-06-2007, 02:26 PM
That's so insidious! I love it! But you real evil seed our brother's mind with such thoughts (the second half) wait he tonight cannot sleep how? :p

Hope you get her virgin bj bro!

GLHunter
24-06-2007, 02:28 PM
Well, when you are servicing her, make sure you do hell of a good job & lick her like no tomolo. give her multiple orgasms if possible & she would feel like doing something for you in return for your good effort.

Knowing that you have a fetish for bj, i think she would offer it eventually. ;)

breastlover
24-06-2007, 02:30 PM
Knowing that you have a fetish for bj, i think she would offer it eventually. ;)

Well, my galfriend knew I have fetish for BJ, she refused no matter how hard I try. :(

no_faith
24-06-2007, 02:39 PM
bro breastlover, btw any chance ur gf is sg gal?

Lord Imperious
24-06-2007, 02:42 PM
Well, my galfriend knew I have fetish for BJ, she refused no matter how hard I try. :(

Sounds like she is holding back to keep you in line. Question is has she even done it? (my turn to be evil :D )

Glen2712
24-06-2007, 02:49 PM
Try to go down on her first.....


Or finger her real good, be it her clit or her love tunnel......


Loads of 'torturous' kisses, teasing, heavy petting, in short 'torturous' foreplay......


To Sum Up, just keep 'torturing' her, I'm sure in due time/ one day, once you present ur aching hard manhood right in front of her.... she'll finally understand ur side of the 'torture' and pacify U indefinitely. :)

~|@|~
24-06-2007, 05:50 PM
actually you can try the reverse thing, don't service her or give her any foreplay and see how she reacts.... if she reacts negatively, then have a chat with her and tell her its important to stimulate each other, etc. if she is ok with it, then you can save your energy :D

mokermania
24-06-2007, 06:38 PM
Try to go down on her first.....
Or finger her real good, be it her clit or her love tunnel......
Loads of 'torturous' kisses, teasing, heavy petting, in short 'torturous' foreplay......
To Sum Up, just keep 'torturing' her, I'm sure in due time/ one day, once you present ur aching hard manhood right in front of her.... she'll finally understand ur side of the 'torture' and pacify U indefinitely. :)

this one i agreed:)

breastlover
24-06-2007, 08:21 PM
bro breastlover, btw any chance ur gf is sg gal?

Yup!
Expect and demand the most (Sg gal)

Once I tried to bribe my way by buying her wrist chain from Tiffany, that night I tease her that to show her gratitude maybe give me a BJ. Guess what?

I slept in the living room in my own house that night with her sleeping comfortable in my bed.

no_faith
24-06-2007, 08:26 PM
wow, tiffany chain.

ur hse, u slp in living room, ur hse she slp on ur bed.
i feel for u bro, wrong move.

MMM88
24-06-2007, 09:56 PM
Yup!
Once I tried to bribe my way by buying her wrist chain from Tiffany, that night I tease her that to show her gratitude maybe give me a BJ. Guess what?

I slept in the living room in my own house that night with her sleeping comfortable in my bed.

whahahahaha.........dude , its time to "educate " her or "pay back" ......:cool:
dress her up in sexy nightie wearing tat Tiffany wrist chain...slowly tie her up (like in ani AV yah) ..strip her ....whip her (err...i mean gently lah)...t idea here is to create an kinky atmosphere....then w/o her knoeing , shove ur shaft into her mouth lor ..........there u hav it :p

EricssonMan
24-06-2007, 11:43 PM
Yup!
Expect and demand the most (Sg gal)

Once I tried to bribe my way by buying her wrist chain from Tiffany, that night I tease her that to show her gratitude maybe give me a BJ. Guess what?

I slept in the living room in my own house that night with her sleeping comfortable in my bed.

Bro,
You must be damn bangged that night.

EricssonMan
24-06-2007, 11:44 PM
My apology, double post.

man13utd13
25-06-2007, 02:26 AM
hi,

got a problem.

gf is perfect in every way, but just unwilling to do bj. She feels that is gross... etc....

any experience or good tips on converting your girl girl to bj queen ?


the best way is to go down on her...make her feel good...if she enjoys you going down on her,why cant she do the same thing?get my hint?

Deadmaninc
25-06-2007, 04:04 AM
Why can't you guys let her be? Would u do it if she wanna stuff a dildo into your ass coz it turns her on?

hi,

got a problem.

gf is perfect in every way, but just unwilling to do bj. She feels that is gross... etc....

any experience or good tips on converting your girl girl to bj queen ?

Freman
25-06-2007, 02:08 PM
hi,

thanks for all the reply....

she's not too experienced in sex.... me being the 3rd guy she've done it with... in fact, she's only into missionary.... and I'm slowly, (I think with some suggestion) to get her into doggie....

she find bj gross (never done it)... it's a mental thing...... and she's not into oral (on her) ..... so I never really got a chance...

she's not even keen even to do playful lick etc......

I think the porn route might be the best......
anyway, headache.... but damn her pussy is tight...... usually can't hold on too long before I cum.....

Midnightiger
25-06-2007, 02:40 PM
hi,

got a problem.

gf is perfect in every way, but just unwilling to do bj. She feels that is gross... etc....

any experience or good tips on converting your girl girl to bj queen ?

Education! Brother Education!

While many of the advices given here are good like watching AV video, getting down on her first to make her feel good, and so on and so forth, your GF will still be aprehensive as she feels giving heads is gross.

You got to let her know that BJ is normal between 2 lovers and very enjoyable too. Get some books that gives information on BJ, or surf through the internet together, or whatever.

You can check my link for "limited" information but I'm sure there are many on the internet where you can get.

My 2 cents worth.

Mulch
25-06-2007, 03:21 PM
this is what worked for me a couple of times.

ask her to shower with you, when showering you can soap her good good. then ask her to do the same for you.

make her wash your dick clean or you can show her how to do it (quite duh if you ask me).

for me, while rinsing the foam of, i knelt down to lap at her with my tongue. after awhile, ask nicely if she can do the same for you. the girl was so turned on by then she slowly tried. but its a first step to brilliant blowjobs later. :D

of course you must have a big enough shower area to move away from the running water lah, otherwise she'll find it difficult with water gushing down your body. it works better if you leave the water running...hehehehe

tk-king
26-06-2007, 12:15 AM
i miss my fb, she always blow when i am high
will i have the chance to f her again? :(

energyjohn
26-06-2007, 12:38 AM
Put scoops of ice cream or honey on your cock and let her taste it loh. Definitely not awful in taste liao lor.:p

pocketrocket
11-07-2007, 06:16 PM
You know what?! First, tie up your gals (blindfold her)...Tell her you're gonna let her taste something and see if she can guess what is it...

Use the real stick Ice Cream first...After she gets the hang of it, introduce her to your Ice Cream. Ha! :D

Megatronzombie
11-07-2007, 06:33 PM
hi,
I think the porn route might be the best......
anyway, headache.... but damn her pussy is tight...... usually can't hold on too long before I cum.....
Waa 3 guys still counted as inexperienced isit?? How many ex-gf you bonked liao la!? hehehe..

Anyway SERIOUSLY, I believe your gal is the less horny type. In which case, she probably wont be into stuff like doing kinky stuff lingerie tie her up etc. But what I find is that these kind of gals are interested in other stuff maybe like watching chinese series. The porn video is a good headway in this one but dont just show her any porn where the guy just do the gal and thats it. Find a porn with a good story line in it which is good and watch together. The story will get her attention and help her build up her horniness without losing her attention. I once bought this porn show called Gladiator (a spoof of the real Gladiator show) and my girl was interested in the story and that kept her attention while each sex scenes makes her hornier and hornier until she beh tahan and we have sex in the living room. Hope that helps.

Manliness
11-07-2007, 06:38 PM
Before you want her to bj you, why not you paint her first? Give her a good solid paint job and I am sure she will reciprocate by giving you a good bj. :D

diver69er
11-07-2007, 06:51 PM
Bro......u first gotta get her interested in being licked.Once she starts to like being eaten......then start licking her in a 69 position.While you lick.....she is always facing your dicky.....Soon she will get used to the look.....and she will know that there's no smell {remember to wash throughly}.....Then.....one day .....in the heat of passion......she will probably go for it and swallow you whole......;)

curious75
14-07-2007, 02:39 PM
tell her you are horny when she having menses lor.if she let you fxxk,just tell her you are pangtoung or you will faint when you see blood lor,if she ask you pcc then tell her your hand will cramp lor then its your turn to ask her to help you by hj first then bj ...........kekeke :D

future_80
15-07-2007, 10:42 AM
i took one yr brain washing my girl tell her and now she even go do research on how to blowand can really blow...one of the best i have tried...hehe

LiaTooT
15-07-2007, 11:09 AM
any experience or good tips on converting your girl girl to bj queen ?

Usually i would eat and lick her till i slowly adjusted to 69 position.
well if a horny lady gets aroused from her man eating her out, she would pop the 'pogo stick' in (may take some time for her to 'self-service) :D

Enjoy. ;)

robert333
15-07-2007, 01:23 PM
Yup!
Expect and demand the most (Sg gal)

Once I tried to bribe my way by buying her wrist chain from Tiffany, that night I tease her that to show her gratitude maybe give me a BJ. Guess what?

I slept in the living room in my own house that night with her sleeping comfortable in my bed.

U shd have told her that you will buy her the wrist chain from Tiffany after u got ur BJ ..

And not buying her the wrist chain hoping to get ur BJ. :p

bunnytease
15-07-2007, 04:58 PM
i've got an idea !!

try foreplaying with foodstuff... like choco syrup, honey..whip cream or something. at least i was being trick to give him a bj. :p

mav333
15-07-2007, 06:06 PM
sg girls i think 9/10 dun do BJ de. even if they do, its like for 30secs and cmi one. sad but true. :(

TommyPingPong
16-07-2007, 01:11 AM
I suggest circumcision la! Once u do that, your dick head will be cleaner without any birdie smell. If you gf know the extend u do to your dick, then she may do it! haha! :D

chickenzip
16-07-2007, 09:48 AM
hi,

got a problem.

gf is perfect in every way, but just unwilling to do bj. She feels that is gross... etc....

my try is that to get her engaged in a passion shower session with you...then spent the time frenching and touching each other, at the same time soaping each other...then when time is hot and passion, try asking her for a bbbj...and if possible, give her a nice lick before yours...chances are she might be more tempting to give in, as she might feel you more "clean" in a shower, and the previous foreplay have flamed her mood..:D

just my thought and experience...

Mulch
17-07-2007, 09:18 AM
my try is that to get her engaged in a passion shower session with you...then spent the time frenching and touching each other, at the same time soaping each other...then when time is hot and passion, try asking her for a bbbj...and if possible, give her a nice lick before yours...chances are she might be more tempting to give in, as she might feel you more "clean" in a shower, and the previous foreplay have flamed her mood..:D

just my thought and experience...

wah lau eh bro, you and i say almost exactly the same thing sia...not careful people will think we are clones....bwahahahahahaha

chickenzip
17-07-2007, 09:50 AM
wah lau eh bro, you and i say almost exactly the same thing sia...not careful people will think we are clones....

i swear i did not see your post...:eek:

but after i read, almost the same idea leh...same as you, this method do worked for me on many occassions. :D

SeAHuM
17-07-2007, 04:03 PM
sg girls i think 9/10 dun do BJ de. even if they do, its like for 30secs and cmi one. sad but true. :(

you are wrong bro. all my sg gfs did great BJs. On the contrary, not many China Chinese girls do BJ.

Cum_Luver
09-08-2007, 03:41 PM
i've got an idea !!

try foreplaying with foodstuff... like choco syrup, honey..whip cream or something. at least i was being trick to give him a bj. :p

thatz nice.
grapes, strawberries also good...that whatz i normally do with my gal.

NewAvatar
09-08-2007, 03:57 PM
i've got an idea !!

try foreplaying with foodstuff... like choco syrup, honey..whip cream or something. at least i was being trick to give him a bj. :p

That a good idea...

Black Adder
09-08-2007, 04:26 PM
i've got an idea !!

try foreplaying with foodstuff... like choco syrup, honey..whip cream or something. at least i was being trick to give him a bj. :p

Kinky! I like it! But won't it get messy? Now it's going to take weeks to get ride of this idea in my head!

Sperm Donor
09-08-2007, 04:57 PM
i've got an idea !!

try foreplaying with foodstuff... like choco syrup, honey..whip cream or something. at least i was being trick to give him a bj. :p

Did he ever tricked you into letting him CIM? If so please share :D

PromiseMe
10-08-2007, 12:08 AM
I suggest circumcision la! Once u do that, your dick head will be cleaner without any birdie smell. If you gf know the extend u do to your dick, then she may do it! haha! :D

Yes,i fully agree with you,pnce it cicumcision the gal will auto BJ w/o any thought:D