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Thenotoman
07-02-2019, 08:23 PM
Not that I'm fixated on girls or anything but I'm here to get a general answers from people.

I'm a 25 year old Malay male never had a gf, tinder also cmi since most of the girls I swipe are too gui for my type like don't drink etc, body got 6 pack and nice muscles, money wise have ba but not a lot like baller kind la, good enough to buy food, drinks gift etc but still can't get GF or match with anyone how ah?

People say I look cute like little brother cute cause I short like 163cm and have a kiddish face ( always kana ask for card) how ah? Hahaha which aspect on life should I improve to improve my chances to get at least if not a date. I'm not looking to just fuck and go etc. Just genuinely looking for areas of improvement since I already got nice body, money soso but only face a bit cmi uh cause I look like ah boy from secondary school. Fyi I finishing ns this year going study uni very soon so would like to improve myself to at least be okay enough that I can get girls. Thanks bros

fallen11
07-02-2019, 09:46 PM
go plastic surgery
girls do it why cant guys?

just go make the $$$$ first la

dogstar
07-02-2019, 11:23 PM
why not you post your pic here so bros can give you a honest feedback? Rather than alway lamenting you not gd looking in multiple threads you started on your looks? ;)

ilovepantyhose
07-02-2019, 11:38 PM
when a man has money, his attractiveness immediately level up tenfold

#dealwithit :cool:

Thenotoman
08-02-2019, 10:46 AM
you asked this before, and there was plenty of reply and suggestion now you ask same question with nothing much changed with you, except now you say you have some money. You want some constructive answer then be a man of ACTION, act on the suggestion and not just sit around talking and feeling sorry for yourself. This aspect of your personality as evidenced by you constant questions is damn unattractive to both men AND WOMEN.

I strike Toto la that's why I feel happy. Let's just it's 5 digit 😂😂

Karlman
08-02-2019, 12:19 PM
I would think some of us went thru the same experience as you when young. Feeling inferior bc of looks and finding it hard to socialise with the opposite sex.
My humble lil advice is to join a club or any societies so you can start mixing around. Learn to be socialise with peers around your age.This will help you in the later part of your work career too.
And 1 more thing, don’t try too hard to please. You need to play your cards rite. Being too eager can be a turn-off. Good luck!

SonnySteelgrave
08-02-2019, 12:54 PM
Make bank. Somehow being rich makes a fellow far more attractive!

bradplay2018
08-02-2019, 04:26 PM
I strike Toto la that's why I feel happy. Let's just it's 5 digit 😂😂

Make it 6 digits before your attractiveness up 3 folds.. 5 digits is nothing.. :(
And you keep asking the same question haha..

bradplay2018
08-02-2019, 09:33 PM
so you mean 5 digits is 10,000? and six digits is 100,000, if thats true even that wont impress many gal, 100k is what 6-12mths of wining and dining her take her on 5 star holiday then after she realise you broke again and she will dump you. If you need to impress gal with money them minimum is 7 digits

I am not saying about me for the 5 or 6 digits thingy. 7 digits is just a condo with a decent continent car.. yes it does impress. flock of ladies.

To be rich, bring confident bring charisma then girls will find you good looking. But i not saying to be a ultra fat guy with lots of money. of course work on your body, while work on a solid plan for making money.

Tai_zi21
08-02-2019, 10:00 PM
I strike Toto la that's why I feel happy. Let's just it's 5 digit 😂😂

What can a 5 digit figure do in Singapore? :o

raymondle80
09-02-2019, 10:02 AM
Nowadays when I see GCB I am not sure which is more sexpensive; Good Class Bungalow or Golden Chee Bye TS pls go buy a GCB. :p

ilovepantyhose
09-02-2019, 11:36 AM
Nowadays when I see GCB I am not sure which is more sexpensive; Good Class Bungalow or Golden Chee Bye

both are sibei sexpensive

except one will appreciate with time, while the other ...

;);):p:p

Ember
10-02-2019, 12:18 PM
Got 5 digit, use it invest and get an education if not your 5 digits could forever remain as just 5 digits. And since you say u have a nice body then show it on tinder, I'm sure some minahs will dig that. Face if desperate can change at later stage anyway

arsenal_84
12-02-2019, 11:23 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8WQ5X9s34A8

Penguin23
13-02-2019, 10:14 AM
Not that I'm fixated on girls or anything but I'm here to get a general answers from people.

I'm a 25 year old Malay male never had a gf, tinder also cmi since most of the girls I swipe are too gui for my type like don't drink etc, body got 6 pack and nice muscles, money wise have ba but not a lot like baller kind la, good enough to buy food, drinks gift etc but still can't get GF or match with anyone how ah?

People say I look cute like little brother cute cause I short like 163cm and have a kiddish face ( always kana ask for card) how ah? Hahaha which aspect on life should I improve to improve my chances to get at least if not a date. I'm not looking to just fuck and go etc. Just genuinely looking for areas of improvement since I already got nice body, money soso but only face a bit cmi uh cause I look like ah boy from secondary school. Fyi I finishing ns this year going study uni very soon so would like to improve myself to at least be okay enough that I can get girls. Thanks bros

That's one big improvement point right there. The one thing men realise later in life, is that the balance of power usually shifts in favour of the man when you reach your 30s and beyond. Women in general do not age well, men in general have more choice when you get older so don't be too much in a rush and concentrate on improving your financial situation in the meantime.

Think of it this way. If in 10 years you're still as good looking as today but still as poor, no woman will look at you mainly because you cannot provide, not because you don't look like e Greek God.

Financial security is non negotiable for a woman. And you've already outlined your weakness in that area. So overcome it and you'll be back here listing your adventures instead of moaning like a sad Mat yearning for a Minah to fuck