How often do you meet girlfriend weekly

[Er Lang]

hi bros just want find out how often do you guys meet up with gf

been together with my girlfriend for 5 months and we meet up 4-5 times a week until i feel kinda of burnt out and tired.
been missing all sort of gathering and personal things as my girlfriend is getting too sticky. wonder what it would like if there is plan for R.O.M.Miss those days where i catch up with friends over beer ,EPL soccer and BIG 2

[No-go]

used to have a gf who is super sticky, must meet everyday n cant meet my kaki at all. in the end no choice but to dump her.

[JWNY]

If she is sticky you must tell her.....

JWNY

[Er Lang]

If she is sticky you must tell her.....

JWNY

must find a good day to tell her. have to lah
Presently, my weekend is more busy than weekday unlike people who are more free on weekend. seebay chum:(

[slyer]

i meet my ex gf 3-4 times per wk... last time used to have super sticky gf... everyday must chat with her on phone n sms her... n need to meet her for dinner almost everyday

[stylestems]

U got to make everything right at the begining, else u will having problem when she has use to it. :o

[Castrol]

been together with my girlfriend for 5 months and we meet up 4-5 times a week until i feel kinda of burnt out and tired.


new gf is like that one, last time whenever i got a new gf, for at least 2 to 3 months my beer friends will only see me appear after 10 or 11pm (after my bonks).

for you now sian already right? its time to reverse the situation. meet your friends to drink and watch soccer first, then go meet your gf. :D

[5stars]

When you get into a relationship, you must be prepared to make some "sacrifice", and you can kiss goodbye to your freedom of single-hood. You gain some, you lose some.

And it depends on the "stickness" of your GF. An understanding GF will allow you the freedom to "roam" around during free time. Just a matter of gaining enough trust.

What I dun really like is when she sticks with me when I go out to watch EPL matches - something that she will never enjoy but still like to tag along. Just let her join the activities, and one fine day she will give up and carry on with her favorite hobby - Shopping :p

[High till Dry]

hi bros just want find out how often do you guys meet up with gf

been together with my girlfriend for 5 months and we meet up 4-5 times a week until i feel kinda of burnt out and tired.
been missing all sort of gathering and personal things as my girlfriend is getting too sticky. wonder what it would like if there is plan for R.O.M.Miss those days where i catch up with friends over beer ,EPL soccer and BIG 2

Once in a month or two. Get a foreign gf & she won't be breathing down ur neck...:D

[al123]

i wonder if all bros think like the way we do? as in fnid our GFs too sticky? Are there any bros who will meet up with their GFs abt 5 times a week once the honeymoon period is over? :)

[no_faith]

bro er lang, 5 months, 4-5 times per week.
coz tis honey moon period and still the love is hot.

tbh, u will realize as time slowly passed, the days of meeting up will also slowly reduced till the love turn cold and the end is near.

[~|@|~]

been with my CO for few years now and on average we will meet 3 or 4 times each week... sometimes if we busy with own groups of friends then we meet less. must respects each other's space to maintain a healhty relationship ;)

[Clit_LickeR]

but time past....it will just like the winter leaf,dry,Ugly and drop off dead

Then mine is R.I.P... cos i'm married. :D
LL gotta meet up almost everyday... :(

[asdfghjkl]

sticky is chio or not chio one ler? :confused:

[CLEANER]

iya...at first sure like that one...meet and meet everyday, not tiring at all. Me wif my gf for 3 yrs plus liao, now oso seldom meet, like 2-3 per wk. now my exam cuming, die. once per wk only. lucky, my gf is not that kind of sticky type one. Now she wana meet her frens, i say go lor, if i wana meet, she sure say ok one...coz everyday c each other sure gt no topic to say one till one day.:D

[Er Lang]

thanks guys for sharing your views
well can't really blame anybody or complaint since i have take this route
not forgetting gf doesn't has lot of friends, that make her so sticky with me
Probably will need few months to get used & adjust to this routine & lifestyles.
There is always a price for everything regardless whether we gain or lose.

in this case, only can meet up friends after 11-12pm or once a month for the weekends.

[Derelict]

thanks guys for sharing your views
well can't really blame anybody or complaint since i have take this route
not forgetting gf doesn't has lot of friends, that make her so sticky with me
Probably will need few months to get used & adjust to this routine & lifestyles.
There is always a price for everything regardless whether we gain or lose.

in this case, only can meet up friends after 11-12pm or once a month for the weekends.

Best response yet. :)

I had the same problem earlier on in my relationship. Took me a year to finally get use to it. Its been 8 years now, I feel comfortable as well as blessed with assurance.

Just remember to chat... in whatever the subject such as work related, feelings and whatever that pops in the head. Share, be it in deeds or words, that is my only advice for you. Gluck!

[Sha_Gua75]

Get a foreign gf & she won't be breathing down ur neck...:D

Not really true.... :o

[posh_boy]

I have a gf of 3 yrs.

beginning, almost every day then, a few times a week, then once a week and now once a month.

communication is a problem. she doesn't or not interested in watever i do. she is in her own world and she keep everything to herself.

she doesnt like to go out either.

i still love her bt i tink our love is dying n is fast approaching the END.

[sammyboyfor]

Get a foreign gf & she won't be breathing down ur neck...:D

Yeah that's because she's busy juggling 5 boyfriends at the same time. :D

[Derelict]

I have a gf of 3 yrs.

beginning, almost every day then, a few times a week, then once a week and now once a month.

communication is a problem. she doesn't or not interested in watever i do. she is in her own world and she keep everything to herself.

she doesnt like to go out either.

i still love her bt i tink our love is dying n is fast approaching the END.

Well, I still believe understanding is the best way to a lasting relationship. Understanding entails one to learn each other needs and wants. Thats thru conversation.

If you still want to be with her I guess the effort must come from you than. Take the lead. Remember what she like and build the conversation from there. Also if she keep things bottle up, there are other ways to cypher those information out. Build a concrete question that is meaningful, chances are she will think before replying than build another until it answers the question that is within her. Practice makes perfect. Once she knows that it is safe to share with you, chances are she will be more spontaneous in future.

I guess time will tell if you love her enough.

[jng1103]

If you still want to be with her I guess the effort must come from you than. Take the lead. Remember what she like and build the conversation from there. Also if she keep things bottle up, there are other ways to cypher those information out. Build a concrete question that is meaningful, chances are she will think before replying than build another until it answers the question that is within her. Practice makes perfect. Once she knows that it is safe to share with you, chances are she will be more spontaneous in future.

No doubt that communication is the key but what if both parties are not at the same frequency? Said is easier than done. At times, I was trying to convey my message yet she was not seeing what I was seeing. That's tough, when it comes to maturity and IQ/EQ. I also believe that there must be a good reason for "silence is gold" :)

jimbo

[CLEANER]

I have a gf of 3 yrs.

beginning, almost every day then, a few times a week, then once a week and now once a month.

communication is a problem. she doesn't or not interested in watever i do. she is in her own world and she keep everything to herself.

she doesnt like to go out either.

i still love her bt i tink our love is dying n is fast approaching the END.

not sure whether m i qualified to advise u or nt, but for me, me and my gf for 3 yrs plus liao, even though seldom meet nowadays, but everytime we meet up, juz like the good old times like that, so happy to c each other.
maybe, u need to give her sum surprises at times and +++ to each other is the most important factor. Find one day, u n ur gf juz +++ everyting out, dont bottle every shit in ur heart. in the end, u r the one who SUFFER.
If after communicating, it doesnt work out, i tink might as well end the relationship. When time drag longer, u will feel more hurt. I last time experience before. so might as well settle it once and for all.;)
anyway, wish u all the best lah, and dun tink so much. Find a suitable place and time to thrash it out...

[bonk75]

will only meet my GF if i need a fuck... maybe 3 times a wk...:D

[forumer]

met my ex almost everyday when i was together with her...

din mind it so much, get to bonk her everyday :)

[Er Lang]

lol. knn, i m wif mine gf for 4 years alreadi. we got together when we r 18. since den life hav been the same. everydae s long s not in camp, we bound to b together.

4 years all along lik tat. even now, either i m in camp, else i will b with her, slping over her place n stuff. haha, tink mine the extreme case alreadi.

Like this must be very siong...everyday have to see the same face unless get married. Sometime need to have a good balance of our lifestyles by meeting up with friends chit chat & some beers....to me friends are also important

for case i believe you do not have alot of friends rite

[poorman4sex]

Like this must be very siong...everyday have to see the same face unless get married. Sometime need to have a good balance of our lifestyles by meeting up with friends chit chat & some beers....to me friends are also important

for case i believe you do not have alot of friends rite

No offence to you bro ... all i can see is that you are not ready to get a steady GF... i think all u need is a bonking partner, when u need then u call her out~

if you are hot in love with your GF, you will want to see her everyday... she will want to see you everyday.... by chances both are not together due to work or whatever reasons, both will still call each other to check..

now u think GF is sticky... later she dump u... u come here crying she does not stick anymore...

[123Kid]

Best response yet.

I had the same problem earlier on in my relationship. Took me a year to finally get use to it. Its been 8 years now, I feel comfortable as well as blessed with assurance.

Just remember to chat... in whatever the subject such as work related, feelings and whatever that pops in the head. Share, be it in deeds or words, that is my only advice for you. Gluck!

For me, its sometimes when I'm free and she's free and both of us wanna meet up, then its ok. Once in a while meet 3-4 times a week, sometimes only once a week, but we're still very much in love, nevertheless. Doesn't matter how many times you meet her, as long as there is communication, its good :D

Anyway, bros, just wondering. When you guys bring anything up, straight out of your head without filtering anything, is it really a bad thing? :o haha, because I'm not too sure hor, but I've always personally thought that whatever comes into my mind I will bring it out to her immediately, if not I will always have this..weird feeling in my stomach. but then is there a limit to it?

[_AXL_]

I have a gf of 3 yrs.

beginning, almost every day then, a few times a week, then once a week and now once a month.

communication is a problem. she doesn't or not interested in watever i do. she is in her own world and she keep everything to herself.

she doesnt like to go out either.

i still love her bt i tink our love is dying n is fast approaching the END.

not trying to scare u here...

my recent ex-gf also like that. we were living together, albeit when i m back in sg at my parents' place. we have the whole level to ourselves so was still considered private.

communication was a big problem for us. she was never interested in whatever i do for a living as well, and certainly didnt bother to try to understand. i also always catch her engrossed with something on her mind and whenever i asked her a penny for her thoughts, she told me nothing or just told me some frivolous stuff...

oh yes, she doesnt like to go out either, always preferring to stay at home and didnt want me to go out too... especially when going out to club... with me around, it would at most be kbox outing with her close friends. but then, whenever i m out of town, i would often find her out partying.

i realised that she was seeing another man behind my back. guess she was interested, just not in me...

i m not saying that yr gf might be doing that, but dont u find it weird for a woman not to be interested in what her bf (potential husband) does???:confused: pls dont read too much into my words... just a word of caution. cheers.

[enzer88]

No offence to you bro ... all i can see is that you are not ready to get a steady GF... i think all u need is a bonking partner, when u need then u call her out~

if you are hot in love with your GF, you will want to see her everyday... she will want to see you everyday.... by chances both are not together due to work or whatever reasons, both will still call each other to check..

now u think GF is sticky... later she dump u... u come here crying she does not stick anymore...You r damn right!:)

[Er Lang]

No offence to you bro ... all i can see is that you are not ready to get a steady GF... i think all u need is a bonking partner, when u need then u call her out~

if you are hot in love with your GF, you will want to see her everyday... she will want to see you everyday.... by chances both are not together due to work or whatever reasons, both will still call each other to check..

now u think GF is sticky... later she dump u... u come here crying she does not stick anymore...


i never mentioned anything bonking so please do not act smart
just want to know the frequently of people meeting their gf

you can created a thread for this topic if you like

[Kyser Soze]

if you are hot in love with your GF, you will want to see her everyday... she will want to see you everyday.... by chances both are not together due to work or whatever reasons, both will still call each other to check..

now u think GF is sticky... later she dump u... u come here crying she does not stick anymore...
I think maintaining a relationship is something not easy to do. :eek:
I used to take things for granted. Once the girl is gone, she is really gone forever. It hurts, but there is no point crying over spilled milk.

[no_faith]

dun get a gf if sex is the priority wich u tink like u can have free sex, any positions blah blah blah.
love>sex

on the other hand, if itz not real love, juz wanna make her ur gf and so u can ....., den depend on individual.

[Er Lang]

dun get a gf if sex is the priority wich u tink like u can have free sex, any positions blah blah blah.
love>sex

on the other hand, if itz not real love, juz wanna make her ur gf and so u can ....., den depend on individual.

strongly agreed with you

In early stage, both have to get used to be together before going to the next stage and if not suitable then just have to be frank to each other.

but some people just get gf because of sex :D

[no_faith]

lidat ur gf got sistas bo?
intro leh, i bery 'hungry' har.:D

[holymonk]

Me got no gf to meet.....but got wife to see everyday:D

[no_faith]

u still got wife to see wor.

i no gf, no wife, bio gals on the street, the gals gin me summore.:(
cham ah:D

[beck7777]

Haiz.. Just broke off.. No need to meet liao.... :(

[5stars]

Keeping the communication active and positive is vital for the holding the relationship. When a couple starts to talk & communicate less often, it is a sign of problem.

We Guys can do lot of things that please the Girls, but at the end of the day, the common excuse for a breakup is Communication.

[=WK=]

I think maintaining a relationship is something not easy to do. :eek:
I used to take things for granted. Once the girl is gone, she is really gone forever. It hurts, but there is no point crying over spilled milk.

haizzz, this is so true. we never appreciate things until we lose them... please treasure your partners :o

[yangge]

Broke off with my few months ago, now back to seeing each other again. Hope she can stick to me tight tight everyday.

[no_faith]

not we only must cherish them when they ard mah,
dey, the gals also must cherish us when we beside them wor.
in tis way, it will last longer.

cannot be one way traffic mah.