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sigueroa
12-03-2018, 10:32 PM
Hey guys,

I'm just curious over here regarding the frequency of masturbation. How often do you guys masturbate?

For me now, more or less it's like daily.. sometimes maybe alternate days. But on average 1 week about 5-6 times. I read online that it's okay to masturbate daily, some even say it's good because it increases your sperm quality or something. But sometimes it feels more of a habit than a need, and that's where it kind of worries me. I got try to tell myself to alternate.. but my determination not so strong.. :p

So just curious on local inputs, advice and suggestions :) Thank you!

mygirly
13-03-2018, 10:25 AM
Once or twice a year
It's a habit. Take up sports.

Geylang1969
13-03-2018, 01:07 PM
How old are you? I used to do it couple of times a week when younger. These days am an old man I dont do it at all.




Hey guys,

I'm just curious over here regarding the frequency of masturbation. How often do you guys masturbate?

For me now, more or less it's like daily.. sometimes maybe alternate days. But on average 1 week about 5-6 times. I read online that it's okay to masturbate daily, some even say it's good because it increases your sperm quality or something. But sometimes it feels more of a habit than a need, and that's where it kind of worries me. I got try to tell myself to alternate.. but my determination not so strong.. :p

So just curious on local inputs, advice and suggestions :) Thank you!

sammyboyfor
13-03-2018, 03:51 PM
There is nothing wrong with masturbating on a daily basis. In fact daily ejaculation is purportedly good for prostate health.

However if you prefer jerking off to actual sex then something is not right.

I hardly ever masturbate. I prefer the real thing.

Hey guys,

I'm just curious over here regarding the frequency of masturbation. How often do you guys masturbate?

For me now, more or less it's like daily.. sometimes maybe alternate days. But on average 1 week about 5-6 times. I read online that it's okay to masturbate daily, some even say it's good because it increases your sperm quality or something. But sometimes it feels more of a habit than a need, and that's where it kind of worries me. I got try to tell myself to alternate.. but my determination not so strong.. :p

So just curious on local inputs, advice and suggestions :) Thank you!

sigueroa
13-03-2018, 07:17 PM
How old are you? I used to do it couple of times a week when younger. These days am an old man I dont do it at all.

Thanks for your response bro.. I am 27 this year..

sigueroa
13-03-2018, 07:18 PM
There is nothing wrong with masturbating on a daily basis. In fact daily ejaculation is purportedly good for prostate health.

However if you prefer jerking off to actual sex then something is not right.

I hardly ever masturbate. I prefer the real thing.

Thanks for your response bro.. Yes definitely prefer actual sex.. Hahaha

IAmAwesome
13-03-2018, 10:08 PM
Yes definitely prefer actual sex

Feel the same way too as i feel nothing can ever substitute real sex ;)

Cheesebeast
14-03-2018, 07:59 AM
When i was a teenager would pcc whenever almost every day. Now in my 20s will try to abstain so that the actual sex would be more pleasurable

marzsomeone
14-03-2018, 08:43 AM
But I saw some article that Masturbation will cause PE or damage to your little bro if too frequent. recommended is like once or twice a month. of cuz best is the actual sex.

I used to do it daily when younger then once a week. after reading the article, I at most once a month but daily try to do some milking exercise

sammyboyfor
14-03-2018, 01:32 PM
But I saw some article that Masturbation will cause PE or damage to your little bro if too frequent. recommended is like once or twice a month. of cuz best is the actual sex.

I used to do it daily when younger then once a week. after reading the article, I at most once a month but daily try to do some milking exercise

That article is rubbish. Masturbation does not cause PE. In fact masturbation is recommended for those who do suffer from PE as it will enable them to last longer during actual sex.

marzsomeone
14-03-2018, 02:22 PM
That article is rubbish. Masturbation does not cause PE. In fact masturbation is recommended for those who do suffer from PE as it will enable them to last longer during actual sex.

I read on that too. my PE is mainly mentally stressed and low testosterone level i guess.

sammyboyfor
14-03-2018, 03:53 PM
I read on that too. my PE is mainly mentally stressed and low testosterone level i guess.

Have you measured your testosterone levels?

marzsomeone
14-03-2018, 10:15 PM
Have you measured your testosterone levels?

nope I did not. just read up on the symptoms. when I take tongkat Ali, I feel the sex drive. else normally my erection won't last during sex. it will just soften before I can shoot

ibanezjem555
14-03-2018, 10:27 PM
Every other day when young. Horny, thrice a day. Masturbation is self-love. If you don't love yourself, who will love you ? Masturbation prevents rape. Sometimes so horny, faster release b4 I do something silly, seriously.

sammyboyfor
15-03-2018, 02:55 AM
nope I did not. just read up on the symptoms. when I take tongkat Ali, I feel the sex drive. else normally my erection won't last during sex. it will just soften before I can shoot

Why speculate when a simple blood test will provide a quantitative measurement? :rolleyes:

marzsomeone
15-03-2018, 08:48 AM
Why speculate when a simple blood test will provide a quantitative measurement? :rolleyes:

true also. need to face it anyway. will find a day to get the test done

aymanzalwahiri
15-03-2018, 01:43 PM
Hey bro, no worries, I did it everyday , I’m 31

YELLOW
15-03-2018, 05:32 PM
everiday until recently. i realise i cant sustain an erection cos always watch porn to masturbate so nothing excites me ..... try to avoid watching porn to pcc. best is jus go find FL.... or ur gf/wife for the real thing ... ur cock and ur mind will be healthier

IAmAwesome
15-03-2018, 10:44 PM
thrice a day. Masturbation is self-love

Thats alot of time spent on self love :p

supperclub
16-03-2018, 10:21 AM
8-10 times per week
I am 30++ currently

2-3 times per day when i was 20+

based on current trend, I will stop when I am 70+ :eek::eek:

supershaft
17-03-2018, 09:59 PM
PCC will make ur dick head numb... after a while, it has no feeling when given BJ or even sex. unless PCC dun rub the head.

Adella
20-03-2018, 11:23 PM
Have an active sport.
A couple of times a week is enough masturbate

lester2017
22-03-2018, 10:48 PM
4times/day, + 2 times sex in the afternoon and evening. When I woke up, I head straight to toilet, watch porn and masturbate, that is my morning exercise. I masturbate first before coffee :)

marzsomeone
23-03-2018, 11:40 AM
4times/day, + 2 times sex in the afternoon and evening. When I woke up, I head straight to toilet, watch porn and masturbate, that is my morning exercise. I masturbate first before coffee :)

wah bro, how old are you? so power?

jinwolves
23-03-2018, 04:09 PM
I almost everyday. See mood... I am 31 this year��

IAmReallyNotGay
29-03-2018, 02:43 AM
I will stop when I am 70+

I hope to stop around that age too :D

avocadoj
07-04-2018, 08:33 PM
I'm glad to come across this question.

I self reflected and realised that masturbation seems to be addictive for me and a way to de-stress.

So I fapped like once every day since entering studies!

I'm trying to cut down masturbation and substitute it with meditation.

Hopefully I can be disciplined enough to do it.

YELLOW
09-04-2018, 05:55 PM
wow .... support bro .... hope u succeed.... 1 week once will be good achievement if u dont hav a reg fb to provide u w sex.

I'm glad to come across this question.

I self reflected and realised that masturbation seems to be addictive for me and a way to de-stress.

So I fapped like once every day since entering studies!

I'm trying to cut down masturbation and substitute it with meditation.

Hopefully I can be disciplined enough to do it.

blactooth
09-04-2018, 09:07 PM
Trying to cut down also, too much makes it not so good with gf

xxtwentyfour
11-04-2018, 12:16 PM
This year I've only masturbated 2 or 3 times.

bebe69
11-04-2018, 12:23 PM
hey guys just out of curiousity..when you guys jerk off and your cream is about to fly out, do you guys just let it fly all over and clean the mess later? or do you have toilet roll to catch the cream before it makes a mess?... just curious!

bradplay2018
11-04-2018, 12:30 PM
hey guys just out of curiousity..when you guys jerk off and your cream is about to fly out, do you guys just let it fly all over and clean the mess later? or do you have toilet roll to catch the cream before it makes a mess?... just curious!

Let it fly all over or either aim at a toliet bowl and shoot inside, then flush away.. easier.. lesser mess.

Cheesebeast
11-04-2018, 02:28 PM
hey guys just out of curiousity..when you guys jerk off and your cream is about to fly out, do you guys just let it fly all over and clean the mess later? or do you have toilet roll to catch the cream before it makes a mess?... just curious!

I would place 2 sheets of tissue paper on my abs and aim at them. Saves time on clean up

bebe69
11-04-2018, 07:18 PM
Let it fly all over or either aim at a toliet bowl and shoot inside, then flush away.. easier.. lesser mess.

Less mess is best!

bebe69
11-04-2018, 07:19 PM
I would place 2 sheets of tissue paper on my abs and aim at them. Saves time on clean up

I assume you would be lying down then..

iamntokay
11-04-2018, 10:51 PM
i do it once per day, after that no feel and time to do for second of the day already. lol

IAmAwesome
11-04-2018, 11:43 PM
I almost everyday. See mood...

You must be in a good mood always :D

MaraGuru
12-04-2018, 09:33 AM
hey guys just out of curiousity..when you guys jerk off and your cream is about to fly out, do you guys just let it fly all over and clean the mess later? or do you have toilet roll to catch the cream before it makes a mess?... just curious!

Do it during shower time

bebe69
12-04-2018, 10:13 AM
Do it during shower time

and the say women take a long time in the shower!

MaraGuru
12-04-2018, 06:49 PM
and the say women take a long time in the shower!

I believe woman still use the toilet longer than guy. You know, girl take longer time to cum and thats explained why they took so long inside.

jien1
21-04-2018, 03:48 PM
hey guys just out of curiousity..when you guys jerk off and your cream is about to fly out, do you guys just let it fly all over and clean the mess later? or do you have toilet roll to catch the cream before it makes a mess?... just curious!

I usually do it on the panties in my home....masturbate with my hand holding the panties wrapped around my dick

Parkerlon
25-04-2018, 09:19 AM
I would place 2 sheets of tissue paper on my abs and aim at them. Saves time on clean up

Lol bro we same pattern

bigloser0
29-04-2018, 07:04 PM
I usually do it on the panties in my home....masturbate with my hand holding the panties wrapped around my dick

Do you sniff those panties before you wrap them around your dick?
Or you are sniffing those bras while masturbating?

Whose panties are those?
Care to share some photos if any?

jinwolves
03-05-2018, 02:13 PM
I will pcc on my pants at night then in morning change new pants. Once shoot out, is the best to fall asleep

cunthammer
04-05-2018, 01:39 PM
Depends on my mood. Sometimes 3-4 times a week. When I am especially horny, I can come twice, does this count as 2 times or 1?

abclover
04-05-2018, 05:13 PM
Depends on my mood. Sometimes 3-4 times a week. When I am especially horny, I can come twice, does this count as 2 times or 1?

musturbate and pcc is counted differently. I can pcc many times a day, but can only cum once with real fuck. :rolleyes:

Summerhillt
07-05-2018, 04:24 AM
I will pcc on my pants at night then in morning change new pants. Once shoot out, is the best to fall asleep

wtf bro than the pants not sticky meh? the bed not sticky ah? :eek:

Unitrix
15-05-2018, 06:34 PM
Quick qns..
Do u guys stop at your shot or go on masturbating?

My habit will be after 1st shot into the tissue wait afew secs and start masturbating again. If limp, I'll use 1 hand on the head and the other on the shaft... Find the tingling feeling and have a go again. I'll normally do it till I fall aslp, tired or satisfied.

IAmAwesome
15-05-2018, 09:18 PM
than the pants not sticky

I was actually thinking the same thing, lol

MaraGuru
16-05-2018, 03:57 PM
I will pcc on my pants at night then in morning change new pants. Once shoot out, is the best to fall asleep

Next morning no smell no fly?

Lovesiamviet
16-05-2018, 06:38 PM
Hey guys,

I'm just curious over here regarding the frequency of masturbation. How often do you guys masturbate?

For me now, more or less it's like daily.. sometimes maybe alternate days. But on average 1 week about 5-6 times. I read online that it's okay to masturbate daily, some even say it's good because it increases your sperm quality or something. But sometimes it feels more of a habit than a need, and that's where it kind of worries me. I got try to tell myself to alternate.. but my determination not so strong.. :p

So just curious on local inputs, advice and suggestions :) Thank you!

Once every other day

bigloser0
19-05-2018, 01:45 PM
I will pcc on my pants at night then in morning change new pants. Once shoot out, is the best to fall asleep

bro may be too tired after ejaculation to get up and change.
not just sticky and there is a fishy smell after a while.
Its actually a mess to clean after they dried up.
Best is to clean almost immediately after.

but some of us are just too lazy and tired to get up after a good release.
so change the next day.
provided the liquid don't spill onto the mattress or other furniture.
it will be hell thereafter.

Shadow_warrior
24-05-2018, 12:46 AM
What says TCM (Traditional chinese medicine)?
Man is build from many different vital substances:
http://www.sacredlotus.com/theory/substances/jing.cfm
Most precious of them is Jing. It is the essence of all vitality of human. Part of it is inherited from parents (DNA) and the rest is aquired from very slow process of refinement of digesting food and breathing air. It is the most concentrated vital substance which is crucial for all living processes. All other substances, like blood, marrow, brain tissue or bones have their source in jing. Jing is stored in kidneys. To form one drop of blood it is necessary to digest about 20 times more food. To form one drop of jing about 40-50 drops of blood is required. Although energy which controls the vital processes (qi) and form thoughts (shen) comes from transformation of jing.
Guess what is the main ingredient of semen? Exactly - Jing. It has the power to bring life. But what gives life, that takes life. Each ejaculation depletes man of tons of vitality. Frequent ejaculations lead to jing deficiency. What are the effects?
Of course premature aging effects and other diseases:
http://www.sacredlotus.com/diagnosis/patterns/patterns_ki.cfm#jing

Jing is the source of all yin and yang in man. It nourishes blood, marrow, brain, eyes, ears, it is required for digestion (and thus consuming new energy). Depleting jing leads to premature aging, hair graying, teeth problems, tinnitus, bone malformations, mental fog, bad concentration and many symptoms related to specific organs.

http://www.jostsauer.com/2009/01/come-again-ejaculation-affairs-and-yin-and-yang/
http://www.sacredlotus.com/theory/illness/other_causes.cfm#sex

Blue Blue
29-05-2018, 10:34 PM
hey guys just out of curiousity..when you guys jerk off and your cream is about to fly out, do you guys just let it fly all over and clean the mess later? or do you have toilet roll to catch the cream before it makes a mess?... just curious!

I will usually stand by tissues n shoot at the tissues.......sometimes will just let it shoot more troublesome to clean up.....but more shiok especially shoot far

YELLOW
18-07-2018, 07:10 PM
good point bro !!! ya nvr tot of it ....y can pcc more times than actual fuck .... ??? actual fuck take alot more energy ?

musturbate and pcc is counted differently. I can pcc many times a day, but can only cum once with real fuck. :rolleyes:

desmondquek
12-08-2018, 07:07 PM
This year I've only masturbated 2 or 3 times.

How old are you?

watmidoin
19-08-2018, 12:16 PM
I will pcc on my pants at night then in morning change new pants. Once shoot out, is the best to fall asleep
wtf bro than the pants not sticky meh? the bed not sticky ah? :eek:
I do the same. Yes, the pants will be sticky. If the load is heavy, it may even smudge onto the mattress and bolster. The pants will have a cum smell next morning but, strangely, there wouldn't be anything anywhere else. After release, just hug the bolster to sleep. It's a good feeling :o It's not something I can do with the girls because we have to wipe the cum off their bodies and I find that sort of "area cleaning" breaks the romantic pace and a bit mood killing.

Anyways, to add to the masturbation frequency data, when I was in my teens and early twenties, it was daily. Didn't jerk off couldn't fall asleep. Mid twenties till early thirties still needed to release (masturbate or sex) almost daily but there were some days when I was too tired and fell asleep without doing. As expected, this happened more frequently the older I got. Mid thirties around every other day. Now late thirties around 2-3 times a week because work became more stressful and tiring as I aged. That said, regardless of age, there are days when I feel so damn horny I will masturbate or fuck at least 4 times during the night. Just last month I jerked off 6 times in a night. My max record was jerking off 11 times from 11pm to around 4am when I was in JC. That night I mentally fucked all the prettiest girls in my jc :o (I usually imagine fucking my friends and colleagues instead of watching porn when masturbating.)

And as for all the old wives' tales about the dangers or benefits of masturbating, I think overall it's good for health for three reasons.

Firstly, when I'm without a regular partner, masturbating will help to reduce the urge to have sex and I won't engage in the "dangerous sexual activity" of finding prostitutes and FLs. But of course sometimes buah tahan must fuck a real woman then will buy condom go fuck la (I always buy proper Durex Extra Safe condom rather than use the whore's god knows what brand no quality control condom).

Secondly, masturbation trained me to recognize the sensations at various stages of arousal. So I can control myself and slow down before I reach the point of no return. For me, there is always a "danger point" roughly 3-5mins into actual sex or masturbation when I can feel some build up of tension. That is when I slow down and let the feeling pass. Once I get past this danger point I can just anyhow go on for as long as my body can take it liao. I can also tell when I'm about to cum and withdraw before shooting. While not a full-proof way to avoid pregnancy, it has worked so far whenever I'm not using condom and the girl is not on the pill.

Finally, I find masturbating very therapeutic. With actual sex, there's always the human relationship complication (even for fbs) and the need to be mindful about avoiding pregnancy when going raw. All these take some bits away from the joy of sex. But with masturbation, I can imagine fucking any girl I want, we can be having sex for all sorts of reasons in all sorts of settings (my female boss feeling lonely, me punishing my subordinate for a mistake, sex with a horny colleague who's husband wasn't satisfying her, a sales rep offering sexual gratification, raping that innocent virgin intern, etc.) It is limited only by my imagination. And I can cum inside all these girls (this is where cumming inside the pants enters the picture, the sensations can be quite similar :o) without worry of getting tied down with an offspring.

As for the dick head becoming desensitized, I don't think masturbation was the culprit. For me, during my early cheonging days, I used to cum quite fast. About 10mins like that done. Bought Durex Performa once. It was like putting deflam on ur dick. The dick head became numb for a week and rather desensitized thereafter till this day. This is why bj will never get me off (some KTV girls will challenge me to pay fj rate if they can get me off with bj, otherwise they drink. I always accept the challenge :D) This is also why I can last as long as I want after the danger point. Give up some sensation for longer lasting sex. But sometimes I quite miss the more sensitive head as it took less stimulation to achieve the same shiokness.

[Omg, didn't realize this post had became so long :eek: But I guess masturbation is a large part of my life. So I just wanted to share my "experience" with the kids.]

dhdlgggk
24-09-2018, 01:48 AM
Question.. Do you think maybe masturbating too much might cause you to leak pee after you have peed in the toilet? As in cannot expel all the pee in your bladder because certain muscles are weaker? Or is that something that happens regardless of how much you masturbate?

StahlAsia
27-09-2018, 10:00 PM
got try cum in tour own mouth ?