Anyone wif religion but yet bonk around?

[simsim87]

That day my colleagues were discussing about karma and bonking around, may it be casual ons or paid sex. They say they know of some guy who gave birth to an intellectually disabled child, den they say because of karma, as the guy was known to be a player before marriage, go around bonking whores and ons.

That set me thinking, as a non devout Buddhist, but still as someone subscribing to a relegion, shouLD i stop indulging in paid sex as well. I'm afraid that karma might befall me or my future kids....

Anyone having the same thoughts as well?

[Armour234]

Bro, my thinking is:

Paying for sex is okay, since you are not cheating the girl of her feeling or anything.

But if you are actually preying on someone's virginity, then sooner or later there will be karma, it is just a matter of time. As the saying goes 不是不报，时辰未到。

Btw, I am a buddhist as well.

[Silentreader88]

By bonking whores and paying them is a form of good karma Mah! They are desperate for money and you give it to them! Both benefit in a certain way ! TS, ask your friend don't pretend la! Pcc is also bad karma what...sperm is a form of life too! tiu!:rolleyes:

[I Love Boobs]

I contribute regularly to the economies of Malaysia, Thailand and Eastern European nations.
Hence I'm a good man...

Oh I forgot. Homeland too hor... but I also do NS ma. ORD already.
"Come, call uncle" is becoming too common nowadays. Xmas relatives visiting, I become ah pek....

[Zenzisage]

My religion...Hedonism lor:D

Zero belief in karma, at least not within this lifetime. So many rich assholes everyday treat supermodels as sex slaves also rich and successful till the end lol.

I think belief in karma is as detrimental as belief in God. People only do good in fear of punishment instead of finding out the meaning and value of it. Religious doctrine can govern morality but it also shackles people from figuring out what they really want. I prefer more flexible ways to be spiritual, even something as simple as staring into the night sky.

[Sandra95]

I believe there's nothing sinful about having casual or paid sex, but only if you're single or not in a committed relationship.

[conquer]

That day my colleagues were discussing about karma and bonking around, may it be casual ons or paid sex. They say they know of some guy who gave birth to an intellectually disabled child, den they say because of karma, as the guy was known to be a player before marriage, go around bonking whores and ons.

That set me thinking, as a non devout Buddhist, but still as someone subscribing to a relegion, shouLD i stop indulging in paid sex as well. I'm afraid that karma might befall me or my future kids....

Anyone having the same thoughts as well?

If adultery is a sin, the one who should be punished is the one who commits it... not the baby.

What the hell are you talking about? :confused:

[simsim87]

If adultery is a sin, the one who should be punished is the one who commits it... not the baby.

What the hell are you talking about? :confused:

Coz karma can hit your descendants instead of you

[simsim87]

Bro, my thinking is:

Paying for sex is okay, since you are not cheating the girl of her feeling or anything.

But if you are actually preying on someone's virginity, then sooner or later there will be karma, it is just a matter of time. As the saying goes 不是不报，时辰未到。

Btw, I am a buddhist as well.

I'm pretty sure in Buddhism, regardless of paid sex or casual sex, it's equally sinful, because u r committing the act out of lust instead of love or procreation. The body is as sacred as a temple, anyone whu attempts to violate it is deemed sinful

But on a conscience level, you are quite right to say that paid sex is less detrimental coz u r not harming the feelings of anyone.

[sharklaserscom]

Coz karma can hit your descendants instead of you
Getting 'laughed at', 'stared at' by strangers when going out. For life.

[conquer]

Coz karma can hit your descendants instead of you

LOL... This is just superstitious.

It's like back in the ancient time people could not explain sun rise, sun set, raining, thunder, etc. so they claimed these are controlled by the God. :p

[w00f]

I'm pretty sure in Buddhism, regardless of paid sex or casual sex, it's equally sinful, because u r committing the act out of lust instead of love or procreation. The body is as sacred as a temple, anyone whu attempts to violate it is deemed sinful

But on a conscience level, you are quite right to say that paid sex is less detrimental coz u r not harming the feelings of anyone.

Since Buddha said one 's body is sacred, Then why the hell you abused your own body by pcc! You are abusing your kkj what!:rolleyes: Pcc is not violating meh! I am pretty sure pcc is an act out of lust rather than love!:D

[BTech]

Since Buddha said one 's body is sacred, Then why the hell you abused your own body by pcc! You are abusing your kkj what!:rolleyes: Pcc is not violating meh! I am pretty sure pcc is an act out of lust rather than love!:D

He love his KKJ so he strokes it constantly for several times a day mah ! It's love !!!!

[kaixiang]

That day my colleagues were discussing about karma and bonking around, may it be casual ons or paid sex. They say they know of some guy who gave birth to an intellectually disabled child, den they say because of karma, as the guy was known to be a player before marriage, go around bonking whores and ons.

That set me thinking, as a non devout Buddhist, but still as someone subscribing to a relegion, shouLD i stop indulging in paid sex as well. I'm afraid that karma might befall me or my future kids....

Anyone having the same thoughts as well?

Well, depends on what you believe?

It's just like saying, Buddha's teaching neh cover certain topic, you switch to Jesus meh?

Escorts also need to eat what.

Don't ever think of Karma as a 'reward', like don't do good and expect. Just do good, good will befall you in ways you cannot imagine.

You realise, you neh pass away in your sleep is already a blessing. I don't mean to be sadist, but many people are unhappy each day when life still breathes in them.

Cheer up man!

[MoeLanYong]

You guys are in the wrong religion. There is a religion that accepts you for who you are. It does not believe in karma. It is about an imperfect Man saved from hell by a perfect God.

This perfect God came and dined with the worst kind of sinners: prostitutes and tax collectors. The tax collectors then were traitors to their own country. They collected taxes for foreigners. Your occasional visit to FL pales in comparison. This perfect God accepted these terrible sinners. He never scolded or condemned them, and felt perfectly comfortable around them. Instead of wishing these sinners karma, he healed them.

So there you go folks. Choose the right religion and you will not suffer karma. :D

[singleman]

That day my colleagues were discussing about karma and bonking around, may it be casual ons or paid sex. They say they know of some guy who gave birth to an intellectually disabled child, den they say because of karma, as the guy was known to be a player before marriage, go around bonking whores and ons.

That set me thinking, as a non devout Buddhist, but still as someone subscribing to a relegion, shouLD i stop indulging in paid sex as well. I'm afraid that karma might befall me or my future kids....

Anyone having the same thoughts as well?

Hi TS,

For your question, it is more important of what you believe and should do.. if you think is true have karma then dun do it.. I mean you decide yourself.

Different people have different views, some said got sin got karma, some said is fine to do, no karma, so you think who should you believe who?

so a lot of time is your own thinking and decision.. if you think there is sin and karma then dun do it... if you think is fine to do.. and go ahead to do.. then when really karma came, then take it without any blame on anyone.

[nitecrawllerr]

LOL... This is just superstitious.

It's like back in the ancient time people could not explain sun rise, sun set, raining, thunder, etc. so they claimed these are controlled by the God. :p

U havent seen a spirit doesnt mean teres no spirit/ghost or God.:D

[naan1974]

That day my colleagues were discussing about karma and bonking around, may it be casual ons or paid sex. They say they know of some guy who gave birth to an intellectually disabled child, den they say because of karma, as the guy was known to be a player before marriage, go around bonking whores and ons.

That set me thinking, as a non devout Buddhist, but still as someone subscribing to a relegion, shouLD i stop indulging in paid sex as well. I'm afraid that karma might befall me or my future kids....

Anyone having the same thoughts as well?

If it's the guy's karma to have a disable child due to his past deeds,
then what abt the child ? why is the child born disable? who's karma
would that be

[newyorker88]

If it's the guy's karma to have a disable child due to his past deeds,
then what abt the child ? why is the child born disable? who's karma
would that be

Just put it simply... both the parents n disabled child are destinied to be together to suffer for their karma they created. The kid was born this way to suffer. The parents have such a kid to suffer their part of karma.

Btw, in the news alot of pastors n monks are caught having sex with other people wives or child molestors. So what religion they belong to does not matter. Karma is like Newton’s second law. So it is like science

[newyorker88]

U havent seen a spirit doesnt mean teres no spirit/ghost or God.:D

Hahaha...

Can we see his mind? We can’t, so does he have a mind? You got your answer

[nitecrawllerr]

Hahaha...

Can we see his mind? We can’t, so does he have a mind? You got your answer

Thats right. U cant see His creation wat more the Mighty HE. Depending which faith one from. There are billions of angels around us. Just tat we sin alot. Not easy to spot them. Anyway diff topic:D

[sharklaserscom]

Job 4:8
As I have observed, those who plow evil and those who sow trouble reap it.

James 3:18
Peacemakers who sow in peace reap a harvest of righteousness.

[rey69]

I remember one hollywood star commented that those handicapped are due to their bad karma.

[dyelook]

almost all bros & sis here have their own religion & still fucking around happily..:D

[conquer]

U havent seen a spirit doesnt mean teres no spirit/ghost or God.:D

If I claim I am God, and I am the one who makes the sun rise from the east every morning. But am I really God?

Of course not, but what is blind spot in the statement? The answer is: I did not explain the "mechanism" -- how do I do it. Now that marks the difference between science/logic and superstition.

"God" is just the explanation to all questions which we refuse to seek for answers. :o

[conquer]

almost all bros & sis here have their own religion & still fucking around happily..:D

Even the Catholic priests fuck young boys... this makes me feel so less guilty every time after I go call a chicken. :o

[nitecrawllerr]

Even the Catholic priests fuck young boys... this makes me feel so less guilty every time after I go call a chicken. :o

Hes just human. Desire/lust. Tats between him and God. God is Just. Good or Bad He will grant him. Who are we to pass judgement. Come day of judgement he will have to answer to HIM.:D

[simsim87]

Well, from the answers I have gathered, I can probably infer that most of you guys either do not have a religion, or just non devout. It's easy to comment if you fall into this category. Coz u have no doctrine to govern what's right or wrong for you

But for someone subscribing to a certain religion, That grave feeling of immorality only hits you when you step into a church and temple every week, you clasp your hands praying to your God, reciting your prayers and asking for blessings, like a religious man on the surface. But u know deep inside it's all hypocrisy, u cheated on your spouse or gf, u fooled ard playing wif innocent gals feelings, u call chicken every week to quench your lust....

This is the dilemma I am referring to...not sure anyone shares the same sentiments as me....

[afterburn]

I guess one way to ensure better karma is to tip the girl more generously after the session :D

Pay for sex is a transaction like all others. As long as pay fairly, treat the girl respectfully within the bounds of the service offered, don't abuse/force her ... it's not an evil act and should not conflict with religion.

By the way, buddhism does not bother with good/evil or reward/punishment brownie points system like religions of the Book. The ultimate aim of buddhist is to be free of wordly desires in order to be free of this life of sufferings and reach enlightenment. Unfortunately, paid sex and even plain consensual sex conflicts with this aim.

Have no worries though. As long as your health keeps up, you can enjoy first, then still have time to work on the enlightenment part when you grow old and impotent :D

[oxeso]

There is a religion that accepts you for who you are.
Choose the right religion and you will not suffer karma. :DTis 1 ah?

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[MoeLanYong]

Well, from the answers I have gathered, I can probably infer that most of you guys either do not have a religion, or just non devout. It's easy to comment if you fall into this category. Coz u have no doctrine to govern what's right or wrong for you

But for someone subscribing to a certain religion, That grave feeling of immorality only hits you when you step into a church and temple every week, you clasp your hands praying to your God, reciting your prayers and asking for blessings, like a religious man on the surface. But u know deep inside it's all hypocrisy, u cheated on your spouse or gf, u fooled ard playing wif innocent gals feelings, u call chicken every week to quench your lust....

This is the dilemma I am referring to...not sure anyone shares the same sentiments as me....

You feel hypocritical because you don't understand your religion. You think you have to be perfect before you step into a church. If you can be perfect, do you need to go to a church?? **Pause. Re-read that last sentence. Think think a bit, its not difficult**

Do you see a physician when you are well? Jesus said, the well have no need of a physician. Meaning the sinless have no need of Him. You go to church to get cleansed the same way you take a bath to get cleansed. You don't clean yourself before you take a bath, right?

You got your concepts wrong, hence you feel hypocritical. In the unadulterated version, you are already cleansed once and for all. You go to church to be reminded you are already cleansed. Go find a church that teaches you proper concepts.

[Sandra95]

Well, from the answers I have gathered, I can probably infer that most of you guys either do not have a religion, or just non devout. It's easy to comment if you fall into this category. Coz u have no doctrine to govern what's right or wrong for you

But for someone subscribing to a certain religion, That grave feeling of immorality only hits you when you step into a church and temple every week, you clasp your hands praying to your God, reciting your prayers and asking for blessings, like a religious man on the surface. But u know deep inside it's all hypocrisy, u cheated on your spouse or gf, u fooled ard playing wif innocent gals feelings, u call chicken every week to quench your lust....

This is the dilemma I am referring to...not sure anyone shares the same sentiments as me....

If what you do disagrees with your religion, and this disturbs you, then just don't do it. There's no point coming here to seek solace hearing from other "sinners" to comfort yourself about your sinning.

[JAVgent]

Well, from the answers I have gathered, I can probably infer that most of you guys either do not have a religion, or just non devout. It's easy to comment if you fall into this category. Coz u have no doctrine to govern what's right or wrong for you


You're asking this question on a sex forum.. do you expect really pious people to be preaching religious morality here?

[simsim87]

You're asking this question on a sex forum.. do you expect really pious people to be preaching religious morality here?

Obviously not, I heard my fair share of views from devout ppl, as well as common folks, hence im here to seek a fresh perspective from ppl on the other end of the spectrum. Like how do religious ppl actually attempt to reconcile this seemingly conflicting cheating/commercial sex aspect of their life with their religious beliefs.

Not seeking for definite answers, just different perspectives....