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kinkyboy93
06-09-2016, 06:46 PM
Hello ladies and gentlemen, I am new to the forums and decided to post after looking around and I am just alittle worried that does lasting too Long during sex a turn off? I mean I last for 3-4 hours during sex including foreplay most of the time my girl would just be really tired and just stop. I mean I did everything from slow foreplay to rough sex, sometimes soft and slow sex but I just can't cum that easily.

Is it a turn off or am I doing anything wrong? I am just wondering btw I am 6 inches and I have a pretty lean body.

We even try some kinks such as blind folds and even dirty talking but then maybe the pounding might take too Long idk man haha Inbetween things might get boring? I even tend to eat her out again Inbetween just to give her a break.
Can I ask for some advice?
Thanks !!

DeCrucifix
07-09-2016, 11:03 AM
I am surprise both of you can tahan so long. :D

Wizard69
07-09-2016, 11:15 AM
Hello ladies and gentlemen, I am new to the forums and decided to post after looking around and I am just alittle worried that does lasting too Long during sex a turn off? I mean I last for 3-4 hours during sex including foreplay most of the time my girl would just be really tired and just stop. I mean I did everything from slow foreplay to rough sex, sometimes soft and slow sex but I just can't cum that easily.

Is it a turn off or am I doing anything wrong? I am just wondering btw I am 6 inches and I have a pretty lean body.

We even try some kinks such as blind folds and even dirty talking but then maybe the pounding might take too Long idk man haha Inbetween things might get boring? I even tend to eat her out again Inbetween just to give her a break.
Can I ask for some advice?
Thanks !!

I think you should have a future in the porn industry. Even the Av actors have to use desensitizer to last 15 minutes to get a good screen shot and here you are lasting 3-4 hours.

fun11142
07-09-2016, 11:21 AM
It normal that able to last 3 or 4 hrs
Well! I used to b able to last that longer when I'm around 20+ ..lol! Enjoy it! When you reach 40+ like me... 1 or 2hrs is a gift... Haha!

hhlover
07-09-2016, 11:30 AM
Stupid.. sex is not abt lasting how long.. is whether u can get the girl to orgsam be4 u come.. no girl will like 3 or 4 hours.. cos tat time she properly already dry n will cause her pain instead or enjoyment..
Me n my wife last only 30 to 45min.. but is always a very good sex cos be4 i come.. she will always get her orgsam either 1 or sometimes 2..

Slowpump
07-09-2016, 11:58 AM
It's definitely too long la 3-4hrs :eek: Gal will get uncomfort and even pain. Ideal is 30-45min including foreplay. Peace out.

Jebuschris91
07-09-2016, 12:04 PM
I think you should try to shorten your lasting time, I mean this is the first time I'm telling someone to last shorter. But yes, 1 hour is probably pretty good already, longer than that you might start to make the pussy dry up and stuff.

But if you're in like a threesome or foursome with 2 or 3 other women then 3-4 hours is great.

Arucard
07-09-2016, 02:42 PM
I usually have a good 30mins foreplay and 45mins to hr sex. Based in exp thats the best for parties. Straight 3 to 4 hrs thats like trying to best record or filming .

unsung80
07-09-2016, 04:14 PM
3-4 hrs is simply overkill for one lady. Still, you can consider a career in porn. If not consider a threesome or foursome plus your girlfriend. ;)

ShaTauKokDog
07-09-2016, 04:49 PM
TS 's body must be fitted with a certain brand of battery!:D

coolcoolbird
07-09-2016, 05:03 PM
at some point it will become too boring or the pussy will be dry and the fuck will be painful. maybe need the girl do some handjob. or just maybe the pussy just too loose to feel anything.

sky_liner2
07-09-2016, 05:40 PM
I will be sick of sex if I take that long to come and finish one session. A good foreplay and intercourse of about 20 mins to 30 mins is super GOOD already, anything more is asking for grave digging.

altec7
07-09-2016, 07:39 PM
TS do you mean you can sustain a continuous erection for 3-4 hours?
Or does it go limp after a while that you have to keep trying to wake 'him' up for that duration.

If it's the former, drugs like Viagra and Cialis have just been made redundant.
And if it's the latter, there are pills out there that will ensure you have a sustained erection.

On a more serious note, if you can't come after this long, something is wrong.
You better get it checked.

Happyguy801
07-09-2016, 08:47 PM
Including bathing and makan isit???
:D

ExBros
07-09-2016, 08:52 PM
Good for u... It will gradually get shorter....

sadfa
07-09-2016, 08:58 PM
Hello ladies and gentlemen, I am new to the forums and decided to post after looking around and I am just alittle worried that does lasting too Long during sex a turn off? I mean I last for 3-4 hours during sex including foreplay most of the time my girl would just be really tired and just stop. I mean I did everything from slow foreplay to rough sex, sometimes soft and slow sex but I just can't cum that easily.

Is it a turn off or am I doing anything wrong? I am just wondering btw I am 6 inches and I have a pretty lean body.

We even try some kinks such as blind folds and even dirty talking but then maybe the pounding might take too Long idk man haha Inbetween things might get boring? I even tend to eat her out again Inbetween just to give her a break.
Can I ask for some advice?
Thanks !!

You're obviously not doing it right.

Very few people can bang continuously 3 , 4 hours.
The whole idea seems absurd. If u can really do it , you should b in medical journals.

If its real, are you mok ying ren? U should participate in marathons. Even Africans see you also scared.

You remind me of those wives who cant get pregnant n doctor check n realise she's a virgin cos husband been doing it wrong.

Or you've been banging the air between her legs non stop.

Your gf is right to b upset. Who wants to be bang by a moron from 11 to 3 am?
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Exchange points doing it right ma?

BTech
08-09-2016, 12:06 AM
TS

YOU ARE FULL OF SHIT !
Now get off the bandwidth !!!!

samster101
08-09-2016, 12:23 AM
Hao lian also cannot hao lian to 3-4 hours, right? :confused::confused:

freezetheDB
08-09-2016, 12:45 AM
3-4 hrs make sex seem like a chore.

A good 20-40mins including foreplay is ideal for me.

kinkyboy93
08-09-2016, 06:20 AM
I do really last that Long and we end near dawn.😐 But she don't seems to be able to cum that easily idk why I have eaten her in the right way, ways that made my pervious encounters cum like crazy I tried kinky plays and I think I have a good size , it's just that it takes a lot for her to reach climax I don't know why. She seems to really like getting licked and finger at the same time and I do it from a slowly and teasing pace to a really fast and furious pace it's just that she don't cum that easily, I feel like I ain't doing good enough but at the same time all my pervious encounters I have no problems in any areas. I am just really confused... Lol I tend to think that she came just that she don't Want to admit. Are girls like that?

kinkyboy93
08-09-2016, 06:22 AM
Never the less thank you guys for giving me advices! I will try it out and maybe I might add in some toys for some extra fun! Will update u guys again. But I have to admit I ain't someone who don't really know what I am doing , I do it's just that it really isn't working for my gf now hmm so frustrating lol

diputs1269
08-09-2016, 07:53 AM
Never the less thank you guys for giving me advices! I will try it out and maybe I might add in some toys for some extra fun! Will update u guys again. But I have to admit I ain't someone who don't really know what I am doing , I do it's just that it really isn't working for my gf now hmm so frustrating lol



You need to talk dirty the her to create her kinky mind. Another thing can introduce watcher.

DTCEPL
08-09-2016, 08:21 AM
I think TS can apply n join the US Navy Seals!

No offence meant n way to go......3 to 4 hrs......goodness!

kyc2110
08-09-2016, 09:50 AM
I do really last that Long and we end near dawn.😐 she came just that she don't Want to admit. Are girls like that?

You really is a "king Gigolo' in the making! May i suggest that you use this 'talent' to the max! Dont waste! :D Lots of rich 'tai-tai' in sg that were lonely and horny!:D

wondergal
08-09-2016, 10:09 AM
Hello ladies and gentlemen, I am new to the forums and decided to post after looking around and I am just alittle worried that does lasting too Long during sex a turn off? I mean I last for 3-4 hours during sex including foreplay most of the time my girl would just be really tired and just stop. I mean I did everything from slow foreplay to rough sex, sometimes soft and slow sex but I just can't cum that easily.

Is it a turn off or am I doing anything wrong? I am just wondering btw I am 6 inches and I have a pretty lean body.

We even try some kinks such as blind folds and even dirty talking but then maybe the pounding might take too Long idk man haha Inbetween things might get boring? I even tend to eat her out again Inbetween just to give her a break.
Can I ask for some advice?
Thanks !!

I would love sex session to be long... for multiple orgasms... but that's my own opinion. Ithink to keep on pounding 3-4 hours would be tiring for men and women so change about with oral, kissing, massage, etc.

You must be a young man to do it so long. Good for you!

kinkyboy93
08-09-2016, 10:47 AM
Well if I really did service a rich tai tai it would be a pretty once in a life time experience haha I don't mind trying though haha.. To reply to wondergal I did change up the pace from pounding to eating out and fingering the speed too. Using different methods be it tongue finger dick or toy the speeds differs too and the way I move I also got change, I talk dirty to her half way and even slowly down for a deep and passionate kiss to tell her everything is alright and how is everything , I did all that lol what else can I do?

Jebuschris91
08-09-2016, 11:08 AM
I still don't quite get it, her pussy no feeling meh, sounds like you're thrusting into an airplane hanger or the grand canyon.

I had an ex also with this issue, damn hard to cum from sex but easier when i eat her out.
Same method works fine on other women that I had later on after her so I felt that it was her problem, not mine.
Look at it as driving a car, some people leg too long not comfortable with small cars, some fit just nice.

jackio
08-09-2016, 11:23 AM
Depend on what you have done on that 3-4 hours...

michael_368
08-09-2016, 11:44 AM
TS 's body must be fitted with a certain brand of battery!:D

Thanks and up you back. ;)

zhihong
08-09-2016, 12:38 PM
wah 3-4 hours, queue Hai Di Lao also not so long..power TS..

kinkyboy93
08-09-2016, 01:38 PM
LOL plus my tool also not like thin it's like thick and around 15-16 cm . I eat her out real good also leh licking the whole pussy slowly teasing the clit and then Attack the clit whatever u learn on the internet I apply I see all your advices u also apply.. Hmm it just that she don't seems to cum that easily lol previous encounters the girls came 3-4 even 5-6 times until they just knock out and fall asleep in my arms.. But I love my gf a lot so I am just trying to keep improving myself to suit her needs u know.

Tuanehkia
08-09-2016, 02:08 PM
Seriously u need to see a doctor.

coolcoolbird
08-09-2016, 03:38 PM
LOL plus my tool also not like thin it's like thick and around 15-16 cm . I eat her out real good also leh licking the whole pussy slowly teasing the clit and then Attack the clit whatever u learn on the internet I apply I see all your advices u also apply.. Hmm it just that she don't seems to cum that easily lol previous encounters the girls came 3-4 even 5-6 times until they just knock out and fall asleep in my arms.. But I love my gf a lot so I am just trying to keep improving myself to suit her needs u know.

how long it take for her to masturbate till she cum? some girl can only reach climax thru clit stimulation. If she taking fucking long to cum, you 2 should go see a doctor.

azdrama
08-09-2016, 03:42 PM
Thought some girls never cum before.

kinkyboy93
08-09-2016, 03:57 PM
She never did touched herself before she is the Super innocent type lol.. So I don't know also

JohnThunderbolt
08-09-2016, 04:39 PM
Thought some girls never cum before.

Agree with you on this.

auxillaire
08-09-2016, 05:51 PM
Last 3-4 hours sure will have lean body laaa~~

hongkongdoggy
08-09-2016, 10:29 PM
The thought of,a rabbit came to my mind!:D

ExBros
08-09-2016, 10:51 PM
....? I mean I last for 3-4 hours during sex including foreplay most of the time my girl would just be really tired and just stop. I mean I did everything from slow foreplay to rough sex, sometimes soft and slow sex but I just can't cum that easily....... !!

1st is you can't cum that easily

I do really last that Long and we end near dawn.�� But she don't seems to be able to cum that easily idk why I have eaten her in the right way, ways that made my pervious encounters cum like crazy I tried kinky plays and I think I have a good size , it's just that it takes a lot for her to reach climax I don't know why. She seems to really like getting licked and finger at the same time and I do it from a slowly and teasing pace to a really fast and furious pace it's just that she don't cum that easily, I feel like I ain't doing good enough but at the same time all my pervious encounters I have no problems in any areas. I am just really confused... Lol I tend to think that she came just that she don't Want to admit. Are girls like that?

Then it's she can't cum that easily...

Are you doing it virtually? In same room but each on his / her own PC or HP and licking the screen and poking the USB port or something?

I'm j/k.

You both need professional help... She just need a good Yoni massage while you need a good Juagen...

plshelpme2014
08-09-2016, 11:05 PM
seems too long....

shawnanderson
08-09-2016, 11:07 PM
last time when i hoot for more than 45min... whole body sweat non-stop until my gf need to keep clean my sweat and my sweat on her head....

tired and lesser in the mood for sex when so long... my little bro will also get numb... the gal will start to dry up also...

so conclusion try to keep the trusting less than 30min bah... at least for me...

maybe TS and his gf both can tong very long one... lol

kakiglf
08-09-2016, 11:41 PM
that long? you make sex become boring

terryhehe
08-09-2016, 11:59 PM
Actually I thought 3-4 hours is quite standard. But seeing the comment definitely change my view. Lol

But I do know some girls prefer short 15 minute sex. Not my type.

3 hours session usually will sweat a lot. Need a towel around, a big cup of water and some banana or chocolate around is good for energy replenishment lol.

kinkyboy93
09-09-2016, 03:13 PM
Haha both of us are pretty much fit as heck and well idk man we do get tired as fuck after we are done. I don't know if I should try my skills on anyone here just to confirm is it me or her or could it be both of us. I am still contemplating weather if I should open up myself to the ladies here but of course everything is discreet and nope my gf is not up for options haha. So is there any other ways to increase our experience? I even tried eating her out so good from her ass to her pussy and switching I am that nasty lol

joncheong
10-09-2016, 10:40 AM
Many guys will die to have your condition...but too long may bore the girl after she has cummed a few times....and she may dry up too...which will make it even harder for you to cum??

solar_sky
12-09-2016, 02:35 AM
recently my girl came twice, i spend around 20 min. 5 min foreplay and 15+ min .. she ask me to quickly finish up

especially after each orgasm, i believe the pussy will dry for a while.

hammy1942
12-09-2016, 08:41 AM
LOL plus my tool also not like thin it's like thick and around 15-16 cm . I eat her out real good also leh licking the whole pussy slowly teasing the clit and then Attack the clit whatever u learn on the internet I apply I see all your advices u also apply.. Hmm it just that she don't seems to cum that easily lol previous encounters the girls came 3-4 even 5-6 times until they just knock out and fall asleep in my arms.. But I love my gf a lot so I am just trying to keep improving myself to suit her needs u know.

Lol bro if it's like what u said ur is thick and long, u shd not have do.so long!! I did long with my ex for 1hr 30 mins with diff position. She cum till she ask me not to stop. Some girls will like it some won't like like my current. Ask me to end asap. Too sore already

Slowpump
12-09-2016, 11:29 AM
45608

Make it happen.

kinkyboy93
21-09-2016, 07:47 PM
Bump! Well apperently I am kinda meeting another Friend and well we had sex and she came like 3 times lol we lasted for maybe 1 hour plus since I didn't jerk off for like 3 weeks and well that was one hell of an experience that cheating guilt kinda turns me on. Well my Friend is a mix blood or Malay and Arab which is kinda hot AF and damn I sure did have a good time haha I would love to meet up with samsters from this forums and maybe Try something out since I am still exploring would love to hear from some of the really gentle ladies here!

kinkyboy93
22-09-2016, 09:54 PM
Bumpppppppppp

sensualshirley
23-09-2016, 12:56 AM
longer doesn't necessary means better...

i rather eat one bowl of nice fish ball noodle than eat 40 bowls of lousy fish ball noodles... u sound like 40 bowls.... :(

sadfa
23-09-2016, 01:13 AM
Bumpppppppppp

Bump simi lanjiao. Kaozzzz
________
Exchange points bump ma?

kinkyboy93
23-09-2016, 06:29 AM
Hmm true about the fishball theory but then again how does it applies to my
Situation I mean I can easily Make most girls cum multiple times but it's hard for my gf. Even though I tired many ways but still hmm hard Sia.

CumExplorer
23-09-2016, 10:57 AM
longer doesn't necessary means better...

i rather eat one bowl of nice fish ball noodle than eat 40 bowls of lousy fish ball noodles... u sound like 40 bowls.... :(

sis u r very humorous hehe, is your blogger all true and your sex stories :rolleyes:

BBQwing
23-09-2016, 11:00 AM
longer doesn't necessary means better...

i rather eat one bowl of nice fish ball noodle than eat 40 bowls of lousy fish ball noodles... u sound like 40 bowls.... :(

What a comparison!! :D

arsenal168
24-09-2016, 07:13 AM
Bump! Well apperently I am kinda meeting another Friend and well we had sex and she came like 3 times lol we lasted for maybe 1 hour plus since I didn't jerk off for like 3 weeks and well that was one hell of an experience that cheating guilt kinda turns me on. Well my Friend is a mix blood or Malay and Arab which is kinda hot AF and damn I sure did have a good time haha I would love to meet up with samsters from this forums and maybe Try something out since I am still exploring would love to hear from some of the really gentle ladies here!

Why need the ladies here to give u pointers? Just ask your girl friend plainly how u can bring her to orgasm. If she can cum with her ex-boyfriends/partners or thru self masturbation, then you r the problem. She need to get a new partner in that case.

VladTheImpala
24-09-2016, 05:54 PM
Bump simi lanjiao. Kaozzzz
________
Exchange points bump ma?

Ask your mother Simi lanjiao lor. Go play along now, little boy.

Michael7575
24-09-2016, 08:03 PM
Have the same experience.

Now in my late forties, will take about an hour and half with fore-play. My partner will usually hv 2/3 orgasms b4 we are done. Usually we will book 3/4 hours straight with 2 shots for me (3 if I am lucky). For her, it range from 3-7. And both of us will be covered in my sweat. Haha.

But need to adjust base on the mood, there were times when my partner was drier than normal and we had to stop after she had 2 orgasms before I had come.

But need to hv the right partner who enjoys multiple orgasms. Some girls don't like to have too many and two are their max and must be prepared to be pushed away.

nikongirl
05-10-2016, 04:40 PM
I know of 2 couples in their early 20s and they took long to cum too.. Not sure why too... :p

kinkyboy93
10-10-2016, 08:50 AM
Well it would be good is any ladies could show me some real life experience pointers if possible haha 😂

jackio
10-10-2016, 01:57 PM
longer doesn't necessary means better...

i rather eat one bowl of nice fish ball noodle than eat 40 bowls of lousy fish ball noodles... u sound like 40 bowls.... :(

Don't get choke by the fish ball
:p

kinkyboy93
10-10-2016, 05:40 PM
Bump bumpppp!!!!

xav1983
10-10-2016, 06:00 PM
Its important that you ask in a romantic way whether 3hrs is too long for her. tired of course. if u are doing light jogging for 3 hrs u will eventually tire too. if she can be wet for 3 hrs u are lucky.

also imagine u dig ur nose 3 hrs u see u will bleed or not.

BUT if u don bleed and still got sai come out then good for u.

kinkyboy93
11-10-2016, 12:46 PM
Bump bumppppp

kinkyboy93
04-11-2016, 06:13 PM
Back for more heh well recently I realized if I don't jack off that much and let some steam off it will store up alot like within 3 days it's fully loaded and damn I came within 45mins-1hour heh and damn it was really a lot.. Right into the girl I fucked recently her mouth damn it was alittle too much some of it leaked out of her cum filled mouth. Haha it was fun 😏