Monthly budget for FL

[gheun]

Guys, what percentage of your take-home pay would you consider be healthy budget for visiting FLs? Assuming single man no gf, just give parents money and pay some bills etc.

[Captainoceania77]

I spend about 10 to 15 % ....

[Chutney]

I go desker road to look for budget bonk. Spend ard 100 bucks per month.

[conquer]

Yesterday I heard about a story, a John spent 20K in exchange for a hooker he "loves" to quit the scene. How many percent you think his monthly budget is? :D

[Cheesebeast]

Why dont guys just find a gf or fuck their female friends instead of finding FLs. May need to be less choosy but its safer and free.

[Ho-Lee]

Gf is more expansive , have to endure all her nonsense moreover no guarantee of sex too.

[squiggle]

Why dont guys just find a gf or fuck their female friends instead of finding FLs. May need to be less choosy but its safer and free.

No all have ladies luck that will attract and being financial capable to take care of a GF.

I will try my best to budget it to $200/month only.

[indignant2013]

I visit MLs almost every weekends. So it adds up to about $500 including tips & sometime extras. During the high time it ever hit $1k +.

[Needagoodone]

Why dont guys just find a gf or fuck their female friends instead of finding FLs. May need to be less choosy but its safer and free.

Well, you cannot be fully sure it's safer...

Least with a professional FL, she will ensure you use rubber.
Those raw, I feel, are not being professional...

[indignant2013]

Yesterday I heard about a story, a John spent 20K in exchange for a hooker he "loves" to quit the scene. How many percent you think his monthly budget is? :D

I was once an idiot too.. my lost was $50k (down payment for a condo in shengyang under her name) that was 5 years back. Lucky i didn't marry her or else it could be worst........:mad::mad::mad:

[Xyberduke]

Please don't commit a percentage of your salary to FL.

It should be at the end of the month, see how much you have left after all the required expenses for your family.... and do not save just to have this pool of money.

For whatever is left, decide how much to go into savings and the rest becomes your "Happy" money for the next month....

[iunitedz]

Lets say 1FL = S$100
try very very best to control our urge, once per week also costs S$400.

Imagine if my take home pay only S$2k as a freshman and single.

20% gone.
And we still got so many other bills to pay for, not to mention savings.

Yet if without sex and only masturbate masturbate, will ppl get crazy?

[iunitedz]

No all have ladies luck that will attract and being financial capable to take care of a GF.

I will try my best to budget it to $200/month only.

how to control only S$200/month?

once per fortnight can tahan meh?

As in sammyboy so many kangtao flying here and there..and all the fl website

[squiggle]

how to control only S$200/month?

once per fortnight can tahan meh?

As in sammyboy so many kangtao flying here and there..and all the fl website

Kang Tao also have to resist, if not will end up with nothing. Of course is extremely hard to tahan, but no matter what must still just try to control. I can still go pertain for $30 per shot, like that every week can get fk.

I tell myself that local fl are not worth for our money to try, as China girls can be cheaper alternative. No point to spend so much with the same hole for temporary pleasure.

[iunitedz]

Kang Tao also have to resist, if not will end up with nothing. Of course is extremely hard to tahan, but no matter what must still just try to control. I can still go pertain for $30 per shot, like that every week can get fk.

I tell myself that local fl are not worth for our money to try, as China girls can be cheaper alternative. No point to spend so much with the same hole for temporary pleasure.

I agree. but there are times smallhead take control.
If wise enough, i will just TFK in home without spend any single cents on hookers

Yet, where is life then? Haha

[gjlow]

Agree with you bro thought sometimes small head will take over :(

Please don't commit a percentage of your salary to FL.

It should be at the end of the month, see how much you have left after all the required expenses for your family.... and do not save just to have this pool of money.

For whatever is left, decide how much to go into savings and the rest becomes your "Happy" money for the next month....

[mattrayham]

I work hard to get to where I am to earn a reasonably comfortable amount. Not millionaire rich, but a little more than what the average middle class earns.

Here's how I manage my finances:

1. Bills.
2. Repayment of debts.
3. Savings.
4. Necessary daily expenses.
5. Emergency funds.
6. PLAY

My own trick that works is - my necessary daily expenses is super low - like budget $30 a day for meals and transport (I take public transport).

I visit FLs in my peak once or twice a week, but now tone down to once every 2 weeks or so, because now I have a (foreign) FB who comes down here once a month or I go travel with her (budget trips around SEA only, she not the high class expectations type) once a month or once every 2 months and do like 2 weeks' worth of fucking in the 5 or so days I am with her.

My PLAY jar also includes expenses like movies, occasional expensive meals with friends, toys, etc.

I realise this won't apply to everyone, but note that I came from a really average middle class minority race in Singapore (not Chinese). My father was a security guard, my mom a part-time maid. I didn't graduate from university.

I also don't drink or smoke, and my only vice is literally just sex.

Find something you're skilled at, develop it, excel at it, and don't just sell your skills to ONE company, but freelance, find side projects, hustle, sell stuff, etc.

[clinton]

I was once an idiot too.. my lost was $50k (down payment for a condo in shengyang under her name) that was 5 years back. Lucky i didn't marry her or else it could be worst........:mad::mad::mad:

ooo bro can share your story in more detail, so we all can learn ...

[justl00king]

ooo bro can share your story in more detail, so we all can learn ...

Bro, u like story? I share one for u.

A gal ask me go visit her in China, I ask her book hotel for me, she said no need, just come.
I reach airport, she came pick me up in a conti, brought me to stay at her condo, nice n big.
Told me all paid by her BF aka SD or as we know it...carrot head. End of story :D

Get the drift n learn anything? :p

[th1sislame]

Holy crap, what happened , you never spoke to the girl after that? did you ever get your money back?

Was KTV or HFJ girl ?

[nawtythings80]

only go for GL $50... abt 300 per month.

[conquer]

ooo bro can share your story in more detail, so we all can learn ...

No matter how the story begins, it always ends the same.

The only thing fellow bros have to learn is the golden three rules by SBF:

1. All you need to know about any whore is how to contact her if you want a professional fuck. No other personal details should be sought. If they volunteer to tell you their life stories, tell them you are NOT interested.

2. There should be NO contact with whores beyond their professional capacity. Do not give any whore your phone number or divulge any other personal info in your dealings with them. If they have managed to get hold of your phone number for some reason (confirmation of booking etc) and they SMS you subsequently, do NOT reply. Just delete the message immediately and they should be smart enough to know that you're not interested in them beyond being one of their hundreds of clients.

3. Whores are for fucking and that's it. They are NOT for loving or marrying. They are NOT dinner dates or persons you exchanging inane SMS messages with. They are NOT there for companionship or friendly chit chat after a fuck. Just fuck them and leave.

If you can't follow these simple rules, you should not be in this forum.

[The term "whores" applies to all commercial sex providers and this includes masseuse, KTV hostesses, freelancers, Government approved prostitutes, escorts, part time broads and so on. They're all WHORES.]


The longer I cheong, the more profound I find these three rules are! :)

[conquer]

Holy crap, what happened , you never spoke to the girl after that? did you ever get your money back?

Was KTV or HFJ girl ?

No way you can get the money back! Those uncles lost the entire CPF just like that, you think they can get it back? :o

[th1sislame]

i second that... indignant2013 tell your story details more ....

[Winmoney]

I spend the money that i win. No win money = no keow kway

[Vietlovers]

I spend the money that i win. No win money = no keow kway
Bro winmoney..me too..got win got go..no win TFK at home..maybe can arrange for a winning trip..lolx

[SoGoodAh]

I know its absurd but i spent only $150-$200 per month on sex. Reason being i'm stingy. :D
But if i really bth the urge, ill go across the causeway to find cheaper alternatives. So the the most ill spend a month is $300.

[singmarine]

I spend abt $1000 per month..for bonus month..I will spend abt 2x or 3 depending on bonus amt.

[Stimsia]

Gf is more expansive , have to endure all her nonsense moreover no guarantee of sex too.

Agree 200%

[Stimsia]

Need to 2 x weekly....
Wanted daily if not for the weak pocket n body;)

[Cheesebeast]

Actually can save money and not spend on fls, there are local (and foreign) girls open to casual sex. They just need to little more coaxing before they open up. So invest in sweet talking practice and smooth skillz and u never need to pay for sex again.

Only downside is cannot be too picky

[molesex]

Go for those bui bui one, they are horny and easy to get.

[conquer]

Go for those bui bui one, they are horny and easy to get.

LOL... It's alright, as long as you are horny enough, the appearance does not really matter. :p

[antimatter]

LOL... It's alright, as long as you are horny enough, the appearance does not really matter. :p

Sorry for delay, just return your up.

[seenehji]

Every week $100 x 4 = $400.

[innocentindeed]

Here got a lot of generous spending. Must be the thrill and addiction uh

[seaman6969]

$1,000 to $3,000 in the past. Under $500 to $1,000 these days. Economy is bad and losing interest in such lusty adventures.

[conquer]

$1,000 to $3,000 in the past. Under $500 to $1,000 these days. Economy is bad and losing interest in such lusty adventures.

True that. Heard that the recession will be worse than 2008... very jialat. :(

[YourMainAccount]

$10 exactly

[blackface]

$10 exactly

Got 1 bro pm told me that you pay a ladyboy $10.00 to suck on " her dick " then later get the ladyboy to poke your ass . The bro also said that due to your medical attention you were born without a dick and balls . :p :p :p


I am only interested in exposing fake female clones in sbf. ( Deborah & NataliDi )

I have already proven that the clone master is INDEED A TRULY COWARD . Why don't you use your main account to talk to me ? It only makes YOU look more stupid clone master .

I have heard that the COWARD CLONE MASTER fucked fake female imposters resulting giving birth to ladyboys .

Please do not up me unless I up you . My posts are meant for the 2 fake female imposters . If you do not like what I post you can choose to put me in your Ignore List .

[NoMoneyNoHunny]

my monthly FL i spend is $100 in total but unlimited shots

[adonis]

I spend cumulatively an amount that can buy a small motor car after all these years. Paid girls are often cheaper than girlfriends and FBs. Like I am wooing a girlfriend. She isn't young. Bought her fancy dinners and lunches a number of times. Stood by her in her times of distress. Visited her in hospital. Bought her jewellery and fashionable lady's dresses and her shoes. Came the time when I tried to get her to go to a H81, she turned me down. Really.

[VRossi1980]

Used to be 3-4 times a month, now dropped to 2 times a month.

[broessex]

Used to be 4 times a month of average $200 per visit, sometimes 3 hour slots, so may total up to $1k a month. But now, I'm retired. I save so much more money. LOL

[antimatter]

Used to be 3-4 times a month, now dropped to 2 times a month.

Sorry for delay, just return your up.

[luckycar88]

I set aside $300, mean 2-3 times a month.. but quite hard pain

[maxsee]

I only set aside money each month to invest in equities.....seeing my money grows is way much more stimulating than sex.....:p:p:p

[TripleJ43]

I'm trying to save money now so $0

[SoGoodAh]

I used to frequent the ladies in Dome 1. But recently, i've started going over the causeway to HCs. The quality of ladies they offer aren't that bad. Another plus point is that they have facilities for bros to rest before leaving or should they decide to go for 2nd round or more.

[gheun]

I spend 2500 in the past 30 days. Shocked myself :(
Any ideas from bros on self control?

[gheun]

I spend 2500 in the past 30 days. Shocked myself :(
Any ideas from bros on self control?

Cos I only go for angmoh escorts and they range from 220 to 300 per shot.

[Belt]

Cos I only go for angmoh escorts and they range from 220 to 300 per shot.

bro 220 - 300 not bad, can share some good service angmoh escort ?

merry christmas :D

[elitez]

for me $400 to $600 per month

[TheIdesOfMarch]

Think this thread needs a good resurrection after three years of hibernation.

We all know how many of us have had our sex lives utterly disrupted because of the pandemic now. Not just that, am sure many of us now are also tightening our belts and watching our money a lot more tightly.

Doesn't help that Geylang looks to be closed for the foreseeable future. Even if they opened again tomorrow most of the girls would already have long gone, and I'm quite sure the restrictions on services rendered would make it not worth the hassle and effort just to get a fuck there.

So yes. What's everyone's budget for FL paid sex nowadays? No more CAT50/100 fast food. Literally can't get any decent shit (and no, getting a HJ or BJ at a MP doesn't count) for anything less than $100 anymore. Drying up pool of FLs from abroad. Local FLs still charging way too high a price for what they're offering in service quality.

Feels like a total mess.

Come share share!

[peeboy75]

1200 to 1500 per month...heart pain to think about it..

[DANiel™]

Think this thread needs a good resurrection after three years of hibernation.

We all know how many of us have had our sex lives utterly disrupted because of the pandemic now. Not just that, am sure many of us now are also tightening our belts and watching our money a lot more tightly.

Doesn't help that Geylang looks to be closed for the foreseeable future. Even if they opened again tomorrow most of the girls would already have long gone, and I'm quite sure the restrictions on services rendered would make it not worth the hassle and effort just to get a fuck there.

So yes. What's everyone's budget for FL paid sex nowadays? No more CAT50/100 fast food. Literally can't get any decent shit (and no, getting a HJ or BJ at a MP doesn't count) for anything less than $100 anymore. Drying up pool of FLs from abroad. Local FLs still charging way too high a price for what they're offering in service quality.

Feels like a total mess.

Come share share!

Bro, why don't you share as well how much you are budgeting towards FL?

For me, I think I spend close to $1k a month now on FLs/MLs, could be more pre-COVID.
For now I'm trying to reduce that spend since there aren't many options and I'm just rotating around my regulars which is getting abit mundane and boring already.
Hunting for new regular takes quite abit of time and money (frequency of visits) to nuture that relationship.

[larue]

Think this thread needs a good resurrection after three years of hibernation.

We all know how many of us have had our sex lives utterly disrupted because of the pandemic now. Not just that, am sure many of us now are also tightening our belts and watching our money a lot more tightly.

Doesn't help that Geylang looks to be closed for the foreseeable future. Even if they opened again tomorrow most of the girls would already have long gone, and I'm quite sure the restrictions on services rendered would make it not worth the hassle and effort just to get a fuck there.

So yes. What's everyone's budget for FL paid sex nowadays? No more CAT50/100 fast food. Literally can't get any decent shit (and no, getting a HJ or BJ at a MP doesn't count) for anything less than $100 anymore. Drying up pool of FLs from abroad. Local FLs still charging way too high a price for what they're offering in service quality.

Feels like a total mess.

Come share share!

Interesting, having not been a consumer for some time now, it did not occur to me that the post lockdown period might be a real bonanza for all these unlicensed masseuses given they are pretty much the only option available now.

How much do they charge for a full package nowadays?

[DANiel™]

Interesting, having not been a consumer for some time now, it did not occur to me that the post lockdown period might be a real bonanza for all these unlicensed masseuses given they are pretty much the only option available now.

How much do they charge for a full package nowadays?

At massage joints? FJ ranges from $100-$150 at most places, excluding the massage entry fees which range from $30-$60 based on the duration. Typically 1hr is around $50.
So overall, you'd be expecting to pay $50 (entry) + $120 (fj services) = $170 (averagely)

[TheIdesOfMarch]

Bro, why don't you share as well how much you are budgeting towards FL?

For me, I think I spend close to $1k a month now on FLs/MLs, could be more pre-COVID.
For now I'm trying to reduce that spend since there aren't many options and I'm just rotating around my regulars which is getting abit mundane and boring already.
Hunting for new regular takes quite abit of time and money (frequency of visits) to nuture that relationship.

Currently I'm working with around 600 a month budgeted for FLs or MP fun. The MP fun is semi legit too; given the physical nature of my work I do actually need proper massages for my back and legs, and it doesn't hurt to find a regular masseuse who does both that and a good happy ending BJ or FJ as well.

Outright paying for an FL I do far less nowadays though. Either no interest in the current stock given how overworked they probably are now or where they come from, or the ones I like are no longer here. So that's where I might prune down my budget somewhat and put some of it more for my regular masseuses.

But to be frank none of these compare with how in the past I could happily survive on $400 a month going for hourly sessions at my regular Thai house in GL. Worked out to one hour a week or so, sometimes two sessions in a week even if I had the spare cash to spend.

[lovethaibabes]

Zero budget now.

Whenever I feel the urge I just review my past conquests in my mind, see photos and videos of the sluts.

Watch thai or jap videos too.

PCC it out, clear the pipes, clear the mind.

The thing with these gold-diggers, no amount is enough.

[hoosdathu]

budget about $150 a month for 1 single bonk now.

mostly use airplane cup eg Tenga like during CB :o

[yowtf]

For me, trying to limit to 400-500 per month during this period.

If not, 800-1k during pre-covid times.

And yes like other bros, heart pain when think abt the money spent haha.

[DANiel™]

For me, trying to limit to 400-500 per month during this period.

If not, 800-1k during pre-covid times.

And yes like other bros, heart pain when think abt the money spent haha.

I think FL/ML expenses are subjective, I would say spend within your means and of course if you have other fixed expenses, prioritize those first.

For me, I'm single and not dating anyone, so my personal entertainment budget which i set aside has essentially been shifted to FL/MLs since most bars/clubs/restaurants are either close or close early so I don't really see much enjoyment in patronizing those places.
The occasional two or three pints when catching up with friends once a month doesn't add up to much spending anyway.