Getting GF interested in GB

[hydraoffshore]

Hey guys, I'm pretty new to this forum even though I have browsed it as a guest. I have to say that there's really a lot going on here! I'm amazed!

I have a stable girlfriend for the past 4 years, and I want to take things in the bedroom a little more fun. I have always fantasized my gf having sex with other men while I watch, and maybe join in?

I have discussed this fantasy of mine with her, and even though she said that it really turns her on, she would prefer to keep it a fantasy :(

Do you guys have any suggestion on how to "open her up"? I do enjoy taking nude photos of her even though she's reluctant. I do hope someday I can make her wear skimpily in public areas...

[otamay]

Wish l can join in, maybe for starter introduce threesome first. Let her watch av shows to.let her have an idea.

[joensue]

yeah watching porn together is a great start. wifey and i love watching porn together... but that may not be enough.
lately been reading erotica, esp for couples, and that seems to bring it up notch higher.

like you, I too would love wifey to be more open....

[porscheclub]

Please spend some time to check out this thread:
https://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=178908

Before you couple venture into this. Please have a deep discussion and think carefully because this touches infidelity, emotion, disease and addiction which will wreck your relationship or make it stronger. Some women do it out of love or fear of losing their partner and this may lead to trouble.

It took me a few years before my wife accepted this kind of lifestyle and she is the one urging for it now though we have not executed the acts. Watching porn helps a lot. Tease her. Introduce the 3rd party as toys for a start. Most importantly you must assure her that you will still be there for her after all these adventures.

For us, it's mutual want now.

[joensue]

Please spend some time to check out this thread:
https://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=178908

Before you couple venture into this. Please have a deep discussion and think carefully because this touches infidelity, emotion, disease and addiction which will wreck your relationship or make it stronger. Some women do it out of love or fear of losing their partner and this may lead to trouble.

It took me a few years before my wife accepted this kind of lifestyle and she is the one urging for it now though we have not executed the acts. Watching porn helps a lot. Tease her. Introduce the 3rd party as toys for a start. Most importantly you must assure her that you will still be there for her after all these adventures.

For us, it's mutual want now.
great link above. thanks for sharing.

[purepulp]

Before you couple venture into this. Please have a deep discussion and think carefully because this touches infidelity, emotion, disease and addiction which will wreck your relationship or make it stronger. Some women do it out of love or fear of losing their partner and this may lead to trouble.

TS… Please understand that perfectly. It swings both ways (strengthens or destroy your relationship) so you need to think about all the possible consequences and then some.

After you have imagined all the possible outcomes, discussed them, come up with all the possible remedies to all possible scenarios, mutually made all the promises you can think of then proceed to the real deal. Prepare everything and never rush it.

At the moment you watch another dick go into your gf's pussy, everything goes haywire again….

Good luck

[D-joker]

If u really want that to happen.

Suggest blindfold. Then use toys on her while she suck ur dick. She will e feeling of gangbang. If she like it then she might wanna proceed w the real thing.

[joensue]

If u really want that to happen.

Suggest blindfold. Then use toys on her while she suck ur dick. She will e feeling of gangbang. If she like it then she might wanna proceed w the real thing.
umm... interesting. will try it out.

[hydraoffshore]

yeah watching porn together is a great start. wifey and i love watching porn together... but that may not be enough.
lately been reading erotica, esp for couples, and that seems to bring it up notch higher.

like you, I too would love wifey to be more open....

Have been watching porn with her for quite some time before sex ah. It really does get her in the mood most of the times, and recently I noticed that she enjoys watching GB porn, which is good news ah!

I ever did blindfold her and let her suck my dick while fucking her using a dildo. Seems like she really likes it a lot.

I understand that this can go both way for our relationship, and I think that we still have some things to talk about before we can really really proceed with this idea. Nevertheless, I really want to try it out. Everytime when I think about it, my dick stands real hard.

[D-joker]

umm... interesting. will try it out.

Lol. Remember to give feedback aftee u try..

[hydraoffshore]

Lol. Remember to give feedback aftee u try..

I've tried blindfolding her and letting her sucking my dick and fucking her using a dildo, I can say that she loves it a lot. We always watch porn before having sex as it helps her to orgasm a lot easier. She loves gangbang porn though!

[Rickey]

I've tried blindfolding her and letting her sucking my dick and fucking her using a dildo, I can say that she loves it a lot. We always watch porn before having sex as it helps her to orgasm a lot easier. She loves gangbang porn though!
TS is so lucky to hv such a kinky & HSD Gf & into GB porn too !! ;)..not married yet but enjoying sex to the max !! :p...where else to find such a naughty girl in this forum or elsewhere ?? :confused:..

Actually the no. of guys having TS's type of fantasy of having other guys have sex with his wife or gf is growing...it is actually innate in most of us but bcos it is abhorred in mainstream conservative society, most of us guys & even girls dare not talk abt it openly but just keep it covertly in our minds as a fantasy...at most we talk abt it wif like minded friends like TS but most of us are not daring enough to talk abt it to our spouses for fear of the negative responses from them some of which can be very serious depending on their spouse's threshold or acceptance level on this :(

[KeyHoles]

great link above. thanks for sharing.

Enjoyed the read as well

[littlekim]

if that day really happening, please count me in,thanks! haha

[D-joker]

I've tried blindfolding her and letting her sucking my dick and fucking her using a dildo, I can say that she loves it a lot. We always watch porn before having sex as it helps her to orgasm a lot easier. She loves gangbang porn though!

Then nxt lvl liao. Get her high n blindfold. Replace the didlo w a dick.

[joensue]

Lol. Remember to give feedback aftee u try..
tried it, but she doesn't like the dildo (got an 8incher). perhaps it's too big, wifey prefers smaller dicks. will try to get a smaller one an see how it goes.

[mygirly]

Hi, we r a couple been swinging for 4 years now.
Tried groups, mmf, mmmf, mmmf, 3some , 4some...more.
Also car sex, Eip etc.
There r a few local communities into such lifestyle.
Do a search...
Cheers.

[D-joker]

tried it, but she doesn't like the dildo (got an 8incher). perhaps it's too big, wifey prefers smaller dicks. will try to get a smaller one an see how it goes.

Use small one first. Then u can try vibrator n other toys. Use the toys to bring hwr slowly into gangbang. But this is a one way road. The effect of this is she might get addicted into gangbang n then there is no way back. One dick is no longer enuff to sextisfy her..

[VanderBear]

Enjoyed the read as well

I'm enjoying too :)
9/35

[jeremy69]

Bro honestly , watching porn movies may not be a good start . Getting your GF to read erotica stories similar to your fantasies will better arouse your GF then watching a 90 mins porn movies . In the movies , everything is staged ( actor / actress ) ( and she knows it ) wherelse in her mind while reading the star actress is most probably herself and someone she knows and she will be able to picture all or most scenario no producer can produce .

Try it bro and hope to see some result .