im very scared..pls advice

[discusfish]

was in japan on thur.

Was intro to a FL by my colleague and check into hotel.

Did not french, kiss nor anal. Blow job by her for 2 mins and 1 to 2 mins plus bonking her all with caps.

However, i develop slight fever as im back now in spore.

THis is the first time with FL. May i know am i scaring myself?

pls advice, am i in risk?

i really regret...really regret.

[sammyboyfor]

pls advice, am i in risk?

i really regret...really regret.


Should be... "Please ADVISE.".

"Advice" is a noun.

If everything was capped, you have nothing to worry about.

[nyquist]

was in japan on thur.

Was intro to a FL by my colleague and check into hotel.

Did not french, kiss nor anal. Blow job by her for 2 mins and 1 to 2 mins plus bonking her all with caps.

However, i develop slight fever as im back now in spore.

THis is the first time with FL. May i know am i scaring myself?

pls advice, am i in risk?

i really regret...really regret.

Nothing to worried about as u were capped!!!!!
Have Fun... No RAW!!!!!

[sexcrazed]

Bro,

Considering what you have described on your problem, I would say the feverish feeling you're having is most probably due to the weather changes when you travel from country to country.

Not to worry too much if you have done all the necessary precautions correctly...

[sun814]

Bro,

Considering what you have described on your problem, I would say the feverish feeling you're having is most probably due to the weather changes when you travel from country to country.

Not to worry too much if you have done all the necessary precautions correctly...

totally agree with you, bro.

[Grimbold]

could be psychosomatic.... i sometimes feel literally feverishly sick when i go OT .... maybe you're feeling guilty unconciously your body reacts by feeling sick inside... ~_~ just a thought,...

[discusfish]

Bros bros..
u guys really give me confidence..and i live with less worry

On sat, went to DSC,, and went to see 3 docs.

DSC = negative

and the docs..have nothing much to tell me other than ask me wait for 3 months.

i feel very guilty..it is my 1st time. every nite i close my eyes, i tink of my mum(parents are divorced) and my gf. iF ANYTHING HAPPEN TO ME..IM REALLY VERY VERY GUILTY.I WILL NVR FORGIVE MYSELF.

till now..4th day liao. temp still less than 37 degree celsius.
but body still feel hot inside and cold outside.

i really hope nothin happen else will sure commit suicide.


thank to all bros who reply..thank you so much!

[Wonderman2006]

IF you always feel guilty, why go for it in the first place?

You should be safe since you were capped.

[muutseeker]

Bro, I travel a lot and often get a fever when I come back. There are almost no STD's that I know of which will manifest themselves so quickly in the form of a fever.

You more likely picked up the fever from some person coughing it into the air-conditioning on the air-plane than with the FL...relax...if you must go finish your tests but I think you'll be fine in a couple more days.

Enjoy

[groo]

...in japan...intro to a FL...check into hotel...not french, kiss nor anal...Blow job ...plus bonking her all with caps.develop slight fever as im back now in spore...am i scaring myself?...really regret.Must be the gawddamned Haze and the El-Ninama weather..... :D

Now that you are most likely in the clear, dun have to get yourself sick until Blur Like Fish... cos you'll Really Regret Not for long before you start having FL-ings again... Bwahahahahaha!!! :D

[discusfish]

hi bros,

THank you for all the replies. my feverish feeling slasted 1 week and during the second week. the feeling disappeared. However,i am in my 3rd week now. I have got the feeling back. am i considered having fever, when i feel cold but hot inside however temp is always ard 36.5 to 37 degree celsius?

i am really stress out. I really hate myself for putting myself into such a mess.

[squirt]

hi bros,

THank you for all the replies. my feverish feeling slasted 1 week and during the second week. the feeling disappeared. However,i am in my 3rd week now. I have got the feeling back. am i considered having fever, when i feel cold but hot inside however temp is always ard 36.5 to 37 degree celsius?

i am really stress out. I really hate myself for putting myself into such a mess.
i don't think STD can show symptoms so fast. How long were you in japan?Need a few weeks for incubation. Am I correct? Bros here may advise...

[JWNY]

you are FINE...stop worrying so much...unless there is something you're not telling us...

JWNY

[HyperSex]

hi bros,
i am really stress out. I really hate myself for putting myself into such a mess.
The best way is to go for medical check up.
If really that unforunate, at least will be in the early stage, easier to put in under control or cured. :)

[HyperSex]

hi bros,
i am really stress out. I really hate myself for putting myself into such a mess.
Sorry, double post.

[discusfish]

Dear all,

thank you for ur reply.

Nope..i did not hide anything, i am more than glad to reveal anything so i can get the most accurate ans of all. Really appreciate all the answers given


I would like to know, where can i get a viral load test done? is it ex? 3 weeks after exposure..do you think this test will be beneficial?

thanks

[Flying Fox]

i am really stress out. I really hate myself for putting myself into such a mess.
Rest assured u will grow out of it. U will be stronger in future :D

[Cummon]

i feel very guilty..it is my 1st time. every nite i close my eyes, i tink of my mum(parents are divorced) and my gf. iF ANYTHING HAPPEN TO ME..IM REALLY VERY VERY GUILTY.I WILL NVR FORGIVE MYSELF.


1st time having sex with a FL/prostitute ?
Since you have been feeling so guilty,better refrain yourself to go for 2nd time before it's too late,coz for subsequent visits,you will feel less & less guilty and finally you will find it extremely difficult to quit or retire as a cheongster,just like many of us in here :( :)

[evo3]

bro i think u dont need to worry too much so long u wear cap than should be ok lah. if u want to be on a safe side than go for a blood test or full body check up

[discusfish]

hi bros,

thanks for the replies.

I am feeling very much better now. Think is the guilt that is killing me. WIll go for a blood test next week. (my 4th in 5 weeks liao)
Pray for me guys..thank you

[ok69]

1st time having sex with a FL/prostitute ?
Since you have been feeling so guilty,better refrain yourself to go for 2nd time before it's too late,coz for subsequent visits,you will feel less & less guilty and finally you will find it extremely difficult to quit or retire as a cheongster,just like many of us in here :( :)

truly agree with u bro ..

maybe the next time the TS will post FRs and ask we all to up him
hehehe

[sitonski]

hmm.. nvm la.. don feel guilty anymore le.. thats always a 1st time to secretly eat outside =P

anyway.. if still guilty, then treat yr gf better lor.. then next time don secretly eat outside liao..

u will be fine.. take care

[rossi46]

hi bros,

thanks for the replies.

I am feeling very much better now. Think is the guilt that is killing me. WIll go for a blood test next week. (my 4th in 5 weeks liao)
Pray for me guys..thank you

Most likely you kenna infected with HIV. But not to worry lah, nowadays the drugs quite powerful, won't so early develop into full blown AIDS. Look at Magic Johnson. After so many years still have not bite the dust.

Rossi

[hairycrap]

Most likely you kenna infected with HIV. But not to worry lah, nowadays the drugs quite powerful, won't so early develop into full blown AIDS. Look at Magic Johnson. After so many years still have not bite the dust.

Rossi

Eh mai ah neh kuan lah, don't scare the shit out of him. He's already feeling guilt-ridden, so don't go around making it worse for him.

Bro Discu, you shouldn't worry too much since you did the necessary precautions. Maybe it's the guilt that's making you feel paranoid. Take care! :D

[JediSkull]

MJ not dead yet? wow! didn't know tat sia! but its a scary disease nevertheless!~!~ got see how thin aids victims become?

[PokePussyHard]

Should be safe since you wear condom

[samfan]

Bro,

Forget about getting a viral load test. It is not helpful, can be costly, and will only complicate matters from a diagnostic standpoint.

Furthermore, symptoms are notoriously unreliable for diagnosing HIV. The main reason being HIV itself will not directly cause the symptoms. It is the weakened immune system that is the culprit for opportunistic infections, and since most ARS varies among individuals, and may consist of common aliments; there is no reason to worry about them.

Any HIV antibody test prior to the 3 month window period is not considered conclusive, and although a negative result at any point before that may be encouraging; it is again, not conclusive. To be certain of your HIV status, you have to wait until the 3 month mark (90+ days) before getting tested.

[AfA_hmor]

I would like to know, where can i get a viral load test done? is it ex? 3 weeks after exposure..do you think this test will be beneficial?

You can get yourself tested for HIV and syphilis at our anonymous test site. See www.afa.org for test timings. The window period for the test results to be accurate is between 3 weeks to 3 months. It costs $20 to do the HIV test and $30 to do both tests (HIV and syphilis). If you are worried, do come down to DSC and get yourself tested.

More tests will be carried out for those who are found positive during the anonymous test. It may not be useful for you to do the viral load test now.

[cheongster_11]

Hi to fellow bros

First to Bro discusfish, not to worry la. i'm sure u will be fine. :)

Next is it really true that if use CD and assuming no breakage. chances of kena 1st prize is low? :D

Is it the norm for WL to use the same CD that they use to blow u for FJ as well? will the saliva affect the quality of the CD?

paiseh to hijack the thread.. but abit concerned too.

[samfan]

Bro cheongster_11,

If the condom was used correctly and did not fail, then the chance of kenna 1st price is essentially non-existent. See my thread at Worried About Ur Escapade?! (http://sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=60053) for details.

WL normally will use the same condom used for BJ for FJ as well. They normally collect only one condom from the counter anyway. However this is just my opinion. What is important is that saliva will not degrade or denature the quality of the condom and render it useless. So you are safe if the condom did not fail at the end of all the slurping and banging.

And yeah you're right. Bro discusfish should be fine. The odds are extremely in his favour.

Stay safe and you will be well!

[mondo2000]

Hey Bro discusfish,

Relax la, why so cunt cheong ? Its the past now, you have already done it, nothing can change that and reverse that. I bet there is nothing wrong with you . Your chances of getting infected is very very low la, even less than 1% !!! When you worry too much, you cannot continue with your daily activities properly. Just try to focus on something else, go for the blood test every month till the 3rd month, and my bet to you is that you will be negative. Next time, if you are so afraid and cunt cheong, dont cheong la. Alamak, you can to be a samster, you want to cheong, but then you worry a lot. As long as you cap then your chances of non infection is almost 100%. So, smile alot, try to keep yourself busy, go for checkup, and keep yourself happy. :D

[cheongster_11]

Thks to bro samfan & Bro mondo2000 for their replies and encouragements to Bro discusfish...

Honestly.. though many bros have affirmed that with CD confirm safe one... but still i personally feel that still cant help but feel worried one. honestly one lohz.. especially when we realise that if really really kena 1st place then the world will fall apart..

But after a while.. backside itchy again then go cheong again. I rem many years back... i did a KTV girl RAW.. Local girl.. plus unload inside her as well. Checked but was ok.. then swore nv to go cheong again... sigh.. in the end oso like that... hahahaha :D

honestly really is wear CD correctly confirm wun kena 1st prize?? no exception?? hahaha... like that Green light given to cheong more times liaoz.. the quality in GL really quite good.. I GL newbie. used to cheong tuina, KTV, IRC. but din know $40 can get FJ liaoz.. plus the thai SYTs along WH there really cute man.. keke :D

[stiffness]

cheongster

no such thing as 'no exception' to getting HIV (assuming that's what you mean by 1st prize).. a condom will minimise the chances of getting it but it's not 100% secure.

Remember that you get HIV not just from penetrative sex (bonking the girl) but from oral sex and even kissing.

http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/resources/qa/qa17.htm
http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/resources/qa/qa19.htm
[From USA's Centre for Disease Control]

Any point of blood-to-blood transmission will allow HIV to pass to you. So if you have sores in your mouth and the WL has sores in her mouth, the possibility is there that HIV can be passed to you. Or if you do BBBJ and your dick gets abrasions (remember that dick abrasions can sometimes be invisible - you won't see blood but there might be minute cuts) and she has a sore in her mouth, her blood can trasmit to your blood.

The only "confirm" method is not to have sex with someone you don't know have HIV or not. And this is not counting the 2nd, 3rd prizes etc (other STDs).

I can imagine in the future, couples exchanging STD results before getting married or having sex with each other for the first time... :(

[samfan]

Bro stiffness.

I agree with the no 100% protection against HIV using condom. However there is an exception. It is this: Situational exception.

Why? Because HIV can never ever penetrate an in tact condom. No way no how.

Then why no one says 100% but only 99.9%? This is because there is no absolute in this world. But to qualify that, the 0.01% is due to exceptions in improper usage of a condom and/or failure of a condom.

Oral sex has not been proven to transmit HIV. In the virus 25 years of existence, there have been NO cases of HIV transmission via oral sex. The case cited by CDC was never conclusive as there were other factors involved.

Open-mouth kissing has never been found to transmit HIV, as the saliva has been found to deactivate a certain protein in the HIV rendering it not infectious.

All these information were gathered from TheBody.com the leading HIV resource on the internet, and factual information were provided by Robert Frascino, M.D., a leading HIV Specialist who is also a HIV+ individual.

To see references and actual quotations from Dr. Frascino refer to my previous post on the subject: Worried About Ur Escapade?! (http://sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=60053) You WILL be glad you DID!

[siaoheeha]

hey i have a problem i have visit a prostitue(with caps) during january time, after that around april when i went for a checkep inital test stated i tested psoitive for syphilis, i also read up somewhere when u have vial infection the test will show positive too that time i got cough and cold, and i have no sypmtons(chancre maybe at someplace i cannot see),so i ignored it.Recently i develop a rash a itchy rash all over my body and i am really worried abt it is it syphillis at its secondary stages??

[dathinman]

siaoheeha,

You should have done a second test, to confirm. Don't follow what you read up somewhere.

Go see your doctor ASAP.

[V|ernar]

the best way is to have a regular check up every 6 month.

protection and always think twice.

and i still havent bite the dust too..

nothing is too late , when it too late because you done nothing.

god bless

[AfA_hmor]

was in japan on thur.

Was intro to a FL by my colleague and check into hotel.

Did not french, kiss nor anal. Blow job by her for 2 mins and 1 to 2 mins plus bonking her all with caps.

However, i develop slight fever as im back now in spore.

THis is the first time with FL. May i know am i scaring myself?

pls advice, am i in risk?

i really regret...really regret.


Dear Discusfish

You are capped and well protected. You should not be overly worried about you being infected. You are probably being overly worried. Although it is good to worry, but being too overwhelmed by it is no good. In fact, we are very concerned at those who totally do not worry at all, usually these are the people who take things too lightly and never go for any checkups.

Perhaps, sammyboyers, if you do have friends who are like that, we hope you can encourage them to do a check. Afterall, good sex = safe sex. You will enjoy your sexual experiences best when it is safe!

Best wishes
Action for AIDS

[discusfish]

Dear all Sammyboy bros..

Thanks alot for the reassurance and support you guys gave me. I am feeling much better now..and had went for my 6th week test and result was negative. Been to DCS for so many times that some staff there recognise me liao. Will be there regularly till 3rd mth. really praying very hard that all will goes well.

Good luck to all bros here!

[samfan]

Dear all Sammyboy bros..

Thanks alot for the reassurance and support you guys gave me. I am feeling much better now..and had went for my 6th week test and result was negative. Been to DCS for so many times that some staff there recognise me liao. Will be there regularly till 3rd mth. really praying very hard that all will goes well.

Good luck to all bros here!

Bro I can sympathize with your anxiety. However weekly negative results can be assuring until the next week, but it's excessive and not necessary.

You were capped, so where was your potential exposure? Any test done prior to the 3 month mark (that includes your entire weekly test so far), are not considered conclusive anyway! I rather you donated the clinic fees to AfA or other charity!

If you must, get tested at the 3 month mark. Just ONE rapid test at that point will do. I'm sure that will be negative too!

Stay safe and you'll BE safe!

[curiosityz]

Dear all Sammyboy bros..

Thanks alot for the reassurance and support you guys gave me. I am feeling much better now..and had went for my 6th week test and result was negative. Been to DCS for so many times that some staff there recognise me liao. Will be there regularly till 3rd mth. really praying very hard that all will goes well.

Good luck to all bros here!

i am glad you are fine now :)