Meet prc gf parent in PRC

[korean]

Hi bros,

Anyone mind to share your stories or stories u heard of meeting your prc gf 's parent in prc? Many thx! :D

[ShittyAss]

Hi bros,

Anyone mind to share your stories or stories u heard of meeting your prc gf 's parent in prc? Many thx! :D

Different Prc standard different parents expectation man..

What's up? U meeting yours?

[korean]

Different Prc standard different parents expectation man..

What's up? U meeting yours?

yeah maybe in 3 months time.

u got any story to share?

[Johnbass]

Tiagong the entire PRC village will be there to welcome you...
:D

[a2014]

TS, you really want to meet one ?

It all depends on where they stay. If in the village then most likely the whole clan will welcome you especially when the know where you come from.

This was told to me by PRC lady who has a decent job here. Even they go home once a year or two each trip they have to spend close to 20K SGD alone so if you are going there as a bf you know how much you need to throw away.

Hopefully what you see is a decent family that don't ask for much.

Take Care

[korean]

TS, you really want to meet one ?

It all depends on where they stay. If in the village then most likely the whole clan will welcome you especially when the know where you come from.

This was told to me by PRC lady who has a decent job here. Even they go home once a year or two each trip they have to spend close to 20K SGD alone so if you are going there as a bf you know how much you need to throw away.

Hopefully what you see is a decent family that don't ask for much.

Take Care

it is not about want or not...

Yes I did hear many complaining not dare to go back to hometown (especially cny) as need to spend alot on gifts etc...(even my part time maid aso say so). Luckily my gf parent is not money minded, same for her too. She didnt spend much (not even rmb 20k I think) on the trip back to her hometown after one and a half year.

But thanks for bringing this up as I have yet to think on this aspect. I'm more worry of the culture, acceptance of different province (not even talk abt different country!), etc...

[Harvest]

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But thanks for bringing this up as I have yet to think on this aspect. I'm more worry of the culture, acceptance of different province (not even talk abt different country!), etc...

Dun worry bro, if your gf's parents know that you are from SG, all cultural barriers and walls will be torn down immediately!

[korean]

Dun worry bro, if your gf's parents know that you are from SG, all cultural barriers and walls will be torn down immediately!

rolfmao! seriously, some of them dunno where is singapore :eek:

[justl00king]

TS bro, u want prc story? Ok...I share one :D

Got to know a chio prc in SG, we will hangout n chill everytime she is here.
After some time, once while she's back in prc, I received a call from her, ask me to go visit.
She mention had spoken to parents few times about me, so they would like to meet me :eek:
Told her to book hotel for me, she said no need, just come n she arrange all for me.

When I reach airport, she already there waiting for me, pick me up in her luxury car and go makan. After the meal, ask her where we going, she said surprise.
So I just go with the flow, she drove to one luxury condo, told me it's her place and she's staying alone. Later I found out the condo actually paid for by a SG guy.

After a couple days of showing me around, third day went to meet her parents. They were happy to see me, we got along well. Her parents told me to take good care of her, which I mention only natural, will do so. In my mind, thinking I could be an excuse to her parents, so she can come SG often on the pretext to see me, but actually to make more $. I stayed at her condo for a week, had fun, n soon time to go back. She sent me to airport, saying she will come soon to see me again.

If bros interested to know what happen after that, let me know to continue :)

[justl00king]

This story not related to meeting parents, dun mind I just share here too :D

One time while in casino, spotted a prc chiobu playing at one of the tables.
I sat down same table, changed some chips to play, while glancing at her from time to time.
She return with a smiley look, so I chatted her up. After the gaming session, we went makan to chat, got to know more about her.

Following up, she would jio me to go casino or outings. When we go casino, she play with her own money and we just have fun (wait for it). I think on our second or third date, we ended up in hotel. After that, she would say save the hotel money, just go to her place. She stay alone in a rented apartment.

One time in casino, we playing at different table. She came to me saying lost all her $.
So I pass her 2K ask her go play, losses I absorb, winnings she keep. She came back later with even more chips, told me my 2K gave her luck, won a few K and she pass me back all the chips. (wait for it) I told her just pass me back 2K will do, keep the winnings as I'm a man of my word, but she said no. So end up told her just split the winnings half half which she accept, we went back to her place again after that. Later on one time when we are together, she ask me to be her BF. Told her too soon, I do like her but let's see how things go.

( the wait for it part) After some time, she started to "borrow" from me, saying loss money in casino. Just a few K here and there, I just pass to her. She did try to return me once, but I was busy to go meet her, next time when I saw her again, she told me loss money again, I told her it's ok, no hurry. After that, will be requests to help her pay rent, about 2.5K a month.

Should I continue?...:p

[orangeproud]

This story not related to meeting parents, dun mind I just share here too :D

One time while in casino, spotted a prc chiobu playing at one of the tables.
I sat down same table, changed some chips to play, while glancing at her from time to time.
She return with a smiley look, so I chatted her up. After the gaming session, we went makan to chat, got to know more about her.

Following up, she would jio me to go casino or outings. When we go casino, she play with her own money and we just have fun (wait for it). I think on our second or third date, we ended up in hotel. After that, she would say save the hotel money, just go to her place. She stay alone in a rented apartment.

One time in casino, we playing at different table. She came to me saying lost all her $.
So I pass her 2K ask her go play, losses I absorb, winnings she keep. She came back later with even more chips, told me my 2K gave her luck, won a few K and she pass me back all the chips. (wait for it) I told her just pass me back 2K will do, keep the winnings as I'm a man of my word, but she said no. So end up told her just split the winnings half half which she accept, we went back to her place again after that. Later on one time when we are together, she ask me to be her BF. Told her too soon, I do like her but let's see how things go.

( the wait for it part) After some time, she started to "borrow" from me, saying loss money in casino. Just a few K here and there, I just pass to her. She did try to return me once, but I was busy to go meet her, next time when I saw her again, she told me loss money again, I told her it's ok, no hurry. After that, will be requests to help her pay rent, about 2.5K a month.

Should I continue?...:p

Bro Justl00king, seems like ur story's r getting more spicier n exciting, pls continue or update us when u r free.;):)

[korean]

This story not related to meeting parents, dun mind I just share here too :D

One time while in casino, spotted a prc chiobu playing at one of the tables.
I sat down same table, changed some chips to play, while glancing at her from time to time.
She return with a smiley look, so I chatted her up. After the gaming session, we went makan to chat, got to know more about her.

Following up, she would jio me to go casino or outings. When we go casino, she play with her own money and we just have fun (wait for it). I think on our second or third date, we ended up in hotel. After that, she would say save the hotel money, just go to her place. She stay alone in a rented apartment.

One time in casino, we playing at different table. She came to me saying lost all her $.
So I pass her 2K ask her go play, losses I absorb, winnings she keep. She came back later with even more chips, told me my 2K gave her luck, won a few K and she pass me back all the chips. (wait for it) I told her just pass me back 2K will do, keep the winnings as I'm a man of my word, but she said no. So end up told her just split the winnings half half which she accept, we went back to her place again after that. Later on one time when we are together, she ask me to be her BF. Told her too soon, I do like her but let's see how things go.

( the wait for it part) After some time, she started to "borrow" from me, saying loss money in casino. Just a few K here and there, I just pass to her. She did try to return me once, but I was busy to go meet her, next time when I saw her again, she told me loss money again, I told her it's ok, no hurry. After that, will be requests to help her pay rent, about 2.5K a month.

Should I continue?...:p

interesting story. share at ur will and pls help urself here as long as it is real be it urs or others :p

[a2014]

Luckily my gf parent is not money minded, same for her too. She didnt spend much (not even rmb 20k I think) on the trip back to her hometown after one and a half year.

But thanks for bringing this up as I have yet to think on this aspect. I'm more worry of the culture, acceptance of different province (not even talk abt different country!), etc...
TS, who this gf of yours you are talking, if not wrong in your past threads there were quite a few you are talking about if I have not remember wrongly. Pardon me if I have mixed them all up.

One very basic thing, give them your expectation let them manage it. I guess this will be better than asking around. Different people, different encounter and again different girl different character, different expectation so difficult to compare be it a decent girl or and experience girl.

Not all experience girl are bad and not all decent girl are good either.

Take Care.

[korean]

TS, who this gf of yours you are talking, if not wrong in your past threads there were quite a few you are talking about if I have not remember wrongly. Pardon me if I have mixed them all up.

One very basic thing, give them your expectation let them manage it. I guess this will be better than asking around. Different people, different encounter and again different girl different character, different expectation so difficult to compare be it a decent girl or and experience girl.

Not all experience girl are bad and not all decent girl are good either.

Take Care.

yes she is Baby. It is not to discuss abt marriage but get to know daughter bf during the 1st meetup.

yes agree different ppl different encounter etc...just want to hear other ppl experience that all...

she said the biggest hurdle is having the same surname as her dad n auntie/uncle were look down by others during their young age due to same surname of her grandparents. Just quoting one of the example which is unheard or something new, at least to me.

[esssinine]

better meet them on skype or wechat cheaper n safer

[saabking]

yes she is Baby. It is not to discuss abt marriage but get to know daughter bf during the 1st meetup.

yes agree different ppl different encounter etc...just want to hear other ppl experience that all...

she said the biggest hurdle is having the same surname as her dad n auntie/uncle were look down by others during their young age due to same surname of her grandparents. Just quoting one of the example which is unheard or something new, at least to me.

What ? Who is Baby? :eek:

Don't have cold feet lar - love conquer all
Worse case go and do a legal name change lor :D
加油！加油！

[korean]

What ? Who is Baby? :eek:

Don't have cold feet lar - love conquer all
Worse case go and do a legal name change lor :D
加油！加油！

wont change surname lor, just need to manage it lor.

luckily her mum is anxious to marry off her daughter which helps abit :D

[a2014]

What ? Who is Baby? :eek:

Don't have cold feet lar - love conquer all
Worse case go and do a legal name change lor :D
加油！加油！
Go search all TS's post will know lah, got baby, got divorce, got some more gf. A lot of juicy happening.

Only one thing I can say, everything in life you can only try once. The only issue is dare to try or not.

[korean]

better meet them on skype or wechat cheaper n safer

lol a trip is unavoidable lor...and seeing in person make a huge different

[saabking]

Go search all TS's post will know lah, got baby, got divorce, got some more gf. A lot of juicy happening.

Only one thing I can say, everything in life you can only try once. The only issue is dare to try or not.

I think I ended up always keep trying :D

Haha if TS don't date to go - I grab opportunity to go.
I m confident sure impress her mum and dad; but the only problem is I think she will not be impressed by me lol

[saabking]

wont change surname lor, just need to manage it lor.

luckily her mum is anxious to marry off her daughter which helps abit :D

Haha - this name thingy quite interesting
When k heard name - I was shocked too - so coincidental :D - like fated to meet this type of name

[korean]

I think I ended up always keep trying :D

Haha if TS don't date to go - I grab opportunity to go.
I m confident sure impress her mum and dad; but the only problem is I think she will not be impressed by me lol

Lol...btw did u meet xx parent, forgot to ask u that. Maybe you can start the ball rowling :D

[korean]

Haha - this name thingy quite interesting
When k heard name - I was shocked too - so coincidental :D - like fated to meet this type of name

Lol tat is not her actual name, she got three name and two surname lol

[a2014]

TS, don't need to worry too much if you have already made up your mind to do it. Apparently people there speaks with their home town accent depending on which province they come from. After a while you will gain to understand a little here or there.

Just observe when you are there on things like who come to fetch you, the transport they use to fetch you. Who are the people around how they behave and so on. Any surprise keep it to your heart and come back, don't over react in front of them. They have more people there than you so be smart.

It may be good to control your cost. What I did some years back when I went to visit one PRC friend, I past them some money first and ask them to settle all expenses there for me and indeed they did even buy cloth and shopping also they pay. Anyway from my budget they knew, any left over they can keep. That time I spend only about lesser thatn SGD 4K in total for 10 days including air ticket. Stay at her place and only visiting her friends only, no family involve as we are just normal friends. If you are lucky you may see some funny things there that you may not comprehend but no big deal if you have venture so far and wide.

You gain to learn and experience.

Take Care

[saabking]

Lol...btw did u meet xx parent, forgot to ask u that. Maybe you can start the ball rowling :D

They separated - live in different city
She said better don't meet otherwise mum n dad sure shake me like money tree:D => I think she prefer to keep him for hersel lol

[saabking]

Lol tat is not her actual name, she got three name and two surname lol

Her friend called her that name ;)
I think no. 1 also use that name?

[saabking]

Btw my baby said she will join tour group and try to apply in April - go NYC - excited like little gal lol

[korean]

They separated - live in different city
She said better don't meet otherwise mum n dad sure shake me like money tree:D => I think she prefer to keep him for hersel lol

Damn....eventually u become the 🌳 tree lol

[korean]

Her friend called her that name ;)
I think no. 1 also use that name?

What her mum used to call her is the official one, not start with T

[korean]

Btw my baby said she will join tour group and try to apply in April - go NYC - excited like little gal lol

Ur baby more high class and also high cost lol...for my baby just wanna go nearby provinces

[saabking]

What her mum used to call her is the official one, not start with T

Yup - that was why when friend call that name I shocked lor because I know her other name instead mah

[saabking]

Ur baby more high class and also high cost lol...for my baby just wanna go nearby provinces

Most high class is DD - take helicopter one ok

[korean]

Most high class is DD - take helicopter one ok

Lol...think abt it, to have a few specialists from oversea flied down to do operation on family member with no cost is more shocking to me lol

[korean]

yes they speak with their own dialect which I need to get used to eventhough I can barely understand 70% of it :p

lol mind to share the funny thing u experienced there

TS, don't need to worry too much if you have already made up your mind to do it. Apparently people there speaks with their home town accent depending on which province they come from. After a while you will gain to understand a little here or there.

Just observe when you are there on things like who come to fetch you, the transport they use to fetch you. Who are the people around how they behave and so on. Any surprise keep it to your heart and come back, don't over react in front of them. They have more people there than you so be smart.

It may be good to control your cost. What I did some years back when I went to visit one PRC friend, I past them some money first and ask them to settle all expenses there for me and indeed they did even buy cloth and shopping also they pay. Anyway from my budget they knew, any left over they can keep. That time I spend only about lesser thatn SGD 4K in total for 10 days including air ticket. Stay at her place and only visiting her friends only, no family involve as we are just normal friends. If you are lucky you may see some funny things there that you may not comprehend but no big deal if you have venture so far and wide.

You gain to learn and experience.

Take Care

[a2014]

yes they speak with their own dialect which I need to get used to eventhough I can barely understand 70% of it :p

lol mind to share the funny thing u experienced there
People regardless what relationship you are with them normally don't like to tell you everything especially when they come from far away. When you visit them certainly everyone around looks normal.

If they are from a well to do family then certainly you will have a private car to receive you. If not you may ended up taking taxi or they get someone who has a car to drive.

Lunch and Dinner seems to be their culture as what I was told normally they will order huge amount of food on the table enough to for everyone da bao home. At first I don't understand, they keep asking me to eat and eat until I cannot eat then later I found out it was actually their culture that when you invite someone for a dinner or lunch you must make sure provide more than enough for everyone not like we just cater for just enough. Certainly most of them love to drink. Depending do you drink or love to drink, their chinese wine certainly very interesting depending on the price.

Most of them are very friendly at least, if you stay at their home don't be surprise the let you sleep their bed and they sleep on the sofa should they not have no extra space.

Make sure you and gf no hanky panky when people around as you don't know what relationship amount themself.

Of course if not going to see parent or close friend then no problem close the door then everything go upside down.

So this is the first gf that you thread that work here before and gone back for good and you long to be with her or you just want to go there to visit her.

Different people will face different things so difficult for me to highlight all juicy stuff if any or something that is not relevant. The above are very common encounter.

When you come back do update all of us what you have encountered and possible a good FR. So Bros will ask for juicy updated with pictures and video too.

[korean]

yes I been to china so I know they will make sure the food is more than sufficient. I cannot drink much haha hope she can rescue me ...as I know if ppl ask u to drink especially if u r a male it is not polite to reject.

yes she worked here and backed to her hometown. I'm preparing to stay with her there after I settled all the shits over here hopefully in couple of months time. I've promised her to bring her to somewhere nearby for a short trip in autumn, so even I yet to settle everything here, I will just pay a visit to her, at the same time also see her parents as her mum pester her for match making everyday until she cannot tahan, also her mum heard from her good sister that she is in relation so ask her to bring back home.

People regardless what relationship you are with them normally don't like to tell you everything especially when they come from far away. When you visit them certainly everyone around looks normal.

If they are from a well to do family then certainly you will have a private car to receive you. If not you may ended up taking taxi or they get someone who has a car to drive.

Lunch and Dinner seems to be their culture as what I was told normally they will order huge amount of food on the table enough to for everyone da bao home. At first I don't understand, they keep asking me to eat and eat until I cannot eat then later I found out it was actually their culture that when you invite someone for a dinner or lunch you must make sure provide more than enough for everyone not like we just cater for just enough. Certainly most of them love to drink. Depending do you drink or love to drink, their chinese wine certainly very interesting depending on the price.

Most of them are very friendly at least, if you stay at their home don't be surprise the let you sleep their bed and they sleep on the sofa should they not have no extra space.

Make sure you and gf no hanky panky when people around as you don't know what relationship amount themself.

Of course if not going to see parent or close friend then no problem close the door then everything go upside down.

So this is the first gf that you thread that work here before and gone back for good and you long to be with her or you just want to go there to visit her.

Different people will face different things so difficult for me to highlight all juicy stuff if any or something that is not relevant. The above are very common encounter.

When you come back do update all of us what you have encountered and possible a good FR. So Bros will ask for juicy updated with pictures and video too.

[a2014]

I will just pay a visit to her, at the same time also see her parents as her mum pester her for match making everyday until she cannot tahan, also her mum heard from her good sister that she is in relation so ask her to bring back home.
So you just go there to pay a very special friend a visit and also help her to pacify her mum or to be there eventually thinking to create a happy ending with her.

Apparently there is no need for her parent to know what she is working here assuming they don't know. Any plans to bring her back ?

[korean]

So you just go there to pay a very special friend a visit and also help her to pacify her mum or to be there eventually thinking to create a happy ending with her.

Apparently there is no need for her parent to know what she is working here assuming they don't know. Any plans to bring her back ?

the latter, which plan to stay with her as long as both of us need each other, we are very flexible, just follow the flow.

yes her parent dunno abt her stained here, so will work out with her how to in line with her earlier story. no even plan for myself to come back.

[a2014]

the latter, which plan to stay with her as long as both of us need each other, we are very flexible, just follow the flow.

yes her parent dunno abt her stained here, so will work out with her how to in line with her earlier story. no even plan for myself to come back.
Such decision, you only do it once in your lifetime. Time will be there to proof the end result. Hope that there is a good ending.

Take Care

[korean]

Such decision, you only do it once in your lifetime. Time will be there to proof the end result. Hope that there is a good ending.

Take Care

Yeah think of being a monk in the past, and even now. Give myself a last chance :D

[porscheclub]

Went to my then PRC mistress hometown few times. They live in a 2nd tier city which is better than Singapore IMO. I enjoyed their city so much that I eventually bought a property there and sold it for a profit.

Her family was very warm towards me & hosted luxurious dinners. Guests do not pay & there was one dinner which would've costed a month's salary for her uncle but being PRC, face value outweighs everything. I even took their family car for driving trips.

Initially, I was quite doubtful and Google Earth her flat then studied the city thoroughly. There are after all many horror stories. First trip, I stayed in a hotel but subsequently lived with them.

They were living in a shabby govt flat but moved to a rented condo that faces the ocean and eventually bought it then some years later they purchased a villa on the outskirts. They did very well in stock market and business so I don't have to worry about being conned though I did contribute some money. The mother even thought I wasn't tall enough for her daughter! The males in their household are easily 1.8 while her mum stands at 1.75 and was a runner-up in a local beauty pageant.

If you are looking for a spouse/GF, it is important to find one that doesn't need to depend on you financially. Makes your life a whole lot easier.

Above was a happy encounter. There are some that can be horrific so always think of plan B and inform a kaki of your location just in case. Make copies of your passport, ID & driver's license.

[korean]

Went to my then PRC mistress hometown few times. They live in a 2nd tier city which is better than Singapore IMO. I enjoyed their city so much that I eventually bought a property there and sold it for a profit.

Her family was very warm towards me & hosted luxurious dinners. Guests do not pay & there was one dinner which would've costed a month's salary for her uncle but being PRC, face value outweighs everything. I even took their family car for driving trips.

Initially, I was quite doubtful and Google Earth her flat then studied the city thoroughly. There are after all many horror stories. First trip, I stayed in a hotel but subsequently lived with them.

They were living in a shabby govt flat but moved to a rented condo that faces the ocean and eventually bought it then some years later they purchased a villa on the outskirts. They did very well in stock market and business so I don't have to worry about being conned though I did contribute some money. The mother even thought I wasn't tall enough for her daughter! The males in their household are easily 1.8 while her mum stands at 1.75 and was a runner-up in a local beauty pageant.

If you are looking for a spouse/GF, it is important to find one that doesn't need to depend on you financially. Makes your life a whole lot easier.

Above was a happy encounter. There are some that can be horrific so always think of plan B and inform a kaki of your location just in case. Make copies of your passport, ID & driver's license.

nice sharing bro, as always :)

wah izit ching dao as face ocean and tall? :confused:

yeah she is doing quite well as long as not over-investested.

lol wah sounds scary for horrific experience u mean kidnap case? :eek:

[porscheclub]

nice sharing bro, as always :)

wah izit ching dao as face ocean and tall? :confused:

yeah she is doing quite well as long as not over-investested.

lol wah sounds scary for horrific experience u mean kidnap case? :eek:

:)

Before I went on the first trip. One bro here shared that while making out with this PRC GF in the China hotel room, a man came in with a chopper claiming to be the husband. Can you imagine the shit after that?

[korean]

:)

Before I went on the first trip. One bro here shared that while making out with this PRC GF in the China hotel room, a man came in with a chopper claiming to be the husband. Can you imagine the shit after that?
This is definitely a conned case lol

[Harvest]

TS bro, u want prc story? Ok...I share one :D

Got to know a chio prc in SG, we will hangout n chill everytime she is here.
After some time, once while she's back in prc, I received a call from her, ask me to go visit.
She mention had spoken to parents few times about me, so they would like to meet me :eek:
Told her to book hotel for me, she said no need, just come n she arrange all for me.

When I reach airport, she already there waiting for me, pick me up in her luxury car and go makan. After the meal, ask her where we going, she said surprise.
So I just go with the flow, she drove to one luxury condo, told me it's her place and she's staying alone. Later I found out the condo actually paid for by a SG guy.

After a couple days of showing me around, third day went to meet her parents. They were happy to see me, we got along well. Her parents told me to take good care of her, which I mention only natural, will do so. In my mind, thinking I could be an excuse to her parents, so she can come SG often on the pretext to see me, but actually to make more $. I stayed at her condo for a week, had fun, n soon time to go back. She sent me to airport, saying she will come soon to see me again.

If bros interested to know what happen after that, let me know to continue :)

Please continue... :p

[orangeproud]

This story not related to meeting parents, dun mind I just share here too :D

One time while in casino, spotted a prc chiobu playing at one of the tables.
I sat down same table, changed some chips to play, while glancing at her from time to time.
She return with a smiley look, so I chatted her up. After the gaming session, we went makan to chat, got to know more about her.

Following up, she would jio me to go casino or outings. When we go casino, she play with her own money and we just have fun (wait for it). I think on our second or third date, we ended up in hotel. After that, she would say save the hotel money, just go to her place. She stay alone in a rented apartment.

One time in casino, we playing at different table. She came to me saying lost all her $.
So I pass her 2K ask her go play, losses I absorb, winnings she keep. She came back later with even more chips, told me my 2K gave her luck, won a few K and she pass me back all the chips. (wait for it) I told her just pass me back 2K will do, keep the winnings as I'm a man of my word, but she said no. So end up told her just split the winnings half half which she accept, we went back to her place again after that. Later on one time when we are together, she ask me to be her BF. Told her too soon, I do like her but let's see how things go.

( the wait for it part) After some time, she started to "borrow" from me, saying loss money in casino. Just a few K here and there, I just pass to her. She did try to return me once, but I was busy to go meet her, next time when I saw her again, she told me loss money again, I told her it's ok, no hurry. After that, will be requests to help her pay rent, about 2.5K a month.

Should I continue?...:p

Of course muz continue;).......the juiciest the more better...heehee...:D
Pls share wif us ur experience, bro justl00king!

[justl00king]

Bro Justl00king, seems like ur story's r getting more spicier n exciting, pls continue or update us when u r free.

Please continue...

Of course muz continue;).......the juiciest the more better...heehee...
Pls share wif us ur experience, bro justl00king!
Thanks bros for the interest,
I dun kiss n tell, so no spicy, juicy, or any exciting bedroom details :p

interesting story. share at ur will and pls help urself here as long as it is real be it urs or others
Thanks bro, just sharing so bros can wise up, when money requests starts coming, the alarm bells better be working! :p

So dun matter if real or fiction, readers draw their own conclusions ;)

[justl00king]

( the wait for it part) After some time, she started to "borrow" from me, saying loss money in casino. Just a few K here and there, I just pass to her. She did try to return me once, but I was busy to go meet her, next time when I saw her again, she told me loss money again, I told her it's ok, no hurry. After that, will be requests to help her pay rent, about 2.5K a month.


Actually, I dun mind helping her out, but the way she demand is a turn off for me.
Told me I'm her BF, should take care of her? I was thinking, when did I agree to that? :confused:

So I just basically told her that I'll think about it. She kept calling and sms-ing me after that for a period of time, I ignored her n she eventually stopped calling totally.
After about a year, one day I sent her a sms wishing [local number], during one of the holidays, just to check if she is ok n well. Got no reply, either she didn't want to speak to me again ever, or already left SG for good. By then, I've also moved on :D

[orangeproud]

Actually, I dun mind helping her out, but the way she demand is a turn off for me.
Told me I'm her BF, should take care of her? I was thinking, when did I agree to that? :confused:

So I just basically told her that I'll think about it. She kept calling and sms-ing me after that for a period of time, I ignored her n she eventually stopped calling totally.
After about a year, one day I sent her a sms wishing [local number], during one of the holidays, just to check if she is ok n well. Got no reply, either she didn't want to speak to me again ever, or already left SG for good. By then, I've also moved on :D

Its wise for u to stay away fm her as she seems is a hardcore gambler, trying to take advantage of u n take u for granted.;)

U really is kindhearted, regardless wat type of woman she is, u still hv d heart to care abt her, bother to SMS wishing her n find out how she is even a year later.

R u a sentimental guy??:rolleyes:

[justl00king]

R u a sentimental guy??:rolleyes:
Haha yeah bro, my achilles heel.
I'll always remember those that were nice to me, we had lots of fun, many good times, good memories.

To be fair, when we were "together", there's a guy wanted to SB her, she chose to be with me.
It didn't work out for us, but the good memories remain n I only wish her happiness.

[orangeproud]

Haha yeah bro, my achilles heel.
I'll always remember those that were nice to me, we had lots of fun, many good times, good memories.

To be fair, when we were "together", there's a guy wanted to SB her, she chose to be with me.
It didn't work out for us, but the good memories remain n I only wish her happiness.

She chose to b wif u as she knw u r indeed a gd guy wif kind heart.
Its gd to always remember the gd time n keep the gd memories.
But better to control ur kum cheng, too much kum cheng is very tiring 1.
Its wise to choose to stay clear of her although she did bring u some fun times.;)

[justl00king]

But better to control ur kum cheng, too much kum cheng is very tiring 1.

Thanks orange bro for the kind advice.
Agreed, too into KC is not good, easy to fall prey n become carrot head.
Better to be the predator, than the prey :p

[korean]

She chose to b wif u as she knw u r indeed a gd guy wif kind heart.
Its gd to always remember the gd time n keep the gd memories.
But better to control ur kum cheng, too much kum cheng is very tiring 1.
Its wise to choose to stay clear of her although she did bring u some fun times.;)

I think bro justl00king is sentiment yet cool guy

[orangeproud]

Thanks orange bro for the kind advice.
Agreed, too into KC is not good, easy to fall prey n become carrot head.
Better to be the predator, than the prey :p

Bro justl00king,

This song for us!

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=cjpfNPfKNUQ

[Greendevil]

TS, there a chinese saying goes, one type of rice, raised a hundred type of people.

China is vast and big, with many different cultures and practice. but rule of thumb is not to go empty handed. buy some gifts, cigarette and liquor is popular choice, that why you see a lot of PRC tourist snatching up all the DFS in Changi airport. Most important, do it within your means. dont over lavish on the gift which you cant afford, cos 1st impression count. the saying goes two ways. if you set their expectation and standard high, then they will be askiing or expecting that much in the future. so if you can afford to buy a louise XIII as gift, well bless to your good life, if you can only afford a JW gold label, then so be it.

Also, most chinese love to drink. so expect some drinking when you there. note, it is not the usual alcohol you drink in SG pub, but chinese white liquor. dont reject the drink, even if you cant hold your liquor well. honestly tell them you a poor drinker and drink to your limit.

End of the day, be honest, huumble and respectful, it goes a long way. also hold your Eeee and yak, in case you see something you not ascustom to. remember it China, everything is possible.

[korean]

Bro justl00king,

This song for us!

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=cjpfNPfKNUQ

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5dVipQHbBYk

:p

[korean]

TS, there a chinese saying goes, one type of rice, raised a hundred type of people.

China is vast and big, with many different cultures and practice. but rule of thumb is not to go empty handed. buy some gifts, cigarette and liquor is popular choice, that why you see a lot of PRC tourist snatching up all the DFS in Changi airport. Most important, do it within your means. dont over lavish on the gift which you cant afford, cos 1st impression count. the saying goes two ways. if you set their expectation and standard high, then they will be askiing or expecting that much in the future. so if you can afford to buy a louise XIII as gift, well bless to your good life, if you can only afford a JW gold label, then so be it.

Also, most chinese love to drink. so expect some drinking when you there. note, it is not the usual alcohol you drink in SG pub, but chinese white liquor. dont reject the drink, even if you cant hold your liquor well. honestly tell them you a poor drinker and drink to your limit.

End of the day, be honest, huumble and respectful, it goes a long way. also hold your Eeee and yak, in case you see something you not ascustom to. remember it China, everything is possible.

Hi bro,

thx for the advices. Yes I wont be going with empty handed. Before the trip I will seek my gf opinion what to bring over.

yes most of her relatives can drink. she and her mum can drink very well, except her dad. Hope she will help me to gan bei like how she rescues her dad as and when needed lol

Glad that honest, humble and respectful are core values built into me. However some lies cannot be avoided, e.g. how we met in sg etc...Before the trip I need to sync up with her how to make up the story lol

Most likely I will be visiting her next month which is earlier than the plan. I feel excited yet nervous :p Many of her relatives staying within walking distance/same block and they visit each other daily. There could be some challenges to handle her relatives I guess as they may not have much idea where sg is located, may never met anyone from sg. She rejected many match making arranged by her relatives, and as I'm not from the same province (not even talk abt same country), I'm quite sure her relatives will have alot to say abt me to her parents.

I just download sichuan mahjong app to prepare myself in case I need to entertain them playing few round of mahjong. I have not touched mahjong for more than 10 years lol

[noobcomer]

in my case, i actually went to meet my then gf now wife parents together with my parents. i went to propose actually and let our parents meet.

depending on her family and relatives you will know how much gifts you need to bring over. your gf should be able to help you.

otherwise just eat drink and make conversation with them.

[justl00king]

in my case, i actually went to meet my then gf now wife parents together with my parents.
Bro, thanks for sharing.
Power up for u, 17upz! ;)

I think bro justl00king is sentiment yet cool guy

Bro justl00king,

This song for us!
Thanks for the kind words, cool bros! :cool:

[korean]

in my case, i actually went to meet my then gf now wife parents together with my parents. i went to propose actually and let our parents meet.

depending on her family and relatives you will know how much gifts you need to bring over. your gf should be able to help you.

otherwise just eat drink and make conversation with them.

go and 白吃白住 :D

[noobcomer]

go and 白吃白住 :D

actually the gifts cost much much more than the hotel and food
so not 白吃白住 exactly

[a2014]

I just download sichuan mahjong app to prepare myself in case I need to entertain them playing few round of mahjong. I have not touched mahjong for more than 10 years lol
TS, so which province and town she is staying. So in that case she must help you to play mahjong and drink as well. So win she pocket, lose you pay.

[Ramiro]

for me, going overseas to meet parents-in-law is always a nightmare

though they stayed in malaysia, but it's in some kampung in Taiping area. Have to drive in to meet them. n the staying conditions is way below than in city area. the worst is at night, lots of strange noises.

still can recall the 1st time i went to meet them. Many funny things, especially i looked more like a kampung boy than they are. Anyway, just try to find out more about the area & the family's dislikes n taboos.

try to speak less, smile more. that shld do the trick.

good luck !! :D:D

[korean]

actually the gifts cost much much more than the hotel and food
so not 白吃白住 exactly

bro, u and ur family stayed in the hotel when visiting ur wife family? coz not enuf space to stay in their house rite?

[korean]

TS, so which province and town she is staying. So in that case she must help you to play mahjong and drink as well. So win she pocket, lose you pay.

chongqing province, near the famous tourist spot. I dont mind if she drinks for me but I would like to have some fun of mahjong myself :D. sichuan mahjong is very different from what we used to play.each round is faster as less cards. For our version of mahjong, the game is over if one player wins. For sichuan mahjong, the game is considered over if the cards are finished, or 3 players win 血战到底. In worst case scenario the only loser needs to pay to all 3 winners (which also mean pay triple as compared to us). Due to their rules, it is relatively easier to make it big. Anyone who is new to their game can lose alot easily. Her uncle who is new to sichuan (from other province) mahjong lose tens of thousands rmb in single day during cny. She also lose few thousands rmb a day as she rarely plays :eek:

[korean]

for me, going overseas to meet parents-in-law is always a nightmare

though they stayed in malaysia, but it's in some kampung in Taiping area. Have to drive in to meet them. n the staying conditions is way below than in city area. the worst is at night, lots of strange noises.

still can recall the 1st time i went to meet them. Many funny things, especially i looked more like a kampung boy than they are. Anyway, just try to find out more about the area & the family's dislikes n taboos.

try to speak less, smile more. that shld do the trick.

good luck !! :D:D

Were u used to their homecook tat time? :D

[a2014]

She also lose few thousands rmb a day as she rarely plays :eek:
TS, then you tell her, don't worry, your bf got money just go play OK.:D

[korean]

TS, then you tell her, don't worry, your bf got money just go play OK.:D

I no money now, more like a 上门女婿. She doesnt mind actually, but I'm determined to be doing well very soon :D

[a2014]

I no money now, more like a 上门女婿. She doesnt mind actually, but I'm determined to be doing well very soon :D
TS, apparently don't flash too much money in front of their eye is a better deal so as to set their expectation right. At most they say NO and you chop chop and go home. :confused:

[korean]

TS, apparently don't flash too much money in front of their eye is a better deal so as to set their expectation right. At most they say NO and you chop chop and go home. :confused:

My gf knows I'm still in debt at the moment. How she gonna handles her parents n relatives I've not much idea yet. Apparently her parents cannot handle her, her mum just wish she can marry out is foremost important lol

[a2014]

My gf knows I'm still in debt at the moment. How she gonna handles her parents n relatives I've not much idea yet. Apparently her parents cannot handle her, her mum just wish she can marry out is foremost important lol
TS, so you taking leave from your work to go there. What is your plan for the future with her.

[korean]

TS, so you taking leave from your work to go there. What is your plan for the future with her.

bro, I'm doing fulltime trading on my own, so no need to take leave. My future plan much depend on both of us. As long as we need each other, we will carry on. Or else I will move on

[a2014]

bro, I'm doing fulltime trading on my own, so no need to take leave. My future plan much depend on both of us. As long as we need each other, we will carry on. Or else I will move on
Well I guess this is her life. Since she has encountered many situation since young, I guess not both of you will know what's going on in future and just go along and deal with it later kind of thinking.

As she gets older her choice of selection will be lesser and will try to hang on to one when it comes by. Likewise as you gets older you will know what is good for you as well.

Take Care.

[justl00king]

bro, I'm doing fulltime trading on my own, so no need to take leave. My future plan much depend on both of us. As long as we need each other, we will carry on. Or else I will move on

Good luck bro, wish u the best of luck with everything
Have a fun trip! ;)

[porscheclub]

Bro Korean, so when are you going?

Keep us updated alright. Just remember, a woman who truly loves you will help you to save money. The rest will depend on your 6th sense ;)

[korean]

Bro Korean, so when are you going?

Keep us updated alright. Just remember, a woman who truly loves you will help you to save money. The rest will depend on your 6th sense ;)

1st visit next month. time should be sufficient to meet her mum in her hometown at least. By then her dad should be in sz so may or may not go sz to meet her dad b4 flying back from sz to sg. thx bro for ur advice, I will remember tat.

[Uncle2015]

It saved me once, perhaps you could try. Leave your credit cards and ATM cards at home. That way, your maximum exposure is limited.

1st visit next month. time should be sufficient to meet her mum in her hometown at least. By then her dad should be in sz so may or may not go sz to meet her dad b4 flying back from sz to sg. thx bro for ur advice, I will remember tat.

[korean]

It saved me once, perhaps you could try. Leave your credit cards and ATM cards at home. That way, your maximum exposure is limited.

lol, good advice. i got zero credit now in my credit card, I dont have much cash too. MOre importantly my gf not tat type of person :p

[Nato17]

lol, good advice. i got zero credit now in my credit card, I dont have much cash too. MOre importantly my gf not tat type of person :p

Your gf too understanding. When is my gf going to be understanding? lol. :D

[korean]

Your gf too understanding. When is my gf going to be understanding? lol. :D

You have one too bro, treasure her :)

[korean]

One bro chatted me up few days ago asking how's my life in China. I'm in the midst of settling the shits over here and it takes time so most likely I will only move over to prc earlier next year if everything go smoothly. I went to cq city to meet her for few days, and I did meet her younger relatives who r still studying in U. I did not meet her parents in her hometown as after many rounds of discussion with her we think it is best for me to at least file for divorce first b4 meeting her parents. We have no intention to lie to her parents as much as we can. She asks me to visit her parents during cny '17 as her parents kept pestering her to bring me home. The trip was fun, food are nice as i like sichuan cuisine and those spicy stuffs.With limited time we only manage to go to 4 tourist spots near the city which are nothing too fantastic for me. Next time I should visit the more rural area with much better scenary.

[justl00king]

One bro chatted me up few days ago asking how's my life in China. I'm in the midst of settling the shits over here and it takes time so most likely I will only move over to prc earlier next year if everything go smoothly.
Happy for u bro.
The last time I was there, kinda surprised on the low prices, like eating out n stuff.
Cost of living quite low, should be able to live comfortably without spending too much.

[korean]

Happy for u bro.
The last time I was there, kinda surprised on the low prices, like eating out n stuff.
Cost of living quite low, should be able to live comfortably without spending too much.

which province bro? ya food is not expensive as compared to sg. I think it depends on location too.Winter clothes r expensive over there though, and the import goods.

[a2014]

The trip was fun, food are nice as i like sichuan cuisine and those spicy stuffs.With limited time we only manage to go to 4 tourist spots near the city which are nothing too fantastic for me. Next time I should visit the more rural area with much better scenary.
@korean, sichuan cost of living is going up, further north is still cheaper but cold weather. However scenary is good.

[korean]

@korean, sichuan cost of living is going up, further north is still cheaper but cold weather. However scenary is good.

understand tat town area is cheaper by lot if compared to city area even in the same province

[jameschong1]

It saved me once, perhaps you could try. Leave your credit cards and ATM cards at home. That way, your maximum exposure is limited.
uncle, u are talking cock!
last time I went to gf's house in china, I make clear to them I have the $$$ to throw. they can ask for my $$$ but everything come at a price.
they know we Singaporean r not stupid, very businessman. in the end, they just eat & take what shit I give them
of course not everyone has the saki, she of property consultants

[korean]

uncle, u are talking cock!
last time I went to gf's house in china, I make clear to them I have the $$$ to throw. they can ask for my $$$ but everything come at a price.
they know we Singaporean r not stupid, very businessman. in the end, they just eat & take what shit I give them
of course not everyone has the saki, she of property consultants

pls respect uncle opinion bro, and I dont get what u r trying to tell us here :confused:

[a2014]

pls respect uncle opinion bro, and I dont get what u r trying to tell us here :confused:
Actually it's not a matter of leaving the credit card at home or tell people how much money you can spend. It's all about how you control your wallet while there.

Not necessary everyone are bad but I guess man being man, love to show off to their partner they can afford it and some ladies being very calculative may calculate every single moment with you, therefore if two hands happen to clap, good luck to all who clap.

There are always cases that you will meet exceptional. A love relationship is not something that you can talk or settle with money or sex. If money and sex is the issue then better not to go for that relationship. Lets not talk about who is smarter to outwit the lady money expectation. If you are to fall into that trap, whether you bring credit card or telling people how much you can spend it of no use, you will ultimately fall into the trap and still get burn.

Take Care.

[korean]

Actually it's not a matter of leaving the credit card at home or tell people how much money you can spend. It's all about how you control your wallet while there.

Not necessary everyone are bad but I guess man being man, love to show off to their partner they can afford it and some ladies being very calculative may calculate every single moment with you, therefore if two hands happen to clap, good luck to all who clap.

There are always cases that you will meet exceptional. A love relationship is not something that you can talk or settle with money or sex. If money and sex is the issue then better not to go for that relationship. Lets not talk about who is smarter to outwit the lady money expectation. If you are to fall into that trap, whether you bring credit card or telling people how much you can spend it of no use, you will ultimately fall into the trap and still get burn.

Take Care.

Fully agree bro :)

[jameschong1]

Fully agree bro :)

u cannot understand but u agree? wat the fuck u talking?
u real koeran or machiam bedek Korean?

[korean]

u cannot understand but u agree? wat the fuck u talking?
u real koeran or machiam bedek Korean?

it is time for u to see doctor bro, did I say I dont understand? But i'm not sure u should see eye or brain specialist or both...perhaps psychologist as well...:rolleyes::D:eek:

I cannot understand what u'd replied to bro uncle2015 but I agree with bro a2014, it is two separate thing can u understand or not :p

[jameschong1]

it is time for u to see doctor bro, did I say I dont understand? But i'm not sure u should see eye or brain specialist or both...perhaps psychologist as well...:rolleyes::D:eek:

I cannot understand what u'd replied to bro uncle2015 but I agree with bro a2014, it is two separate thing can u understand or not :p

kan ni nah mam mi dah

[korean]

kan ni nah mam mi dah

Ham ga chan :D