date a fl

[jinwolves]

Guys. Is it wise to ask a fl out for dinner or movie?

[Captainoceania77]

No..............

[archer69]

No..............

Why not? They are also human, and need to be sure there is a chemistry otherwise forget it.

[Archerguard]

Guys. Is it wise to ask a fl out for dinner or movie?

so long both are comfortable and as long it is purely for the fun and company.. why not?

enjoy! :)

[loneyheart]

They r here to make more money no time for love beware tio KC

[samdiy]

Guys. Is it wise to ask a fl out for dinner or movie?
First you must ask yourself whether you can afford it. They may charge you $100 for 1 hour, which is $400 for 4 hours (opportunity cost for them what), dinner may set you back another $100 and that is $500 before hotel and tips.

[sammyboyfor]

Guys. Is it wise to ask a fl out for dinner or movie?

You've been a member since 2009 and you still have not read my signature link??? :rolleyes:

Are you that desperate for company that you need to scrape the bottom the barrel and date a WHORE???? :eek:

[taitaikunu]

You've been a member since 2009 and you still have not read my signature link??? :rolleyes:

Are you that desperate for company that you need to scrape the bottom the barrel and date a WHORE???? :eek:

Boss,
Some people are looking for escort services type.....I call it buying time.....:)
Nothing wrong with that...right?.....selling time is also a service.....right?

Cheers.

[sammyboyfor]

Boss,
Some people are looking for escort services type.....I call it buying time.....:)
Nothing wrong with that...right?.....selling time is also a service.....right?

Cheers.

It's a complete waste of money. Just fuck them and be done with it.

[conquer]

It is unwise to date a hoe. But if you have extra cash but don't know where to spend, you may try. It helps to cultivate better GFE when you shove her pussy next time.

However, this is like playing with fire. It may be fun, but you may end up getting yourself burnt. We have seen many uncles got their CPF wiped off by the PRC hoes. :(

[aries]

Look at yourself in the mirror first. Are you young, tall and handsome. fashionably dressed. Otherwise there is always hidden agenda when she goes out with u. They will ask u for iphone, branded stuff. Maybe bring u to china town to remit your $ to china. this i saw it with my own eyes. One fat local uncle with a sexy PRC MILF at a remittance shop.

btw i was offer a few time by prc syt to go out drinking/ movies. All i rejected.

If u still wants to go out, make your escape once they bring u into any high end shops.:D Maybe says u need to go toilet. & never contact ever her again.:D

Having said that if u are filthy rich then go ahead. Who cares....

[maxsee]

Their main purpose is probably to milk you dry...:D:D:D

[porscheclub]

Well, if they don't charge u by the hour then go ahead & fly the moment they hint you to buy presents.

I've dated many hostesses, some paid but usually free after they like you. We go out after their working hours, off days or when they don't have bookings & sometimes we chiong other bars or discos as a group for fun just like friends.

Don't think too much about it, treat them like friends & you may just score. In fact, I even attended one singer's wedding in China! Her hubby probably doesn't know she was a FL but I never slept with her :p

#1 rule of engagement: Don't put in too much & you won't get hurt.
#2 They've seen more men than you've ever dated so they can smell every move you're thinking of.
#3 Forget about having a relationship. Your mind will be screwed once you crossed the line & it will be expensive because you'll be a full-time customer!

[iceage]

Guys. Is it wise to ask a fl out for dinner or movie?

You should ask yourself this question first. What is the end goal?

Begins with the end in mind. Once you decided your end goal, then ask yourself whether it is wise to ask a fl out for dinner or movie?

[wonderfix]

Well, if they don't charge u by the hour then go ahead & fly the moment they hint you to buy presents.

I've dated many hostesses, some paid but usually free after they like you. We go out after their working hours, off days or when they don't have bookings & sometimes we chiong other bars or discos as a group for fun just like friends.

Don't think too much about it, treat them like friends & you may just score. In fact, I even attended one singer's wedding in China! Her hubby probably doesn't know she was a FL but I never slept with her :p

#1 rule of engagement: Don't put in too much & you won't get hurt.
#2 They've seen more men than you've ever dated so they can smell every move you're thinking of.
#3 Forget about having a relationship. Your mind will be screwed once you crossed the line & it will be expensive because you'll be a full-time customer!

Clap clap clap. One of the well said statement I've seen bro.

[Boinkboinkboink]

#3 Forget about having a relationship. Your mind will be screwed once you crossed the line & it will be expensive because you'll be a full-time customer!

Sounds like any other r/s-cum-marriage don't u think? :D

[GingerEm]

Honestly, I wouldn't recommend it. I have had offers to go for dinner and what not and I have politely declined all invitations.

It is my personal policy to separate work from play and we definitely don't mix our FL assignments with our heart.

If you end up falling in love with us, it'll get super messy on YOUR end - even if she's a decent girl and you might just end up hating her instead when she chooses to continue working over being with you.

[Xyberduke]

I have a different opinion.

through this forum, I engaged a FL for sex last year.
I wanted 4pm (then massage, then get home by 8pm to avoid suspicion that day). She was only available at 7pm.
Had a hard time to arrange for a unique 6:45pm as her 6pm customer was a regular quick-shot (haha).

At 3pm, she sms-ed me to say she can do 4pm and we did it. SMS-es came fast-and-furious during out session.
When we ended, she saw that her 5,6pm customers flew aeroplane. I had time to spare and we had dinner together like friends, a bit more body contact though, can't help it...

We continued to have meals before or after sessions nowadays and she even bring along her friends, some of whom are also FLs...They are pretty open about it even to those friends who are working as waitress or sales assistant here. Those after sex dinner can last till late with her friends at those Chinese restaurant along geylang...

Nowadays, when I try to book, she will even call her friends to ask who is available for me when she is not. And reply me, so and so can but she cannot, want to wait for her until xxxxhrs or not? Sometimes when I call her friends, she will also sms me to ask whether I have forgotten her jokingly and she wants to be booked by me within a week or must buy her a meal. And they all joke about me in bed when having meals, how fast how lousy blah blah blah even if their non-FL friends are around.


With my constraints in time to avoid suspicions, I like this arrangement. And since my excuse is always having meals and drinks with khakis, going home smelling of food is good.

So go ahead and have meals with FLs and movies with them. The sex will get more intimate, booking will get easier, but make sure you pay everytime without fail.

[fauste]

I have a different opinion.

through this forum, I engaged a FL for sex last year.
I wanted 4pm (then massage, then get home by 8pm to avoid suspicion that day). She was only available at 7pm.
Had a hard time to arrange for a unique 6:45pm as her 6pm customer was a regular quick-shot (haha).

At 3pm, she sms-ed me to say she can do 4pm and we did it. SMS-es came fast-and-furious during out session.
When we ended, she saw that her 5,6pm customers flew aeroplane. I had time to spare and we had dinner together like friends, a bit more body contact though, can't help it...

We continued to have meals before or after sessions nowadays and she even bring along her friends, some of whom are also FLs...They are pretty open about it even to those friends who are working as waitress or sales assistant here. Those after sex dinner can last till late with her friends at those Chinese restaurant along geylang...

Nowadays, when I try to book, she will even call her friends to ask who is available for me when she is not. And reply me, so and so can but she cannot, want to wait for her until xxxxhrs or not? Sometimes when I call her friends, she will also sms me to ask whether I have forgotten her jokingly and she wants to be booked by me within a week or must buy her a meal. And they all joke about me in bed when having meals, how fast how lousy blah blah blah even if their non-FL friends are around.


With my constraints in time to avoid suspicions, I like this arrangement. And since my excuse is always having meals and drinks with khakis, going home smelling of food is good.

So go ahead and have meals with FLs and movies with them. The sex will get more intimate, booking will get easier, but make sure you pay everytime without fail.

Do her friends offer to pay for their share, otherwise it seems like she's taking advantage of you though.

[ChuaWeiTing]

FL no good

[ringo6668]

My personal view is i will not spend that kind of money even if i could for a FL.I rather go to other joint....Touch n go.:D

[Xjohney]

#3 Forget about having a relationship. Your mind will be screwed once you crossed the line & it will be expensive because you'll be a full-time customer![/QUOTE]

Hi Bros,
I want to share my story with a PRC who i practically raised from 19 years of age till 26-27 in China, and finally i was thrown out like waste paper. We kept separating every 2-3 years and she went to Singapore each time, then we kept new terms of raising her (obviously better 生活费 a nice rented house better care, paying for her insurance etc). She kept telling me she loved me and we also had extreme 操架 and would not see each other for one two days but then she would come back (I think she was bargaining time) or i went back, in fact i loved her.

Finally last December she left me and is now in LionCity and working as KTV girl, she has clients since 2009 she keeps going out with them for extra money to Hotel 81 or nearby Singapore.

Story starts from 2006 December....
I felt pathetic until last few months, started loosing weight, appetite, felt miserable without her, but now i am improving and taking care of my health. I must have spent nothing less then atlesat 1.5-2.0M yuan over her till date and the end result is a slap on my face with a lesson to learn.

Bros in serious relationship with those PRC FL or WL must find out if the Girl really loves you or is Milking you. (Most of us are being milked cause our brains are controlled by our 小弟 this is where the term DICK HEAD was invented)

I still am a dickhead somewhere, trying to control my emotions towards her.

This is a 8-9 Year long story, if i ever have enough courage, I am going to put on SBF as a whole novel.

Take care Bros and do not forget Sammyboy's
Rule No. 4
Whores are for fucking not loving. Just fuck them and be done with it.

[1118]

#3 Forget about having a relationship. Your mind will be screwed once you crossed the line & it will be expensive because you'll be a full-time customer!

Hi Bros,
I want to share my story with a PRC who i practically raised from 19 years of age till 26-27 in China, and finally i was thrown out like waste paper. We kept separating every 2-3 years and she went to Singapore each time, then we kept new terms of raising her (obviously better 生活费 a nice rented house better care, paying for her insurance etc). She kept telling me she loved me and we also had extreme 操架 and would not see each other for one two days but then she would come back (I think she was bargaining time) or i went back, in fact i loved her.

Finally last December she left me and is now in LionCity and working as KTV girl, she has clients since 2009 she keeps going out with them for extra money to Hotel 81 or nearby Singapore.

Story starts from 2006 December....
I felt pathetic until last few months, started loosing weight, appetite, felt miserable without her, but now i am improving and taking care of my health. I must have spent nothing less then atlesat 1.5-2.0M yuan over her till date and the end result is a slap on my face with a lesson to learn.

Bros in serious relationship with those PRC FL or WL must find out if the Girl really loves you or is Milking you. (Most of us are being milked cause our brains are controlled by our 小弟 this is where the term DICK HEAD was invented)

I still am a dickhead somewhere, trying to control my emotions towards her.

This is a 8-9 Year long story, if i ever have enough courage, I am going to put on SBF as a whole novel.

Take care Bros and do not forget Sammyboy's
Rule No. 4
Whores are for fucking not loving. Just fuck them and be done with it.[/QUOTE]

please share your story here, i love stories.
I really wonder why some guys can fall head over heels over some FLs, maybe i am not in this situation before.

[Xjohney]

Hi Bros,
please share your story here, i love stories.
I really wonder why some guys can fall head over heels over some FLs, maybe i am not in this situation before.

Thanks Bro,
It was a mere contribution to this post, like other bros have their share of experience, i felt i do have similar situations. Some people learn harder way i am one of them. I found out my girl fucking others, still i forgave her and took her into my arms. But i think PRC crop of WL or FL is similar kind of seeds all have. So same attitude, behavior same needs, same tantrums same fucking expensive gifts high class restaurants, on top of all they will pretend as virgins born yesterday.

Bro I said if i have 'courage' i will put in to words and share with bros but not so early. it is a 7-8 years experience so i have to recollect my memories.

Till then take care....:cool:

[cocky1234]

tbh.. if a fl promised not to do this line.. I think i will give her a chance. who am i to judge her? maybe she is good heart n into fl out of desperation.

i also patron prostitutes as n when, does that makes me sound good of myself if i never tell my partner?

[a2014]

Thanks Bro,
I found out my girl fucking others, still i forgave her and took her into my arms. But i think PRC crop of WL or FL is similar kind of seeds all have. So same attitude, behavior same needs, same tantrums same fucking expensive gifts high class restaurants, on top of all they will pretend as virgins born yesterday.

They come here to make some money to bring home, unless you can provide her the expected income on the monthly basis, otherwise I guess she can only go hunting behind your back. Looks like you are providing her some stable income on monthly basis all along. The only question that you may have to consider is, if you kept her as a lover then there is nothing much she can say other than hang around and hunt around. You should know, if she do not open her legs for other man, do you think they will give her money just by sitting around for lunch and dinner. You may not think that way, but others may not.

Be it a WL or FL or a simple PRC girl coming here to work, once the get to know some friends in the WL and FL trade they will naturally know how to work around while they are here. Even if you provide everything for her, she may feel in-debt to you but will still hunt around, maybe you are the priority that's all.

if a fl promised not to do this line.. I think i will give her a chance. who am i to judge her? maybe she is good heart n into fl out of desperation.

Assuming you can get her a factory job, she will still go around with those few old customer of hers as her income has been cap. They may still keep in contact and call her once in a while, may be or may be not for her service. This will not change, they can only tell you "YOU CANNOT MARRY SO HOW?" I guess it is hard to love this category of ladies as we really don't know to what extend we can close both eyes and both ears.

Those who are into this situation do take care.

[cocky1234]

at Bro a2014.

hmm... maybe what you said is true also, cannot tell if fl is really quit. But if local fl how ? will she really quit this trade and settle down ? i meet a local fl and RTF her few times, then got share our personal thoughts about relationship,

she said if she can find a stable BF (not sure she meant by money stable BF or other kind of stable) and she will quit this trade. I abit silly, used my small head to think and told her i wont mind to accept FL as my wife. surprisingly after head what i told her, she give me extra service, allow bbbj and let me fuck her without cap for that time. :):):D

[Boinkboinkboink]

This will not change, they can only tell you "YOU CANNOT MARRY SO HOW?" I guess it is hard to love this category of ladies as we really don't know to what extend we can close both eyes and both ears.


Anomaly does exist, but way to hard to find one, right? :D

[Shadow_warrior]

alamak dating a FL is crazy bro.

see my post is in my signature for all the bros to read. I repost for you.

My ex "gf" is ex FL

These are the issues I faced when I first started with her

1. She lies about her past or tells you half diluted truth. Even if its true, you wonder if she is lying
2. You worry about embarassement. She has worked for 2 years, wearing LV, prada, branded, goes to casino, how many cocks has she fucked, handjob, sucked, how many people have screwed her, sucked her, seen her nude etc...
- This happens when you start to have feelings for her. You worry that the coffeeshop old uncle, or the young army punk has fucked her.
3. You think its great sex, connection, GFE(sounds familiar brothers???) but then again, she has had alot of practice, daily practice on many guys, all races, colours, sizes, age. If you are married, I was, you think its better sex than with your wife. Yes it is, because your wife doesnt fuck men daily for breakfast, lunch, dinner, supper
4. Character- often they lie, and have character issues. Smoke, drink, take drugs, flirt, gamble. Bad tempered. Many times single mother, was knocked up by some ah beng who ran off. Has tattoos. Might have worked at the so called Fei Ji Chang, doing handjobs first, or hostress or escort, being Bao by married men or rich men- or all these before they end up being a full fledged WL/FL
5. Doing raw, how many of you do with protection with your gf or wife? If your gf is a ex FL, do with condom all the time, no matter what she says. I didnt get any stds or hivs, but I believe there was a bout of jock itch, that was thanks to her. I had to get a cream from mustapha $5-6 to sort out the damp and itchy stuff. Dragged her to the doctor again and again, to blood test, and found she had an yeast infection.
6. You dont become a FL because you are forced. At least not if she is singaporean. Forced because she has debts(loanshark, gambling) etc...is liken to the 3 ladies being forced to have oral and sex with SCDF chief- BS. The ex husband came out to say his ex gf is decent, dont wear make up- Cmon, total bullocks. Its a choice- a greed for money by selling her body, its the easy way. But look at her character, she is willing to open her leg for money instead of work a decent job. It should tell you her value system.
But the flip side, if you screwing a FL, we aint not saints either.
7. Sex you have great sex with her, you worry if she has had better, bigger and screamed louder. You want to know, but it hurts you to ask.

Fast forward, towards the end, the sex becomes, like all relationships, same, boring. And you ask yourself why the fuck did you fall in love with someone from that world. And you ask yourself what you had lost, given up, and sacrificed- was it worth it?

Sex is sex, love is love. You want GFE, you can pay for it and get it anywhere. The guys she fucked got what you got too, passion, GFE, etc...might have even got more. Because if she is your gf, she can say she is tired, dont want to swallow, condoms make her painful, so when you fuck her you need to pull up and not shoot in etc...And you have to do more, you think you getting free fuck? You pay with handphone bills, buying her stuff, paying for her food, driving her around...and if you are married, pay with your marriage- when your wife finds out you fucked a WL.

My advice, never "fall" in love with a WL, FL, fall in lust- okay. Screw the hell out of her, keep your wallet tight, and dont ever give up on anything.

All relationships are selfish, you want something, so does she. She wouldnt be thinking whether its too much to do this or that, so dont come down hard on yourself to treat her as a FL.

Never fall in love with a FL, WL, ex or not.

[sammyboyfor]

Never fall in love with a FL, WL, ex or not.

The solution is simple..... WHORES ARE FOR FUCKING NOT LOVING. JUST FUCK THEM AND BE DONE WITH IT. :D

[Notary]

My mum used to tell me "I eat salt more than you eat rice"
A whore could tell me "I eat penises more than you eat rice"


With the above statement, I don't see how could anyone really go into a real dating relationship with a whore. But if it rocks your boat, then enjoy yourself.


Don't forget to share with us your FR after your first date.
Cheers!

[korean]

Experience of dating a fl much depend whether she see you as carrot or not, just like your gf and wife. No need to be so fuss about it. Just that chance of treat you as carrot is much higher than ur wife n gf.for my experience at least those I dated are more generous (treat me meals, gifts) than my wife. But again sign judge a person and relationship purely on money only.

[Xjohney]

alamak dating a FL is crazy bro.

My advice, never "fall" in love with a WL, FL, fall in lust- okay. Screw the hell out of her, keep your wallet tight, and dont ever give up on anything.

All relationships are selfish, you want something, so does she. She wouldnt be thinking whether its too much to do this or that, so dont come down hard on yourself to treat her as a FL.

Never fall in love with a FL, WL, ex or not.

Bro S_W, i feel the entire post had each n every word connected to me and spoken for me. Only thing she never was debt ridden. She has hunger for money, Hi Society (though she is only 中学failed) Expensive gifts. Dreams to be something Popular.
but all rest words are word to word fit for her.
Salute you bro. Expert...:cool::cool:

[Boinkboinkboink]

Experience of dating a fl much depend whether she see you as carrot or not, just like your gf and wife.

Judgment could change over time, and vice versa for either or both parties in any r/s, I believe.

[korean]

Judgment could change over time, and vice versa for either or both parties in any r/s, I believe.

u r rite bro

[Shadow_warrior]

Bro S_W, i feel the entire post had each n every word connected to me and spoken for me. Only thing she never was debt ridden. She has hunger for money, Hi Society (though she is only 中学failed) Expensive gifts. Dreams to be something Popular.
but all rest words are word to word fit for her.
Salute you bro. Expert...:cool::cool:

experience mah, anyway, go find a better girl lah. life so hard, need to work, stress, relationship still want to stress meh? Expensive= stress

Went out with a Miss Singapore, everytime want to buy things, so she want to buy I fuck her one time. End up its really not good sex, so after 10k, I end it. Everything cannot, lick cannot, different position cannot, suck cannot.
Just trophy girl loh.
WL is not, you want her experience, if she don't give you good time after you together, can forget it already, same as other girl.