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submachine
13-09-2015, 10:53 PM
I would be doing an experiment to test if I am able to abstain from any form of sexual pleasure derived from watching porn, masturbation and having sex activities for 1 month.

From what I recall, the longest period I have tahan from cumming was 2 weeks of overseas ICT. Other than that, I usually do not last for more than 3 days without some form of sexual pleasure.

Have any bros tried such an abstinence before? And for how long?

I shall be documenting how I feel from time to time during this 1 month and write them down before I post them on this thread.

Not going to log in for a whole month, starting from this coming Tuesday. Hope I can succeed! It is going to be really tough, considering I can have access to these very easily.

I don't have a good idea on what to expect during this journey. I know I will feel horny but must overcome the feeling with very strong discipline. I think I may feel very frustrated along the way too. I read somewhere that not cumming for a long time is not very good for health but maybe 1 month should be alright.

But I think there will be some benefits too, like more time to do other things, save a bit of money.

Wish me luck! At the end of it, maybe I can share with bros here my experience and some takeaway lessons.

curious11
13-09-2015, 11:45 PM
All the best man!

roflmaolol
14-09-2015, 01:13 AM
My longest is 4 month, no porn no PCC, no sex (also no gf lah). The biggest difference I feel alot more energetic, and my weightlifting increase dramatically. Morning wood hard like fuck also. Cleared my blueballs not long after attached.

You can google nofap, alot information. But a lot of them actually encourage sex, more of anti porn/anti PCC.

w00f
14-09-2015, 10:13 AM
When you are young, fuck more! When you are getting older, less fuck!:D

PayFuckForget
14-09-2015, 11:09 AM
All the best bro!
It must be really hard!

http://livedoor.blogimg.jp/tontonkure/imgs/4/a/4ad47f55.jpg

newswing
14-09-2015, 11:41 AM
I have abstain from all form of sexual activity for 6 to 8 months. It was not easy. No masturbation but have wet dreams and filthy. During this period of time, i exercise , read, listen to music. Basically just having a healthy lifestyle.
Good luck!

ChickenRun
14-09-2015, 11:47 AM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FZ0XcMGej4o

misty_devil
14-09-2015, 05:02 PM
Good luck TS . You need a lot of self control . :)

OnOffPreggy
14-09-2015, 05:11 PM
I have abstain from all form of sexual activity for 6 to 8 months. It was not easy. No masturbation but have wet dreams and filthy. During this period of time, i exercise , read, listen to music. Basically just having a healthy lifestyle.
Good luck!

Wow, really have self control :D

Moderator88
14-09-2015, 07:28 PM
OMG!Having Sex is not a healthy lifestyle meh?:rolleyes:

rh8611
14-09-2015, 08:07 PM
Whats the objective ??

submachine
14-09-2015, 09:01 PM
All the best man!

Thanks bro

My longest is 4 month, no porn no PCC, no sex (also no gf lah). The biggest difference I feel alot more energetic, and my weightlifting increase dramatically. Morning wood hard like fuck also. Cleared my blueballs not long after attached.

You can google nofap, alot information. But a lot of them actually encourage sex, more of anti porn/anti PCC.

Wow bro, 4 months! Must be very torturous. Hats off to you!

All the best bro!
It must be really hard!


Thanks bro. Yes, I can foresee it to be really tough.

I have abstain from all form of sexual activity for 6 to 8 months. It was not easy. No masturbation but have wet dreams and filthy. During this period of time, i exercise , read, listen to music. Basically just having a healthy lifestyle.
Good luck!

Bro, your self discipline level must have shot off the roof! How you actually pull it off?

Good luck TS . You need a lot of self control . :)

Thanks bro.

Whats the objective ??

Good question. I am also not sure why I want to start something like that. Maybe to experience a different way of life. Life is there for you to experience it differently. Sometimes when you try out something new, you can gain new perspective of yourself.

Seems like bros who tried to abstain from anything sexual also tried to lead a healthy lifestyle. Maybe I should also try.

Thanks once again for all the encouragement. I am only going to try this out for 1 month, not like some bros so garang go for so many months. This is likely my last post for now. Will be back in a month and hopefully I can pull it off!

porscheclub
14-09-2015, 09:18 PM
Good idea. Please share your experience.

I've never gone past a month in memory & Tao teaches us to withhold ejaculation even in sex to maintain youth.

alec
14-09-2015, 11:15 PM
Mine was about 1yr++ sometime ago due to relationship problems with OC, Don't have $ go stables so kept myself super busy instead... Did had wet dreams during that period but only to wake up feeling sad

conquer
14-09-2015, 11:35 PM
Install one of this to your cock... and throw the key to the sea. You can abstain sex for whole lifetime. :cool:

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STARLORDABC
15-09-2015, 08:59 AM
Install one of this to your cock... and throw the key to the sea. You can abstain sex for whole lifetime. :cool:

http://i01.i.aliimg.com/wsphoto/v0/32216630923_1/Cb-6000s-Cb-6000-Metal-Male-Chastity-Device-Adult-Sex-Toys-Penis-Male-Defend-Chastity-Belt.jpg

Good idea. But still can find locksmith remove. Only way is cut it offff hahahaha joking all the best bro !

iNotChioBu
15-09-2015, 11:10 AM
Can contain the erection?

freezetheDB
16-09-2015, 03:46 PM
Objective I guess is to refrain or reduce masturbation and porn once reach adulthood. Have sex instead.

submachine
10-11-2015, 08:58 PM
Hello all bros

I am back to share my experiences. I documented them once every few days. There is a twist to the duration of my experiment. You can read from the next few posts the feelings I have which led to some decisions made.

Day 0

I actually did not have any plans to look up on the Internet about abstinence until a bro here recommended me to look it up. Read some of the posts by likeminded bros and checked out some YouTube videos of personal experiences. It was then that I realised many of them did it because they felt that they were excessively addicted to porn and it was reducing their quality of life.

One very interesting observation was that although the abstinence from porn and wanking was the objective, the part on having sex was non existent. Meaning to say, those guys would talk about not masturbating from watching porn but at the same time hinting that they are in relationships. It was not obvious if they are specifically refraining cumming from masturbation or refraining from cumming completely.

Other stuff are discussed too, like "triggers" but I shall not talk about it.

I also felt that the more I read, the more confused I would become. So I stopped.

With a very uncertain mood, I just told myself, "let's get on with it and see how!"

submachine
13-11-2015, 09:55 AM
Day 1 to 4

When I actually started, there wasn't any sort of closure from the normal lifestyle. It just happened like that. I did not think too much and carried on with life as per normal. Occasionally, when I have the urge to watch the thing, then I reminded myself that I am currently in this process, and just a split second thought to refrain, I manage to do it and moved on.

I remember a study saying that men think about sex 4-10 times per day. I guess I am in the normal range but just that I did not try to satisfy that urge.

Free time alone was the period where such thoughts are more common. I could have typed in a site in my mobile phone or PC, and access NSFW stuff easily. Again, I managed to resist the temptation rather easily too.

I like watching entertainment news videos and occasionally, I would see sexily dressed celebrities, which made it hard but still, everything seemed under control.

While outside, I still look at pretty girls or girls who dressed skimpily. I think this part is hard to change because who does not love the sight of beautiful things? But looking at them did not have a direct impact or trigger any urge within me to jerk it out. So not much of an issue too.

Emotionally, I felt quite calm but dampened too. When your mind imposed something against what you are used to for so many years, I think there is bound to be a strong reaction to it. I noticed myself feeling very subdued and not in the mood to do many things. Plus work was stressful and life was not going my way for many things, I felt weird.

Physically, nothing much changed. Didn't get any sort of erection or hard wood in the morning.

Many claimed that after 1 week, not cumming would make you feel god-like. Based on the progress of the first few days, didn't feel like it.

Flying Snow
13-11-2015, 02:35 PM
Was your experiment successful ?