Looking for a real sugar daddy

[peanutbutterjel]

Hi all. This is an update to the first post.

First and foremost , sex will be excluded in the relationship.

After some exchanges, I feel I'm more suited as a friend and companion.

Second, to refine the search for each other.

I'm:
In my mid-late 20s.
Petite.
Pleasant-looking.
Pleasant demeanor.

You're:
In your late 20s/early 30s
Pleasant-looking With good character.

Looking for sds who are seeking out a companionship relationship for emotional gratification rather than the need for physical pleasure and satisfaction.

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Looking for a real sugar daddy

A kept woman shouldn't be treated like a possession, chattel or employee.

The arrangement might be 'unconventional', but it’s still a relationship; it’s not just a business transaction.

The relationship is about willfully fulfilling each other’s needs with something you can easily give.

A 'real' sugar daddy will not become intimate too quickly with his sugar baby.

He will take the time to get to know each other and to build a rapport with his partner.

I understand you're not a boyfriend or husband, but more like 'a knight in shining armor.'

And you're giving the gift of showing someone the world.

I'm nice-looking, kind, and sweet. You're decent-looking, kind, and a true gentleman.

I will take the time to understand you, make the effort to put a smile on your face, and hold you at your weakest.

If you're seeking a relationship, you can email me [email protected].

[oxeso]

Looking for a real sugar daddy.

Miss ur posts, sis. Best of luck to ur search! :)

[Totallyuseless]

Ultimately ... How much u asking for???

[guess67]

Ultimately ... How much u asking for???

U can apply :D

[Totallyuseless]

U can apply :D

Me totallyuseless... :D

[zinedine zidane]

Must make upfront payment? :D

[justtohavefunhe]

Emailed :)

[Kavik]

Ya, n later tell u that a "real" SD will pay in advance cos he can afford it. Scams aplenty. Better be weary.

[clinton]

ts please clarify ... so many questions left here for real sds :D

[terminator33]

Looking for a real sugar daddy

A kept woman shouldn't be treated like a possession, chattel or employee.

The arrangement might be 'unconventional', but it’s still a relationship; it’s not just a business transaction.

The relationship is about willfully fulfilling each other’s needs with something you can easily give.

A 'real' sugar daddy will not become intimate too quickly with his sugar baby.

He will take the time to get to know each other and to build a rapport with his partner.

I understand you're not a boyfriend or husband, but more like 'a knight in shining armor.'

And you're giving the gift of showing someone the world.

I'm nice-looking, kind, and sweet. You're decent-looking, kind, and a true gentleman.

I will take the time to understand you, make the effort to put a smile on your face, and hold you at your weakest.

If you're seeking a relationship, you can email me [email protected].

I agree with the point that a 'real' sugar daddy will not become intimate too quickly with SB.

So a real SB will not ask for payment while sb/SD dating to know each other. SD can pay for all the food and drinks etc etc.. and until both comfortable enough to have sex - no payment.

If this is acceptable to sb,then it is fair arrangement.

[Ukay]

I agree with the point that a 'real' sugar daddy will not become intimate too quickly with SB.

So a real SB will not ask for payment while sb/SD dating to know each other. SD can pay for all the food and drinks etc etc.. and until both comfortable enough to have sex - no payment.

If this is acceptable to sb,then it is fair arrangement.

As long as she doesn't have sex with you, I doubt she will ask for any payment.

[masterwanker]

Got picture to show ?

[demonhunter]

Ai lui , Ai song but mai sio kan ....

:eek:

[Lamborghini]

Got picture to show ?

Good idea. :D

A picture or two to tease the potential SD. :p

Good luck.

[terminator33]

As long as she doesn't have sex with you, I doubt she will ask for any payment.

You doubt?

As long as no payment, potential sd won't mind. But it should not take too long as potentia SDs have choices

[happymike787]

Hi there,

What you have just written is a textbook description of a SD/SB relation. While these ideals are challenging, I guess can possibly be a reality.

Both parties need to have the chemistry and mutual attraction to start such a relationship and the maturity & compromising attitude to last....

I would very much like to experience such an adventure...hence I have written to you.

Hope to hear from you favourable...

[DanTheCow]

Hi there,

What you have just written is a textbook description of a SD/SB relation. While these ideals are challenging, I guess can possibly be a reality.

Both parties need to have the chemistry and mutual attraction to start such a relationship and the maturity & compromising attitude to last....

I would very much like to experience such an adventure...hence I have written to you.

Hope to hear from you favourable...

Well said.... I always felt that the definition of SD/SB relationship here on the forum is warped and moved so far from how these sort of relationships first started.... This evolution has made it such that a SB is no different than a 'working' girl.... A SD should be just paying for sex and all those upfront payments, etc... No different from FL.... SB/SD relationship... The money should be secondary.... And given out of the generosity of the SD.... And the SB is not with the SD purely for the money....

Anyways that's just my opinion... Doesn't really matter really... Hahaha... :p.

[FatSpider]

sound too good to be true
:rolleyes:

[discordpiggy]

Ai lui , Ai song but mai sio kan ....

:eek:

mai lui, gian song, ai sio kan :D

[terminator33]

Well said.... I always felt that the definition of SD/SB relationship here on the forum is warped and moved so far from how these sort of relationships first started.... This evolution has made it such that a SB is no different than a 'working' girl.... A SD should be just paying for sex and all those upfront payments, etc... No different from FL.... SB/SD relationship... The money should be secondary.... And given out of the generosity of the SD.... And the SB is not with the SD purely for the money....

Anyways that's just my opinion... Doesn't really matter really... Hahaha... :p.

Are you naive or not. Without money there won't be the relationship to start with.

[JohnWuSeh]

I support dan the cow . Sometimes he ding dong some times also funny. If I have points I up him Gao Gao

[DanTheCow]

Are you naive or not. Without money there won't be the relationship to start with.

Well... Then in that case all relationship are the same..... All need money.... Why dun you call your GF your SB then??

Then let me ask you then... What's the difference between a SB and an Escort??

[terminator33]

Well... Then in that case all relationship are the same..... All need money.... Why dun you call your GF your SB then??

Then let me ask you then... What's the difference between a SB and an Escort??

Escorts don't :

1. Escorts dont drink with you for hours on end - pouring hearts to each other

2. Escorts don't spend 2 days 2 nights with you in a hotel.

3. Escorts don't go bali with you

4. Escorts don't go bkk shopping with you

5. Escorts don't give u a bbbj while you are sleeping - in the wee hours of the morning

6 . Escorts don't watch movie with you when you suddenly feels like it

7. Escorts won't come out in the middle of the night to have supper with you.

There are still many things escorts won't do. But guess you get the drift.

[terminator33]

As i said without money the sd/sb relationship won't start. However once it got started, it may be sustainable on its own with less influence from money

[DanTheCow]

Escorts don't :

1. Escorts dont drink with you for hours on end - pouring hearts to each other

2. Escorts don't spend 2 days 2 nights with you in a hotel.

3. Escorts don't go bali with you

4. Escorts don't go bkk shopping with you

5. Escorts don't give u a bbbj while you are sleeping - in the wee hours of the morning

6 . Escorts don't watch movie with you when you suddenly feels like it

7. Escorts won't come out in the middle of the night to have supper with you.

There are still many things escorts won't do. But guess you get the drift.

Have you seen the posts for SD recently bro??!! Number of times a week/mth to meet... For how long.... What you can and cannot do.... Isn't that the same?? You want an escort to do all of the above mentioned things you said.... You can.... Just have to pay more.... So yeah... To me no difference how ppl view SB/SD relationships here.....

Bro... How you see SB/SD relationships is how it should be and what I mean... But not how most SB/SD posts are like here.... Get the drift??

[TwentySeven]

Quote danthecow, bro i understand where you are coming from, but i do not fully agree on that by offering more money escorts will willingly spend more time and do more things with you. Yes both use sexual services to change cash allowance, but for a escort some of them have those get it over and done mindset, a escort have pro/cons so does sb, for escort what are the chances of seeing the same person again and again so if she meets a bad client just get over it and wish for better one nexttime, for sb she has to be exclusive and also have the kc factor, no sd would wan a sb with 0kc factor. So i have to say end of the day sb and escort still has its differences. Danthecow u need to find a sb urself one time then u will understand.

[DanTheCow]

Quote danthecow, bro i understand where you are coming from, but i do not fully agree on that by offering more money escorts will willingly spend more time and do more things with you. Yes both use sexual services to change cash allowance, but for a escort some of them have those get it over and done mindset, a escort have pro/cons so does sb, for escort what are the chances of seeing the same person again and again so if she meets a bad client just get over it and wish for better one nexttime, for sb she has to be exclusive and also have the kc factor, no sd would wan a sb with 0kc factor. So i have to say end of the day sb and escort still has its differences. Danthecow u need to find a sb urself one time then u will understand.

Well... thats true I never had a SB before.... But then let me ask you... What makes you sure SB is exclusive if she sets how long you can see her or how many times a week you can meet her?? If she can take money from
1 SD to meet up Monday and Wednesday.... What makes you sure she can't take money from another SD for Tuesday and Thursday?? And more??

And just to make it clear... I am not trying to offend anyone... Just stating my point of view with many of the SB posts here looking for SD....

[terminator33]

Have you seen the posts for SD recently bro??!! Number of times a week/mth to meet... For how long.... What you can and cannot do.... Isn't that the same?? You want an escort to do all of the above mentioned things you said.... You can.... Just have to pay more.... So yeah... To me no difference how ppl view SB/SD relationships here.....

Bro... How you see SB/SD relationships is how it should be and what I mean... But not how most SB/SD posts are like here.... Get the drift??
Please find me an escort that will do all I listed for say 3k to 4k a month. I will give u 1k commission. If u can't find within a month u pay me $500?

Sweet Bo?

I can't comment on those conditions set but if sd worth his salt will not accept. The conditions set does not mean is real and actual.

If you think sb and escorts the same - obviously you haven't experienced it. The sd/sb may set some initial conditions but once the relationship starts adjustments can be made.

One of the initial condition I set is 1 overnight month. But when it starts overnight almost every week.

[truelover]

Well... thats true I never had a SB before.... But then let me ask you... What makes you sure SB is exclusive if she sets how long you can see her or how many times a week you can meet her?? If she can take money from
1 SD to meet up Monday and Wednesday.... What makes you sure she can't take money from another SD for Tuesday and Thursday?? And more??

And just to make it clear... I am not trying to offend anyone... Just stating my point of view with many of the SB posts here looking for SD....

Bro... you arent gonna married the SB.... Let her have her freedom to have a BF or even another SD if she is good at handling it.... saying they will be exculsive and actually doing it is very different lol....

And the setting on time and date to meet up. I always think of it who is the alpha in the arrangement. If you wanna take charge. Get someone who will be at ur beck and call. If you wanna be controlled more. Get someone that can do it.... they are not a slave to the Sd lol, it just how they chose act when with the SD.

It always a business arrangement in the end. Only differences is you are playing her to meet your expectation.

[terminator33]

Another thing to add. Money alone cannot make escorts do the things against her wish. Or the money will be prohibitively high. For sb there is more give and take.

[DanTheCow]

Bro... you arent gonna married the SB.... Let her have her freedom to have a BF or even another SD if she is good at handling it.... saying they will be exculsive and actually doing it is very different lol....

And the setting on time and date to meet up. I always think of it who is the alpha in the arrangement. If you wanna take charge. Get someone who will be at ur beck and call. If you wanna be controlled more. Get someone that can do it.... they are not a slave to the Sd lol, it just how they chose act when with the SD.

It always a business arrangement in the end. Only differences is you are playing her to meet your expectation.

Bro... I wasn't the one who mentioned exclusivity... Was just replying a bro who did... Hahaha... :p I dun want exclusivity... Cos if I ask for it, means I have to give it I guess... Ha hahahaha... :p

[DanTheCow]

Please find me an escort that will do all I listed for say 3k to 4k a month. I will give u 1k commission. If u can't find within a month u pay me $500?

Sweet Bo?

I can't comment on those conditions set but if sd worth his salt will not accept. The conditions set does not mean is real and actual.

If you think sb and escorts the same - obviously you haven't experienced it. The sd/sb may set some initial conditions but once the relationship starts adjustments can be made.

One of the initial condition I set is 1 overnight month. But when it starts overnight almost every week.

Wahhh... Sounds like a challenge... Hmmm.... Let me think abt it... Hahaha... :p

But by saying that, it implies that a SB is a more affordable Escort?? Hahaha... Ooppss.... Think I shouldn't say that.... :p

[terminator33]

Wahhh... Sounds like a challenge... Hmmm.... Let me think abt it... Hahaha... :p

But by saying that, it implies that a SB is a more affordable Escort?? Hahaha... Ooppss.... Think I shouldn't say that.... :p

Not really more expensive or cheaper. Sb has other costs like dining, drinking, travelling, possibly shopping and other incidentals. Escorts have much less of these.

On a per hr basis escort may cost more. But in absolute amount because the sb give you more you pay higher absolutely.

[DanTheCow]

Not really more expensive or cheaper. Sb has other costs like dining, drinking, travelling, possibly shopping and other incidentals. Escorts have much less of these.

On a per hr basis escort may cost more. But in absolute amount because the sb give you more you pay higher absolutely.

Hahaha... So technical... Well... Ok I shall humbly back away from this argument least I offend anyone.... :)

And since you such an expert and so experienced at SB/SD relationships/arrangements..... :p Poor man like me can't afford SBs.... :(

[terminator33]

Hahaha... So technical... Well... Ok I shall humbly back away from this argument least I offend anyone.... :)

And since you such an expert and so experienced at SB/SD relationships/arrangements..... :p Poor man like me can't afford SBs.... :(

Is not offending anyone. Just to correct misconception that sb = escorts.

The fact is sb is different from escort. It is not an easy relationship to maintain and to give due respect to the "true sb" - not those who ask for the sky and don't know their obligation. But to those genuine who earn their keep by providing more than what escorts can provide.

[DanTheCow]

Is not offending anyone. Just to correct misconception that sb = escorts.

The fact is sb is different from escort. It is not an easy relationship to maintain and to give due respect to the "true sb" - not those who ask for the sky and don't know their obligation. But to those genuine who earn their keep by providing more than what escorts can provide.

I know bro... You failed to see that I am comparing with some of the offers here to be SB.... Nmind... Forget it.... :(

[terminator33]

I know bro... You failed to see that I am comparing with some of the offers here to be SB.... Nmind... Forget it.... :(

Forget about offers until it materialised.

I have seen guys offering sb 20k. But it is nothing if there is no closure. The guy just disappeared - according to the potential sb.

I have seen gals asked for 8k but total CMI. I won't take even if free.

[DanTheCow]

Forget about offers until it materialised.

I have seen guys offering sb 20k. But it is nothing if there is no closure. The guy just disappeared - according to the potential sb.

I have seen gals asked for 8k but total CMI. I won't take even if free.

Ahh I see... Ok ok... No I have a better understanding of where you coming from... Hahaha.... :p But still I dun like making payments for these kinda things.... Dun mind paying for food, drinks, etc though.... :)

[peanutbutterjel]

Hi all. This is an update to the first post.

First and foremost , sex will be excluded in the relationship.

After some exchanges, I feel I'm more suited as a friend and companion.

Second, to refine the search for each other.

I'm:
In my 20s.
Petite.
Pleasant-looking.
Childlike demeanor.

You're:
In your 20s or 30s.
Tall.
Pleasant-looking.
With good character.

[guess67]

Need to pay?

[terminator33]

Hi all. This is an update to the first post.

First and foremost , sex will be excluded in the relationship.

After some exchanges, I feel I'm more suited as a friend and

good luck in your search

[DanTheCow]

Hi all. This is an update to the first post.

First and foremost , sex will be excluded in the relationship.

After some exchanges, I feel I'm more suited as a friend and companion.

Second, to refine the search for each other.

I'm:
In my 20s.
Petite.
Pleasant-looking.
Childlike demeanor.

You're:
In your 20s or 30s.
Tall.
Pleasant-looking.
With good character.

How tall is tall?? Hahaha... :p

[wet10wet]

His weakest moment will be his poorest days... that day you will probably disappear

[peanutbutterjel]

His weakest moment will be his poorest days... that day you will probably disappear

If he who has loved me as a friend, that day will be the day I treat him tea instead.

[DrPussy]

If he who has loved me as a friend, that day will be the day I treat him tea.

ooo good, sb provide tea during meet up, and sd provide $$$

like drink tea in food court :D

[DrPussy]

Need to pay?

sis u also apply ?

[guess67]

sis u also apply ?

I too poor to apply :p

[clinton]

I too poor to apply :p

sis u collect from SD and give out as SM, can have double happiness :D:D

[guess67]

sis u collect from SD and give out as SM, can have double happiness :D:D

I got no sd :D

[Botakhead]

I got no sd :D

Yeah, you're single and very capable, SM material.

[guess67]

Yeah, you're single and very capable, SM material.

Not sm leh :p i don't want later ah boy start to pm me :D

[peanutbutterjel]

Need to pay?

Females no need to give token of appreciation. Gender Biasness right there.

[Succubus]

TS, are you open to be with a couple instead of just a guy? PM if you are keen.

[peanutbutterjel]

TS, are you open to be with a couple instead of just a guy? PM if you are keen.

Couple also need an extra partner to date? Lacking one player for mahjong ? Or too much food and lack of chit chats. =D

[betta]

Hahaha!! :eek:
Any man to fall for this type of SB arrangement must be an Idiot!!

SB all full of shit!!

[zinedine zidane]

You looking for companionship or SD? How much compensation you looking at? If money is involved and you dont provide sex? If none of the above statement is true/correct, then just say you are here to make friends. The bros here will squeeze out every single seconds of their precious time just to meet you "as friends". Gd luck!

[peanutbutterjel]

Hihi I don't think this is full of shit and neither are the men who message me idiots. :)

It may sound odd. But that's only because it's not the norm idea of sd/sb within this forum. Maybe I should change my title heading to 'searching for a soul mate. Able and willing to provide financially as well.' Maybe that would be better hor?

Anyways To update my thread.
This is not solely a monetary transaction. Who I'm seeking is someone who wants to find someone they can click with and genuinely want to date with coupled with the idea that they are ready and able to provide.

It's not always about sex, sometimes the best type of intimacy is where you just lay back, laugh together at the stupidest things, hold each other, and enjoy each others' company.

[dyelook]

It's not always about sex, sometimes the best type of intimacy is where you just lay back, laugh together at the stupidest things, hold each other, and enjoy each others' company.

raise hand raise leg agreeds....;)

[missj]

Bump this up

[Davidding1234]

Basically you want someone to date you an also pay you for it, and you won't put out no matter what.

Good luck in finding that rich sucker!

[TwentySeven]

got this type of things haha? paid but no sex lol