is there a problem with my...

[melonmilk]

hey guys,

i am not a frequent on FL services (less than 10 times), but each time i went, i just can't fire my cannon even though i picked the girls who looks good to me. even though my cannon was hard rock throughout the sessions, in the end i still did not manage to fire it(i did not hold back on purpose, just that it doesn't want to come) everytime, the girls grew tired and they were shock that i wasn't be able to come after so long trying again and again.

everytime walked out 'defeated'.

but i have no problem firing my cannon when i played with myself.

is there something wrong with me?

or is it my cannon is small, that i couldn't feel anything most of the time in the real activity.

ps: i am quite a petite guy, and not gay.

honest opinions helps!

[FBInsp]

U PCC too much already bro...

[hawkeye007]

hey guys,

i am not a frequent on FL services (less than 10 times), but each time i went, i just can't fire my cannon even though i picked the girls who looks good to me. even though my cannon was hard rock throughout the sessions, in the end i still did not manage to fire it(i did not hold back on purpose, just that it doesn't want to come) everytime, the girls grew tired and they were shock that i wasn't be able to come after so long trying again and again.

everytime walked out 'defeated'.

but i have no problem firing my cannon when i played with myself.

is there something wrong with me?

or is it my cannon is small, that i couldn't feel anything most of the time in the real activity.

ps: i am quite a petite guy, and not gay.

honest opinions helps!

May be a host of many reasons, eg psychological issues, small penis, etc.. It can also be because you're used to your own style of masturbation...

Next time, u can try this method... When u visit an FL, PCC until u are almost cumming, then straightaway fuck the FL (with CD of course)... Cum inside her and perhaps that will help u to slowly overcome the issue...

[clapton]

PCC too much lar, stop PCC for 1 week and visit FL c how lar

[bigbrudder]

What type of FL you visiting and what time? Maybe the FL you visit is after many kids (a bit loose), condom too thick ... no sensation?:confused:

[discordpiggy]

wah! u got so much theory to this ah?! phofessor isit u bigbrudder :D

[bigbrudder]

wah! u got so much theory to this ah?! phofessor isit u bigbrudder :D

Haha, I phofessor ... full of theories niah. :D

[lorraine]

prolly yours spoilt liao :D

malay called "rosak" :p

[anikisan]

dont use durex, too thick cannot feel much. try okamoto. but if u drink before u fuck, the alcohol will affect your hardness and stamina. dont pcc for a few days and then u try. try a longer foreplay. ask her to tease you gao gao first. dont have any expectations to must cum. just make love.

[wantedbryan]

confirm is pcc too much + condom too thick.
i have prob cumming when using condom too but doing it raw no prob(with gf only). try doggie, that position always made me cum.

[SammyNewbie]

wah! u got so much theory to this ah?! phofessor isit u bigbrudder :D

U also never cheong, what do u know about this topic as a woman?

Honestly, what the bro said is corrrect. Just that got too many cannot cum threads already. Nobody can be bothered to reply..;)

[Pockypig]

It might be the condom issue.
I alway get soft fast when I put on the helmet, especially when I can't feel the sensation down there. Same like u, small canon but never an issue when I go raw with partners whom I trust. Remember, safety alway come 1st.

[D-joker]

I too have that kind of problem too.. Thats y i dont go for FL.
Anyway, like what other say, try not to diy for a week then u go try again see how...

As for ur cannon small or not. We dont even know the length and girth how we know. ROFL...

[DreamMaster1985]

Condom issue, pcc too much issue and one more issue, perhaps you are just too tired mentally or physically. And you are not alone in this, TS. I also have the same situation as you. But usually Im tired, hence cannot fire.

[bambo]

My problem is opp of you bro. I shoot too fast. Havent enjoy only shoot already. Trying to find ways to solve it too.

[sexylanjiao]

My problem is opp of you bro. I shoot too fast. Havent enjoy only shoot already. Trying to find ways to solve it too.

Try to focus on something else. Can save you a few seconds. Another way is to PCC first before you visit FL.

[freezetheDB]

Could be subconcious guilt that acts as a barrier against going pass the mark to reach orgasm

[jamespda]

Aiyo, he got same problem like me, less sensitive on dick, I have this issue too, can have half an hour to an hour continuos sex but cannot cum. To be frank, most FL I will only visit once cos sure got complain little bit here and there unless they enjoy with you but they sure ended up tired, cos after us still got plenty customer.
Condomn is one of the issue as it further reduce the sensitivity, only way is knowing your sensitive spot will definitely able to cum faster.
:D

[curious11]

Lol sometimes I need to go to toilet pee halfway also. Dunno why my body need so much water..

[chitchatbox88]

I think I know your issue.

Try this the next time u go visit FL, try to watch your favorite porn while u are in action. If you can cum that way, congrats, your dragon no issue.

But your mind is fugged. Cause u watch too much porn till your brain see porn as a signal to cum, instead of your sensitivity of your dick that prompt your dick to cum.

Porn ruined your life but u can still re-wire your brain by abstaining from sex and all sexual activities and porn for 1-3 months then u will be ready to rock and roll.

[justdifferent]

this is actually simple.

orgasm is based on 2 things..

1. mental stimulation
2. physical stimulation

firstly, mentally you are too used to porn/ and or amateur videos, etc. when you're watching these, you can choose your exact fantasy, the exact type of body type, face, moaning sounds, movements, etc. that you like. unfortunately, in real life, you can't choose. amateur videos are usually made by fuck buddies, one-night-stands, couples which have a lot of passion because they both really want to fuck each other.

someone you pay for will never want to fuck you as much as an fuckbuddy/gf/ons. therefore, there is a missing emotion and passion which you are used to. when you cum regularly while experiencing passion (through watching), the lack of passion from paid sex fails to stimulate you mentally and you cannot find the excitement that you are used to having.

secondly, physical stimulation. masturbation is a good thing, too much is a bad thing. no woman's vagina will ever be as tight as your hand. you can also stimulate the various areas of your dick that are more sensitive, and create motions that give you the most pleasure. a woman cannot choose the shape of her vagina, or how much pressure it gives at various areas, so she cannot stimulate you in the same way as your masturbation habits.

in conclusion, because you have jerked off too much you are used to the physical sensations of your hand satisfying the most sensitive of your erogenous zones, and also the mental stimulation from the passion you derive from porn. as a result, paid sex cannot satisfy you.

solution: stop masturbating too much. yes, it would probably be difficult especially if you're used to doing it regularly. but it would definitely help you. when you really want to masturbate, do not use a death grip or any weird motions or grips that a vagina cannot stimulate. (i don't know your masturbatory habits so you'll just have to use your common sense) in short, masturbate less frequently, and when you do use lube and a light grip with up-down motions that are similar to having sex.

next, stop having paid sex. i've always found paid sex pointless. 99% of the time, the other party is not going to enjoy it and even if you think they do, it probably is faked. the only situation when they would actually enjoy themselves or orgasm is when they're a nymphomaniac, and how many of those will you meet? even if they enjoy it, you do not have a connection with them as you've just met them, there's no talking, no verbal foreplay, no flirting, etc. no buildup. how would the sex be enjoyable?

get a fuckbuddy, or a girlfriend. when you genuinely like someone, the sex will be good. when the sex is good, you'll be able to cum.