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siri
10-12-2014, 10:44 PM
so I wonder. How many samsters really can have a long-lasting FWB rls? I think it's damn difficult to find one that you can clique, have physical attraction and have time to meet up often to have good time.

I see so many people post about looking for one. So how many succeed? :p

PPGirl
10-12-2014, 10:51 PM
Succeeded. :p
Wanted to find a companionship/fwb .. end up he became my bf ;)

DanTheCow
10-12-2014, 10:53 PM
No offence but I think not successful... Cos he stopped being your FWB the moment he became your bf right?? Or am I wrong?? Hahaha... 😜😝

Succeeded. :p
Wanted to find a companionship/fwb .. end up he became my bf ;)

Johnbass
10-12-2014, 10:55 PM
so I wonder. How many samsters really can have a long-lasting FWB rls? I think it's damn difficult to find one that you can clique, have physical attraction and have time to meet up often to have good time.

I see so many people post about looking for one. So how many succeed? :p

I'm also wondering about the same thing...
:D

PPGirl
10-12-2014, 10:58 PM
No offence but I think not successful... Cos he stopped being your FWB the moment he became your bf right?? Or am I wrong?? Hahaha... ����

yes we became from frds to bgr.. status upgraded ..
but he did apply to my thread looking for companionship :D
hmm i oso dunno is it consider successful or not :p

siri
10-12-2014, 10:58 PM
Succeeded. :p
Wanted to find a companionship/fwb .. end up he became my bf ;)

LOL babe your story is one in a million can! lol

siri
10-12-2014, 10:59 PM
I'm also wondering about the same thing...
:D

are you wondering how to UP Nns tmr?! LOL

demonhunter
10-12-2014, 10:59 PM
It really depends on how chio the lady is ....

:D

PPGirl
10-12-2014, 11:00 PM
LOL babe your story is one in a million can! lol

Haha there might be others with d same story too? :D

siri
10-12-2014, 11:01 PM
It really depends on how chio the lady is ....

:D

why must depend on how chio the girl is and not how handsum the man is leh?

siri
10-12-2014, 11:02 PM
Haha there might be others with d same story too? :D

hahaha perhaps! but usually before you enter the FWB sure got set some rules ma so you know where is the line.

DanTheCow
10-12-2014, 11:05 PM
yes we became from frds to bgr.. status upgraded ..
but he did apply to my thread looking for companionship :D
hmm i oso dunno is it consider successful or not :p

I just kidding k?? 😜😝 Am happy for you. ☺️😉

PPGirl
10-12-2014, 11:05 PM
It really depends on how chio the lady is ....

:D

why must depend on how chio the girl is and not how handsum the man is leh?

Sometimes depends on chemistry too! ;)
I just kidding k?? ���� Am happy for you. ☺️��

No prob :)

Hmmm can we have any guys here show their hands did any1 succeeded? Since there are more guys in this forum.

Johnbass
10-12-2014, 11:13 PM
are you wondering how to UP Nns tmr?! LOL

Ya... That will be a challenge... Lol

U still looking for FWB ah? Mai lah... Cos' all the good ones are taken liao.
Come to think of it... "I see so many people post about looking for one."
May not be a correct representation...
Cos' it can be the same people or clones...

:D

DanTheCow
10-12-2014, 11:15 PM
Well I might not have been here long but from what I see.... Much much easier for girls to get fwb here than guys... Think for guys to find 1 here that does not involve monetary transaction is like 1 out of 10 or less.... 😜😝

But personally, for me, found not thru here, longest lasted 3 years. Dunno if that is long or considered successful... 😜😝

siri
10-12-2014, 11:17 PM
Ya... That will be a challenge... Lol

U still looking for FWB ah? Mai lah... Cos' all the good ones are taken liao.
Come to think of it... "I see so many people post about looking for one."
May not be a correct representation...
Cos' it can be the same people or clones...

:D

HAHAHA! NNS so hot stuffs you wanna up must take queue number man. Confirm see her pic bth right. you jialet.

LOL idk about clones but I've given up hope on looking for FWB that's why I ask for the success rate. HAHA

PPGirl
10-12-2014, 11:19 PM
Well I might not have been here long but from what I see.... Much much easier for girls to get fwb here than guys... Think for guys to find 1 here that does not involve monetary transaction is like 1 out of 10 or less.... 😜😝

But personally, for me, found not thru here, longest lasted 3 years. Dunno if that is long or considered successful... 😜😝

As per ts topic, actually how long or how many yrs is consider long lasting?

DanTheCow
10-12-2014, 11:22 PM
Exactly... How long is long lasting?? ☺️😉

TS is bro or sis?? Can't be that difficult to find here if sis...... Cos spoilt for choice... ☺️😉

siri
10-12-2014, 11:22 PM
Well I might not have been here long but from what I see.... Much much easier for girls to get fwb here than guys... Think for guys to find 1 here that does not involve monetary transaction is like 1 out of 10 or less.... 😜😝

But personally, for me, found not thru here, longest lasted 3 years. Dunno if that is long or considered successful... 😜😝

Wtf. I don't involve monetary transaction yet also failed. LOL.

then where you found yours? 3 years jin long man!

DanTheCow
10-12-2014, 11:25 PM
Wtf. I don't involve monetary transaction yet also failed. LOL.

then where you found yours? 3 years jin long man!

Mine was really a friend first.... Then we got close to the point that we started having physical contact. As a friend I've known her for about 10 years....

Too bad after that 3 years she wanted something more.... But due to certain circumstances and situations... It did not evolve to something else... ☺️ We are still friends... ☺️😉

Johnbass
10-12-2014, 11:25 PM
HAHAHA! NNS so hot stuffs you wanna up must take queue number man. Confirm see her pic bth right. you jialet.

LOL idk about clones but I've given up hope on looking for FWB that's why I ask for the success rate. HAHA

No wonder I tio zapped lah....
NNS muaks me... then her white knight(s) jealous don't want me to UP her...
Btw her pic... Simi sai also cannot see lor... Lol

I'm still confused... FWB and BF/GF got simi difference?
FWB- do dates? hold hands? Have sex?
Same as BF/GF right?

:confused:
:D

siri
10-12-2014, 11:28 PM
Mine was really a friend first.... Then we got close to the point that we started having physical contact. As a friend I've known her for about 10 years....

Too bad after that 3 years she wanted something more.... But due to certain circumstances and situations... It did not evolve to something else... ☺️ We are still friends... ☺️😉

after 3 years den she want something more. wah seh I salute her. Cos actually if can last until 3 yrs should be can go into something more liao.

i can't do fwb with friends I've known for ages. sure awkward max x100.

siri
10-12-2014, 11:31 PM
No wonder I tio zapped lah....
NNS muaks me... then her white knight(s) jealous don't want me to UP her...
Btw her pic... Simi sai also cannot see lor... Lol

I'm still confused... FWB and BF/GF got simi difference?
FWB- do dates? hold hands? Have sex?
Same as BF/GF right?

:confused:
:D

everyday you also tio zapped one lah. Your signature also asking for it. she so popular you want fight you wait long long liao. HAHAHA!

Actually idk how to tell you cos I failed in it so I wait for expert to explain to you okay. I not pro.

DanTheCow
10-12-2014, 11:31 PM
after 3 years den she want something more. wah seh I salute her. Cos actually if can last until 3 yrs should be can go into something more liao.

i can't do fwb with friends I've known for ages. sure awkward max x100.


Bro... You got to lay down the rules first... This friend of mine after that 3 years and after she wanted more... When she called it off... She didn't want to see me again or be friends.... But I insisted as I didn't wanna lose a friend... And of course sometimes awkward but then it's ok... Just have to move on and forget the awkwardness.... ☺️😉

siri
10-12-2014, 11:33 PM
Bro... You got to lay down the rules first... This friend of mine after that 3 years and after she wanted more... When she called it off... She didn't want to see me again or be friends.... But I insisted as I didn't wanna lose a friend... And of course sometimes awkward but then it's ok... Just have to move on and forget the awkwardness.... ☺️😉

lol btw I'm a sis. HAHA. anw she confirm plus chop have feelings for you lah! that's why want cut off. no see no hweeling! but you guys ah very jian one tskkk

siri
10-12-2014, 11:34 PM
As per ts topic, actually how long or how many yrs is consider long lasting?

idk how many days months or years than considered long lasting. Or FWB supposed to be long lasting? short lived better?

Johnbass
10-12-2014, 11:36 PM
Bro... You got to lay down the rules first... This friend of mine after that 3 years and after she wanted more... When she called it off... She didn't want to see me again or be friends.... But I insisted as I didn't wanna lose a friend... And of course sometimes awkward but then it's ok... Just have to move on and forget the awkwardness.... ☺️😉

So u single now?
Why u rather have FWB also don't want GF eh?

DanTheCow
10-12-2014, 11:37 PM
lol btw I'm a sis. HAHA. anw she confirm plus chop have feelings for you lah! that's why want cut off. no see no hweeling! but you guys ah very jian one tskkk

I not Jian.... After she brought it up, I did say I will try. We did try... But like I said cos of certain things that happened... External factors.... Things didn't workout that way....

If I really that Jian, you think we will still be friends??

DanTheCow
10-12-2014, 11:38 PM
So u single now?
Why u rather have FWB also don't want GF eh?

Hahahaha... I haven't replied TS, you ask already... My reply to her should answer your question....

PPGirl
10-12-2014, 11:40 PM
idk how many days months or years than considered long lasting. Or FWB supposed to be long lasting? short lived better?

Hmm not too sure too.. depends on chemistry too bah? If both sick of being with each other then maybe end d fwb status n find new one?


I'm still confused... FWB and BF/GF got simi difference?
FWB- do dates? hold hands? Have sex?
Same as BF/GF right?

:confused:
:D

Fwb more like discreet relationship bah.

Johnbass
10-12-2014, 11:42 PM
Hahahaha... I haven't replied TS, you ask already... My reply to her should answer your question....

Orh...
Maybe U got chance to be FWB with TS...
Don't say I never SIC...
:D

siri
10-12-2014, 11:42 PM
I not Jian.... After she brought it up, I did say I will try. We did try... But like I said cos of certain things that happened... External factors.... Things didn't workout that way....

If I really that Jian, you think we will still be friends??

hahhaha it's ok. 男人不坏 女人不爱。girls very fan jian one. truestory.

so you single and not available? FWB ftw? lol

Johnbass
10-12-2014, 11:43 PM
Fwb more like discreet relationship bah.

FWB is 见不得光 type ah?
:eek:

siri
10-12-2014, 11:43 PM
Orh...
Maybe U got chance to be FWB with TS...
Don't say I never SIC...
:D

wah seh JB you very know me ah must SIC for me?? I shy one leh. :p

siri
10-12-2014, 11:44 PM
FWB is 见不得光 type ah?
:eek:

AH YES. Nobody will know and only 2 of you will know kind. Unless you want tell the world.

PPGirl
10-12-2014, 11:45 PM
FWB is 见不得光 type ah?
:eek:

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=friends%20with%20benefits

DanTheCow
10-12-2014, 11:46 PM
hahhaha it's ok. 男人不坏 女人不爱。girls very fan jian one. truestory.

so you single and not available? FWB ftw? lol

What do you mean?? You asking if I currently have a FWB??

siri
10-12-2014, 11:48 PM
What do you mean?? You asking if I currently have a FWB??

I help JB ask de. lol

Johnbass
10-12-2014, 11:50 PM
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=friends%20with%20benefits

Orh... I have a better picture now...
Sounds more like 2 confused friends with commitment issues...
:D

PPGirl
10-12-2014, 11:50 PM
I help JB ask de. lol

JB & DanTheCow? :eek::p

Johnbass
10-12-2014, 11:51 PM
I help JB ask de. lol

U mai gek gek...
We friend friend ok... Minus the benefits...
:D

DanTheCow
10-12-2014, 11:51 PM
I help JB ask de. lol

Aiyoh... Why you ask for him?? Hahaha... 😜 Like that he less 1 chance for post... 😜😝

siri
10-12-2014, 11:53 PM
U mai gek gek...
We friend friend ok... Minus the benefits...
:D

hahaha guai lah you don't have benefits with me better I not suitable for u de. LOL.

I bo gek. I really is ask for u what.

siri
10-12-2014, 11:54 PM
Aiyoh... Why you ask for him?? Hahaha... 😜 Like that he less 1 chance for post... 😜😝

you no need worry for him. he is jb. sure got way to post one. nv say die one. Lol

Johnbass
10-12-2014, 11:57 PM
hahaha guai lah you don't have benefits with me better I not suitable for u de. LOL.

I bo gek. I really is ask for u what.

U mai humble lah...
U sound like a good girl...
Scarli after I friend u... Your white knight(s) also come and zap me...
:D

siri
10-12-2014, 11:59 PM
U mai humble lah...
U sound like a good girl...
Scarli after I friend u... Your white knight(s) also come and zap me...
:D

I am the famous good girl in cr what. no lie one.

no worry. I bo gang. bo white knights will zap you. zap me more probably.

PPGirl
10-12-2014, 11:59 PM
U mai humble lah...
U sound like a good girl...

:D

haha no need sound like a nice girl.
she is a nice lady :)

Johnbass
11-12-2014, 12:02 AM
I am the famous good girl in cr what. no lie one.

no worry. I bo gang. bo white knights will zap you. zap me more probably.

Good girl easy to bluff also...
Don't fall for those sweet talker pattern hor...
Cannot be too truthful... ESP in CR...
:D

siri
11-12-2014, 12:08 AM
haha no need sound like a nice girl.
she is a nice lady :)

anw babe I hardly talk to you much before but thanks for praising me hehe :p

siri
11-12-2014, 12:09 AM
Good girl easy to bluff also...
Don't fall for those sweet talker pattern hor...
Cannot be too truthful... ESP in CR...
:D

hahhaaha I know one lah. No action talk only kind I listen only never bother too. talk is free!

Johnbass
11-12-2014, 12:16 AM
hahhaaha I know one lah. No action talk only kind I listen only never bother too. talk is free!

That's the way... My kind of girl! Lol
:D

jackson555
11-12-2014, 12:18 AM
You know you can always look for me! ;) <3

Johnbass
11-12-2014, 12:20 AM
Bad guy(s) lai liao...
:D

demonhunter
11-12-2014, 12:25 AM
why must depend on how chio the girl is and not how handsum the man is leh?

Cos the guy is giving the benefits ...:eek:

demonhunter
11-12-2014, 12:27 AM
Good girl easy to bluff also...
Don't fall for those sweet talker pattern hor...
Cannot be too truthful... ESP in CR...:D

Heng ah ...I never go to Chat Room !

:D

prettymannequin
11-12-2014, 12:48 AM
FWB is 见不得光 type ah?
:eek:

I find the definitions here a bit weird weird from the usual world lol wtf.

FWBs are, very literally, friends with benefits. So you do friends stuff - have lunch, catch movies, drink coffee - but with the extra benefit of sex. It's different from fuck buddies where both are just each other's booty call, no other attachments. Both aren't 见不得光 lol unless you really purposely wanna hide from people.

prettymannequin
11-12-2014, 12:50 AM
You know you can always look for me! ;) <3

Eh harlo both of you bojio? Lol. :p

siri
11-12-2014, 01:17 AM
Eh harlo both of you bojio? Lol. :p

3some ai mai? hehe

siri
11-12-2014, 01:18 AM
You know you can always look for me! ;) <3

BUT U TRANNY! wait. you want be semo today?

siri
11-12-2014, 01:19 AM
Cos the guy is giving the benefits ...:eek:

lol semo benefits sia. don't tell me cash or gifts. those are not expected unless special occasion leh.

siri
11-12-2014, 01:19 AM
I find the definitions here a bit weird weird from the usual world lol wtf.

FWBs are, very literally, friends with benefits. So you do friends stuff - have lunch, catch movies, drink coffee - but with the extra benefit of sex. It's different from fuck buddies where both are just each other's booty call, no other attachments. Both aren't 见不得光 lol unless you really purposely wanna hide from people.

Are you a worm in my tummy? My same sentiment! But this is hard to get! sigh

siri
11-12-2014, 01:23 AM
That's the way... My kind of girl! Lol
:D

you mai lai. your kind is written on your signature. be loyal hor. LOL

jackson555
11-12-2014, 02:08 AM
Eh harlo both of you bojio? Lol. :p
BUT U TRANNY! wait. you want be semo today?
my d is still around!
kekeke, yes, wa ai! see pm want to join or not liao :p

justl00king
11-12-2014, 02:39 AM
Hi Siri! :)

U looking for fwb? ;) lol

Jayyyy
11-12-2014, 03:48 AM
Hi Siri! :)

U looking for fwb? ;) lol

hi JL, i looking for fwb. :D:D

Johnbass
11-12-2014, 07:57 AM
you mai lai. your kind is written on your signature. be loyal hor. LOL

Morn chiobu!

Jiat lat lor... I'm stuck with the signature... Cannot UP other chiobus liao... Lol

You got programs for Xmas and Year-End countdown liao?
:D

Johnbass
11-12-2014, 08:01 AM
I find the definitions here a bit weird weird from the usual world lol wtf.

FWBs are, very literally, friends with benefits. So you do friends stuff - have lunch, catch movies, drink coffee - but with the extra benefit of sex. It's different from fuck buddies where both are just each other's booty call, no other attachments. Both aren't 见不得光 lol unless you really purposely wanna hide from people.

Sounds like what BF/GF would do then...
Your generation also weird weird one...
Want sex but don't want the commitment...
Thought that's usually the guy's mentality... Now girls also?!
:D

BiRd13
11-12-2014, 08:56 AM
so I wonder. How many samsters really can have a long-lasting FWB rls? I think it's damn difficult to find one that you can clique, have physical attraction and have time to meet up often to have good time.

I see so many people post about looking for one. So how many succeed? :p

It's difficult to find one... And it's more difficult to find one that is long lasting.
Sad to say that many FWB are short term. Reason being is most will have 'feelings' involve. One may fall for the other, and if the other party is just strictly only want 'companionship' or 'sex', instead of love, he/she may wander further from you. Or even, dump you and find another.

We are all human, and have feelings. How many can really control our own feeling?

Hence, FWB is merely for short term. Perhaps 3 months or so, and you have to find another one again... So you need ask yourself, do you want such life? Or you rather find a BF that can be long lasting?

NaughtynSensual
11-12-2014, 08:59 AM
There are some whom are successful in landing one, just that they do not speak up. :D

acidicavex
11-12-2014, 09:00 AM
It's difficult to find one... And it's more difficult to find one that is long lasting.
Sad to say that many FWB are short term. Reason being is most will have 'feelings' involve. One may fall for the other, and if the other party is just strictly only want 'companionship' or 'sex', instead of love, he/she may wander further from you. Or even, dump you and find another.

We are all human, and have feelings. How many can really control our own feeling?

Hence, FWB is merely for short term. Perhaps 3 months or so, and you have to find another one again... So you need ask yourself, do you want such life? Or you rather find a BF that can be long lasting?

Have to agree with bro birdy....... the complication of emotional attachment.

siri
11-12-2014, 09:10 AM
my d is still around!
kekeke, yes, wa ai! see pm want to join or not liao :p

hahaha PM not around lah cyber 3some can not? lol

siri
11-12-2014, 09:11 AM
Hi Siri! :)

U looking for fwb? ;) lol

no le. I good girl. no look fwb. :p

siri
11-12-2014, 09:12 AM
Morn chiobu!

Jiat lat lor... I'm stuck with the signature... Cannot UP other chiobus liao... Lol

You got programs for Xmas and Year-End countdown liao?
:D

hahaha no date it's a lonely xmas and new year. sigh.

siri
11-12-2014, 09:13 AM
It's difficult to find one... And it's more difficult to find one that is long lasting.
Sad to say that many FWB are short term. Reason being is most will have 'feelings' involve. One may fall for the other, and if the other party is just strictly only want 'companionship' or 'sex', instead of love, he/she may wander further from you. Or even, dump you and find another.

We are all human, and have feelings. How many can really control our own feeling?

Hence, FWB is merely for short term. Perhaps 3 months or so, and you have to find another one again... So you need ask yourself, do you want such life? Or you rather find a BF that can be long lasting?

Hahaa can find BF of cos better lah. which girl don't want right. but saying is easier than finding. so of cos meanwhile ppl will still look.

siri
11-12-2014, 09:15 AM
There are some whom are successful in landing one, just that they do not speak up. :D

NNS! got see Johnbass confession not?!

Hahaha yes ah I agreed. Some get already keep quiet. of cos lah so they can continue to hunt for more. act blur live longer!
not like me. so honest. tell whole world. LOL.

watssupp
11-12-2014, 09:15 AM
There are some whom are successful in landing one, just that they do not speak up. :D

R u one of them?
:D

simple2kee
11-12-2014, 09:19 AM
There are some whom are successful in landing one, just that they do not speak up. :D

ya, agreed. :D

NaughtynSensual
11-12-2014, 09:21 AM
NNS! got see Johnbass confession not?!

Hahaha yes ah I agreed. Some get already keep quiet. of cos lah so they can continue to hunt for more. act blur live longer!
not like me. so honest. tell whole world. LOL.

He 0 power liao. Lol. He suay gao lai sai. Lol!
No lah, not act blur. But just diam diam in case got better one comes. See wind walk boat. Sure, you can tell the whole world but then again not many want to do so. Hehehe!

NaughtynSensual
11-12-2014, 09:22 AM
R u one of them?
:D

What do you think? :D

ColdBlood99
11-12-2014, 10:20 AM
Johnbass, Mai sian char bor, how many time must I repeat to you that you are married man Huh? :D

Be faithful to SL, else she will jealous. :eek:

Johnbass
11-12-2014, 10:22 AM
He 0 power liao. Lol. He suay gao lai sai. Lol!
No lah, not act blur. But just diam diam in case got better one comes. See wind walk boat. Sure, you can tell the whole world but then again not many want to do so. Hehehe!

Tiagong patience is my virtue...
Sure will UP you one day... Lol

Good tips... I also diam diam go find FWB liào!
:D

Johnbass
11-12-2014, 10:25 AM
Johnbass, Mai sian char bor, how many time must I repeat to you that you are married man Huh? :D

Be faithful to SL, else she will jealous. :eek:

Haha! Don't tell SL I 偷吃 hor...
That's why partners cannot be too sticky...
Will have opposite effect one. Lol
:D

BiRd13
11-12-2014, 10:26 AM
Hahaa can find BF of cos better lah. which girl don't want right. but saying is easier than finding. so of cos meanwhile ppl will still look.

Haha. I think if you list down your 'requirement' for a bf, there will be a long queue. But again, finding a BF in this site is not a appropriate choice. Since this is a sex forum. Nevertherless, there are some success case :)

Johnbass, Mai sian char bor, how many time must I repeat to you that you are married man Huh? :D

Be faithful to SL, else she will jealous. :eek:

Lol. Thumbs up!

Tiagong patience is my virtue...
Sure will UP you one day... Lol

Good tips... I also diam diam go find FWB liào!
:D

U think, you thought, then who confirm?
Mai didi tiagong la =P

NaughtynSensual
11-12-2014, 10:28 AM
It's difficult to find one... And it's more difficult to find one that is long lasting.
Sad to say that many FWB are short term. Reason being is most will have 'feelings' involve. One may fall for the other, and if the other party is just strictly only want 'companionship' or 'sex', instead of love, he/she may wander further from you. Or even, dump you and find another.

We are all human, and have feelings. How many can really control our own feeling?

Hence, FWB is merely for short term. Perhaps 3 months or so, and you have to find another one again... So you need ask yourself, do you want such life? Or you rather find a BF that can be long lasting?

Sometimes, things happen because they are both infatuated with one another at that moment. If a new one is spotted, then feelings will die off. Tio bo? Then when feelings die, who give a fuck? Afterall, they are just FWB with no commitment. Bo jiu bo. Wu jiu wu. That's why things like this don't last long. :D

Johnbass
11-12-2014, 10:29 AM
hahaha no date it's a lonely xmas and new year. sigh.

Poor thing u...
But sure got many yandaos apply FWB with u now...
I can help to vet thru through n choose the good ones from the si ginnas... Lol
:D

NaughtynSensual
11-12-2014, 10:31 AM
Haha. I think if you list down your 'requirement' for a bf, there will be a long queue. But again, finding a BF in this site is not a appropriate choice. Since this is a sex forum. Nevertherless, there are some success case :)



Lol. Thumbs up!



U think, you thought, then who confirm?
Mai didi tiagong la =P

You think I thought WHO CONFIRM. Duh. :cool:

BiRd13
11-12-2014, 10:32 AM
Sometimes, things happen because they are both infatuated with one another at that moment. If a new one is spotted, then feelings will die off. Tio bo? Then when feelings die, who give a fuck? Afterall, they are just FWB with no commitment. Bo jiu bo. Wu jiu wu. That's why things like this don't last long. :D

Yes. That why like I said, many when into such, will develop feeling over time. Hence when the other partner have another 'outside', the person may felt unhappy, sad etc... And continue with it, despite knowing the feeling for him/her has die off. Or maybe, there's no feeling at all from the person since beginning? It just merely for sex purpose?

ben2011
11-12-2014, 10:33 AM
R u one of them?
:D

Good morning WS!

Btw, u also one of them right? :D

NaughtynSensual
11-12-2014, 10:35 AM
Yes. That why like I said, many when into such, will develop feeling over time. Hence when the other partner have another 'outside', the person may felt unhappy, sad etc... And continue with it, despite knowing the feeling for him/her has die off. Or maybe, there's no feeling at all from the person since beginning? It just merely for sex purpose?

Everything can be faked. Even an orgasm. What's new? Lol!

Johnbass
11-12-2014, 10:35 AM
Jibye...
Suddenly so many FWB sexperts?!
All diam diam in sbf nia...
:D

ben2011
11-12-2014, 10:41 AM
so I wonder. How many samsters really can have a long-lasting FWB rls? I think it's damn difficult to find one that you can clique, have physical attraction and have time to meet up often to have good time.

I see so many people post about looking for one. So how many succeed? :p

I think nowadays FWB rls is not hard to find la...just prob short term lol

If long lasting FWB rls is more like Lover / mistress liao lor.
Long lasting de FWB may give u some happiness but many sadness thou.
So best is not long lasting la :D

Btw, i tot siri jie jie have a FB or FWB mah? isnt it? :p
If no, i want to apply wor lol

acidicavex
11-12-2014, 10:42 AM
Poor thing u...
But sure got many yandaos apply FWB with u now...
I can help to vet thru through n choose the good ones from the si ginnas... Lol
:D

Just put yourself in her list than no need to vet thru for her lo :D:p

DanTheCow
11-12-2014, 10:42 AM
Actually.... What I believe.... Like the term FWB suggests.... The 2 parties involved need to be friends first and foremost.... That's why the word 'Friend/a' comes before the word 'benefit'.... ☺️😉

ben2011
11-12-2014, 10:45 AM
Jibye...
Suddenly so many FWB sexperts?!
All diam diam in sbf nia...
:D

coz CR bo lang.... cum here to tcss with u! :D

NaughtynSensual
11-12-2014, 10:47 AM
Ben you SMLJ also wanna apply. :D

BiRd13
11-12-2014, 11:01 AM
Everything can be faked. Even an orgasm. What's new? Lol!

Feeling ba. Haha

ben2011
11-12-2014, 11:04 AM
Ben you SMLJ also wanna apply. :D

Hahaha... what? i where got apply LJ wor? :eek:

i dun anyhow apply smlj de :D

NaughtynSensual
11-12-2014, 11:09 AM
Hahaha... what? i where got apply LJ wor? :eek:

i dun anyhow apply smlj de :D

Got lah. Like rubbish bin. :D :p

PPGirl
11-12-2014, 11:11 AM
Hahaha... what? i where got apply LJ wor? :eek:

i dun anyhow apply smlj de :D

haha that reminds me of "hiboyhi" :D

ben2011
11-12-2014, 11:14 AM
haha that reminds me of "hiboyhi" :D

pp early morning y talk tat gay again?

BiRd13
11-12-2014, 11:18 AM
Hahaha... what? i where got apply LJ wor? :eek:

i dun anyhow apply smlj de :D

You forget your nickname ar?

LJW2011 !

clinton
11-12-2014, 12:25 PM
Hahaha... what? i where got apply LJ wor? :eek:

i dun anyhow apply smlj de :D

what is LJ? new KJ ?

watssupp
11-12-2014, 12:37 PM
I think nowadays FWB rls is not hard to find la...just prob short term lol

Sound like a pro,can impart me some skills..
:D

siri
11-12-2014, 12:37 PM
so I conclude. No success rate cos ppl got already also won't share. Quite true. afterall some see it like a game.

you wanna play a game? you gotta make a choice.

BiRd13
11-12-2014, 01:27 PM
so I conclude. No success rate cos ppl got already also won't share. Quite true. afterall some see it like a game.

you wanna play a game? you gotta make a choice.

Yes. And importantly is, are you ready for the game =)

Can one really control their feeling? Especially in long term, as love may bloom. Of course it will be good that both fall in love with each other, and develop from FWB to BGF. But how many really succeed?

ben2011
11-12-2014, 01:39 PM
Sound like a pro,can impart me some skills..
:D

Sounds like only hor, the real pro is watsuppII :p

You forget your nickname ar?

LJW2011 !

KKJman dun nid always remind me ok, keep tis LJW as secret la :D

Yes. And importantly is, are you ready for the game =)

Can one really control their feeling? Especially in long term, as love may bloom. Of course it will be good that both fall in love with each other, and develop from FWB to BGF. But how many really succeed?

Well said, long term will develop more love and jealousy hehe

Wintermelontea
11-12-2014, 01:47 PM
I believe there are more FB than there are FWB. Logically, if sexual intimacy is the basis for the friendship, it should mean that when there are less or no sex, the friendship just die off.

In this sense, FWB and FB to me is not very far apart.

I have seen friends become FWB for a few nights stand (spread over a couple of weeks) and died off totally (including friendship) as either party do not want to cross that line of intimacy again. So, is this more like a FWB or FB? :confused:

BiRd13
11-12-2014, 01:47 PM
KKJman dun nid always remind me ok, keep tis LJW as secret la :D



Well said, long term will develop more love and jealousy hehe

Aiya. Everyone know liao mah

watssuppII
11-12-2014, 02:03 PM
Sounds like only hor, the real pro is watsuppII :p
Smtc!!! Who ka pager?
Aiya. Everyone know liao mah

Birdman hosay bo?

justl00king
11-12-2014, 04:58 PM
hi JL, i looking for fwb. :D:DHaha, u can just use your vroom vroom to go pick some up? ;) lol

Good day bro! :)

seabass
11-12-2014, 07:28 PM
I find the definitions here a bit weird weird from the usual world lol wtf.

FWBs are, very literally, friends with benefits. So you do friends stuff - have lunch, catch movies, drink coffee - but with the extra benefit of sex. It's different from fuck buddies where both are just each other's booty call, no other attachments. Both aren't 见不得光 lol unless you really purposely wanna hide from people.

A group of hogs was assembled for a feeding, and a farmer was filling their trough to the brim. One of the pigs turned to the others and said, "Have you ever wondered why he's being so good to us?" A friend influences others because he wants to bring something to the table that will benefit them-not put them on the table to benefit himself.

siri
11-12-2014, 10:19 PM
I believe there are more FB than there are FWB. Logically, if sexual intimacy is the basis for the friendship, it should mean that when there are less or no sex, the friendship just die off.

In this sense, FWB and FB to me is not very far apart.

I have seen friends become FWB for a few nights stand (spread over a couple of weeks) and died off totally (including friendship) as either party do not want to cross that line of intimacy again. So, is this more like a FWB or FB? :confused:

AH yes I totally agreed. I made a wrong move once with a long time friend of mine and it was so weird that we pretend it didn't happen anymore though we still chat once a while.

but I guess fwb is meant to die a natural death.

puffysong
11-12-2014, 10:20 PM
天时地利人和

2 totally unknown to each other person met at a clubbing place.... Happy Drink Drink Drink.... Happy Happy Touchy Touchy all... High Liao~

1:Find a quite place.... ONS~

2:Or then meet up again Clubbing drinking & XXX FB~

3:become friends... once in awhile XXX FwB~ (zero commitment to each other)

4:Further development continues... (some commitment to each other) FwB~ or Lovers~

5:Further development continues... (with commitment ) LOvers or Even Marriage~

The above 5, where do you wanna stop at? Or do u have intentions of progressing ...?

siri
11-12-2014, 10:21 PM
Sometimes, things happen because they are both infatuated with one another at that moment. If a new one is spotted, then feelings will die off. Tio bo? Then when feelings die, who give a fuck? Afterall, they are just FWB with no commitment. Bo jiu bo. Wu jiu wu. That's why things like this don't last long. :D

wah I raise both hands and legs to support you in this babe.
it's really just that few moments. human are always curious about something new.

justl00king
11-12-2014, 10:24 PM
no le. I good girl. no look fwb. :pHaha! I've been a good boy too this year.
Maybe I'll receive a nice sexy surprise this Xmas? ;) lol

Have fun! :p

siri
11-12-2014, 10:24 PM
Poor thing u...
But sure got many yandaos apply FWB with u now...
I can help to vet thru through n choose the good ones from the si ginnas... Lol
:D

i no open floor looking for fwb leh. so ppl won't flood me one lah. but it's nice seeing a few new pm. :D

siri
11-12-2014, 10:25 PM
Yes. That why like I said, many when into such, will develop feeling over time. Hence when the other partner have another 'outside', the person may felt unhappy, sad etc... And continue with it, despite knowing the feeling for him/her has die off. Or maybe, there's no feeling at all from the person since beginning? It just merely for sex purpose?

LOL true story.

DanTheCow
11-12-2014, 10:38 PM
i no open floor looking for fwb leh. so ppl won't flood me one lah. but it's nice seeing a few new pm. :D

So why never consider any of them?? Like that say.... If you fail, pick yourself up, and try again.... And again... And again... Till you succeed.... Hahahaha.... :D;):p

siri
11-12-2014, 11:00 PM
天时地利人和

2 totally unknown to each other person met at a clubbing place.... Happy Drink Drink Drink.... Happy Happy Touchy Touchy all... High Liao~

1:Find a quite place.... ONS~

2:Or then meet up again Clubbing drinking & XXX FB~

3:become friends... once in awhile XXX FwB~ (zero commitment to each other)

4:Further development continues... (some commitment to each other) FwB~ or Lovers~

5:Further development continues... (with commitment ) LOvers or Even Marriage~

The above 5, where do you wanna stop at? Or do u have intentions of progressing ...?

I think lvl 4 is comfortable liao. No.5 too soon to say one.
afterall it's SBF. u must be careful of your heart. lol

siri
11-12-2014, 11:01 PM
So why never consider any of them?? Like that say.... If you fail, pick yourself up, and try again.... And again... And again... Till you succeed.... Hahahaha.... :D;):p

hahaha such thing try too many time no good. no market value leh.

DanTheCow
11-12-2014, 11:05 PM
hahaha such thing try too many time no good. no market value leh.

Aiyoh.... You dun go around telling ppl abt your many fwbs can already.... Who is gonna know?? 😜😝

siri
11-12-2014, 11:16 PM
Aiyoh.... You dun go around telling ppl abt your many fwbs can already.... Who is gonna know?? 😜😝

hahaha now many ppl assume I have alot of fwb liao lo.
but I'm just a curious lost child. lol

DanTheCow
11-12-2014, 11:19 PM
hahaha now many ppl assume I have alot of fwb liao lo.
but I'm just a curious lost child. lol

Why ppl assume that I wonder.....??? Hmmm.... 😜😝

siri
11-12-2014, 11:28 PM
btw I realised I was upped. thank you nick benson. I can't rmb my old pts but I think it's quite alot. if u need me to return let me know k. 1 pt don't look down hor.

prettymannequin
11-12-2014, 11:39 PM
Hi babe!!!! I tried shisha for the first time today heehee, sg banned liao but thank goodness sg not the only place in the world lol.

siri
11-12-2014, 11:42 PM
Hi babe!!!! I tried shisha for the first time today heehee, sg banned liao but thank goodness sg not the only place in the world lol.

HI! hahhaa shisha was my hobby when I was your age leh. always go Haji lane and smoke. how shiok not?
but I quit it all liao. save money better. lol

DanTheCow
11-12-2014, 11:43 PM
Hi babe!!!! I tried shisha for the first time today heehee, sg banned liao but thank goodness sg not the only place in the world lol.

Shisha for the first time??!! Wow!!! Hahaha... 😜 You only tried it cos SG banned it right?? Hahaha... 😝

PPGirl
11-12-2014, 11:47 PM
Shisha for the first time??!! Wow!!! Hahaha... 😜 You only tried it cos SG banned it right?? Hahaha... 😝
Shisha only for smoker? Sry for d noob question haha cos i non smoker

siri
11-12-2014, 11:53 PM
Shisha only for smoker? Sry for d noob question haha cos i non smoker

nope. I wasn't a smoker when I picked up shisha back then.

prettymannequin
12-12-2014, 01:07 AM
HI! hahhaa shisha was my hobby when I was your age leh. always go Haji lane and smoke. how shiok not?
but I quit it all liao. save money better. lol

Don't make yourself sound so old please HAHAH. Quite shiok la but just a #YOLO moment and not picking it up lol. Yea save money go travel around better!!! Tomorrow... or actually in a few hours... I gonna take train to another city for the weekend.

Shisha for the first time??!! Wow!!! Hahaha... 😜 You only tried it cos SG banned it right?? Hahaha... 😝

Yea first time. No la not because of the ban. Just happened not to have tried before and today had the experience lol.

darknight80
12-12-2014, 01:35 AM
Success rate 0 for me...

Ended up with friends with same interest/hobby which is still good.

WatssupZ
15-12-2014, 12:14 AM
FWB?? .. F with buddy .. mmm.. as in F wif GF/BF or buddy/friend develop into a FB .. chim.. :confused:

pixated
15-12-2014, 08:29 AM
tried but 0 success so far :(

R32wanfun
15-12-2014, 10:51 AM
0........ Guess luck is not on my site

BeckTan
15-12-2014, 10:59 AM
No offence but I think not successful... Cos he stopped being your FWB the moment he became your bf right?? Or am I wrong?? Hahaha... ����

successful or not successful..It depend on which point u are viewing from. No offence. Jus my view. :)

mrnaughtyboy
15-12-2014, 11:41 PM
if meet me maybe I your husband loo :P

mrnaughtyboy
16-12-2014, 12:10 AM
OMG.. so childish please.. down rep LMAO..

Summerhillt
16-12-2014, 06:21 AM
SIGH. Speaking of this.. really takes fate and mutual attraction.

Back than knew this girl . Really liked her.. she was damn chio. 8/10 those type.. Petite size can upz. Whatsapped her and stuff.. both of us sent each other really private videos..

Didn't want to let others know that we like each other.. so SHE SUGGESTED.. so what relationship are we ? FWB ? Boy , that moment i chua sai .. knn she so happening ?! Can suggest this..

Guess both of us wanted each other for physical pleasure.. than pcb.. company posted me outstation other country.. 6 months. Didn't had much contact and broke off..

Shrouded
23-12-2014, 04:03 PM
Not hard, not easy.

Lower expectations and you never know what you can get.

Don't ask for Angelina Jolie if you aren't Brad Pitt.

FWB/FB arrangements do exist.