What's the "best bet" to leave "control freak" husband?

[bbmapple]

Just trying to gather some suggestions and opinions from fellow samsters... TIA

[jackson555]

What is best bet? How controlling is he? Just get a divorce and block him out of your life completely,done deal.

[bbmapple]

The divorce is difficult mah... He won't sign...

[guess67]

Go for separation lor, then proceed to file. Better than keep dragging :D

[happywoody]

go on grounds of separation as advised by sis guess67.
can back date if you can prove it. your lawyer should be able to advise.

it takes two to stay married.
if the divorce has been filed, i'm sure a lot of thought has gone into it and attempts made to salvage the marriage cos it's not an easy decision.

if he's not beyond reasonable, can try to talk for an amicable parting.
if not, u can live your own life. u may piss him off enough and he may sign.

[xuanz]

What best bet you want when the women charter will shine the path for you.

[Greendevil]

No need to leave him, just get a personel protection order against him. he will stay away from you, BY AH GONG ORDER

[porscheclub]

If I remember right, a PPO costs over $10K & quite a few hearings before a judge. You need at least a police case or few to put forward your ground.

[joscklee]

Just trying to gather some suggestions and opinions from fellow samsters... TIA

Err dunno whether work for your case, one of my ex-classmate become lesbian and her hubby beg her come back now:D

[Ngengheng]

Why he is control freak?The answer is he lack of security. Try to break the lock and find whats the problem which resulted him to be this way. There is a solution to it.

[KiaMLX]

Hi Sis

Don't give him sex. Catch him for surfing sammyboy forum and bonking FLs. May be can help.

Just trying to gather some suggestions and opinions from fellow samsters... TIA

[Castrol]

do what j lo did :D

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/thumb/8/8b/Enoughposter.jpg/220px-Enoughposter.jpg

[Greendevil]

If I remember right, a PPO costs over $10K & quite a few hearings before a judge. You need at least a police case or few to put forward your ground.

PPO don cos 10K la. you heard one is because of the legal fee that cost 10K and was a complex case that why several hearing.

[xuanz]

Hi Sis

Don't give him sex. Catch him for surfing sammyboy forum and bonking FLs. May be can help.

Lol. This is the worst advice i ever seen.

[KiaMLX]

Hi bro and sis

I am very sorry

Lol. This is the worst advice i ever seen.

[Orthodoxy]

perhaps its better for both of you to sit down and have a good talk over it? from there make some concessions towards each other

[maxsee]

I think a guy is usually a control freak if he is not doing well in his career....otherwise this rarely happens....:D:D:D

[bbmapple]

Thanks for the ideas..... Haha....

[happywoody]

so TS, any update on your situation?
Left?
Or still stuck?

[LFsugarbabe]

TS you can find alot of hubby over here :D

[bbmapple]

TS you can find alot of hubby over here :D

Thanks bro. One headache is bad enough... Don't need more...

But if I qualify to be owned by a sweet SD , I may consider.... Tia gong u looking ???

[bbmapple]

so TS, any update on your situation?
Left?
Or still stuck?

Bro happywoody, I am still legally married, if that's what u are asking...

[happywoody]

thanks for the update, hopefully things sort themselves out amicably.
cheers!