A husband's letter to his wife...

[gent]

One husband wrote this to his wife. Do u think its harsh?


To: xxx

You may think its a small issue and brush it off.. It's accumulating and one day will explode badly.

U can ask what I am so unhappy about. It's pretty obvious. But since u refuse to acknowledge and think nothing about it. Let me tell u direct.

I am unhappy with the lack of or in fact non existing sex life in our more than 10 years of marriage. Sex is just for making baby. No pleasure, no sparks, at least to me, I feel no love. In the more than 10 years, I begged for sex. I felt like I am a sex bastard who always thinks of ways to bed u. I felt tt something is wrong with me because I always want to make love with u.. 9.9 times out of 10, I will be rejected! Over the years, my ego was affected. I am scare of rejection and dun know how to approach u. I am scare, really scare of rejection again and again. Is there something wrong with me? I am not sure and even thought of seeing a doctor about my sex drive. I do myself in toilet and I felt disgusted. I have a wife but yet I have to do all these.. I am not sure about the other couples and I am not bothered what other couples did. To me, sex is making love. It got to be enjoyable and really let the couple feel close and comfortable with each other. Cuddling together each time after making love and understanding each other more and deeper. We are 100% lacking in this. I guess u may not read until here and probably will brush away all my pleas...

Anyway, I think it's enough for me... Waiting and waiting and hoping that miracles will happen. I guess nothing will ever change given your character and mindset about sex.. I seriously doubt other man can wait and hope for 10 years... I want to highlight again, it's not about sex. It's about making love.. Loving each other and looking into each other's needs. It's not giving Mechical sex.. And I am not looking for sex, I am looking for love..

We are 35 and I think we still have time to rethink and consider our future... I am unhappy and unbalance. It's a fact tt our sex life is zero.

[Triple70]

Can sense the anger.
Wife sure feel threatened, and the likely response is more anger.
Letter shd be more gentle, convincing, not demanding.
Explain what is making love vs sex. Like a teacher, not an instructor.
end the letter with a question like..

" ... Shall we make love tonite? "

If wife still wooden after reading the letter, clearly she is not a team player..
Time to move on.

[gent]

Can sense the anger.
Wife sure feel threatened, and the likely response is more anger.
Letter shd be more gentle, convincing, not demanding.
Explain what is making love vs sex. Like a teacher, not an instructor.
end the letter with a question like..

" ... Shall we make love tonite? "

If wife still wooden after reading the letter, clearly she is not a team player..
Time to move on.

Good point. Had the same thoughts.. Will enlighten the husband accordingly..

[Ayakata]

saw the spreadsheet that the husband made for the reasons of rejecting sex from the wife haha....
dono if it's the same thing from this post....

maybe some wives out there should make a spreadsheet too 😂

[porscheclub]

Can sense the anger.
Wife sure feel threatened, and the likely response is more anger.
Letter shd be more gentle, convincing, not demanding.
Explain what is making love vs sex. Like a teacher, not an instructor.
end the letter with a question like..

" ... Shall we make love tonite? "

If wife still wooden after reading the letter, clearly she is not a team player..
Time to move on.

+1 a lot of anger from the author but can't blame him for 10yrs of pant up. However, women are from Venus!

[discordpiggy]

can someone please enlighten me?! :confused:

out of curiosity, what is the criteria for men choosing a wife in SG? her looks? 36C? 40E? her qualifications? her status?

end up i read a lot of sbf bros, married but usually not being service or received sufficient amount of sex to sextisfy them on daily or weekly basis.

i am sure there are those women who are high sex drive but only 32A nia and totally not pretty yet super nymphomaniac who are usually NOT noticeable by guys. or rather guys will not ever take a second look at them because they are not pretty at all, so these super nymphomaniacs are now left on the shelves collecting dust...

[HCKing]

+1 a lot of anger from the author but can't blame him for 10yrs of pant up. However, women are from Venus!

some women just do not or will not make an effort to understand their men. they emphasize too much on themselves and their wants.

[gent]

Drink kopi with the husband last night cos he says cannot take it and send the letter already...

Wait to see if any respond from the wife...

[Johnbass]

Drink kopi with the husband last night cos he says cannot take it and send the letter already...

Wait to see if any respond from the wife...

Hong gan liao lor...
Prepare for divorce and WC later... Plus lagi no need sex liao!
:eek:

If sex (make love) is the problem... Just pay $$ find another with fake GFE... No need so troublesome write letter right?
:cool:

[gent]

Hong gan liao lor...
Prepare for divorce and WC later... Plus lagi no need sex liao!
:eek:

If sex (make love) is the problem... Just pay $$ find another with fake GFE... No need so troublesome write letter right?
:cool:

He quite persistent to try. Cannot stop him.. Since waited for 10 years liao.. No harm giving a last try... I also curious what will be the outcome...

[Greendevil]

the wordings and logic is not harsh. it just that the message was not deliver correctly; it should not put in letter, such thing should trash it out

[PeteTsang69]

bro gent....

pls update us what happened ... i was/am in same boat :o ... am curious what is wife reaction ...

i didn't write a letter ... suggested we go talk to counsellor a few times ..but never got reply yes...just brushed off and change topic...

i feel the guy's frustration ...basic need unfulifilled...

i believe solution lies here ...got this video from another thread here ...part one is good ...i am not a christian ..but this guy speaks the truth...cheers :)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BbH1d4V6dCg

[ChinHo]

Hi TS

I was shock to know that your friend sent this letter to wife. He must be desperate to make love.

[maxsee]

If divorce must pay a lot of alimony each month leh...worth it boh....:p:p:p

[hotpen]

If divorce must pay a lot of alimony each month leh...worth it boh....:p:p:p

Alimony $ convert to FL $ woots.. lol

[HappyOwl]

This is a book very crucial in any relationship.

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/thumb/8/84/Men-Mars-Women-Venus-Cover.jpg/220px-Men-Mars-Women-Venus-Cover.jpg

Just a sharing. Cheers! :)

[discordpiggy]

i have this book and read it. sibei funny but true! so usually i steer away men... and leave them alone... :D

This is a book very crucial in any relationship.

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/thumb/8/84/Men-Mars-Women-Venus-Cover.jpg/220px-Men-Mars-Women-Venus-Cover.jpg

Just a sharing. Cheers! :)

[porscheclub]

can someone please enlighten me?! :confused:

out of curiosity, what is the criteria for men choosing a wife in SG? her looks? 36C? 40E? her qualifications? her status?

end up i read a lot of sbf bros, married but usually not being service or received sufficient amount of sex to sextisfy them on daily or weekly basis.

i am sure there are those women who are high sex drive but only 32A nia and totally not pretty yet super nymphomaniac who are usually NOT noticeable by guys. or rather guys will not ever take a second look at them because they are not pretty at all, so these super nymphomaniacs are now left on the shelves collecting dust...

Personally. Choosing wife is a bit like choosing sports cars :p I'll look at the spec sheet (looks, character, stats & family background), check out the price (how much it costs to date & maintain her) then test drive ( sex & living together, doing chores, managing finance, holidays) then sign the paper = xiao liao! :D

I can't speak for all but she has to be minimum a pleasant looking lady since we're going to live together for the next few decades. Most important criteria is her character as we can't stand a pretty bitch.

Every women has a sexual nympho hidden in them & they just need the right partner to press that button.

Also, 90% of Singapore Chinese females who are slim, don't have natural C cups & tight-perky-butts as it's just not in our genes since we're mostly from Southern China. So, A & B cuppers are the usual ones with pear shape bodies here.

Btw, if you know some of those leftover super nymphos then they can find a lot of "love" here but first, they need to doll up. There's no ugly women but lazy ones ;)

Come to think of it, "super nymphomaniac who are usually NOT noticeable by guys" such women shouldn't exist because if she's not sexually active then how can she be a nymph? To be one, she needs male partner/s to discover her sexual appetite. So even if she's a 32AA & ugly, her sexual urge will find men. Most in fact all of those so called ugly & poor figured ladies that I know are usually introvert old virgins. Same for men.

[HappyOwl]

i have this book and read it. sibei funny but true! so usually i steer away men... and leave them alone... :D

Babe, I am so glad to hear from you knowing how to leaving them alone when necessary. I am sure the men will love you deep deep in return. :D

Leave them alone for awhile, they will find you nagging & irritating. Leave them alone for too long, they become really lonely. Based on the situation, case by case basis, step in again just hanging around them physically enough. Don't ask too much. Don't talk too much. If they want, they will tell you what actually happened instead.

But remember ya, don't steer yourself until you land into a no-man's-land. :p

[discordpiggy]

Babe, I am so glad to hear from you knowing how to leaving them alone when necessary. I am sure the men will love you deep deep in return. :D

Leave them alone for awhile, they will find you nagging & irritating. Leave them alone for too long, they become really lonely. Based on the situation, case by case basis, step in again just hanging around them physically enough. Don't ask too much. Don't talk too much. If they want, they will tell you what actually happened instead.

But remember ya, don't steer yourself until you land into a no-man's-land. : p

muahahah!!! HappyOwl bro! i jitao leave them alone and can't be bothered with them! :p don't respond to me for few weeks... i jitao cross them out, then he suddenly appear 2 months later and apologised to me he busy?! sorry lor... sbf plenty of bros i can hang out with, i don't need him. now cum and tell me wanna buy me SATAY to eat! sbf bros cannot buy me satay meh?!

PUR-LEASE!!!

i dont even bother to ask anything nowsadays... pointless. actually cum to think of it the book Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus has some truth in it. as a woman, i also need personal time like the MEN. so i can understand the point of men's view. Everyone needs personal space so I don't ask and don't talk too much. In fact, i don't even wanna talk... I don't even eat. my mouth muscle tired. cos I talk to my boss, he won't listen, my mouth already tired!!! :eek:

my motto now... LAI! LAI! MAI GEI GEI!!! LIM AH! hor yee liao! :D

[HappyOwl]

muahahah!!! HappyOwl bro! i jitao leave them alone and can't be bothered with them! :p don't respond to me for few weeks... i jitao cross them out, then he suddenly appear 2 months later and apologised to me he busy?! sorry lor... sbf plenty of bros i can hang out with, i don't need him. now cum and tell me wanna buy me SATAY to eat! sbf bros cannot buy me satay meh?!

PUR-LEASE!!!

i dont even bother to ask anything nowsadays... pointless. actually cum to think of it the book Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus has some truth in it. as a woman, i also need personal time like the MEN. so i can understand the point of men's view. Everyone needs personal space so I don't ask and don't talk too much. In fact, i don't even wanna talk... I don't even eat. my mouth muscle tired. cos I talk to my boss, he won't listen, my mouth already tired!!! :eek:

my motto now... LAI! LAI! MAI GEI GEI!!! LIM AH! hor yee liao! :D

Yummy! Satay berry nice. :o

Sis. I can't remember in which chapter, the author did mention that when the mars returned to their caves, it can even takes them a good couple of months say, three months or more before they returned to find their Venuses? The reason is because during those months, they could not resolve their problems & they refused to seek help or let their Venuses know about it.

As for why you were not being responded for weeks? I guess you will know better than anyone else. (Your 6.0327 cents will never betray you) Wanna buy you satay is a way of asking you out for dates again? : p

Coincidentally, especially in the initial stage when a martian wanna date a Venus, it is always the Venus who couldn't find her way back? & that resulted in the martian keeps holding on to the phone, keep wiping the Amoled screen with his T-shirt wondering why the message was being sent out, but without a reply? Wondering why when he made a call out, it was not being picked up? : p (I am referring to other cases in general)

If I read you correctly, your termed 'as a woman, i also need personal time like the MEN' = 'AS A WOMAN, I ALSO NEED MY PERSONAL MAN TO BE BESIDE ME, LISTENING TO WHATEVER I FEEL LIKE TALKING ABOUT WHILE HE KEEPS HIS MOUTH SHUT'? (",)

New motto? Really good?

[sa101666]

Please update us. Im interested to know what happened too. Cheers.

[discordpiggy]

Yummy! Satay berry nice. :o

Sis. I can't remember in which chapter, the author did mention that when the mars returned to their caves, it can even takes them a good couple of months say, three months or more before they returned to find their Venuses? The reason is because during those months, they could not resolve their problems & they refused to seek help or let their Venuses know about it.

As for why you were not being responded for weeks? I guess you will know better than anyone else. (Your 6.0327 cents will never betray you) Wanna buy you satay is a way of asking you out for dates again? : p

Coincidentally, especially in the initial stage when a martian wanna date a Venus, it is always the Venus who couldn't find her way back? & that resulted in the martian keeps holding on to the phone, keep wiping the Amoled screen with his T-shirt wondering why the message was being sent out, but without a reply? Wondering why when he made a call out, it was not being picked up? : p (I am referring to other cases in general)

If I read you correctly, your termed 'as a woman, i also need personal time like the MEN' = 'AS A WOMAN, I ALSO NEED MY PERSONAL MAN TO BE BESIDE ME, LISTENING TO WHATEVER I FEEL LIKE TALKING ABOUT WHILE HE KEEPS HIS MOUTH SHUT'? (",)

New motto? Really good?

1. Yes, I read that paragraph too! that men will shut up for months until they resolve their issues and can refused to seek help.

FYI: I happen to have this attitude too... i will shut down and not communicate until my issues are resolve. Well on the surface, PEOPLE think its ROSY! until I say that it is NOT. yet I get critisize for saying I have issues. Often, NO ONE LIKES to hear about your problems, hence, I will just ignore. Friends, partners, companions whatever you name it. In essence, it is UTTERLY pointless to speak to anyone about anything, other than giving them a treat!

2. I am NOT being responded for MONTHs. this is utterly lame. his excuse was, he was busy and can't get back! a simple 2 word - I'm busy after a couple days should suffice but it did not appear. I would just let it slide and not even bother him if i see those words but it did not. hence I am ignoring back.

Never EVER cross a women. Just like men, who says, they can forgive but never forget. Likewise, women can forgive but NEVER forgets.

3. Sorry, this phone part LOLOLOLOLS! i think there's a generation gap... really sorry, i am lau aunty... you YOUNG STUD! so erm... sorry i don't comprehend this part LOLOLOLS! i am lost!

4. ABSOLUTELY WRONG! you read too much into it and even read it between the lines! I meant exactly what it is. I need personal time and personal space. do not need your interpretation "... MY PERSONAL MAN TO BE BESIDE ME, LISTENING TO WHATEVER I FEEL LIKE TALKING ABOUT WHILE HE KEEPS HIS MOUTH SHUT'? ..."

Simply, he will NOT understand my predicament so no point telling, explaining, or even asking him to listen etc... I prefer logic and solutions! no solutions, no logic or reasoning does not help at all. I am probably objective orientated. tried, been there, done that, but pointless, no one believes. so NO FAT WAY.

The New motto is also the Old motto... it'll never go wrong! Drinks are my bff! They are always beside me, always forgive and forgets, never talk back, never lie or cheat, no matter how much i say; comprain; cry; Drinks will always be there by my side and listen to me! ;) :D

[Wintermelontea]

how lau is considered lay? as long as xin not lau jiu hao.

[Botakhead]

1. Yes, I read that paragraph too! that men will shut up for months until they resolve their issues and can refused to seek help.

FYI: I happen to have this attitude too... i will shut down and not communicate until my issues are resolve. Well on the surface, PEOPLE think its ROSY! until I say that it is NOT. yet I get critisize for saying I have issues. Often, NO ONE LIKES to hear about your problems, hence, I will just ignore. Friends, partners, companions whatever you name it. In essence, it is UTTERLY pointless to speak to anyone about anything, other than giving them a treat!

2. I am NOT being responded for MONTHs. this is utterly lame. his excuse was, he was busy and can't get back! a simple 2 word - I'm busy after a couple days should suffice but it did not appear. I would just let it slide and not even bother him if i see those words but it did not. hence I am ignoring back.

Never EVER cross a women. Just like men, who says, they can forgive but never forget. Likewise, women can forgive but NEVER forgets.

3. Sorry, this phone part LOLOLOLOLS! i think there's a generation gap... really sorry, i am lau aunty... you YOUNG STUD! so erm... sorry i don't comprehend this part LOLOLOLS! i am lost!

4. ABSOLUTELY WRONG! you read too much into it and even read it between the lines! I meant exactly what it is. I need personal time and personal space. do not need your interpretation "... MY PERSONAL MAN TO BE BESIDE ME, LISTENING TO WHATEVER I FEEL LIKE TALKING ABOUT WHILE HE KEEPS HIS MOUTH SHUT'? ..."

Simply, he will NOT understand my predicament so no point telling, explaining, or even asking him to listen etc... I prefer logic and solutions! no solutions, no logic or reasoning does not help at all. I am probably objective orientated. tried, been there, done that, but pointless, no one believes. so NO FAT WAY.

The New motto is also the Old motto... it'll never go wrong! Drinks are my bff! They are always beside me, always forgive and forgets, never talk back, never lie or cheat, no matter how much i say; comprain; cry; Drinks will always be there by my side and listen to me! ;) :D

Don't drink too much, watch out for your health. Being healthy both mind and body, that is the most important.

[discordpiggy]

Don't drink too much, watch out for your health. Being healthy both mind and body, that is the most important.

thanks bro Botakhead! i owe you points! pls wait a while when I have more to give! :D

i stop heavy drinking for quite a few years le... during my wandering years i drink a lot of soju in foreign land... came back to SG then stop drinking... this year i decided that I should go back drinking to keep myself alive! lau aunty nothing to do so LIM ah! :p

[HappyOwl]

1. Yes, I read that paragraph too! that men will shut up for months until they resolve their issues and can refused to seek help.

FYI: I happen to have this attitude too... i will shut down and not communicate until my issues are resolve. Well on the surface, PEOPLE think its ROSY! until I say that it is NOT. yet I get critisize for saying I have issues. Often, NO ONE LIKES to hear about your problems, hence, I will just ignore. Friends, partners, companions whatever you name it. In essence, it is UTTERLY pointless to speak to anyone about anything, other than giving them a treat!

2. I am NOT being responded for MONTHs. this is utterly lame. his excuse was, he was busy and can't get back! a simple 2 word - I'm busy after a couple days should suffice but it did not appear. I would just let it slide and not even bother him if i see those words but it did not. hence I am ignoring back.

Never EVER cross a women. Just like men, who says, they can forgive but never forget. Likewise, women can forgive but NEVER forgets.

4. ABSOLUTELY WRONG! you read too much into it and even read it between the lines! I meant exactly what it is. I need personal time and personal space. do not need your interpretation "... MY PERSONAL MAN TO BE BESIDE ME, LISTENING TO WHATEVER I FEEL LIKE TALKING ABOUT WHILE HE KEEPS HIS MOUTH SHUT'? ..."

Simply, he will NOT understand my predicament so no point telling, explaining, or even asking him to listen etc... I prefer logic and solutions! no solutions, no logic or reasoning does not help at all. I am probably objective orientated. tried, been there, done that, but pointless, no one believes. so NO FAT WAY.

The New motto is also the Old motto... it'll never go wrong! Drinks are my bff! They are always beside me, always forgive and forgets, never talk back, never lie or cheat, no matter how much i say; comprain; cry; Drinks will always be there by my side and listen to me! ;) :D

5) Yes, day in day out, you will get people who misunderstood you. You will get people who criticized you. You will even get people who shunned you. That is because they failed to understand what you need. It has always almost got to do with tapping into your emotions. It absolutely has got nothing to do with you. But sometimes, how the way you express or react, can be critical.

Don't mention UTTERLY pointless. Guys who are into old hag like you will be dying to hear you out. The more you speak/ talk/ sing/ dance/ drink/ fart to them = the more points they scored. :p

6) I have no comment into his behaviors. So you are saying women can forgive but NEVER forgets? Just like men? I always assume women can forgive but never forget only in the initial period followed by women can forget but cannot forgive in the mid-stage period & lastly by an ultimate closure ~ women can never forgive & will never forget? :p

8) You born in the year of Dragon meh? When you see the Dragon head, still safe. The Dragon comes out see see look look only. But by the time you smell the Dragon tail, you only left to see two alphabets. KO!

[HappyOwl]

3. Sorry, this phone part LOLOLOLOLS! i think there's a generation gap... really sorry, i am lau aunty... you YOUNG STUD! so erm... sorry i don't comprehend this part LOLOLOLS! i am lost!

7) Hello! I am not in my 10s. I am also not in my 20s. & most importantly, I had already removed my nose stud. My nose is actually quite beautiful now. :o

[HappyOwl]

He quite persistent to try. Cannot stop him.. Since waited for 10 years liao.. No harm giving a last try... I also curious what will be the outcome...

Bro. gent, any update:confused:

[gent]

Nothing happened over the next 7days upon receiving the letter.. The husband knows that the wife had read the letter..

He is quite upset that even tho the content is straight forward, his wife can ignore... That was the last update from the husband..

[Johnbass]

Nothing happened over the next 7days upon receiving the letter.. The husband knows that the wife had read the letter..

He is quite upset that even tho the content is straight forward, his wife can ignore... That was the last update from the husband..

Communication breakdown at its best.
You go jio your fren go GL then he won't upset liao...
:D

[discordpiggy]

how lau is considered lay? as long as xin not lau jiu hao.

See below point 5. HappyOwl kor kor call me OLD HAG! :D

5) Yes, day in day out, you will get people who misunderstood you. You will get people who criticized you. You will even get people who shunned you. That is because they failed to understand what you need. It has always almost got to do with tapping into your emotions. It absolutely has got nothing to do with you. But sometimes, how the way you express or react, can be critical.

Don't mention UTTERLY pointless. Guys who are into old hag like you will be dying to hear you out. The more you speak/ talk/ sing/ dance/ drink/ fart to them = the more points they scored.

6) I have no comment into his behaviors. So you are saying women can forgive but NEVER forgets? Just like men? I always assume women can forgive but never forget only in the initial period followed by women can forget but cannot forgive in the mid-stage period & lastly by an ultimate closure ~ women can never forgive & will never forget?

8) You born in the year of Dragon meh? When you see the Dragon head, still safe. The Dragon comes out see see look look only. But by the time you smell the Dragon tail, you only left to see two alphabets. KO!

sorry too busy, now got a bit of time to write back. you are right people misunderstood, criticized and shunned me, avoid me also because I am alien. i am a man trapped in a woman's body. worst! now i am labelled as OLD HAG! LOLOLS! :p

AH!!! that satay guy is a LOST CAUSE! *skipped!

sorry don't understand the dragon part. lost le! whatever it is, i have chosen a path of no return. also I not looking back...just get on with life and my drinks. :D

7) Hello! I am not in my 10s. I am also not in my 20s. & most importantly, I had already removed my nose stud. My nose is actually quite beautiful now.

you are at your prime! so still have lots of time to enjoy and smell the roses... I admire those who still have time... my time is running out... half of me is nearing the bucket! ;)

[HappyOwl]

sorry too busy, now got a bit of time to write back. you are right people misunderstood, criticized and shunned me, avoid me also because I am alien. i am a man trapped in a woman's body. worst! now i am labelled as OLD HAG! LOLOLS! :p

AH!!! that satay guy is a LOST CAUSE! *skipped!

sorry don't understand the dragon part. lost le! whatever it is, i have chosen a path of no return. also I not looking back...just get on with life and my drinks.



you are at your prime! so still have lots of time to enjoy and smell the roses... I admire those who still have time... my time is running out... half of me is nearing the bucket! ;)

LOLL from the way you phrased it. I read too fast lah. lau aunty = old hat, old ham or old... h... a... *! :D From what I observe, people who couldn't recognize the gender in themselves tend to make better buddies, companions or even lovers? A man trapped in a woman's body is so much more easier to socialize with men. No? You just need that magic switch to tenderness, gentle, respectful at the really very right time & bingo. Congratulation to you.

Dragon = strong, decisive, fiery, etc... I have a colleague who was born in the year of dragon and I see all those in her at times. End of the day, as long you don't belong to the old ha* category safe, safe, safe. So not sTuBbOrN. : p

Me only? You too! & he, she, they, them... LOL. How do you describe someone as his/ her time is running out? Time is running out because of giving birth issue? Because of trying to fulfill the family's hope thus making them happy? OR... Or... or... the shelf you are sitting on in one of the supermarket is closing down? :eek:

[discordpiggy]

LOLL from the way you phrased it. I read too fast lah. lau aunty = old hat, old ham or old... h... a... *! From what I observe, people who couldn't recognize the gender in themselves tend to make better buddies, companions or even lovers? A man trapped in a woman's body is so much more easier to socialize with men. No? You just need that magic switch to tenderness, gentle, respectful at the really very right time & bingo. Congratulation to you.

Dragon = strong, decisive, fiery, etc... I have a colleague who was born in the year of dragon and I see all those in her at times. End of the day, as long you don't belong to the old ha* category safe, safe, safe. So not sTuBbOrN. : p

Me only? You too! & he, she, they, them... LOL. How do you describe someone as his/ her time is running out? Time is running out because of giving birth issue? Because of trying to fulfill the family's hope thus making them happy? OR... Or... or... the shelf you are sitting on in one of the supermarket is closing down?

AIYO!!! you har!!! i am old and old hag la! but seriously, i am more man then some men in terms of thinking so jialat until, i end up as their best buddy, they never see me as a woman! i have no assets and not well endowed... LOLOLS! not stubborn but there are times i use logic and reasoning until women cannot stand it. :D

giving birth!? what's that!!!! OMG¬!!! time running out as in DYING!!! giving birth and fulfill simi family's hope, whose family?! all very microscopic! :eek:

Generation gap here i guess, I shall not skip and type in full description. Time running out and half into the bucket would mean that my internals are probably rotting badly away. There could be more complicated issues abound... This is due to internal injuries when young and other injuries/illnesses and it is still consistently occuring till this day.

Therefore, I honestly do not have any hope or ever anticipate anything. I live everyday as peacefully as possible and try to savour every minute to think that it is pure fun and goodness in it. I know not what tomorrow will bring me and how it is like as there are too many unexpected possibities to twart any planning. Hence, I reject any emotional attachment that comes my way... simply because my time is running out.... ;)

[demonhunter]

Hence, I reject any emotional attachment that comes my way... simply because my time is running out.... ;)

you looking for Fuck Buddy ah :eek::confused:

[ah rat]

simply because my time is running out.... ;)

Sis,don't go waste yr neh neh & pussy,yr time is running out :p :D

[HappyOwl]

AIYO!!! you har!!! i am old and old hag la! but seriously, i am more man then some men in terms of thinking so jialat until, i end up as their best buddy, they never see me as a woman! i have no assets and not well endowed... LOLOLS! not stubborn but there are times i use logic and reasoning until women cannot stand it. :D

giving birth!? what's that!!!! OMG¬!!! time running out as in DYING!!! giving birth and fulfill simi family's hope, whose family?! all very microscopic! :eek:

Generation gap here i guess, I shall not skip and type in full description. Time running out and half into the bucket would mean that my internals are probably rotting badly away. There could be more complicated issues abound... This is due to internal injuries when young and other injuries/illnesses and it is still consistently occuring till this day.

Therefore, I honestly do not have any hope or ever anticipate anything. I live everyday as peacefully as possible and try to savour every minute to think that it is pure fun and goodness in it. I know not what tomorrow will bring me and how it is like as there are too many unexpected possibities to twart any planning. Hence, I reject any emotional attachment that comes my way... simply because my time is running out.... ;)

OMFG!! You are more man then some men. You are my idol. My idol is macho man. Come Sis. 1, 2, 3 we will pledge macho man's favorite quote. WOO YeAh!! http://www.drfunkenberry.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/randy.jpg

AIYOyoYO, since when a logical person can take sense into an emotional person? That's why women cannot stand it. At least the next time when you talk, made them seated first. : p

Still generation gap ah? I already threw away all simi Versace jeans, simi MCM wallet, simi Iceberg belt, simi Roccobarocco simi Trussardi shirts with white canvas shoes. No socks hoh please! I am now typing in my Bally shoes & Dunhill belt ok. Sounds abit more lau lan kay, erhem...!

Hmm... so you have some history of injuries ya. THEN WHY ARE YOU STILL DRINKING & DRINKING NON-STOP? STOP ALL THESE PLEASE WOULD YOU! : )

Sis. why take things so hard on yourself? It is always healthy to date abit here with this man & date abit there with another man. See, above me got 2 potential dates already. : p The more you understand about how life works, the better you can manage yourself. Oh... like what you said, life tends to work differently & especially on those who resist. Do you read? Reading inspiration books?

[Shawning]

35 years of age, 10 years of marriage... I think the wife is tired from working, thats why sex drive also gone. Maybe our friend shud take her on a holiday and re-ignite the love so hot she wud be jolted back to life. You guys are just 35 for godsake! Live! Enjoy!

[bbmapple]

I think the wife is not excited by the sex from the husband.... Need emotional fulfillment plus "not routine sex" !!

[Botakhead]

The wife need to get sexitified with eating outside?

[AnimeFanatic]

Guess the wive sees make love = sex. Or she cannot be bothered about loving her hubby. Or she has some trauma she cannot get over with.

Suggest the husband catch and talk to her directly.

[Botakhead]

That is why we eat outside lor, how else to get release, cannot always depends on left hand and right hand mah. Very soon the feeling of a wet pussy will be gone, then less and less orgasm, later will becum dysfunct.

Then the medicine company will earn more money with more expensive pills made for enjoyment, but where will the pleasure cum to?

[discordpiggy]

That is why we eat outside lor, how else to get release, cannot always depends on left hand and right hand mah. Very soon the feeling of a wet pussy will be gone, then less and less orgasm, later will becum dysfunct.

Then the medicine company will earn more money with more expensive pills made for enjoyment, but where will the pleasure cum to?

muahahah! cum eat me lor!!! :D

aiya! to be fair... i think there are women who wants it but the men reject them... it is very difficult to have a balancing scale for both sides...

maybe those women who wants it can look for the men who wants it?! lols!

I believe in give and take instances... giving could go a long long way... but i sometimes feel I am being abused when "giving"... so i disappear first, that's why mostly before anything can start I put the end first! ;)

[Botakhead]

muahahah! cum eat me lor!!! :D
are you inviting or what?
aiya! to be fair... i think there are women who wants it but the men reject them... it is very difficult to have a balancing scale for both sides...

maybe those women who wants it can look for the men who wants it?! lols!

I believe in give and take instances... giving could go a long long way... but i sometimes feel I am being abused when "giving"... so i disappear first, that's why mostly before anything can start I put the end first! ;)

the ratio of women who wants it and men are not even leh. and even then also cmi cannot get erection type.. viagra also cannot help.

Very true, especially if cannot erect then no point ler, if got smelly pussy also cannot go ahead liaoz.

[discordpiggy]

Very true, especially if cannot erect then no point ler, if got smelly pussy also cannot go ahead liaoz.

u dare to eat me meh?! wait u take 1st bite i chui le... cos i crispy pork ma :D

i seem to have known you somewhere... maybe cross "verbal" swords with you last year?! hmmm...i wonder...

[discordpiggy]

the ratio of women who wants it and men are not even leh. and even then also cmi cannot get erection type.. viagra also cannot help.

On the cmi ie, cannot get erection type... that i can't comment cos its due to medical reasons. so only doctors/scientists can provide solutions.

but the looking types, I am very sure... can find... ;)

[Botakhead]

Dun worry, crispy also can make it wet and slowly make it turn soft like jelly.

All I have to do is use my skills to the best end result.

Maybe we did have sum cross words before, I dun think it will affect any further actions that may evolve in the future.

May all penis be hard and may all pussy be wet.

[discordpiggy]

Dun worry, crispy also can make it wet and slowly make it turn soft like jelly.

All I have to do is use my skills to the best end result.

Maybe we did have sum cross words before, I dun think it will affect any further actions that may evolve in the future.

May all penis be hard and may all pussy be wet.

LMAO!

not bad cross s'words' but offered some comments!

nowsadays i always soaking wet wet de... so you hard hard huh?! :eek:

RAIN la! :D

[Botakhead]

I have got to work very hard then. :)

[discordpiggy]

Botakhead bro you need to jiak por otherwise you can't survive :D

[Botakhead]

How long am I required to stay hard for the job?

Staying hard need not necessary be consuming health supplements to get the results, it is plain control of mind over body, channeling of body energy from one part to the other part.

Do I need to submit my resume? Doctors certification for a healthy sex tool?

[discordpiggy]

LOLOLS! stay as hard as you want... soften it when you hweel like it lols!

i thot all guys wanna jiak por... but why need to jiak por?! :confused: au naturalle the best kekeeke!!! :D

[Botakhead]

So is there going to be any happening soon?