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23-05-2014, 04:50 AM
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77401.1 (http://forums.delphiforums.com/3in1kopitiam/messages/?msg=77401.1)
Married woman struggling with husband’s debts and wanted to jump off building with kids (http://www.transitioning.org/2014/04/16/married-woman-struggling-with-husbands-debts-and-wanted-to-jump-off-building-with-kids/)
Hi Gilbert,
Please find the attached resume for clarification.
As for my life story, I have gone through many hardships.
My parents died when I was young.
I struggled to reach where I am now but after marriage, the whole world shattered and I have to start all over again.
My husband got into a credit card issue and am struggling to pay back the money.
I’m not denying that I don’t play a part in this problem.
I have helped him to borrow money from my relatives and even my brothers.
However, they stopped helping us as they know that my husband will never change.
I also borrowed from friends. Alas, one of them took advantage of me. My so-called friend encouraged me to divorce my husband and sell my house, instead.
Back then, I was working in the bank.
My boss noticed that I was troubled so he spoke to me and informed me about CCS, an organisation that might help my husband.
I passed the contact to him.
At first, he was unwilling to seek help but when he reached at the level where he could not managed, he approached them for help.
During the entire process, my husband blamed his anger on me and our sons.
He blamed me for getting ourselves into this mess.
I’ve been in and out of jobs (including contract jobs.)
I am trying hard to find a permanent job.
I know I need to support my family, due to my hubby’s credit card matters.
I am the sole breadwinner of the family – this will probably go on for another one and a half year before he clears the debt.
Sometimes, I feel tired.
I want to give up and run away.
I got into depression during those periods.
Plus, I was suicidal and many times, I want to jump down from the building with my kids.
It is like the end of the world to me.
I often asked, “Have I not been through enough?”, “Why this is always happening to me?”, “Why can’t I stay on a job”.
This is my life story.
And thank you for helping me.
Thank You.
Best Regards
Michelle
Editor’s note: We have assisted Michelle with a financial aid of $100 as she is short on cash and now working on a one-month temp job. We will also look out suitable jobs for her. She has rejected our offer for counselling support.
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Click here to view the whole thread at www.sammyboy.com (http://singsupplies.com/showthread.php?182161-Married-woman-struggling-with-husband’s-debts-and-wanted-to-jump-off-building-with-ki&goto=newpost).
77401.1 (http://forums.delphiforums.com/3in1kopitiam/messages/?msg=77401.1)
Married woman struggling with husband’s debts and wanted to jump off building with kids (http://www.transitioning.org/2014/04/16/married-woman-struggling-with-husbands-debts-and-wanted-to-jump-off-building-with-kids/)
Hi Gilbert,
Please find the attached resume for clarification.
As for my life story, I have gone through many hardships.
My parents died when I was young.
I struggled to reach where I am now but after marriage, the whole world shattered and I have to start all over again.
My husband got into a credit card issue and am struggling to pay back the money.
I’m not denying that I don’t play a part in this problem.
I have helped him to borrow money from my relatives and even my brothers.
However, they stopped helping us as they know that my husband will never change.
I also borrowed from friends. Alas, one of them took advantage of me. My so-called friend encouraged me to divorce my husband and sell my house, instead.
Back then, I was working in the bank.
My boss noticed that I was troubled so he spoke to me and informed me about CCS, an organisation that might help my husband.
I passed the contact to him.
At first, he was unwilling to seek help but when he reached at the level where he could not managed, he approached them for help.
During the entire process, my husband blamed his anger on me and our sons.
He blamed me for getting ourselves into this mess.
I’ve been in and out of jobs (including contract jobs.)
I am trying hard to find a permanent job.
I know I need to support my family, due to my hubby’s credit card matters.
I am the sole breadwinner of the family – this will probably go on for another one and a half year before he clears the debt.
Sometimes, I feel tired.
I want to give up and run away.
I got into depression during those periods.
Plus, I was suicidal and many times, I want to jump down from the building with my kids.
It is like the end of the world to me.
I often asked, “Have I not been through enough?”, “Why this is always happening to me?”, “Why can’t I stay on a job”.
This is my life story.
And thank you for helping me.
Thank You.
Best Regards
Michelle
Editor’s note: We have assisted Michelle with a financial aid of $100 as she is short on cash and now working on a one-month temp job. We will also look out suitable jobs for her. She has rejected our offer for counselling support.
183 16
- See more at: http://www.transitioning.org/2014/04....SPDdgZlm.dpuf (http://www.transitioning.org/2014/04/16/married-woman-struggling-with-husbands-debts-and-wanted-to-jump-off-building-with-kids/#sthash.SPDdgZlm.dpuf)
Click here to view the whole thread at www.sammyboy.com (http://singsupplies.com/showthread.php?182161-Married-woman-struggling-with-husband’s-debts-and-wanted-to-jump-off-building-with-ki&goto=newpost).