Don't Understand

[paulburn]

Lately got to know a person. He has a great family with wife and kid. Yet he cheats on her and his son and go out for flings with other females.

Don't understand why. Feel that if can't commit, don't get married.

Any opinions

[Bote]

Cannot blame him lar, maybe he dont want but his little bro want.:D
For family man, know how to eat outside must know how to wipe the mouth clean.

Lately got to know a person. He has a great family with wife and kid. Yet he cheats on her and his son and go out for flings with other females.

Any opinions

[3someking]

Lately got to know a person. He has a great family with wife and kid. Yet he cheats on her and his son and go out for flings with other females.

Don't understand why. Feel that if can't commit, don't get married.

Any opinions

How are u related to him?

Anyway I believe that more than 65% of samsters here are married.

So that makes no difference.

[stillgottheblue]

There are many reasons to his behavior, only he can share with you but it seems that he wouldn't open his her to you so you don't understand.

[melodymilky]

I encounter someone like this before too... the guy still fulfil his duties in the family, but yet having another partner . but what causes was a stressed from the family side.. esp the wife... from what he said,well.. every family have their problems. its how one wants to solve it.

[paulburn]

How are u related to him?

Anyway I believe that more than 65% of samsters here are married.

So that makes no difference.

This guy is playing with one of my female friend. The fact is he cant give her happiness or deliver anything.

[hkimfav]

Bro paul. Dun zap me. But is the female friend you are talking about, is someone you fancy?? =)

[paulburn]

Bro hkimfav,

Yes, I fancy the girl and I am worried that my friend will get cheated of her feelings. Tell me if I am wrong

[Greenfrog]

Bro hkimfav,

Yes, I fancy the girl and I am worried that my friend will get cheated of her feelings. Tell me if I am wrong

Hello bro, then may i ask why did your female play along too? or she is unaware of the guy martial status?

[NRider]

Bro hkimfav,

Yes, I fancy the girl and I am worried that my friend will get cheated of her feelings. Tell me if I am wrong

Hi TS if you fancy this female friend of yours, go for it.. Express your feel for her

[real_king]

Bro hkimfav,

Yes, I fancy the girl and I am worried that my friend will get cheated of her feelings. Tell me if I am wrong
If she told u, perhaps she mite feel something for u too.

[hkimfav]

Bro paul, like what nrider bro said. U fancy her, y not tel her straight? Max u get is rejection, but u stil be able to stay by her side and if need be, expose the guy? And as time moves along, she will see who is really worth her time and feel yr love for her and maybe u wil get yr chance??

[paulburn]

Thanks bros!

[4getful]

Bro hkimfav,

Yes, I fancy the girl and I am worried that my friend will get cheated of her feelings. Tell me if I am wrong


Bro, if u fancy the woman, dare dare go lah. Y don‘’t dare to tell her your feeling? Last timr i fancy a woman, i don‘’t dare to tell her. I regret till now.

[KaniNababe]

Lately got to know a person. He has a great family with wife and kid. Yet he cheats on her and his son and go out for flings with other females.

Don't understand why. Feel that if can't commit, don't get married.

Any opinions

very simple reason- this guy is selfish.
And women are stupid. I hv encountered many of such women before.
Once there was this guy who is attached to this lady but at the same time pestering me. I showed the lady his messages and even the gifts she bought for her that he gave to me. Eventually she still married him and suffers till now.

Love is blind

[real_king]

People who are in love are indeed blind.

[ChinHo]

Bro

Perhap he has high sex drive

Lately got to know a person. He has a great family with wife and kid. Yet he cheats on her and his son and go out for flings with other females.

Don't understand why. Feel that if can't commit, don't get married.

Any opinions

[viviankoh]

People who are in love are indeed blind.

sounds like love is extremely dangerous....:confused:

[firejalan]

Mm.. Any ladies can answer?
Why Do Single woman get involved w married man?
For married woman, I can still understand why... But.. single Woman too..?

[milfmilf]

sounds like love is extremely dangerous....:confused:

is an investment ba

[Seletar]

Lately got to know a person. He has a great family with wife and kid. Yet he cheats on her and his son and go out for flings with other females.

Don't understand why. Feel that if can't commit, don't get married.

Any opinions

You are still living in 19th century.

[conly]

is an investment ba

Imo, it's a gamble.
Getting addicted n losing could have disastrous effects.

[Botakhead]

I also dun understand, what is wrong or what is right?

What I know is, if there is a problem, solve it.

No big deal that married man eats outside, end of the day, when he gets home, he needs to love the family. Those who eats outside and dun gif a shit about the family, cut off all connections and get the court to squeeze him dry for your alimony.

If you love sumone's wife, your are in the wrong, but if you love a divorced woman, it is ok. Can you see the difference?

So what is not understooded here?

Want to be "H E R O" ?

[guess67]

So can married guy accept wife that 'steal eat' outside? I have been very curious about this :confused:

[Botakhead]

So can married guy accept wife that 'steal eat' outside? I have been very curious about this :confused:

This depends on the deal worked out by both partners, if husband wants to eat outside openly, wife should be able to do the same too. Unless husband has ego problems like afraid people know he is wearing a green hat, then maybe wife cannot eat outside ler.

But if like that hor, might as well both dun get married in the first place, then no problems with eating outside liaoz.

[guess67]

End of the day the wife also go home and love the family, so why cant the wife eat outside too?

Nothing big deal right :confused:

[Johnbass]

End of the day the wife also go home and love the family, so why cant the wife eat outside too?

Nothing big deal right :confused:

Erm... You EMO ah?
You will get different answers if you ask in sbf and in real life.
Which answer do you prefer?

:eek:
:D

[Botakhead]

Dear John you can help guess with the answer! :)

[guess67]

Erm... You EMO ah?
You will get different answers if you ask in sbf and in real life.
Which answer do you prefer?

:eek:
:D

Dear John you can help guess with the answer! :)


Why must i be emo? I no need an answer lah :D

[Johnbass]

Why must i be emo? I no need an answer lah :D


Dear John you can help guess with the answer!


Aiya wasted!
No chance to help guess with the answer liao...
:D

[Botakhead]

You can try to date her and let her have her answer.

And guess, dun be shy larh, everytime talk about you, you like to siam far far away, why?

[guess67]

Why should i siam? I just dont need an answer :D

[real_king]

Aiya wasted!
No chance to help guess with the answer liao...
:D
u mai kpo la. paging for....?!?!:p

[HCKing]

man gets bored easily. everyday eat char kway teow, no matter how tasty sooner or later also will sian. :D

[Canon246]

The first time you go collect your new car feels good right? After 2-3 years? The feeling will die down and itching to change new car right?

The same thing for marriage....偷吃outside is not always bad if regulated it maintains the marriage....

Just like an old car...sometimes have to change bigger rims, new paint job etc to reingnite the passion once more

[NRider]

The first time you go collect your new car feels good right? After 2-3 years? The feeling will die down and itching to change new car right?

The same thing for marriage....偷吃outside is not always bad if regulated it maintains the marriage....

Just like an old car...sometimes have to change bigger rims, new paint job etc to reingnite the passion once more

Can't disagree with this "car" theory, lol ..:D