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ChickLuver
02-10-2005, 03:21 PM
Prostitution is often a inequitably misunderstood word! To most of
us, prostitutes are exclusively sex workers.

In its true meaning, prostitution is the "selling of one's honor". So
befittingly, a prostitute can be a professional – let's say – who
take bribes to compromise or shirk his duties. A prostitute is the
ordinary person who compromises on virtues and honor for monetary
gains or in kind! He / she could take money to stand as false witness
or to hush-up! It could be somebody who takes money to frame another.
Or he could be an assassin! These are the prostitutes of the world
and they hail from all corners of society.

The Bible for instance makes reference to the "Great Prostitute" in
the Book of Revelation. Obviously this refers to the "Great
Corrupter" of mankind and not a supreme fucker whom you wait in line
to pay $1,000 to have mind-blowing sex with. So there are many
prostitutes amongst us and perhaps on par in numbers, if not
exceeding, the number of sex workers. Are you a prostitute?

As for sex workers, they can be considered as being in the personal
service industry. Service obviously pertains to sex. Are they in the
right or in the wrong? Neither, I guess, as they are just humans like
any of us. I personally have seen the humanism in some of them and
have been a recipient of sincere kindness and hospitality from sex
workers. It wasn't that I was patronizing their services but rather
when as a youngster, I needed help from strangers and they were the
ones who answered. On the other hand, I got quite a dressing-down
when I asked a "priest" (no not a Christian one) for 40 cents.

Sex workers have hearts too. Perhaps humility has taught them so much
as against wealth making some of us arrogant, degenerated and
oblivious. I don't discriminate sex workers. In fact I have respect
for them and at times sympathize with them!

There is honor in the sex service too! Firstly they don't force
themselves upon you against your will. Robbers and kidnappers do.
Most of them earn an honest (albeit illegal) living. They rarely hide
the fact that they are sex workers. We have our scruples and values
and they have theirs. Is just that theirs may be different – as with
some of our priorities are different.

Selling sex, though illegal in many countries, is not a heinous
crime. They don't cut you up because they want your wallet. They
don't drop bombs on you while you sleep. Sex workers hail from
different backgrounds and causes for choosing such a profession can
differ from person to person. Most of them are "victims of
circumstances". Some are lured into it while some are tricked and
some are forced. Some see it as a sure way of getting out of abject
poverty. A good number of them willfully chose this profession.

Just as you have humans diving into the sewer to unclog it,
sanitation workers who take care of filth, cadaver collectors and
funeral directors who take care of human "carcasses". They make life
better for us for without them, we have to co-exist with ever-
mounting filth.

Sex workers serve the clientele who at least have a place to go where
they can have their sex – either as a side adventure or for plain
relief. There is no need to let our animal selves go out and rape
women for sex services are available.

Why do people derogatorily "brand" sex workers as "prostitutes"
and "illegitimate" children as "bastards"? Yet they use such services
and constantly produce such children. Shouldn't there be a mark of
appreciation instead?

Some sex workers are nymphomaniacs. They reckon to themselves, why
should they do it for free when they can get paid and still enjoy it.
Furthermore they can also choose their clients. Some women fell like
they are their husband's exclusive prostitute. After all, he puts the
food on the table, hardly talk to her and mount her each time he
feels like it. On top of that, she cannot have other man if she so
desires, expected to bear him children and care for them as well as
put up with the occasional abuse. Then there is the housework,
cooking and cocking! Instead of a prostitute, she may feel more like
a sex slave - since prostitutes are paid and she is not! Why does she
take all this shit? Well because he takes care of her (and the family
he created) by providing a home and the necessities that come with it.

So, it just a question of finances? Now, why can't she be independent
and not allow herself to be "owned" by any man. Via prostitution, she
has her sex and still can earn a lucrative income and she can take
care of herself – minus his children and abuses! What about morals,
values and decorum? "Well, I am not hurting anyone but myself". Now,
does that make practical sense? You can expect that a good measure of
these sex workers are downright practical and smart women.

Sex workers are on level ground as women especially if they lack
looks, education and wealth. They contend with the fact that they
still have a decent pussy as compared to the lady doctor, accountant
etc. and can feel not shortchanged or deprived! She appreciates that
she also has something of "universal demand and monetarily value"!

So why can't society be respectful of sex workers? Why can't men who
use their services be respectful and appreciate them for what they
do? In fact, it's us that need our morals and values scrutinized.
Are we bigots and prejudicial that we compartmentalize and brand
humans? Where did I hear that famous saying: "let he who has not
sinned cast the first stone"?

On the downside, sex workers may receive constant harassment,
mockery, degrading jibes and snares of disapproval from the public at
large. If it's illegal they get harassed by the authorities and are
victimized by corrupt officials. They risk bodily harm each time they
ply their routes or accept a customer's offer. They risk getting
murdered by deranged people who see them as easy prey. All of Jack
the Ripper's victims were sex workers.

They get harassment from violent and blood-sucking pimps. If they are
freelancers, they still can get harassment from their competitors'
pimps. Ultimately, they run high risk of contracting fatal diseases
especially when customers refuse to use protection.

Usually when they pray to God, they ask for understanding and
forgiveness. How many of you ask for things instead? When you want
your kids to pass exams, get somebody who is dying to become well –
no matter if he has been a SOB all along. Some ask to strike the
lottery or a high paying job to ease their financial woes. "I know I
am a sinner – but please grant me this one request"!

Prostitution is also a PhD that acts like a lowlife!

Who's the prostitute now?

spermmann2003
02-10-2005, 08:43 PM
Ya, watever. Later i am going geylang, join me?

Tongue
02-10-2005, 10:33 PM
Who's the prostitute now?
What are u trying to implies in ur thread? :confused:

euks
02-10-2005, 10:58 PM
US.

What are u trying to implies in ur thread? :confused:

Most of us have been a prostitute at some point of our life.

There were many a time where we struggle with the decision of compromising our principles, pride or honor for an easier way out.

We are really not much better than a sex worker who have to endure the humiliation of having sex with someone she detest.

evo065
02-10-2005, 10:58 PM
I have no idea what you are trying to get at mate. :confused:

Hazeline
02-10-2005, 11:11 PM
I have no idea what you are trying to get at mate.
Correct me if I am wrong.
I think threadstarter is trying to say everyone of us is a pros (1 way or another)
It is the nature of service offer is differ.... :confused: Tio bo?? :confused:

Sureshoot
02-10-2005, 11:14 PM
Chim ah.. :confused:

euks
02-10-2005, 11:29 PM
I generally hate most singaporean women. Alot of them I come across with are prostitute wearing a business suit.

While sex worker offer sex services for money, alot of singaporean women offer "the fake possibility of having sex or being in a relationship with her" in exchange of whatever she want or need.
She tease and misled and rip you of your time, effort, emotions and money and yet continute to think they are oh, I am miss high class. I am so cute and adorable. I can't help it if people want to fall in love with me. I AM JUST BEING NICE BY NOT REJECTING THEM SO AS NOT TO HURT THEIR FEELINGS!

These women are not only prostitutes. They are also a swindler.

Too often, I see those classic Mr-nice-guy turn devil after being taken for a ride for most of his life.

Hazeline
02-10-2005, 11:36 PM
I generally hate most singaporean women.
These women are not only prostitutes. They are also a swindler.
Cool down bro.
That is the reason why i am into globalisation. :D

jng1103
03-10-2005, 01:24 AM
Too often, I see those classic Mr-nice-guy turn devil after being taken for a ride for most of his life.

bro euks, i like ur post. perhaps u wanna share some of ur real life experience with us? thanks...

jimbo

The_Hustler
03-10-2005, 02:41 AM
Whatever it is, the threadstarter does certainly make some senses in the morality/ethnics issue. I for once, enjoyed reading and it made me ponder for thoughts. Fresh compared to the stale FRs and countless talk cocks flooding the forum nowadays.

I think he deserves more rep point than this - I've given him 9pts.

Appreciative,
The Hustler

Lonev
03-10-2005, 07:43 AM
Who's the prostitute now?

Once a wise man ever said "...He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her...."


If only i got the power, i'd have upped your point...
Good on you!

free
03-10-2005, 09:53 AM
What are u trying to implies in ur thread? :confused:Dun think he is implying anything in particular but just giving us a different and wider perspective on that term.

Read with an open mind, its really interesting food for thought and nothing offensive at all.

Cheri_Popper
03-10-2005, 09:58 AM
Prostitution is the oldest and easliest profession for a woman to earn $.

There were already whorehouses in ancient China and Rome even before BC let alone AD! :D

There is not much difference between anicent men and modern men. When there's a demand, there's always a supply! ;)

Toyota Honda
03-10-2005, 09:59 AM
Too often, I see those classic Mr-nice-guy turn devil after being taken for a ride for most of his life.

That is why I am never true to any girls since the last day of 2004 when she broke off with me... To me, girls are just there for us guys to play and if possible, get one to settkle down and produce offsprings.

euks
03-10-2005, 10:33 AM
I believe most of the guys here had witness what I describe.
Ask the guys in the Tirak thread, they should be able to give you a classic story.

Hazeline: haha, nah. I am cool. While business suit prostitutes comes in all nationality or races, Singapore women are the worse. Perharps it is their stupid dumb mix mentality of western and eastern culture.

They worship feminism and seek the perks of a modern woman, and yet demand the benefits of old traditional woman.

My fault is your fault, your fault is still your fault.
Your money is my money, my money is still my money.

Want respect, want freedom, want career, want YOUR MONEY, want YOUR ASSETS, want security, want the toilet seats up for their big fat ass and want your dick down to let their pussy hole grow spider web.

Of course, i am abit more exaggerated here but I learned it from the bitching session with the singaporean girls I hang out with



bro euks, i like ur post. perhaps u wanna share some of ur real life experience with us? thanks...

jimbo

Vectra
03-10-2005, 11:12 AM
Prostitution is the oldest and easliest profession for a woman to earn $.

I only know this job is the oldest, but not easiest. You think it is easy? :confused:

Castrol
03-10-2005, 11:48 AM
Most of us have been a prostitute at some point of our life.



so when we kio kway, we are prostitutes visiting prostitutes?

redlord
03-10-2005, 12:13 PM
I believe most of the guys here had witness what I describe.
Ask the guys in the Tirak thread, they should be able to give you a classic story.

session with the singaporean girls I hang out with




yes, i from tirak thread ppl here wanna to know much huh? in love with pros? he did not know the dark angles yet lah ,maybe he is in love or fav them ?i could tell you more that here , pros suffer? why they are like that ..... lets see more samsters here what they can says ....
me is the once falling in love never pull out myself in time with playing this game .as euks says: mr nice man turn into devil ,maybe is me ....since i into it also will be a life game to bet .....

machoman
03-10-2005, 12:33 PM
Prostitution is often a inequitably misunderstood word! To most of
us, prostitutes are exclusively sex workers.

In its true meaning, prostitution is the "selling of one's honor". So
befittingly, a prostitute can be a professional – let's say – who
take bribes to compromise or shirk his duties...........These are the prostitutes of the world
and they hail from all corners of society.

The Bible for instance makes reference to the "Great Prostitute" in
the Book of Revelation. Obviously this refers to the "Great
Corrupter" of mankind and not a supreme fucker whom you wait in line
to pay $1,000 to have mind-blowing sex with..... Are you a prostitute?

As for sex workers, they can be considered as being in the personal
service industry. Service obviously pertains to sex. Are they in the
right or in the wrong? Neither, I guess, as they are just humans like
any of us......

Sex workers have hearts too. Perhaps humility has taught them so much
as against wealth making some of us arrogant, degenerated and
oblivious......

There is honor in the sex service too!........

Prostitution is also a PhD that acts like a lowlife!

Who's the prostitute now?

ChickLuver, are you writing a thesis in defence of sex workers for your PhD? A very well-written & thought-provoking think piece.

I have also thought along the same lines as you. Many professionals e.g. lawyers, doctors,etc are also "prostitutes" in that they offer their services in exchange for money.

The reason why sex workers are thought of as lowlife is because men like to think of themselves as superior.

You seems to be well versed in the Bible with your quotations of Revelation and " casting of stone". Another quote you can use is that man don't see the log in his own eyes but accuses others of having a speck in their eyes.

foolish_
03-10-2005, 01:10 PM
Whatever it is, the threadstarter does certainly make some senses in the morality/ethnics issue. I for once, enjoyed reading and it made me ponder for thoughts. Fresh compared to the stale FRs and countless talk cocks flooding the forum nowadays.

I think he deserves more rep point than this - I've given him 9pts.

Appreciative,
The Hustler
Bro Hustler, such issues and discussions on morality and ethics has been present for hundred of years. There will never be a conclusion simply because everyone thinks differently. A guy once told me, he is only unfaithful to his wife if he has an FOC fling. So he stays 'faithful' to his wife by going for commercial sex.

At the end of the day, it is society that sets the criteria for what is morally and ethically right. We may agree or disagree, but we can't change what others think.

For me? I have never despise a woman who offers sexual favours in return for money. To me, she has still worked for it, albeit, immorally in the eyes of society.

Opps, my boss is calling for me. Got to go 'prostitute' myself again. :D

Tongue
03-10-2005, 01:59 PM
Read with an open mind, its really interesting food for thought and nothing offensive at all.
Haha pai say. mi mean no harm too. Last night too tired liao, read until blur blur. :D
Reading it again seem meaningful. :p

euks
03-10-2005, 02:32 PM
Well, when you kio kway, do you feel you are doing something morally wrong? do you think you are exchanging your pride, your honor or your principles in exchange for sexual pleasures?

Some man are indeed prostitutes visiting prostitutes.

As for me, I especially enjoy "prostituting" myself to business suit whores, White Jacket Mafia, Assasin with a pen, muti headed snake head, etc

Fight evil with greater evil, embrace good with greater good
so when we kio kway, we are prostitutes visiting prostitutes?

sg_boytoy
03-10-2005, 04:01 PM
... Opps, my boss is calling for me. Got to go 'prostitute' myself again. :D

Bro foolish_, make sure you ask your boss to be 'gentle' with you hor, ke ke ke :p

walkingdick
03-10-2005, 04:31 PM
The people worst than prostitutes are terrorists and remorseless criminals, these people can BURN in hell

peterfish
03-10-2005, 05:55 PM
Prostitution is the oldest and easliest profession for a woman to earn $.

There were already whorehouses in ancient China and Rome even before BC let alone AD!

There is not much difference between anicent men and modern men. When there's a demand, there's always a supply! ;)
Bro CP,

You damn good. Morning talking about prostitution online and afternoon 3pm, see you walking L6 looking for "ayam". :)

ricardo
03-10-2005, 06:01 PM
That is why I am never true to any girls since the last day of 2004 when she broke off with me... To me, girls are just there for us guys to play and if possible, get one to settkle down and produce offsprings.

wow bro dun be so negative lah. true love exist just overshadow by other things dig deeper and u will find it.

tokkon1
03-10-2005, 07:02 PM
Prostitution is the oldest and easliest profession for a woman to earn $.

There were already whorehouses in ancient China and Rome even before BC let alone AD! :D

There is not much difference between anicent men and modern men. When there's a demand, there's always a supply! ;)

Morality/Ethics of Prostitution. This is an oxymoron of sorts. It baffles me sometimes when there are people who try to philosophise the nature of the profession. Do we have to ask ourselves WHY they do it?

To me, if the prostitute (I dislike this word), is willing to provide a service and us, the customer, is willing to pay for it. Then it's all fine and well. One just need to be guided by his/her own conscience and not cheat others is all I ask for and care about.

Morality. ethics....forget them. dun complicate life further.

Cheri_Popper
03-10-2005, 08:53 PM
I only know this job is the oldest, but not easiest. You think it is easy? :confused:
When I meant by easiest, I mean that the "job" does not need any qualification. A Primary dropout or a University Graduate does the same "job" as effective as each other. ;)

There is no need for any course/Diploma/Degree or even formal training to perform such "duties"

Cheri_Popper
03-10-2005, 08:54 PM
Bro CP,

You damn good. Morning talking about prostitution online and afternoon 3pm, see you walking L6 looking for "ayam". :)

Bro, I was looking for "Nasi Ayam" stall hor! :p